Dont they have two sons together? What a frigging fracking pity!!!
Ah, I am so traumatised by what i am reading from both of them!!!
Fine, I did drugs. So what? Is that even the issue between us? The moment we had a fight, you rushed to the public shouting
"drugs, drugs, drugs," because you knew it would make a perfect story for the media, something dramatic enough to distract everyone from the real issue!
You want to find a reason to arrest everyone around me so that I will have no one left beside me, no friend, no support, no safe place to turn to. Then, when I'm completely isolated and broken, I will be forced to come back to you because I will have nowhere else to go.
That has always been your strategy, break people down, make them weak and powerless, and then have your way with them. But guess what? It's not going to work this time. Not anymore!
You say you want me to go for rehab, but you are the same Ned who always wanted me high because, in your words, I'm "s*xier" when I'm high. You liked me that way because it made me wild and romantic exactly how you wanted me to be.
Why don't you also tell them how you force yourself on me whenever I say no?
Why don't you tell them how you lock me up, seize my phones, and suddenly declare me "mentally unstable" the moment I say I no longer want to be in this relationship. But once I change my mind just to get out of that locked room, suddenly I'm fine again, I'm no longer mentally unstable, and apparently not in need of rehab anymore.
Why don't you also tell them that all your wives and ex wives are on dr*gs? And can you be kind enough to explain to them why that is?
Why don't you also tell them how you lock me up and Doctors to inject me with drugs meant for people with bip*lar dis*rder?
Why don't you tell them how you take my phones for weeks just because you hate that I talk to my family a lot.
You have never seen me act incoherent, stumble, or lose control, so just stop. Every problem we have had started when I no longer wanted you, whether sober or even high. Stop using the "drugs" narrative to create distraction.
And for the record, I would have filed for divorce long ago if there was ever a legal marriage between us. We were never married in any court of law, and no documents were signed. Leave me alone, Ned.
''Ned, how could you lie so openly and without even small remorse? You know my family has absolutely nothing to do with this. You have always tried to cut them off because of the bond we share, and now you are trying to make them look bad for no reason.
Fine, I did drugs. So what? Is that even the issue between us? The moment we had a fight, you rushed to the public shouting
"drugs, drugs, drugs," because you knew it would make a perfect story for the media, something dramatic enough to distract everyone from the real issue!
You want to find a reason to arrest everyone around me so that I will have no one left beside me, no friend, no support, no safe place to turn to. Then, when I'm completely isolated and broken, I will be forced to come back to you because I will have nowhere else to go.
That has always been your strategy, break people down, make them weak and powerless, and then have your way with them. But guess what? It's not going to work this time. Not anymore!
You say you want me to go for rehab, but you are the same Ned who always wanted me high because, in your words, I'm "s*xier" when I'm high. You liked me that way because it made me wild and romantic exactly how you wanted me to be.
Why don't you also tell them how you force yourself on me whenever I say no?
Why don't you tell them how you lock me up, seize my phones, and suddenly declare me "mentally unstable" the moment I say I no longer want to be in this relationship. But once I change my mind just to get out of that locked room, suddenly I'm fine again, I'm no longer mentally unstable, and apparently not in need of rehab anymore.
Why don't you also tell them that all your wives and ex wives are on dr*gs? And can you be kind enough to explain to them why that is?
Why don't you also tell them how you lock me up and Doctors to inject me with drugs meant for people with bip*lar dis*rder?
Why don't you tell them how you take my phones for weeks just because you hate that I talk to my family a lot.
You have never seen me act incoherent, stumble, or lose control, so just stop. Every problem we have had started when I no longer wanted you, whether sober or even high. Stop using the "drugs" narrative to create distraction.
Tell people the truth. I understand shaa. You are feeling rejected and hurt, and you are struggling to make peace with the fact that it's all over.
Let me make this very clear, No matter how much you think you spent on me, it can never equal the value of the time I gave you, my prime years, my energy, and the career opportunities I sacrificed while being with you.
