Tuesday, June 17, 2025
A Potpourri Of Sad Stories Told By Once Married Women
Married women on TikTok shared their heart-wrenching experiences of pain and trauma after childbirth, meted out to them by their husbands and in-laws.
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I can't get past the roles theso called MILs played, fellow women that should know better.
ReplyDeleteDIL that should have walk away.
DeleteThey want to die in the marriage.
DeleteWhy did these women allowed themselves to be treated like this? Funnily, I must have been admiring
ReplyDeleteone of these women going through these things in marriage , thinking that all is rossy since they got married
Such is life
DeleteWhat do you mean by allow? If someone walked up to you and kicked you in your belly, did you allow it? Stop talking foolishness.
DeleteMaking excuses for their brother/son's behaviour is evil.
ReplyDeleteStaying in the marriage and lamenting is more evil.
DeleteI'm not surprised most of the victims are Yoruba s, compared to other tribes, the disrespect that tribe metes on women is something else. #ivegotastory. Lord have mercy and help us.
ReplyDeleteIt's so because in Igbo, it's their mothers that goes to help her daughter, tend to the new born and as such the level of mistreatment is very minimal unlike yoruba's that the husband's mother will insist on coming and when they come most of them don't do what they actually came for, if care isn't taken the marriage can even come to an end.
DeleteMariam really? Wow is it mandatory that it is the man's mother that will come for omugwo
DeleteI am a yoruba i didnt allow my mother to come , i have already told my wife before delivery that it is her mother that will do the omugo not my mum i dont want drama . The 2 that i have na her mother came
Delete@ Chichi, in Yoruba land, it's usually the husband's mother that go for omugwo just like in Igbo land where you hardly hear of the husband's mother coming but the narratives are changing because of this maltreatment and the problems that usually arises, so some cooperating husband now allow/support the woman's mother to come first and after she has healed properly, the husband's mother can come around, although we have some good mother in-laws doing the duty well.
DeleteI'm full blooded Yoruba left, right, and centre and no one in my husband's family has ever treated me this way, and no one will!!
DeleteMariam, that was back in the days, most people I know have their mothers (woman's mum) coming first to take care of them after they give birth.
My mum was with me for 7 months after I gave birth, my mum in law came and stayed for 2 months afterwards.
Contrary to what you think, yorubas are usually the first to actually throw away those cultural strongholds and behaviours and just roll with the tides, case in point, you won't find any Yoruba bride going to their village to get married if their parent lives elsewhere, heck, my dad's family members in the village didn't even know I was getting married to talk of coming to call any shot, my cousin from father's side who is only about 7 years older than I am walked me down the aisle, no Biggie.
The problem with a lot of the women above is that they chose to accept the trash with their full chest and stayed put. People will test you to see how much bullshit you can take, you are the one who will tell them, heck no!!, we don't take that here.
It's the husbands that allow their mothers/sisters to treat their wives anyhow.
DeleteI'm married to a Yoruba man and he does not allow his family to insult me let alone treat me anyhow. If I ever experience half of what I read up there, I will walk away. I wonder why they refused to leave the marriages.
maltreatment is not a tribal thing
DeleteThere are female narcissists but narcism is on the high side in men because of how they were brought up. It's common with people who grew up in a home where they have maids, those last born males, only son and people who gave birth to only boys and hardly discipline them, leaving every work for their maids.
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DeleteI didn't accuse men, check it out again. I am talking about the narcissists. Unless you want to tell me that all men treat their women the way these women are being treated. I hope you are not trying to make me understand that all men are narcissistic in nature?
DeleteI come dey even fear self with this marriage thing. One needs to be very careful when choosing a partner. How on earth would you treat a woman that just put to bed so badly? Why? Did she kill? Anytime I remember how Kora Obidi's husband treated her when she just put to bed I keep wandering where human sympathy is. Of all times to unleash anger on your woman, it shouldn't be when she's still fresh on childbirth, no matter her offense. You have been managing her bad character all these years so why choose now that she recently put to bed to start treating her badly?
my gender are suffering in marriage
ReplyDeletealot of things are truly happening in marriage
i pray that God will heal every home.
Amen!
DeleteIs the umbilical cord of your gender tied to the marriage?
DeleteWhy can't they divorce and stop lamenting.
Because people like you anon 14:14, will judge them and call them whores when they leave their marriage.
