WEDNESDAY IN HOUSE NEWS

 Hailings Wednesday...

WEDNESDAY MEMO

How una dey?I hope that your day started well and is going on well?My day is going on well..My brother saw me last night when he came over and said ''Wow you lost weight'' That statement made my night and will make all of today cos i am yet to even eat and will eat in an hour a small portion of egusi soup i ordered for many months ago that i forgot in the freezer, just saw it again last night when my bro was ransacking..I am not used to swallowing again so will make small basmatti rice to finish the soup......Making Italian noodles with beef sauce for the Bambinos, hubby is eating out today with colleagues......So no big cooking......

Tomorrow i am buying new Christmas decorations and put them up by November 1st.....On that day is a public holiday here and my niece in law is celebrating her birthday so we are going to eat out in a proper Restaurant and i am wearing my new pair of oversized bell bottom denim pants......Ah too fine..

Make i switch to pidgin..I plan to order plenty expensive things for her head on this day cos this my husband niece eh, if you invite her and her hubby to Restaurant just hold your breath cos their order fit make you faint so i wan do them back...me and the bambinos don plan am down ..She go do us back when its hubby Birthday eat out in five weeks time.......Hehehehehehehehehehhe i go do am!

Make i switch back to English

So as i was saying tell me whats up how i told you whats up..................hehehehehehehehe

If you believe that God is Merciful and gives second chances, then believe that you will find love cos who i be when God bless me like this........?

Oghene uriri toh deh weh!!!

Oghene wo ruro!

Oghene ode ra ODE!!

Today is woman crush Wednesday, please encourage someone out there reading this........It is not only when i say i wanna do a giveaway that you will respond oh..I am watching and since i said 500k has landed my account, some new IDs have resurrected....LOL...Una welcome back...

I tire to type.

Where is dog photo!

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NOTORIOUS FOR JESUS

Claustrophobia Is Real

I never thought claustrophobia was real.
To me, it was just one of those things people exaggerated to gain sympathy. But life has a way of humbling us. 

When my husband and I went broke, we had to leave our spacious apartment.
We moved into a tiny room and parlor that felt more like a cage than a home. The space was so small, it swallowed the air. Worse still, the both rooms had just two tiny windows.
Every daylight would literally feel like night, dark and suffocating. Our luggage was stacked high like a mountain in a corner of the room.

There was barely space to breathe, let alone live.
Before I knew it, I found myself snapping at my kids constantly. At night, I would shake my husband awake in panic, sometimes crying telling him I will die here if we don’t move.

 I begged him to find money, any money, to rescue us. Chai! 

Our morning prayers became desperate cries for relocation.

"Dear God, All I'm asking you is a space, light, and air." For three months, that was my only request. And then, miraculously, a new door opened. We found a bigger place, brighter, freer, liveable. Now I know, Claustrophobia is no illusion.
It is real, and I will never joke about it or laugh at claustrophobics again.

I love any kind of space whether small or big as long as i can do me time there.....Never heard of this claustro-gini before

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Lover Girl's Narrative: Diary of an Unwritten Implosion (final part)

Guess what! Wedding bells!!!
Amidst all the red, black, and amber flags, we set the wedding plans in motion.

 I was still hacked in and knew he was still having random "cherry" appointments, but I stayed. 

His friends, especially the last mediator, always left me with subtle hints to abort the mission, but my head was in the cloud of delusion and denial.

 Deep down, I was not happy, but the thought that I was in too deep to back out and the disappointment I would put my family through kept fuelling this passion. Everything was set for the engagement, and then we were hit with the biggest blow ever. 

His father passed.

It was at that point that I realized the relationship was well over. His father was the only person who could call him to order. Imagine a rabid dog without chains. That was to be his fate because his father were those chains. I travelled to pay my last respects, and deep down, I knew that was it.

True to my thoughts, barely a year after, unprovoked, after being out of reach for a while, I kept probing to know why he would go cold on me, and he broke up with me via text: "Let me be."

 I was not surprised; I was not hurt, because I had a heart ready to detach. Healing, however, was not easy. The guilt of staying put in this kind of situationship ate me up badly. Some days, I would wake up feeling better, and some days, I would wake up feeling bitter. I became an untamed mental case.

Nobody knew about my struggles, not even my family. I told my parents about the breakup and lied about being at peace with it. But I literally would dose off crying every night and wake up likewise.

 The weight of my ignorance, naivety, foolishness, and subservience did me dirty. The good thing is that I'm now in a better place mentally. I have no regrets, but a diary full of lessons and experiences. I take solace in the fact that what was meant to break me only made me better. 

A pain I wore for 15 years healed in a year, and I'm grateful for that.

Sisters, I speak to you with hindsight borne of fire. Do not ignore the signs. No matter how deep you think you are, no matter the investments: emotional, familial, societal, etc recognize toxicity for what it is.

 I stayed blinded for 15 years, numbing my pain, ignoring red flags that screamed loud for the deaf to hear and the blind to see. Don't let patterns of hurt trap you; your worth isn’t tied to someone else’s brokenness. 

Break free before the cost eats you alive. Trust your intuition; honor your boundaries. What didn’t break me made me stronger, but countless others aren’t as fortunate. Don’t gamble with your peace. Learn from my journey. 

Awareness is power, and self-love is liberation.
I’m gad you stayed with me.

15 years ended in a wrecking ball????? JUST LIKE THAT????WOW!!!...I pray that you find love again cos this kind of experience can change the taste of love.

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WILL THIS WORK????

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WEIRD FACTS
---If someone truly loves you, they tend to hug you for at least 5 seconds or more.

----In Brooklyn, New York, you can rent a mom for $40. She listens to you, gives you advice, cooks, and helps with chores

----Secretly thinking you're better than everyone else is good for your mental health, researchers suggest.

----If a man pees on a pregnancy test and it comes up positive, he may have testicular cancer.

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DETTY DECEMBER ALERT

Some Nigerians living abroad return home for Detty December and spend a considerable amount of money using their cards.

However, after travelling back overseas, some of them contact their banks to request reversals of those payments, falsely claiming they were defrauded or unaware of how the money left their accounts.

Because many banks already hold negative perceptions about Nigeria in connection with fraud, they rarely investigate these claims thoroughly before approving the reversals. As a result, the Nigerian businesses and service providers that received the payments are forced into financial losses.

I read about this a few weeks ago but dismissed it at the time because the content creator who shared it did not seem credible.

This morning, though, I was alarmed to watch a Nigerian podcaster based abroad discussing the same issue and people in the comments were warning her not to “cast updates”!
Ah, so this really happens!
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This is true?...If they come this December and ask to use cards of any kind , please insist on cash payment to be on the safe side oh

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READ THESE

--. "Where competition builds strength, cooperation builds greatness."

---. "The jungle survives on rivalry, but humanity thrives on unity."

--- "True progress begins when we stop fighting each other and start working together."

---. "Competition may win battles, but cooperation wins the future."

---. "Survival belongs to the fittest, but success belongs to the united."

---. "Civilization rises not by who defeats others, but by who lifts others."

--- "In the wild, strength rules; in society, teamwork reigns."

---. "Cooperation turns individual dreams into collective achievements."

--- "The jungle teaches survival; civilization teaches significance."

---. "Great minds don’t compete—they collaborate to create."

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Which one hits home? For me its the second one!

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