Actress Damilola Adegbite is asking ladies if it is truly possible to have a male best friend they are not attracted to even though he is an attractive man.
She asked:
"Do you believe it's truly possible to have a male best friend that you are not attracted to?. Now I don't mean like just a close friend I mean like a real best friend. Someone that you tell everything, cry to. Now here's the twist, he is not unattractive because I know if he is not good looking that might be the deal breaker.
You May know that he likes you a little more than friends, you can sense that and he could even tick a lot of your ideal man boxes maybe just minus 1, 2,3 things but you have never crossed the line, your have never being with him physically , never slept with him at least not yet.
Is it really possible to keep it that way long term or is it the never say never situation. Think about it deeply.
That if somewhere down the line, two of you are in the "koro", koro means corner. Two of you catch yourselves in the corner are you sure you will be able to say no.
This question is not for guys, ladies is it truly possible that he is your best friend except he's gay. Isn't that in itself some kind of attraction? I may be wrong but I am just asking to get different opinions on this."
You May know that he likes you a little more than friends, you can sense that and he could even tick a lot of your ideal man boxes maybe just minus 1, 2,3 things but you have never crossed the line, your have never being with him physically , never slept with him at least not yet.
Is it really possible to keep it that way long term or is it the never say never situation. Think about it deeply.
That if somewhere down the line, two of you are in the "koro", koro means corner. Two of you catch yourselves in the corner are you sure you will be able to say no.
This question is not for guys, ladies is it truly possible that he is your best friend except he's gay. Isn't that in itself some kind of attraction? I may be wrong but I am just asking to get different opinions on this."
No, not in the Nigerian society, when men know no boundaries and women sell their bodies!
ReplyDeleteNot all men and women please.
DeleteIt's not. I doubt it.
ReplyDeleteUnless both of you are not attracted to each other
Ajuju n'ese okwu😄😄
ReplyDeleteHmmm... Quite dicey. Let me sit back and learn from others' opinions.
It depends ooooo. My childhood male bestie is still obsessed with me. I have to cut him off completely,when the wife reached out to me.🙄🙄🙄
ReplyDeleteYes it’s very possible if both are discipline and maintained boundaries
ReplyDeleteMy best friend is a guy, 18yrs & counting
I actually have one male bestie. Just one. We are now both married with two kids and we are still close so, I don’t know why people think it’s not possible. As long as no one is expressing any romantic emotions towards the other person, it’s totally possible. I’m a living example
ReplyDeleteThat's what she asked Honey
DeleteThat he likes the girl more than a friend. So he wants that romantic emotions.
Definitely it's possible if it's just friends,like those ones from school and area with nothing attached.
Those ones sef are now bro.
Yes it really is possible
ReplyDeleteMost times, one start catching feelings
ReplyDeleteYes, it's very possible
ReplyDeleteIt is possible.
ReplyDeleteUgo and I are dey this table. His wife refers to me as his galfriend.
They came all the way from the East to North Central to felicitate with my family when I had my first child.
We talk every week,more than 2c sometimes.
Discuss life, family and lots of business matters.
Our paths crossed during NYSC over a decade ago.
Very good friend
E deh plenty na
ReplyDeleteNot 100%, I will say 30% in most cases
ReplyDeleteI've had one for years. Thunder fire attraction, he is my bro for life.
ReplyDeleteIt's possible
ReplyDeleteWhy not though? 🤔🤔🤔
ReplyDeleteYes, my best friend is a guy .
ReplyDeleteIt's very possible. As long as both can create and respect boundaries. Though in some cases one or both starts to catch feelings.
ReplyDeleteYes. It's possible.
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Very possible
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