Vlogger Nkechi Blessing Sunday revealed that she has never dated a man who has more money than her, stressing that she always handled her life and responsibilities by herself. She added that any man coming into her life must “come correct” because she is no longer willing to date down or babysit any man.
She said
"I am literally tired of being single, yes you heard me this is the longest that I have been single. Before once I leave one relationship two working days I don find another one enter. But then again I don't know what this is, I have been single even before October last year and it is almost getting to a year. Meaning I have been single for one whole year, I don't know what it is or maybe I am grown now, I don't prioritize men as such. Truth is, I think all my life with the little or much you know about me on the internet it's always been, being in one relationship saga or the other.
Then again I said to myself this is not what I want to be known for, that girl that if she doesn't have a man in her life she can't function. That's not who I am because all my life even with the men in my life I still do my things myself. C'mon it has always been about me not like this men do anything for me. The whole relationship I have ever been online was me dating down yes. I have never dated someone who have more money than me, that's a fact and not like I was with them because of what they can give to me. They literally can't give me what I want, the only thing they gave to me was love, attention, care but if it was about being materialistic that was not it for me.
When I say I miss being in relationship, the random calls "hey baby just checking up on you". I need to focus on other aspects of my life because I can't be known for always coming online to fight my exes when my mates are doing big things. I have taken a break from relationship, one year is enough to heal, move on find love again because the truth is I am a lover girl I miss being in love. To the very next man that is planning or trying to come into my life you must come correct, I have dated down three times I am not about to date down anymore you must meet my standard because the fact remains I have things going on well for me so anybody that comes into my life must have way more than I do because I am not trying to babysit any man no more. The men we have out there, most of them are princesses."
Unfiltered with NBS
"I am literally tired of being single, yes you heard me this is the longest that I have been single. Before once I leave one relationship two working days I don find another one enter. But then again I don't know what this is, I have been single even before October last year and it is almost getting to a year. Meaning I have been single for one whole year, I don't know what it is or maybe I am grown now, I don't prioritize men as such. Truth is, I think all my life with the little or much you know about me on the internet it's always been, being in one relationship saga or the other.
Then again I said to myself this is not what I want to be known for, that girl that if she doesn't have a man in her life she can't function. That's not who I am because all my life even with the men in my life I still do my things myself. C'mon it has always been about me not like this men do anything for me. The whole relationship I have ever been online was me dating down yes. I have never dated someone who have more money than me, that's a fact and not like I was with them because of what they can give to me. They literally can't give me what I want, the only thing they gave to me was love, attention, care but if it was about being materialistic that was not it for me.
When I say I miss being in relationship, the random calls "hey baby just checking up on you". I need to focus on other aspects of my life because I can't be known for always coming online to fight my exes when my mates are doing big things. I have taken a break from relationship, one year is enough to heal, move on find love again because the truth is I am a lover girl I miss being in love. To the very next man that is planning or trying to come into my life you must come correct, I have dated down three times I am not about to date down anymore you must meet my standard because the fact remains I have things going on well for me so anybody that comes into my life must have way more than I do because I am not trying to babysit any man no more. The men we have out there, most of them are princesses."
Unfiltered with NBS
May Her Heart Desires Be Granted
ReplyDeleteShe's A Good Actress 👍
Hello iya Boys
Nkechi grow up
ReplyDeleteThis chic can act ehn.
ReplyDeleteThe first time I saw her in one Yoruba movie. She was paired with another Yoruba actress, and both were siblings. They were ajebos whose parents left massive inheritance, the sister was protective of her from falling in love with a gold digger. In the same stretch, they took a father in their late parent's long serving gate man who was guiding them from external enemies.
Nkechi had so much prospect in acting, I don't know why she stopped.
Good she has learned
ReplyDeleteSingleness is something to be embraced and not to be runned away from. This whole idea of "this is the longest I have been single" for just a year shows she's still not ready and qualified for an awesome relationship as she claims. Singleness is a time to find your why. Hone your skills, develop your talents and potentials. One of the reasons relationships don't last: marriage inclusive is too many half people looking for their better half. If you are lonely like what I saw in her write up, relationship isn't the key. At best you would be another lonely person. Like a car in a garage waiting to be pushed in that relationship.
ReplyDeleteYou always is the best person to help your self and the only one to make you happy. It begins with singleness. Who you are now.
The reason I am talking plenty is no one should be tired of being single. You are always going to be single. A married man or woman is just a single person with a ring. Relationships always function based on the direction our single lives are going. So, get a life before getting a partner. It is called Life Partner for that reason. Have a nice day.
Lol… all this one na story to Nkechi
DeleteBut on a serious note, what you’re saying is true. But it’s hard to accept when you’re not married, that being single may be better for most people in the long run. Being single isn’t a bad thing at all. It’s when one marries and sees the other side, that they can then make effective comparisons