THURSDAY IN HOUSE NEWS

 Hailings....

THURSDAY IN HOUSE MEMO

I salute everyone..........The alleged Bestie BV i was talking about is Chikito, the one i allegedly chased away from this place.....I didnt really chase her, she had so much going on then, something shocking happened to her and it kinda mellowed her down...plus she relocated to the US....I miss her sha but i dont cry over spilt milk.....Besides shes in a good place now...
The one that pained me most was BV Rhoda Rex that never left my inbox looking for advice and pocket money..I gave both even when i didn't have....Now she dey work for bank and be big babe and moved on......Moving on is a good thing but its how you do it that matters.....I wish i saved her number sef.......
Anyway make una no mind me Ojare..

The people that are telling me to stop enabling some fighting comments, are the people exchanging words kids?Sometimes i delete so much that i mistakenly also delete good comments and this happens when i use my phone to enable comments.....

I hope we are done with that brouhaha? Good!

Someone was talking about the giveaway that Stella will soon bring it back.....One day the giveaway will come back and no new IDs will be given anything and the IDs that will get i have already marked them down and they are clean...I dont want anymore surprises..... For now, if you are here for giveaway, just go back..LOL

I like here without the giveaways , its calm.

I am off to go and pick up something, if i am slow with comments, be patient...

#nocookdayforsdk #enoeasy#

I can type ten pages if una let me......

Agbado is not out here yet but i have coconut already...LOL

Arrrrrrrrrrrgh i forgot, Sir Ugama mailed me and then sent me photos of his farm on whatsapp............OMG, it is massive!!!...They are at the farms planting under the rains so he doesnt really have time to comot like before but he is coming back fully soon and will start a farming column for us.........Sir ugama is slim like Pinky and may also be so endowed as boasted by pinky...lol

hugs hugs hugs

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DIRTY WOMAN!!!
When your man says, “You’re not tidy,” he’s not being wicked,
He’s being overwhelmed.

You may roll your eyes and say, “But I’m not dirty!”
Okay,

What about the used wig on the dining chair?
Bra that hasn’t been washed since January?

Three-day-old plates in the sink?
Makeup brushes that haven’t seen water since February?

Bathroom that looks like it had a wrestling match with your hair?
See ehn, cleanliness isn’t just for aesthetics - it’s emotional peace.

A disorganized space starts to feel like a disorganized life, and in marriage, that thing can build tension faster than bad s*x.

And yes, before you shout, “What about him?”
You’re right o, he should pull his weight.
But we’re talking about your role today, not his.
He didn’t marry you to raise you.
He didn’t expect to move from mummy’s house to marry another mummy.

Men may not always say it in the sweetest way,
but many of them are silently frustrated when their homes don’t feel like a safe, clean space.
It doesn’t make you a slave to clean up,
It makes you a partner who understands the power of peace and pride in your shared space.

- Make cleanliness a lifestyle, not a chore.
- Share responsibilities, but don’t be the one always leaving mess behind.
- Create systems: laundry days, clean-as-you-cook, wipe as you go.
- And yes, keep the romance alive but keep the toilet brush nearby too.
You can’t keep praying for a happy home with slippers and clothes scattered like tribulation.

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The wrong man vs the right man.

The wrong man will make you feel like you have to handle everything on your own.
It's like you have no other choice but to be reliant on yourself.

He will drain you, make you question your worth, and teach you that relying on someone is a risk you can’t afford to take.

But the right man will recognize your strength, and even though he knows just how strong and independent you may be, he still wants to tackle life with you as a team.

He will show up and never stand in front of you or behind you .... but he will always stand beside you.

He will help you carry the weight that is meant to be carried and he will never just say that "he is there for you".

He will prove it with his actions with each and every day that passes.

A real relationship isn’t about one person struggling while the other takes full responsibility of everything in their life.

It’s about coming together as one and working as a team at the same time.

A man’s role isn’t just to be "there" but it's to be present at all times, it’s to lead, to create security, and to always be consistent with you.
Because a woman feeds off the energy of the man she’s pursuing life with.
If he’s unstable, inconsistent, or unsure, she will never feel like she's in a safe place.

But when he shows up as a leader, as a protector, as someone who brings peace rather than chaos, she will naturally respond with softness, trust, and love.
Always remember that the right man sets the tone and the right woman will multiply it.

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WEIRDFACTS

---Research has suggested that men with naturally high levels of testosterone are more drawn to women with typically feminine faces: women with smaller jaws, bigger eyes, and higher eyebrows.

---Oprah Winfrey and Stedman Graham have been together since 1986, outlasting many Hollywood couples, but have never married, despite getting engaged in 1992.

---Forget attention. Just grow in private.

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