This is the shop my only brother opened for me 2 years ago. So I lost my job in 2022 and stayed in the house for almost 3 years without any serious job. For many times I begged my husband to borrow me money So I can open a drink shop because I noticed is one business many are not into in our area and is highly needed. My husband clearly told me he doesn't have money for such investment, but guess what.... he rented apartment for his side ch!ck that same year which I later found out.
In 2024 my brother came through for me support me and opened a shop for me. My husband wasn't so happy about my brother giving me money to open my shop. But to the glory of God my shop has been a blessing to me , 8 months in business I was able to open another branch making it two shop .
Doing last year I had acc!dent and need a su.rgêry. While in the sîĉk bed f!ght!ng for my life can you imagine my husband looked me in the eyes and was demanding for my ATM card pin in case I didn't survive my surg.ery.
When I refused he was creating w@r in the hospital and then say he wouldn't sign for the sur.gery until I drop my ATM pin. My life was at risk as bləəding was much the doctors were begging him as I don't even have the strength anymore. So i end up giving him a f@ke pin.
He then signed for my su.rgery and left only to came back after some hours sh0uting which made the doctors to refused him seeing me. To the glory of God I survived. But my husband refused to pay a kobo for the hospital bill. I single handle all the bills got discharged.
When I got home I met the highest sh0ck of my life this man has br0ke one of my shop keys and sold everything in it and disappeared. Luckily for me he has no idea of my other shop . Is over months now no one has heard from him and he never called to check on me. All this happened last year.
Just last week I got a call it was my husband he is begging for forgiveness as he is currently down with k!dney st0ne
I just bl0cked the number immediately.
What kind of dumb practice is it that a husband must give their authorization for a wife’s surgery. If you are free to think and can communicate clearly and understand everything then it you who should give authorization. Ridamndiculous.
ReplyDeleteSo this horseband wanted her money to pamper his sweethearts. Why his mistress cannot take care for his illness. They always philander, sling dyck up and down, then bring their sick bodies for the wife to mend back to health.
I also wonder why it's a must for husband or any other person to sign a consent agreement for a surgery, I signed my consent form for surgery last year by myself.
DeleteI wonder which kind of mushroom hospitals always insist on the husbands signing for their wives. I’ve had 4 major surgeries and 5 minor ones and I signed for myself on all occasions. Honestly, NMA should look into this rubbish and put an end to it!!!
DeleteIs it not the same thing with the issue of police report to treat victims. Time and time again, it has been said.... treat first..... save a life first but still hospitals will not adhere. There are so many laws that we refuse to adhere to.....
DeleteThere are good or pragmatic reasons why the Practice exists. For example, the man in the story and his type cry foul the most in sad hospital cases, and make all kinds of allegations against the hospitals. There are other reasons like presumed impaired capacity to give informed consent to the medical procedure, etc.
DeleteThe mid-course is that Doctors should use their discretion and best judgment in serious emergency where the required consent giver is unreasonably co-operative as in this post. And this is supported by a judicial decision of the Nigerian Supreme Court.
The problem here is that once a post or story is man-woman or husband-wife issue, most of you guys (mainly women and few "want-to be-seen-as-good" men) are biased, very biased in your comments.
@TheOfficiousYimu-nitte
15:20, there are no logical reasons for such a practice where the patient is lucid, can communicate and clearly understands what is happening. Obviously, if they are in a coma, cannot communicate and unaware of what is going on around them then their next of kin can give consent.
DeleteHospitals do surgery everyday on ppl without consent, so operating without consent is not even the main issue, it’s dignifying the personhood of an individual and granting them their autonomy and self determination, this is what is being stripped away when they seek consent from another party.
Na stone for him kidney go turn to David stone and land for him head
ReplyDeleteAmin Jesu Kristi
DeleteNo time to check time, you did very well he should go back to all those side hen so that they can take care of him..
ReplyDeleteThis is what we call household enemy. Madam mbok face front & don't ever answer him. Wicked man!
ReplyDeleteI don't understand. Do Nigerian hospitals still insist on securing the husband's authorisation before life saving surgery can be done? No now. Tell me we haven't gone back to the stone age.
ReplyDeleteSomething that she would have signed herself
DeleteSee wickedness!
ReplyDeleteDon't give him a dime..block him for life! He's wicked and very heartless.. Hope you are not one of the women that insult single girls? Shey dey will call this one marriage too? Enemy in disguise
ReplyDeleteWicked soul. Let his lover come to his rescue. 🙄🙄🙄
ReplyDeleteMadam poster yousef no try. So you had a life threatening emergency and you are waiting for an unwilling husband to foot the medical bills? That's not wise. Anyways, that man is an enemy. You are free to forgive him but don't welcome him back into your life. As per his health, he will be fine, kidney stones can be removed surgically or with quality herbal supplements.
ReplyDeleteThis is what happens when you marry your enemy
ReplyDeletehmmmmmm
ReplyDeleteblock him, his generation and village people. Make sure you do not listen to him at all because that man want you dead.
ReplyDeletePlease can Nigerian medical professionals educate women here about their rights concerning their health and obtaining a life saving care? Doesn’t the patient have right to make their own decisions when they have full capacity?. My mom signed for her own surgery when she her last babies, twins as my dad was away trips and there was no issue of who signs?. Was mandating husband to sign to ensure they have someone to pay for it?. Please help us and educate women so they know their right as a patient.
ReplyDeleteI like you for not asking us what you should do after narrating your story, some mumu people will still be asking us what should they do, that they're confused after telling us their story, you've already done well, but why are you still calling him your husband? I thought you should be addressing him as your ex-husband by now.
ReplyDeleteYou see that question "what should I do" that some mumu used to ask, I feel like seeing the person and giving hard knock on their heads. Thank God this one did not ask that.
DeleteGood She Block The Idiot Number
ReplyDeleteShe Should Stop Referring The Animal As Her Horsband ..
Hello iya Boys
I thought that once the patient is an adult and of sound mind, they can give consent to their own surgeries?? 🤔 🤔
ReplyDeleteGood one. He should remain blocked for life. Household enemy.
ReplyDeleteBy the time you sue that hospital madam, you will open 3 shops in one day.
ReplyDeleteIt's not enough to block a household enemy you can divorce.
Wicked husband.
ReplyDeleteThese online stories dont add up
ReplyDeleteTerrible husband. It is good that you blocked him.
ReplyDeleteI hope he is dead 🚶♀️ evil does not pay but some people still will not learn.
ReplyDeleteOmo, people dey see something for marriage o
ReplyDeleteThat man is very useless and wicked. Thank God you used your head. Don't allow him come close to you
ReplyDeleteWho you marry in life will either make or break you.
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