Thursday In House News

 Hailings....

THURSDAY MEMO

It is another beautiful Thursday Afternoon and the Summer Jolly jolly continues......

I hope that there is happiness in your heart and that you are not standing in the way of someones progress......

A Piece of cow dung was replying Eka Joy in the comment section of in house news on Wednesday saying i enter Naija and hide because of my enemies...hahahahahahahahhahahah you no get sense at all...The blog visitors that have met me when i visited Naija will tell you that anywhere i stay is always a beehive of activities full of celebs and all...I am a VERY PRIVATE person and you cannot know who my friends are until you see me and them together.......There is no man born of a woman that will make me stay away from my country and make me scared.......The cow dung meant i should my arrival before i get there? You are not in the limelight so what do you know? I know that it hurts you that i am popular but it is not my fault that you are a nonentity, a nobody...not my fault....

Please if you are reading this,and live in the diaspora, do not ever announce when you go or leave the motherland...Stories of kidnap et all is too much and most times, they get these infos from social media!!!...e wise and dont let anyone pressure you to announce...if you like you can announce but make sure you are back home and safe!

My madam hope this is not too long oh.....

Let me go and try to convince Angel star to dash me groundnut money...Hahahahahahahahahahahahahaha

Enjoy the rest of the day..#Shout out the fake werey in the comment section, when you tire, you go tire.

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Here's the list of BV that did the cook with 5k game

It was a game but i decided to make it a reality..If you are interested in the 5k and i did not cross your name, please send email to the giveaway email address with your account...I know all the ID's except the one i crossed..... Miss H i removed your name cos i sent you something again yesterday to replace what you spent on your mum from your Education fund.

1. Bv Poshscents
2. Bv Kosidumzy
3. Bv pretty patience
4. Bv Tochi
5. The beloved one
6. Miss Betty
7. Stella maris baby
8. Game mistress
9. Bv osundi
10. Neesolah
11. Arike
12. Teacher NK
13. Mc Pinky
14. Adunni
15. Helen
16. Excited courtesy
17. Hallel
18. Mor
19. Tango
20. Miss H
21. Chikalicious
22.Grateful soul
23. Gloglo
24. Simply divine
25. Chee
26. Icefish seller
27. Mide
28. Black berry

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WHY MOST WOMEN SUCCEED AFTER DIVORCE.

I read somewhere about how some women take it to heart to do better after divorce bringing out their most hidden talents and potentials.

Why wouldn't she strive to succeed when for years she had put her life on hold just for the wellbeing of her family? Women most times are weak when it comes to pushing hard for their goals after marriage without the support of their partner.

In some cases, their husbands deprive them of such opportunities urging them to stay at home and take care of the family (Children) women are of course emotional (Phools) and can easily be convinced when it has to do with their loved ones.

Many women get too comfortable especially when the man is financially okay and they often feel no obligations towards pressing harder to go get that education, set up that business or learn a trade since OGA is doing all the work let me kukuma stretch my legs and just enjoy.

However, the moment things go South or west that is when eyes dey clear, some men can use their power to frustrate the hell out of their wives especially when the said wife is a liability to them.

When a man notices how deep you are into his money, he tends to feel very, I mean highly important and start abusing you as a wife.

Abuse in the sense that he uses that as a weapon each time there is a little misunderstanding he withdraws all the financial support some go as far as not giving food in the house, the wife will now be the one to source for food and feed herself including the children.. Surprised? It sure happened.

Another factor why women really go dirty to succeed after divorce is when the husband takes in another wife, that's for the Muslims mostly and then he turns his back on the wife and eventually divorced her, she feels humiliated, she feels used and dumped because she might have lost some valuable productive years of her life in the man's house.

And when suddenly he feels she has no use in his life it can hurt like h*ll itself and that also turns into a motivation for her where she vows to make him regret losing a priceless asset like her, because in most cases husbands who ends up betraying the women who where there for them end up regretting such. (Not all the time though)

Imagine a man taking a second wife who is well educated and rubbing it on your face when in reality he was the one that deprived you of such opportunities in the first place.

Imagine your now rich husband meeting a self made woman and always taunting you of how useless you are when he was the one who stops you from engaging in any business, skills or education in the first place..

Because that time the woman who was very innocent and naive trusted the man who said I am making enough and you don't need to work my income will sustain us and you stewpeedly believed him, he said he doesn't want a working class woman and you settled for it

Then BOOM! His status changed, he made money, he has seen the world and is now very influential, he goes into meetings with the high and mighty and all of a sudden he feels the need to have a more "sophisticated" woman by his said.

And of course he finds this self made woman and then the shock, when you try to contest he shows you the way out, now that is the number one motivation for many women, she wants to go and equally make herself sophisticated and have all those qualities of the other woman.

She will want to prove a point that after all I wasn't lazy or incapable, I only made sacrifices and obeyed you, but now that I ended up with nothing, let me go back and prove you wrong and probably turn things around for myself.

And so each time she remembers those negative words, treatment being said or done to her because they keep ringing a bell in her ears, she will keep moving with all the aggression, unleashing all her frustrations and getting back at the said husband, in-laws and or, society for treating her unjustly.

Because women like to prove a point and that if you ask me is the best kind of revenge to give to anyone, go out there and become great again, prove that you can do it, prove that you are also a sophisticated woman you were only not given the chance to showcase your worth.

The above and more is why divorce women succeed and become great again, so if you are divorce and confused, please don't be, channel the frustration, the disappointment and all the negative vices you had to endure/experienced and tell yourself that I most succeed and focus on that goal, because, WOMEN LOVE TO PROVE A POINT.

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WEIRDFACT

----A study has found that consuming sugar when faced with a stressful situation calms us down.

----Don’t confuse your path with your destination. Just because it’s stormy now doesn't mean you aren't headed for sunshine.

----Jizz (noun):
A term used by birdwatchers to describe the overall impression or appearance of a bird

----Your relationship choices can shape your whole life.

----Metathesiophobia - Fear of things and or people changing.

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NEVER KEEP A SECRET THAT CAN DAMAGE YOU WITH ANYONE"

Humans can go from sweet and tender to callous and villainous in an instant, provided the right variable/motivation is introduced.

I have seen divorce proceedings and I've seen friends turned enemies. I've seen people come on social media to spill unforgivable secrets about someone they held so close and dear.

There's a statement that says:

 No matter how much a farmer weeds, he would surely spare a plant or two.

You know why? The plants he spared will save him someday. Those plants may cure headache or runny nose or so.  Similarly, the secrets you spare will save you one day too.

I'm not saying you shouldn't trust people. please go ahead and do so...

 Share your life and moments with them but keep any secret that can destroy you and do NOT SHARE it with anyone!

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