Let me make this very clear, No matter how much you think you spent on me, it can never equal the value of the time I gave you, my prime years, my energy, and the career opportunities I sacrificed while being with you.
And for the record, I would have filed for divorce long ago if there was ever a legal marriage between us. We were never married in any court of law, and no documents were signed. Leave me alone, Ned.
Marriage is not by force. Love is not by force. Stop trying to control what no longer belongs to you!
I have a lot more to say but let me just stop here for now, I can only thank God that I found strength in that same house you tried to destroy me.
I just feel so ashamed that all these had to come out in the messiest way!
I have a lot more to say but let me just stop here for now, I can only thank God that I found strength in that same house you tried to destroy me.
I just feel so ashamed that all these had to come out in the messiest way!
I believe her
ReplyDeleteI am proud of you Regina that your had the guts to leave, better late than never!!
You will be just fine
You all leave Regina's mum alone, that talk she destroyed her daughter's life is getting old
No matter how old it becomes, she had had a string negative influence on her children's lives. When ALL A your children are involved in using such chemicals OPENLY and with your knowledge, check yourself.
DeleteThe father was accident, the mother was greedy and the child was desperate to retire from breadwinning.
😩😩😩You are proud of a druggie?
Delete"Fine, I did drugs. So what? "
I believe her
ReplyDeleteI am proud of you Regina that your had the guts to leave, better late than never!!
You will be just fine
You all leave Regina's mum alone, that talk she destroyed her daughter's life is getting old
No matter how old you think it is,we will talk about her.
DeleteMy sister if e reach your turn sell off your 17 year old daughter to a 60 something year old man. Very stupid old woman.All the fake life she couldn't afford she traded her child for. Very anyhow woman.
I personally will keep calling her out.
What is a 17 yr old doing with marriage. Mtcheww.
See the end result
I really do hope she doesn't go back. Any man that tries to cut you off from your family is a no no.
ReplyDeleteNne nawaoo 🙄
ReplyDeleteIfe akaria
He definitely groomed this girl. If this is happening abroad, Pa Ned would have resigned long ago. He is not fit for purpose at all.
ReplyDeleteNa Naija Epstein, e be, always after virgins, so he can groom and mold them to his taste, hiding under the guise of Islam...this is what powerful men like him do, almost a fetish..but in Africa and,Nigeria in particular the victim is always blamed...What a mess!
DeleteWow but she writes well and put together I just pray that God come through for her, because Ned looks like a manipulators
DeleteRegina turn to God now. You are still very very young. At your age some are still figuring out their life/path.
ReplyDeleteNever ever go back to that marriage. You shouldn’t have married him in the first place.
Why is everyone around him on drugs? “Aturu si na ihe onu wu ile anya anya”
She is doing more damage to him than him to her, someone had better tell him to stop engaging and replying her upandan. He has more to lose in all these. He should just quietly let her go, there would be a point where he would deal with her quietly but now he has lost all that power.
ReplyDeleteThis family is in for it! This man will not let them go easily, he must take a pound of flesh, he is narc in the first place, a master manipulator, very vindictive too. The family's greed put them into this whole mess.
ReplyDeleteOnly God knows the truth
ReplyDeleteI don't know why my mind keeps telling me she will go back to him
ReplyDeleteAnother Epstein story, but trust Nigerians to blame the victim- Regina!
ReplyDeleteRegi baby, ndo o 🤗
ReplyDeleteSince she said she's no longer interested in the marriage, why not settle this amicably?
At whatever age, anyone telling you to do clearly stupid things for love should get a no thanks and peace out.
ReplyDeleteImagine saturating your organs with chemicals and pickling your brain for a vegetarian teetotaler who has 5 other wives and can add more at any time.
Olorun ma je ki a ponu.
After all these back and forth,I hope she will not go back to him.
ReplyDeleteOh dear... He should allow her go naa!
ReplyDeleteI fear people who always want to monopolize you, thence cutting people away from you. Such persons are usually dangerous.
How did you get here, Regina??
ReplyDeleteWho is taking care of the children as they both fight and the other wife is finding her peace on holiday!
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