TUESDAY IN HOUSE NEWS

 Hailings....

TUESDAY MEMO

How una dey? I read up all the comments yesterday concerning the planned Christmas giveaway and it is funny...not everyone will get the giveaway and no entitlement mentality will be entertained this year...If you want to claim you have been commenting here since 1825, have you not been commenting on other sites? Does anyone recognise you there? 

Dont mistake empathy and kindness for stewpidity please...

Let us stop making a mockery of the giveaways, its really a pee-sss-off for me....

Those of you who go around scamming people, check hw you will always come back to begging?money you scam off people never brings in proper wealth or peace of mind.

The giveaways will start a week before Christmas......Please stay in anon mode if you have been so all these while so that others will not drag you....

Please can you guy complete the Blog awards so that we can round up? Two categories will win cash prices from now on.........I will pick the categories.

Also some old columns will be showing face every now and then........If you are interested in writing a column, you can contact me but know that i do not pay anyone but if your column has been running for six months and above, your name automatically includes in any giveaway list....That's my way of rewarding you for adding content to my content...

Which column on this blog is your best and why?

Which column on this Blog is the worst for you and why?

please do not insult the columnist in your comments and note that your constructive criticism can help them get better.....

This Blog is one of the best places Online to get content and i am not boasting so the loose headed amoeba proteus posting that this Blog is dead and i am in pains, please check well to see if you are still in the land of the living....

The very familiar digital footprint that posted that my ''Rotten kpekus '' was pounded well well at UNIBEN...you dey crase!...You really think that i have shame? My shame don leave me dey catch you...Did i tell you that i married a virgin?........

This my Job is like a blessing and a problem rolled into one and I came prepared to be cursed and loved when i started this Job...I give you audience sometimes cos you cannot be on this blog space and be so deliberately ignorant..I no send oh....... Be guided and seek help for you stewpidity as we meander into a new year...............You know yourself oh!

I will gift two people 10k each from the comment section....who do you suggest i gift? Its just money for meatpie....... Whoever choose can include themselves. I will choose any selection i like or do mine....And forget about trying to run anyone down not to get it..such doesn't work with me.......

And if you think this place is not as hot as those Blogs on Instagram, i cannot kill myself for you so please port there and let me see road.....instagram is just noise, i have content here put together by myself and all the brainy, loving and highly intelligent commenters here....

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 CHILDREN LEARN FROM EXAMPLE, NOT WORDS

“Children hear your words, but they follow your footsteps.”

Children may listen to what you say, but they believe what you do. You can preach kindness, honesty, and respect all day long, but if your actions say otherwise, your words lose meaning. When a child sees a parent shouting, lying, or disrespecting others, they copy that behavior unconsciously. A parent’s actions are like a mirror—whatever they reflect is what the child becomes.

Think about it. If a father tells his son not to smoke but smokes every day, what lesson is the son truly learning? If a mother tells her daughter to speak gently but yells often, what habit will the daughter grow up with? Words instruct the mind, but actions train the heart. Children remember what they see more than what they hear. That’s why wise parents live the lessons they want their children to learn.

The Bible says, “Train up a child in the way he should go, and when he is old, he will not depart from it.” (Proverbs 22:6). This means training through example, not only instruction. Children copy how you handle anger, how you talk to others, how you react when things go wrong, and how you show love. If they see peace in you, they learn peace. If they see selfishness, they learn the same. You are their first teacher, even before school begins.

In daily life, small actions shape big lessons. When parents say “thank you,” children learn gratitude. When they keep promises, children learn integrity. When they apologize after a mistake, children learn humility. But when parents insult others, cheat, or ignore their responsibilities, children absorb those same patterns. Remember, what you do at home echoes in your child’s behavior outside the home.

In the end, your example is the most powerful lesson you’ll ever give. Talk less, act more. Let your children see patience, honesty, and love in your daily living. When you live what you teach, your children will grow wiser and kinder, even without many words. Be the kind of example you want your children to follow  because your actions will shape the world they will create tomorrow.

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This is so so true!......

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LEARN THESE IF YOU HAVE A SPOUSE

- Communicate openly, honestly, and respectfully every day

- Prioritize your marriage above temporary disagreements

- Forgive quickly and don’t hold grudges

- Keep intimacy alive, emotional, physical, and spiritual connection

- Pray together and align on spiritual values

- Respect each other’s individuality and personal space

- Share responsibilities at home, domestic, financial, and family duties

- Make decisions together and support each other’s dreams

- Celebrate achievements, big and small, together

- Handle family and in-law matters as a united front

- Be intentional with time, date nights, trips, or even daily moments of connection

- Show appreciation and gratitude regularly

- Adapt and grow together as seasons of life change

- Resolve conflicts calmly without belittling or blaming

- Laugh together often and find joy in simple moments

- Keep each other’s hearts safe by being loyal, trustworthy, and transparent

- Serve and care for each other selflessly

- Focus on solutions rather than problems

- Always invest in learning about marriage, read, attend seminars, or seek counselling when needed

- Keep your marriage rooted in love, patience, and faith

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STELLAS COOKATHON LIST FROM MONDAY

Thank yo all for taking part in the cookathon yesterday..I enjoyed reading and learnt how to make oil stew.....I am sure that some other people learned as well....God bless!

1) BV Altuage - Palm oil stew

2) BV Beloved one - Chicken curry sauce

3) BV Poshscents - Vegetable sauce

4) BV Stella maris baby - Eguisi sauce

5) BV God's favor - Vegetable sauce

6) BV Mor - Vegetable sauce

7) BV Lora - Ofada sauce

8) BV Gloglo - Vegetable sauce

9) BV Mercybee - Rice sauce

10) BV Chinazaekpere - White rice and sauce

11) BV VelvetFire - Fish sauce

12) BV Golden - Scented stew with protein

13) BV Tianasworld - Catfish sauce

14) BV BJ ?? - Sauce for rice

15) BV Chika - Vegetable sauce

16) BV Adunni - Soft ponmo sauce

17) BV Neesolah - Pepper sauce

18) BV Medussa - Smoked fish & veggies sauce

19) BV Osundi - Fish vegetable sauce

20) BV Preety patience - Tomato chicken sauce

21) BV Talita - Red palm oil sauce

22) BV Miss H - Chicken sauce

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WEIRD FACTS

---Whether you think you can or you think you can't, you're right. 

---The best friendships tend to be with the people in which you can openly be weird with.

----Witzelsucht is a mental disorder that causes the sufferer to compulsively make inappropriate puns or jokes and tell pointless stories.

----Humans are unable to taste pure water, but it does have a taste.

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