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Choice!
ReplyDeleteNobody wants to go from frying pan to fire.
ReplyDeleteThank You Jareeeee 🫂
DeleteHello iya Boys
I enjoyed in my father's house and during my single days, now I'm suffering in my husband's house, we are praying for better jobs because our salary is not enough to cater for family of 3
ReplyDeleteHmmm
By the time they are grown and become and adult, they are already tired of poverty and can't cope again.
ReplyDeleteThey believe because they found themselves in that bad situation as a child with their parents it doesn't mean they must live in it or tolerate it forever
Before they have no choice but to tolerate their parents poverty since they don't have the privilege to choose their parents from birth but now they have the right to choose a life partner and can pick who they want to settle with.
Spot on.
DeleteThe woman didn't have the opportunity to choose her family. But she has the opportunity for options to choose from when it comes to life partner...
ReplyDeletePlease my family is my family, rich or poor.
ReplyDeleteA woman grows up in her parents’ home without a say in the life she’s born into. If there’s poverty there, she endures it because that’s her starting point - she didn’t choose it, and she often learns to adapt, survive, and sometimes even thrive in it.
ReplyDeleteBut when she chooses a man to marry, especially in today’s world, it’s often with a quiet hope that life will move forward, not backwards. She’s not just picking love - she’s picking partnership, protection, progress. If she then finds herself in the same or even worse financial struggle, it feels like the struggle now has no purpose. It feels like she left her father’s house just to face a repeat story, this time with a man she believed would build something better with her.
And let’s be honest - it's not just about money. It’s about mindset. Many women can endure hardship if their man has vision, is trying, and is communicating. But when it feels like there’s no plan, no ambition, and she’s expected to suffer in silence again, it’s not just painful. It’s exhausting. And she starts to ask herself: Why did I leave home if this is what I came to?
So no, it’s not just about enduring poverty. It’s about not wanting to repeat a cycle she never chose in the first place, to now become a pattern.
Simple conversation and you are using ChatGPT. Oh Chim 💁🏼♀️
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DeleteLol. I'm not trying to excuse the behavior, but logically, one circumstance is born out of lack of choice while the other is something one can choose.
ReplyDeleteIf we all are granted the privilege to choose which family we want to be born into, a lot of people would be comfortably chilling in affluence.
No one would taste poverty from inception and would want to carry on with that lifestyle through life's journey.
PS: I reiterate, I'm not excusing the behavior. If you can't tolerate your husband's poverty, perhaps you can devise means of alleviating the poverty for both of you, by working your family out of it. Make that money! Assist!
In her parents house, She is likely not to feel much impact from the poverty, cause no matter what, her parents are working hard enough to provide her with some necessities.
ReplyDeleteNow, in her husband's house, she's going to bear the brunt of that poverty, as she's directly affected, and God help her, if she's not the sole provider of the family.
Poverty is a disease that eats into its victim, not a good situation at all. It's not easy to endure it.
Both are not same scenarios...people can't choose their family but can make a choice of partner. So for a woman who has survived poverty from her first family....I don't see her going thru same thing again 😊
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As others have stated, based on mechanics of human behavior, it's most likely due to choice. We don't choose the family we are born into, but can choose where we go or what we make of our lives. Same way a man will easily forgive his mother if say, DNA found out today that she cheated and he is not his father's son. But will struggle with forgiving his wife for the exact same offense
ReplyDeleteThe former, they had no choice, they were born into it. The latter, they have a choice, they've experienced it and they don't want to go back to it
ReplyDeleteTo rewrite her story.
ReplyDeleteMost of the above comments keep reiterating same thing, the option of choice when it comes to marriage.
ReplyDeleteFollowing that logic, that they were born into poverty shows their mother made a bad choice marrying their father. Despite the mistake most love their family unconditionally especially their mum.
In an attempt o avoid their mum's mistake they try to marry up by all means rather than focusing on their capacity to earn more. Who told women they can't be rich themselves?
More importantly why don't they tolerate like their mother when same mistake is repeated?
The answer is simple : you cannot choose your parents, but you can choose your husband.
ReplyDeleteEnduring poverty of your man depends on the man you have and how compatible you both are. When their friendship is solid, and they have mutual respect and love for each other, she'll endure. My mother no endure? There are countless number of women who are enduring but one thing with men is that they like to go for the greedy babes ignoring the ones that genuinely love them. Many girls are ready to make such sacrifice. I remember a guy I worked with , he had an understanding girlfriend yet he never bothered to spend a dime on her, he latter left the girl for a high class girl, anytime she wants to make her hair she'll branch to come and collect money from him to make her hair, the other girl was always on a very rough looking hair and he never bothered to give her money to make her hair for one day. I will make out time to write this story
ReplyDeleteSome horse and will lace their own poverty with womanising.
ReplyDeleteBecause one cycle of poverty is enough for a lifetime
ReplyDeleteBecause I did not choose my family. However iwever, I have a chance to choose the future I want. Not just for myself, but for my children. I will not bring kids into a poor environment and make them suffer. My kids will not choose their father. That is my responsibility. And I will give them a good, kind and hardworking man for a dad. It is also my responsibility to give them the best mother and the best version of Me. This is why I will also be working in myself. Ensuring that I am financially, mentally, emotionally and physically able to raise kids.
ReplyDeleteFrom one suffering to another O wrong nah!!
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