MONDAY IN HOUSE NEWS

 Beautiful Monday Afternoon Hailings.....

MONDAY IN HOUSE MEMO

I salute you alll......It is another start of a promising new week.......

I heard something that google says its not true.....Dunno if its cos i aint searching well...So they say whatsapp is now a whistleblower...(LOL) and that if you screenshot someones message, the person will know and i am wondering how?????? Please someone should show me how someone will know......make i know and also catch anybody wey screenshot me..

Someone dropped gist inside Sunday BEP.....Please if it is you, go complete the gist.......I dey rejoice....The Chihuahua mailed me in January with fake Lawyer letter threatening to sue, i laughed.....i was waiting for her to write me back after i blasted her.....You defamed me and you wan sue me cos i write about am...Some people no get sense at all.....

I am so happy that the hijacked whatsapp group is messed up...My people make una collect Zobo for my name....

  Chronicle of a married man is rested.......

If you have anything you wanna write about, just mail me and i will name your Chronicle and we will start, it doesn't matter if it is just two editions.......

Today i wanted to start watching that Monkey movie and saw my Netflix has expired.....maybe that is a sign that i wont like it...My expectations of how movies should be is really really high and no Nollywood movie gives me a cum at all...

If you are looking for help or anything and you come under anonymous, you are wasting your time cos even if you reappear, i will not even look at your side...I hope a phobia for annons...#ummugate well done oh.I miss your scam.

I promised to help some bvs subscribe for decode if they indicate and they did not,i helped someone do three months subscription on Saturday from waju...However i can still do for two BVs who wanna watch Big Brother...

Please enjoy the rest of the day..Dunno what i am cooking today  but i have everything to cook anything except Naija wacks...lol

Hugs

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WITH REFERENCE TO PINKYS CORNER

A BV sent this in

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‎I want you all to carefully read and learn from this write up.

‎She is married with 3 blessed children (a boy and two girls). The husband is a building contractor and God has been so helping. The man dey get job well and God made things easy for him. The man get two house for mainland. Not until he began to speak with one woman who introduced him to some client just for her own selfish interest. The man got a contract through the woman and before he knew it, he has found himself dating the woman.

‎The wife was confused and the home with peace and harmony don dey turn to fuji house of commotion. It was later she realized that, the woman charmed the her husband. 

The man left his wife and children and moved into the woman's house on the Island. 

The man's wife tried her possible best to get info of the home address of the woman. One good day, that happens to become a bad day for her. She traced the  address and met her husband and the woman, the husband said "I don't know you, who are you"?. 

The wife began to fight the woman and that same night, her first child went blind.

‎She went through this trauma for good 3 years( yes, cuz na person wey I know). She kept bringing the child to **H at ibadan at the ENT department. Several test was done and nothing was found wrong with the eyes but the boy couldn't see.

 During the time she was passing through all this, her husband has sent them packing from the house he built and he sold one of the house and kept the other one. Baba was busy enjoying his money with the new woman. It was so clear that, baba was acting on a well prepared AFOSHE.

‎Few weeks gone, the boy began to have mental problem and he was taken to a psyche hospital at A**. The 7th day of being admitted at the psyche hospital, the  man of God who came to pray at the children section called the attention of his mother and told her that, her prayer has been answered and what she need do is just to ask the boy what he wants and she should make sure to buy anything he wants for him. She did as instructed and that was how the boy was healed after 4 months. 

He could see clearly without any medication.

‎To cut the long story short, the woman who snatched her husband died this year

( 3months ago) and the man came back home wretched, finished and physically down. He came begging and we had no option than to beg the wife who had been going through this trauma for years.  She has forgiven him and both now live in a rented apartment and looking forward to the day one of the tenant in his one and only house will pack out for them to move in.

You won't really understand this issue because he who wears the shoe knows where it pains. It got to a point where this same woman will call me, us, etc for help just to feed her children. How I wish she can grant me an interview then, you will understand better.

Please what Afoshe? dont grant her interview to put out there, let her marriage heal, attention might cause more cracks.....Some women are really trying oh.

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IT IS WHAT IT IS

If another MAN is able to get CLOSE to your WOMAN, 

he's not the PROBLEM, SHE is. 

The fact that another MAN feels so welcomed REFLECTS on your WOMAN'S BEHAVIOR behind your BACK because no MAN can DATE or get close to your WOMAN if she didn't allow it.

Brothers never COMPETE with another man over a WOMAN. If she makes another MAN feel like he stands a chance with her, let him have her. 

You don't want someone that EVERYONE can have.

A GOOD WOMAN will place you ABOVE other MEN, she will RESPECT your FEELINGS and SET BOUNDARIES because she knows that CHËÅTING causes emotional trau-ma to any RELATIONSHIP or MARRIAGE.

DEAR MEN, you are not a REHABILITATION CENTER for an unfaithful woman. You cannot keep a GROWN WOMAN because you love her, rather a GROWN WOMAN keeps herself because she løves and RESPECT you. Nothing keeps a vvoman who doesn't want to be kept. Stop fighting another man over an IRRESPONSIBLE woman, you will end up belittling yourself because of a WOMAN who doesn't value your EXISTENCE.

Stop tolerating chéàting just to keep a WOMAN, the ENEMY of a man isn't another MAN rather the ENEMY of a man is the irresponsible woman who lacks discipline and respect for her man. Having a woman isn't an achievement or trophy until you have a woman who values you, respect you, appreciate you and who gives you PEACE OF MIND.

Truth is if another MAN STEALS or SNATCH your WOMAN, there's no better revenge than letting hin keep her. REAL and GENUINE WOMEN can't be STOLEN or SNATCHED. God just saved you from a COMMUNITY WOMAN, A DEMOCRATIC VAGÌNÅ, A WOMAN OF THE PEOPLE, FOR THE PEOPLE, BY THE PEOPLE and WITH THE PEOPLE. 

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MARRIAGE IS NOT A FINISH LINE

Marriage Should Not Be the Sum Total of Your Life
After marriage… what next?

Too many women grow up hearing that marriage is the ultimate goal. From childhood, it’s almost like everything leads up to the wedding day. But what happens after the gown, the ring, and the titles?

Who were you before you became “Mrs”?
Marriage is a beautiful thing, no doubt. But it was never designed to replace your personal calling. Being a wife is honorable. But it is not all that you are.

Some women stop dreaming the day they become someone’s wife. They pause their voice. They mute their ideas. They stop asking questions like:
“What do I want to become?”
“How can I serve the world?”
“What gifts did God place in me that are still waiting to grow?”

Let’s go back to before you were married.
Before you became a wife, who were you?
What were your dreams?
What were you passionate about?
What came naturally to you, teaching, creating, leading, building, healing, organizing?

That part of you still matters.
And truth is, that part of you is still needed.

Marriage is not a finish line. It is a part of the journey. A beautiful one, yes, but not the whole story. There is life after the wedding. And there is purpose that still belongs to you.

You are allowed to want more. You are allowed to learn again, start again, grow again. You are allowed to write the book, go back to school, start the business, speak on stages, lead a movement, mentor others.

You don’t stop becoming just because you said “I do.”

Your family will benefit more from a woman who is whole. A woman who feels alive, not buried under roles. A woman who is fulfilled and aware of her calling.

It’s not selfish to grow.
It’s wise.
Marriage requires balance, but balance doesn’t mean you erase yourself. You can be a wife, a mother, and still be you.
So ask yourself today:
Am I still living as me, or only living for others?

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