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We came back to 9ja with my 3 kids from UK after spending 6 years because to get papers there was 0% despite that I gave birth to my kids in England.
My hubby went back to USA for more green pastures. I never lacked anything but I always missed him to the extent that I fall sick everytime and would reject food and would cry everyday because I was missing him.
He's my best friend, my small god and confidant.
I have families both from hubby and mine but they're not my friends to that extent of telling them everything about us but only to get things from us.
I didn't feel secure with them which was one of the reasons why my hubby decided we should lay a very good foundation for our own generation.
We fought spiritual battles( story for another day).
I was r£$tle$$ and couldn't help the situation in anyway than to accept. He left with faith and promised to return back to us within 2 years if he didn't get papers.
In the process, I entered menopause earlier. Hormonal imbalance became my playmate. Everything started affecting my body system as a woman but all glory to God. It ended in praise. He came back after 18 months with his papers and everything became testimonies.
We are all dual citizens now. My children are all in university here in USA.
It took a very strong sacrifice and a b!tt£r one if I must say but the question is that, is it worth suffering for? But I depended on the agreement between both of us.
Within me I believed, I was still much more better than some people and was indeed thankful to God because I already have kids to look after while some women had not given birth before their spouses travelled and they still keep their faith unto God which he will do one day .
If you wish to ask me any question, I'm here for you.
For those in my shoes , I wish your homes success in everything, always pray for your husband and in Jesus name all will be well.
OK so your husband got his papers less than two years of going to the US? How? What did he do to get it?That is so great.....
We have a very active BV who has refused to tell her story becos of trolling (May be she can do it as Anonymous)her husband left and the kids and travelled with promises to return over 10 years ago and she has not heard one word from him since then......His family keep telling her that they have not heard from him but they dont act like they lost a son...
So your husband returning to you and travelling back to the US with you all is a miracle indeed!
He probably married someone divorced and then filed for them
ReplyDeleteEven if this process, it takes much more than 18 months
DeleteWow
DeleteOh! Dear poster thank God for you
ReplyDeleteHope that God will do it to those that trust him for miracles too 🙏
you are so lucky that your husband came back to you, some will never come back to take their wife and children with then. May God continue to protect your family.
ReplyDeleteThank God it ended in praise. I'm happy for you and your family.
ReplyDeleteI'm curious on how he got permanent residency within 2 years too, because people dey hustle for 10 -15 years and still crickets.
ReplyDeleteI have a friend whose husband left for UK 2 years ago, looks from all indications he has started living with another woman for papers, without even having the decency to come clean to my friend. He was meant to be gone for only 3 months and come back if the chances of filing for his papers and getting approved look slim.
Humans will always be humans, you can't just trust people to be a 100% honest.
She sef wanted to do someone evil
DeleteYou know they mostly lie to the women that file for them
People think we are fools here, the end does not justify the means! This is why Trump and the UK are hard on Nigerians! Not a single intergrity in their bones and no, desperate times do not call for desparate measures!
DeleteMy friend's husband's case wasn't even this, he was born there in the 80s, and got i believe legal advice that he could reclaim citizenship by birth from the UK, so there was no dating someone else or anything like that in the mix.
DeleteBV who hasn't heard from her husband in 10yrs, that's a loooong time. His family know wsup, but want you to hold on to what isn't there. And that's a wicked thing to do.
ReplyDeleteBv DOOSHIMA Sorry
DeleteThank God for you.
ReplyDeleteMy heart breaks to learn that a husband has abandoned his wife and forgotten the existence of his children without explanation for 10 whole years. Just upped and left a whole family behind. She should register him as dead in Nigeria, I think after a certain number of years a spouse can register the other as deceased and be free of the marriage. Other thing she can do is to go the US consulate to have them investigate. In this time of ICE wahala, it would be the perfect time to put in a petition with the consulate, aura for aura. Abandoned wives are a story as old as time.
ReplyDeletePoster, prayers work wonder. All the best to you and your family.
My uncle left his wife for over 10years
ReplyDeleteHe had a younger brother everybody knew he was servicing his brothers wife
She didn’t get pregnant but she was good and they will always together at functions and events
When people advised her to leave she didn’t
10years after he came and Carried her
It worked for them
His brother is his onlyb sibling they are two
Eewwww, God forbids jagbajantis.
DeleteCongratulations poster. You are one of the lucky ones
ReplyDeleteVery happy for you guys
ReplyDeleteCongratulations poster. I'm glad it all worked out for you.
ReplyDeletePoster, do you mean green card or citizenship? 2 years is too small a time for you all to be citizens. Make una de talk things as e be abeg.
ReplyDeleteNot necessarily. I used to work for a company with an arm in the US and I know ppl who went there for work and part of the work agreement was that the company would process their visa, and as part of that they could bring their family with them. Companies are still able to go this route and help employees who are immigrants. I’m not sure if in the current immigration climate any company will want to, but many immigrants used this pathway to legally enter the US with their families.
DeleteI’m not sure how this person did it, but there are many ways to get a thing, it is not always only through illegalities that something rare can come about.
23:08, you are referring to H1B visa not citizenship.
DeleteDear poster. Please tell us how he did it oo. I have been here for years and I am home sick because my kids are back home. I think of packing up my things and leaving everyday but I have a special needs child who needs the medical attention he's getting here so I am stuck here. Pls help us oo
ReplyDeleteChaii!
DeleteMay GOD bless and answer your prayers 🙏
It is well with you 🤗
Am sure he did the marriage route, that was smooth . May God help everyone wives waiting for their papers to join their spouse.Waiting is usually the hardest ,,,,,
ReplyDeleteI'm happy that it ended in praise
ReplyDeleteHmmmm thank God it ended in praise
ReplyDeleteSo you people are not reading whe poster said "my hubby went back to the U.S.A"? Meaning before U.K the husband was in USA. He might have had a good chance there because he lived there before moving to the UK.
ReplyDeletePoster congratulations, my question would be how did you meet your spouse and the qualities to know he was the one, cos the trust you have for him is evident. Pls tell us women looking for good Godly spouse
ReplyDeleteThis is what we call FABUUU!!! POSTER WHAT YOU WROTE UP THERE IS NOT POSSIBLE, which papers did he get in 18months???
ReplyDeleteUnfortunately people who don’t know better will believe this lie. There’s no paper you are coming back from the US with in 18months, except conditional green card…. Conditional!
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