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From info, the guy has beaten her so well at home and left her. Not until the lady ran after him again and she began to receive second semester beating. I was so angry and decided to bounce on the guy.
I never knew someone else was also planning such. We began to separate them, and the guy matched the lady's head with his shoe. Omoh, you need to see how the guys there began to reign slap and punch on the guy. I was so so happy. He was made to feel the heat too.
The lady's friend was shouting at her saying "mo ti so fun e ko fi idiot yi le sugbon nkan ti o ma je o je o gbon". Maning, she has advised her friend to stop dating the woman beater but she won't listen due to what she is getting from the guy. The lady confirmed that, it wasn't the first, second or third time the guy has been beating her but her friend sees nothing wrong in it.
This situation is often referred to as an "abusive relationship" The lady might be staying due to various complex reasons like fear, financial dependence, emotional manipulation, or hope for change but are these reason enough to stay put in an abusive relationship? What if she is damaged physically and emotionally and at the end, the guy no kan marry her put for house?
Young ladies should do better and know what they want. You shouldn't settle for less all because of reasons that can end your life. I could remember when i was a full time teacher, one of the common topics I talked about on the assembly ground is Abusive Relationship. I make my students understand why it's important to respect opposite sex. I frown at any form of abuse.
Parents should teach their wards(especially male child) how to respect opposite sex and in the process of putting them through, whatever happens between you and your partner or whenever you and your husband/wife starts beating up each other, make sure it's not in their presence because children tend to learn the wrong thing faster than the good ones.
The lady's friend was shouting at her saying "mo ti so fun e ko fi idiot yi le sugbon nkan ti o ma je o je o gbon". Maning, she has advised her friend to stop dating the woman beater but she won't listen due to what she is getting from the guy. The lady confirmed that, it wasn't the first, second or third time the guy has been beating her but her friend sees nothing wrong in it.
This situation is often referred to as an "abusive relationship" The lady might be staying due to various complex reasons like fear, financial dependence, emotional manipulation, or hope for change but are these reason enough to stay put in an abusive relationship? What if she is damaged physically and emotionally and at the end, the guy no kan marry her put for house?
Young ladies should do better and know what they want. You shouldn't settle for less all because of reasons that can end your life. I could remember when i was a full time teacher, one of the common topics I talked about on the assembly ground is Abusive Relationship. I make my students understand why it's important to respect opposite sex. I frown at any form of abuse.
Parents should teach their wards(especially male child) how to respect opposite sex and in the process of putting them through, whatever happens between you and your partner or whenever you and your husband/wife starts beating up each other, make sure it's not in their presence because children tend to learn the wrong thing faster than the good ones.
African men have a reputation outside of the continent for being abusive, I didn’t even know this until I heard some friends speaking about it. Kicking a person, any person in the head is an abomination, moreover someone you are in a romantic relationship with. What a vile person. Thank goodness those men dealt with him seriously.
ReplyDeleteMen like that should just date other men. Let them fight who can match their strength.
Many women in relationships with abusive men in all likelihood grew up with an abusive father. This is why adults with a history of abuse in childhood must work ten times harder than others in selecting a partner, the choice to be a parent and any other delicate emotional relationships.
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ReplyDeleteStory of my life. reason I have decided to fight for people, because no one fought for me. Stella, pls I made a mistake, first comment. Delete pls. Thank you.
ReplyDeleteAll these men bashing posts are becoming tiring. They generally aren't even balanced. Go look at the researches: the number of unreported domestic violence cases are skewed against the men...the men don't report because of ego, societal norms and the funny fact that a lot of it isn't even considered by the men as Domestic Violence. Almost every man on this blog has been with someone who physically assaulted them ( grabbed clothings, had stuff thrown at them, shoved etc). If asked, they wouldn't list them as D.V because it wasn't kicks and punches. These are all clear cases of d.v.
ReplyDeleteGo look at the researches: the most reported cases of partner - partner violence is with LESBIAN COUPLES! These are females without the ego and testosterone 'taint' associated with males, yet the statistics Don't lie.
