Do you want them to go to school or you want them to get married early? Are you already building confidence in them or you always tear them down with words?
I think parents with girl children have a lot of Job to do with them.....Remember it is not what you tell them that they do, it is what they see you doing....
Yeah I'm Mama girls😍😁
ReplyDeleteI tell them oh, but it's not easy because of peer pressure. I do encourage them to have both male and female friends and also to know when to draw the line, I just pray they turn out right. I want them to go to school and also to marry early, but they must have at least a degree.
I do hope they learn from me too🥰
I have a daughter as first child and she is super brilliant and inquisitive. My own Mom birthed four girls but her result, if I wanted to rate her, was far below expectation as far as raising us was concerned.
ReplyDeleteThere is no journal for raising my girl except two things, I teach her seriously about God, and I hand her books with sexual purity with ample biblical proofs and examples. I also INTENTIONALLY, remove adult materials from home and replace them with story books.
I do not have a girl child, but if I eventually do have one, I don't know how, I'm going to cope with it mentally, because of my bad experience as a girl child, But I know that, I will start teaching her self defense against abusers. She is going to be very ready.
ReplyDeleteEducation is very vital, So yea, she must be educated like me, and build on her career, I will teach her, never to leave her career or live her life on the terms of any man. Love isn't enough, for some people it continues to flourish, while some people's expires.
Her voice is going to count for me everyday, cause I would love for her to tell me everything, I may not allow her go for sleepovers,I'm that paranoid, Causal outing with supervision is cool. Lastly, I will let her know, that I cannot succeed with her co- operation, She needs to trust me as her mother and guardian, And everything would be fine.