Friday In House News..

 Thank God Its Friday....

FRIDAY IN HOUSE MEMO

How are you all my darlings..........

Someone showed me a screenshot of that IR cussing me out on the other Blog about a week ago and then comes here to post as if nothing happened......I have told God that those who desire my downfall must not have anything else to do but monitor me 247.....And if they dont they will be restless in Jesus name.....

Maybe Nne IR don send am to drag me Online again like last time and will now run to advice that i should not drag It because i have kids......Both the mama and the rat are free to drag me, i give them visa, I will so ignore una eh, una go dey wonder wetin happen....

Madam you think I am scared of you by not mentioning your ID? I am not scared, but you need to know i am the last person you can do dirty, I have been reading and deleting what one anon has been posting about how you did me dirty...Well, you dont know anything personal about me so you are free to finish the work you started....Na here i dey!...Imagine the rat and its mother on my case......No wonder he kept coming back to insult me..You probably paid it the same way you said i paid some people to troll you!!!

Abeg make i find food chop, I have an appointment for something in a few hours........

And that person who commented that Martins will soon insult me and leave the blog......LOL; Martins may be anything else but he is loyal to me and will never go that far, I am sure of that....next!!!!

Seee eh, make una two rest, I am all about love, self love and agape love...I dont have time for this hate that you are both filled with.......Madam enjoy the new place you comment and dont do the blog owner dirty like you did me....I forgive you though cos you couldnt help it...LOL

Today I am making Chicken gyros with fries and small salad by the side..my people please praise God with me, I saw a small pack of afang soup in my freezer and that is what i am having for lunch...Praisssssssssssssssssss the Lord somebody!!!..I am praising God cos its not everyday i run into Naija food oh..lol

I plan to watch zeeone today so that i can laugh small.. who is still watching?

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MEMO TO THOSE WITH THE ONE FATHER FOR ALL MY KIDS MINDSET

This narrative that you must have all your children by one man would put some of you women in big danger.

I mean, you already see how stupid and irresponsible the man you have married is, and you want to have another child with this same man bringing children into the world who’d curse you for the parent you gave them.

You already see how stupid, abusive, emotionally unavailable, or downright irresponsible the man you married is, yet you’re planning to have another child with him? Bringing more children into a toxic environment, only for them to grow up resenting you for the parent you gave them? That’s not love. That’s self-delusion.

See! You didn’t choose your parents. Your mum or dad probably made a mistake by choosing the wrong parent for you, but do you want to commit the same mistake again?

Many of you are still healing from the pain of being born to the wrong combinations, parents who should never have been together. Sperm and egg that should never have met.

Have you forgotten that your child is a combined DNA of you and the man? And this child can take some of this man’s traits, temperaments, and characteristics. Somebody told me that her son takes her abusive husband’s anger issues and stony heart. That’s a lifelong burden she now has to carry watching her child slowly become the man who destroyed her.

The desire to have children should go beyond your own desires, you should think of the child.

Osinachi sadly ran with this narrative. She bore four kids with her abusive husband, stayed, and then died in the marriage. Where did it leave her? Her kids are left to live with the trauma, no mother, and a father who destroyed everything.

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WHAT IS THIS?????'

I am confused....So what are these`?

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WEIRDFACTS

------Women are more attracted to someone with the ability to make them laugh. Laughter strengthens relationships.

---The average person spends about three hours a day engaging in unnecessary activities

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WOMEN THAT ARE NOT DEAL TO MARRY

When considering marriage, it's important to focus on compatibility, mutual respect, and shared values. While everyone has different preferences, there are some characteristics or behaviors that may be red flags in a potential partner. Here are a few types of women that might not be ideal to marry:

1. Dishonest or Manipulative Women: Trust is foundational in a marriage. If a woman lies frequently, manipulates situations, or is deceitful, it can erode the relationship over time.

2. Highly Controlling Women: A partner who tries to control all aspects of your life, from your career to your personal relationships, can lead to an unhealthy dynamic. Healthy relationships are built on mutual respect and autonomy.

3. Constantly Negative or Pessimistic Women: While it's natural to have moments of frustration, a woman who is persistently negative or pessimistic can bring down the overall mood of the relationship and lead to dissatisfaction.

4. Self-Centered or Narcissistic Women: If a woman only thinks about herself and disregards your needs, emotions, and opinions, it can create an imbalanced relationship where you feel unappreciated.

5. Emotionally Unavailable Women: A person who is unable or unwilling to open up emotionally or connect on a deeper level may struggle to build intimacy and a solid foundation for marriage.

6. Unresolved Emotional Issues or Trauma: While everyone has baggage, a woman who hasn't dealt with her past trauma or emotional issues may bring unresolved pain into the marriage, leading to potential conflict.

7. Irresponsible or Unmotivated Women: Marriage requires teamwork, and a partner who is lazy, avoids responsibility, or lacks ambition can hinder the progress and stability of the relationship.

8. Constantly Seeking Attention: If a woman is always seeking validation, attention, or approval from others, it can put a strain on the relationship, leading to jealousy or insecurity.

9. Disrespectful or Dismissive Women: If a woman constantly disrespects you or dismisses your opinions, it can create a toxic atmosphere that breeds resentment and communication breakdowns.

10. Addictive Behaviors: A woman who struggles with addiction to substances, gambling, or other destructive behaviors may not be emotionally available or reliable in a marriage.

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Ultimately, it’s essential to remember that no one is perfect, but qualities like mutual respect, trust, open communication, and shared values are crucial for a successful marriage. If a woman exhibits harmful behaviors, it’s important to have an honest conversation and consider whether the relationship is healthy for both parties involved. 

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