Domestic Violence is NOT a male based affair. It is a societal ill that shouldn't be gender categorised.
We're not yet ready to have a serious conversation on these issues because the Truth isn't something a lot of us will find palatable.
Oga report your own nau let us support you because you're clearly talking based on assumption, gossips and lies not with facts and figures.
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DeleteNot everyone lives off social media and gossip. There's something called Google, make use of it. I know you probably won't, so here's an excerpt from a study;
Life-time prevalence of IPV in LGB couples appeared to be similar to or higher than in heterosexual ones: 61.1% of bisexual women, 43.8% of lesbian women, 37.3% of bisexual men, and 26.0% of homosexual men experienced IPV during their life, while 5.0% of heterosexual women and 29.0% of heterosexual men experienced IPV. When episodes of severe violence were considered, prevalence was similar or higher for LGB adults (bisexual women: 49.3%; lesbian women: 29.4%; homosexual men: 16.4%) compared to heterosexual adults (heterosexual women: 23.6%; heterosexual men: 13.9%) (Breiding et al., 2013).
P.S- IPV refers to Intimate Partner Violence. That is the technical term for Domestic Violence.
Innalilahi 🙆
ReplyDeleteHmmm 🤔
Tomorrow she go still fall in
ReplyDeleteMy dear, you no talk lie o
DeleteEarly momo, she go begin knock him door. Hian.
These kind of girls are always stubborn. After you take your time to advise them, next thing they're running back into the arms of their abuser, calling it love
ReplyDeleteOne girl used to say that if your man beats you then he truly loves you 😳
That after giving her better beating, he later apologizes with gifts. I wept
Demons run this earth, and have been around longer than any of us, millennials versus our 70 years of life, if we get that much. Worst they never sleep and move in legions. They know how to get their work done, use human weaknesses to their advantage, confuse humans and make them think eating garbage from a dump is a glorious buffet. Anybody who is not spiritually anchored or love themselves and other people can be easily influenced by their whispers. The man who was crowned to have been the wisest to ever lived eventually did the most foolish of actions and fell deep into darkness. If the wise can be brought low how much more the unwise.
DeleteThe best thing we can do for a broken person is tell them their life is valuable and they are worthy of goodness, and give them love. It will help to reshape their selfview and be a healing balm for their soul. Only a broken person hang on to toxic love.
Well written 💯
ReplyDeleteI don't even understand some ladies honestly. Like I'll allow somebody be beating because we're in a relationship, God forbid. Me that like myself like this.
ReplyDeleteI used to have a friend her boyfriend used to panelbeat. When I asked her why she was still with him, she said she loved how he gbenshed her when they settled. So sometimes she deliberately do what will make him beat her. At that moment I knew she wasn't normal.
So it's the gbendhing that makes her go back?
DeleteHmmmm...dead body no dey gbensh o 😞
Pinky you have a good heart and I pray that God will bless you and your wife with wealth and twin boy and girl this year. Amen.
ReplyDeletePowerful amens 👏
DeletePinky, God will reward your kind heartedness 🤗
The guy doesn't love your friend and she's forcing the love. The sex is just to make up for the beating that's why he's performing extra. I pity your friend and her likes. She has no self worth and good self esteem.
ReplyDeletePinky which one is 2nd semester beating again 🤣🤣
ReplyDeleteSome women sef, don't know if they're cursed. Someone wants to kill you & you still stayed there. Dem do you?
Never put your personal safety at risk for people who don't value themselves.
ReplyDeleteJust in the past week, a man who tried to rescue someone trying to end it was ended by that person. In addition, someone separating a quarrelling couple has his life cut short. A woman who ended her cheating partner also ended the neighbour trying to prevent her. The piece of trash lady is still breathing.
People who have abandoned any sense of safety or civility are not going to prioritise your life and all your mourners will hear is sorry.
Naija carry first for beating women
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