WEDNESDAY IN HOUSE NEWS

 Hailings.....

WEDNESDAY IN HOUSE MEMO

I salute you all.................God is awesome and he is the one who runs my day, dunno about you....

 If you think i am scared of the nonsense you are dropping as anon then you dont know who you are messing... Bewarned oh..I play dirty, be warned oh...make una help me beg this person to leave me alone oh...... When gaslighted i become a pig and i bath in the mud, stop threatening me.....Be warned...NUFF SAID!!!

I am off to quickly drop something somewhere and will start enabling comments in a big.....So Mercy Johnson did not do any live but advertised a product instead as someone in SDK Whatsapp group predicted...LOL

Today I am making penne noodles with chicken and shrimps and broccoli salad as directed by the men .....

Shout out to all those reading in anon mode and respecting themselves.....Shout out to all old BVs......Lets make today a shoutout to old BV day....name the BVs you are giving a shout out and lets see if they might respond but if not, nothing spoil..... i miss BV nmasinachi, her two lines no longer work...I miss my former BFF that i chased away with ALLEGED false accusation.....lol

I just saw a denim pants i have from 10 years ago that was too tight, i slipped into it with ease..its so beautiful.....kaiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii, see ikebe! ...Am i losing weight or not...Yes but why can i still ikebe? who can explain this? or when one loses weight the yansh refuses to go? I no want abeg!!!

Warm hugs and lotsa love!!!

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WOMAN CRUSH WEDNESDAY

To every incredible woman reading this: You are truly worthy of being cherished, respected, and loved—not for what you can do, but simply for the magnificent person you are. You deserve a partner who not only recognizes your immense value but also listens to your voice and stands beside you with unwavering respect.

A genuine man understands that love transcends grand gestures or fleeting expressions. It manifests in consistent, meaningful actions—being fully present, showing up, and honouring your feelings every single day. Real love is about building trust and creating a nurturing space where you can express your authentic self, while passionately supporting your dreams alongside his own.

Respect is at the heart of every strong relationship. It means valuing your opinions, acknowledging your strengths, and allowing your light to shine brightly. True love celebrates your successes, comforts you in your struggles, and treats you as an equal partner in all aspects of life. It is patient, kind, and honest, uplifting you without ever seeking to control or diminish you—it fosters your growth and never holds you back.

To all the remarkable men out there: Strive to be the kind of partner who listens with genuine empathy, communicates with kindness, and loves with intention. Show her through your words and actions that she is treasured—not just on special occasions but every single day. Protect her peace, honour her boundaries, and remind her often of her significance in your life.

And to every extraordinary woman: Do not settle for anything less than the love and respect you unequivocally deserve. You are entitled to a relationship that brings joy, security, and the freedom to be unapologetically yourself. You are powerful, beautiful, and deserving of a love that elevates and inspires you.

Let’s raise the bar for how we love and respect one another—because every woman deserves nothing less than to be seen, valued, and cherished.
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DEAR SISTERS........

In a healthy relationship, intimacy is more than just physical it's a dance of emotional connection, trust, and care. Here are some heartfelt reminders to help nurture that beautiful bond:

** 1. Speak from the Heart**
Open, loving communication is everything. Share your desires, your likes, and your boundaries. A simple, “I love when we…” or “Can we talk about what feels good for you?” can bring you even closer.

** 2. Keep the Emotional Spark Alive**
Intimacy starts long before the bedroom. Hug often, laugh together, show affection in small ways. It’s those everyday moments that build deep connection.

** 3. Stay Curious, Together**
Relationships grow when we stay open. Explore each other’s love languages, and if you're comfortable, discover new ways to be close emotionally and physically. Always with care and consent.

** 4. Consent is Love in Action**
Even in long-term love, always honor your partner’s “yes” or “no.” Respecting boundaries shows deep love and creates a safe, sacred space between you.

** 5. Quality Over Quantity**
There’s no “right” number of times to be intimate. What matters most is mutual joy and feeling emotionally connected. Tune in to what works for *both* of you.

**6. Be Present, Slow Down**
Take your time. Breathe together. Let each moment be about connection, not performance. Presence is powerful.

** 7. Don’t Ignore the Little Things**
If something feels off emotionally or physically don’t keep it in. Speak gently, and if needed, reach out for support. There’s strength in asking for help.

** 8. Care for Your Body and Mind**
Sexual health is part of self-love. Use protection when needed, get regular checkups, and stay informed. When we feel safe, we can relax and enjoy intimacy more fully.

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HOW TO IDENTIFY A REAL MAN

We unfortunately live in a generation with men who have no idea what it takes to be a real man.
Let me give you a couple examples of a real man ......

A real man asks about your day and genuinely cares about the answer.

A real man respects your boundaries and never forces you to anything you're not ready to do.

He makes time for you, and takes that time to learn and understand who you are as a person.

A real man consistently shows you the definition of effort with every day that passes.

He will call you randomly throughout the day just to check on you and your mental health.

A real man is undeniably committed to you and looks for new ways to fall in love with you with every day that passes.

He makes protecting your heart a number one priority.

A real man never makes permanent decisions based on temporary emotions.

He never confuses you on where you stand in his life.

A real man apologizes when he is wrong and stays true to his character.

He doesn't mind hurting other people's feeling to protect yours.

A real man gives you affection without s#xual expectation.

A real man refuses to entertain any women that isn't you.

He has genuine intentions with you from day one and shows you how it truly feels to be a priority rather an option.

A real man will help you heal from the trauma that nobody apologized for.

A real man values you and would never put themselves in a position to lose you.

Take my advice and wait for the man that never let's you fall asleep at night questioning your own self worth.

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WEIRDFACTS

---It takes about 20 minutes for your brain to realize your stomach is full

----The towering British Library in King’s Cross, London, is the largest library in the world, and it has over 170 million items in its catalogue.

---Postcoital dysphoria is the feeling of sadness some people get after having otherwise satisfactory s'x.

----The fastest bird in level flight is the spine-tailed swift, capable of reaching speeds of up to 106 miles per hour (171 kilometers per hour).

-----At 3:15 pm the day Michael Jackson died Twitter, Wikipedia, and AOL IM all crashed.

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