DeleteWhy can't the quit? Is it by force? Let them stay and die there nah rubbish
Delete14:14 good question!👍🏾
DeleteOmo!!! 😳😳😳
ReplyDeletePeople are going through a lot. Damn! 😣
Let them go through it well well since they don't have sense to file for divorce.
DeleteLamentations of low esteem gender.
ReplyDeleteWhy didn't you'll walk out of the marriage and divorce him?
Ana ezuzu.
Eze nzuzu🤮
DeleteGifty ewu mmeee
DeleteGifty awon I must die in marriage. Na your kinds dey lament instead of walking out. Anu mpama.
DeleteSometimes you feel you have no where to go. Sometimes you would have invested a lot into the relationship. Sometimes waking away is not as easy as you think. Women are not stupid. Some of us prayed and believed God for a husband only for him to become something else. Most women suffer in silence because they just don’t know why to do. Even family and society will
DeleteNot suppose you.
It’s so sad these days that children whom mothers suffer for, turn against them and even feel they should bear what their father does. Life I not balanced.
When we comment let’s take it easy. When it comes to your turn, you will know how easy it is to pack and leave your home.
Those ones that were cooking and washing few days after delivery, what will happen if they refuse?
ReplyDeleteHelp me ask them...why can't they refuse and call it a quit?
DeleteI taya oh, simple no I am not well enough to do that will end most of these, all they will do is talk and insult you, no wahala
DeleteToh, my exact question. If I refuse to do it let's see if heaven will be brought down
DeleteThey will receive plenty beating.
DeleteSo they prefer to suffer because they don't want to get beaten and they are not ready to leave the marriage. They want to die there.
I don't pity the baby mamas in the narrations above. Why don't you get married properly before collecting raw sperm?
ReplyDeleteDo you know the condition in which they got pregnant? You think it's everybody that got pregnant by sleeping around? Even those that sleep around don't get pregnant because they always know their way out. I hope you are a virgin too. If you are saying this and you are not a virgin then your level of hypocrisy needs to be touched by the Holy Spirit
DeleteSpeechless
ReplyDelete💔😔
People are really suffering and smiling in marriage, God have Mercy.
ReplyDeleteSome mother-in-laws are from hell! My ex-mother-in-love was good to me but her son? Haa!
ReplyDeleteI was once kicked & slapped by ex-husband 2 days after I put to bed. On the road, it was passersby that helped me get home 😰 After that day, something in me broke...that marriage never remained the same. I left immediately. #storiesofwomeninbadmarriges#leavetolive#youarebetteralive 🤗
Sorry about that experience my Adunniade🤗💕
DeleteAwwwwwww 🤗🤗🤗
DeleteGod is with you.
God abeg, I wonder how people can be that mean to their fellow human, even if it's not their spouse.
DeleteSo sorry darling. 🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗
DeleteSome people put themselves through this.Look at those saying my baby daddy, why can't you get married first. The pick me ones suffer more
ReplyDeleteHas your mother in law] and her family accused you of being pregnant on your wedding day even when you are not? A woman who got pregnant before moving in with her husband and all her daughters getting married with pregnancy? Did they laugh at you on your wedding day and made you cry and their son cry?
ReplyDeleteWomen stop allowing yourself to be trampled upon. Know that the mental effects can be devastating
ReplyDeleteHas your sis in law told lies against you to the family? Have they told your husband things to do to you right in your presence and has your husband obeyed them?
ReplyDeleteHas your husbands family commended his sister for slapping him for insulting you? Have they gathered with you as their topic to say you have used medicine on him because he has no money to give them again after secretly giving them and making them feel you are the one stopping him from giving his salary them?
ReplyDeleteYou should be happy that your husband is solidly behind you. Who cares what the family members think?
DeleteBut make sure you are not the one causing problems between him and his family o. Treat them as a family, if they are not pleased with your kindness, then , you mind your business. Cut them off totally from your life and focus on making your husband happy . Life ana'aga aga.
God abeg!
ReplyDeleteWaat!!!!
Nawa
ReplyDeleteOn today episode of ten is happening
ReplyDeleteWomen learn to love yourselves.
ReplyDeleteMy Sister in Law and MIL who were advising me how to keep a marriage while causing problems in my marriage have seen God. My husband came back and begged for the marriage to work. He’s doing so much better. SIL marriage packed up. She ran away leaving her child behind and is hiding in her father’s house. She’s running away to another state out of shame. Let the useless MIL’s and SILs continue. God is not asleep. The other one that came to talk rubbish is looking for husband with torchlight. Na here we de when her own time will come.
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