FRIDAY IN HOUSE NEWS

 Hailings today!!!

FRIDAY MEMO

HAPPY UNBOXING DAY....I got plenty expensive gifts...My only sister in law gave me one kinda gift like this..LOL

This week is honestly confusing for me......

I cannot tell what days of the week it is, I thought today was Monday and was glad when i thought it was Saturday, was shocked to see its Friday and i have to get in house news ready...LOL

How is your holiday going?Good news all the way for us all in Jesus name....

Christmas has come and gone and we are now looking forward to the New year.........Are you? I am and i am totally grateful to God for everything.....I have few self induced low moments and i thank God for giving me wisdom......I pray that God also gives you all wisdom to handle stuff.......

All i feel like eating is Amala and ewedu soup with gbegiri and goat meat has refused to bath in its lifetime and has body odour.

Who had too much to eat on Christmas day? Who didn't get to eat anything?

If you didn't see your comment today or yesterday visiting certain recent drama, i deleted it......Both you hyping yourself and you dragging the hyping and you commenting to take sides, una no go see una comments again....lets move..I am no longer interested in the drama....

Bring more light hearted positive comment here..if you reply me quoting recent drama, you wont see your comment...

I wanna go to Tokyo next just to eat their food...I hear its so cool there and more  developed than most cities in the World....

Guys guys guys!!!!....I have started watching zeeone and all i can say is OH MY GOD!!!

Enjoy your day

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NOTORIOUS FOR JESUS
MARRIAGE PALAVA.

My friend is currently 32 and searching. At first, it was that she set a standard.
Her list reads; he must be handsome, dark, intelligent, tall, and working. The list seems like it is not a lot but it is a lot because I doubt there are lots of men that fit into the list. They would definitely check some of the boxes but not all.

I told her then that men are scarce and she needs to reduce her expectations but she said she wouldn't lower her standards.
Right now, no man is coming again, no boyfriend, no relationship, no nothing. She often calls me every night and cries. Honestly sometimes, I wish I would blurt out and say, "Didn't I tell you"?.
A good man may not tick all the boxes yet but maybe as time goes on.

When I married my husband, he owned a small provision shop as a graduate, but I remember asking severally if he owned the shop because if he is hardworking, the shop will grow. Today, he doesn't have the shop anymore but his luck has grown, he works from home and earns a reasonable income.

Recently, I can see from the way she talks that she has now learned her lessons. My friend is self employed and very skilled but I think that looking for a good husband can be hard if as a successful woman, you are looking for a man in the same range as yours. My humble opinion.

Some women set standards and meet exactly what they set standards for.....Methinks that the quality of men have dropped  drastically, especially in Nigeria , what you find is repackaged nonsense posing as adult men...LOL

I hope i no find trouble with this comment oh....

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INSIDE THE MIND OF A WOMAN GOING THROUGH MOTHERHOOD

Yesterday was Christmas, and it was the most relaxing and enjoyable Christmas I have had in ages. Once I decided on the menu, I prepped everything I was going to cook with ahead, and it really helped to save a lot of time and effort.

I still couldn’t eat since I did the cooking, but I had my backup meal. The day was so relaxing. I even went on a walk in the evening with my kids and siblings.

I am grateful for everything that I have experienced this year. I am excited and hopeful for the new year. Compliments of the season, everyone. I pray we experience peace like never before all through this season in Jesus' name.
( My kids are already asking me when is the next Christmas) ....I couldn’t stop laughing when they asked.

LOL...Tell them the next Christmas date will reveal itsef if they behave well...

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WEIRD FACTS

-----Men are five times more likely to be struck by lightning than women

----According to researchers, couples that are either too similar or too different are not likely to last very long.

----Cuddling literally kills depression, relieves anxiety, and strengthens the immune system.

----Being happy doesn’t mean that everything is perfect. It means you’ve decided to look beyond the imperfections.

-----Psychologists have found that whenever you’re in a bad mood, you can feel better just by forcing yourself to smile.

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YOUR VALUE

Sometimes your value isnt seen.

Until your absence is felt.

Sometimes your value isn’t fully understood while you’re still there. You show up, support others, and keep everything moving.

Over time that effort that you give everyone blends into the background. Not because it isn’t important, but because it becomes expected.

When things run smoothly, people don’t always stop to notice who’s making that possible. Your consistency can make your impact invisible. It’s only when you step away, when something doesn’t get done, when the support is missing ..... thats when people realize what you were carrying.

It can sting, especially if you’ve been waiting to feel appreciated. But it can also bring clarity. Your absence highlights what your presence provided. It shows that what you gave mattered, even if it was never acknowledged out loud.

And if your absence doesn’t seem to change much, that’s meaningful too.

It might be a sign that you’ve been giving more than you’re receiving, or been staying where your effort isn’t truly valued.

Not every place deserves the best of you.

Your worth isn’t measured by how quickly others recognize it. Sometimes recognition comes late. Sometimes it never comes at all. But that doesn’t erase the difference you made.

Sometimes stepping back isn’t giving up, but it’s allowing the truth of your value to surface on its own.

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FAMILY DYNAMICS

1. You may be connected by blood but not by thoughts
2. Your greatest lover may appear as your biggest critic

3. Sometimes you are envied for your luck with things
4. Some parents are more concerned about who is “getting it right”

5. Most black sheep has great potential
6. The death of one member can cripple the family structure

7. Old age brings clarity to both love and hate
8. Many children inherit enemies they never created

9. Most parents have a favorite child
10. Parents’ strictness is often understood later—protection or overreaction

11. Some mothers feel jealous when the father is loved more
12. Responsible first-borns carry the most mental weight

13. A functional family is one of the best support systems during crisis
14. Some parents see children as investments

15. The number of children has nothing to do with success rates
16. Exposure often helps families more than education

17. When the responsible first-born gets it right early, others often rise too
18. Friends know your flaws more than your family does

19. Parents can create love or rivalry among siblings
20. Parents lie too ( To protect sometimes )

21. Strict parents often raise sneaky children and excellen
22. Being free with kids is sometimes mistaken for carelessness and same way carelessness can be mistaken as being a free parent

23. Parents sometimes report you to your mentor thinking they are the better one
24. You envy “only child”, while “only child” envies those with siblings
25. Children easily inherit their parents’ insecurities

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