Its the start of a beautiful weekend hailings...
Hello to all una......
I no get much to yarn una today......
Yesterday i was interviewed on a radio station and it will be broadcast on Sunday...Iits a pidgin station and i was so excited to speak pidgin but i kept forgetting and mixing with English and they kept correcting me...
The Interviewer wanted me to talk about my husband to show that we are still together since I am always been told that i am no longer married....I just laughed and told them that I dont bring my real life on the social media, if you feel i am single, married or divorced na you sabi,,sebi na me dey back dey enjoy my guy for private...I no gree ander family related issues...hahahahahahahahahaha na today?????????????????????????
We move but we aint outside!
Valentine is loading and them go soon start with pepper dem posts
Is anyone selling Valentine hampers? you should start now r make it a quick temporary business oh...Do packs and take to big offices....You have enough time to do it......
You can also start Easter gifts packaging....
My fisherman soup has landed Dortmund and I am on my way to pick it up......Today i will eat from the buka stew but will be making Chilli corn carne for the boys..My hubby fasts on Fridays!!!
What are you up to this Weekend?
Enjoy the rest of the day!......And please post your adverts in the comment section how we usually do it here....
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NOTORIOUS FOR JESUS
Last week, my daughter sneaked into the kitchen and ate seasoning from the container. I had warned her many times, but she never listened. Frustrated, I reported her to my husband. He barely reacted and simply asked her to face the wall. Meanwhile, my husband and I had argued earlier that day. He wanted my support on an issue, and I firmly disagreed. Hence, I believe it was the reason he discarded my concern. I was expecting him to flog her since she feared cane.
Angry and hurt, I suddenly said I would flog our daughter for her behavior. To my surprise, he resisted me strongly. I asked him if it were her teacher who wanted to flog her for a misconduct, will he resist? Before I knew it, the argument escalated into a full-blown fight for the first time in nine years.
For three days, we kept malice and barely spoke. The laughter in our home disappeared. And the most concerning was that our daughter became withdrawn.
Last week, my daughter sneaked into the kitchen and ate seasoning from the container. I had warned her many times, but she never listened. Frustrated, I reported her to my husband. He barely reacted and simply asked her to face the wall. Meanwhile, my husband and I had argued earlier that day. He wanted my support on an issue, and I firmly disagreed. Hence, I believe it was the reason he discarded my concern. I was expecting him to flog her since she feared cane.
Angry and hurt, I suddenly said I would flog our daughter for her behavior. To my surprise, he resisted me strongly. I asked him if it were her teacher who wanted to flog her for a misconduct, will he resist? Before I knew it, the argument escalated into a full-blown fight for the first time in nine years.
For three days, we kept malice and barely spoke. The laughter in our home disappeared. And the most concerning was that our daughter became withdrawn.
One evening, she came to me with tears in her eyes. She said she was the reason Daddy and Mummy were fighting. In that moment, my anger melted. I realized my husband and I have been raising a good child who is not afraid to be accountable, admit her wrong and even apologize. I promised her we would reconcile and I will speak to her Dad when he returns. Coincidentally, my husband called me on phone that instant that we need to talk when he arrives. We had a conversation and we patched our differences, and happiness returned to our home.
Most spouses have quarrelled cos of kids nau...In fact its not a big deal, the big deal is when they cant find settlement after the disagreement.
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3 THINGS A WOMAN WILL SACRIFICE WHEN SHE TRULY LOVES YOU!
Any woman that truly loves you will always sacrifice these three things and if she doesn't then you need to Question the relationship.
- Her body
A woman who is emotionally connected to you will naturally submit her body not because you asked or begged or pressured her but because she wants to, if she freely, willingly gives herself to you without you forcing anything that's emotional connection . If she withholds her body and nothing ever flows naturally bro she's not connected to you like you think period
2. Her money
I am not saying she should be sponsoring everything in your life no but women are nurturers that is their nature , so if she loves you she will spend her own money on you from time to time , maybe she buys something because she remembered you need it, maybe she surprises you with a gift she knows you will like, women do not spend money on men they don't love that is a fact .
3. Her time
This is the major sacrifice a woman makes when she truly loves you . She will make time for you even when it's inconvenient , even when she's tired , even when she's busy . A woman in love finds a way not an excuse . All this I'm busy maybe next time , let me see bro . She's not just not into you but when she loves you , she will show up for you, so remember a woman who loves you will sacrifice her body, her money and her time . If she isn't giving any of these , she doesn't feel what you think she feels for you period
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MEN FACE TWO HARD CHOICES
As a man, you will face two hard choices in marriage.
To have time for your family, or to chase money to make the family comfortable.
Most men choose to chase money to take care of the home, and in the end, they lose connection with the home entirely.
They become absent in the lives of their children and lose the spark with their wives.
But the truth is this: you can have both.
You can chase money and still have a good family, and be present in the lives of your children.
Five practical ways a married man can chase money without losing his family.
1. Define “enough” clearly.
If money has no finish line, family will always come last. Know what you are chasing and when to slow down. You never truly finish making money.
2. Schedule family like business meetings.
If it is not on your calendar, it will be sacrificed. Dates, playtime, conversations. Protect them fiercely. Do not let work interfere with family time.
3. Be present, not just available.
Being at home while your mind is at work does not count. Phones down. Eyes up. Listen. Do not bring work home. When you are at home, be at home.
4. Let your spouse understand the season.
Some seasons demand grinding, others demand rest. Communicate clearly so money does not become a silent enemy. Let your spouse know the season you are in.
5. Remember why you started chasing money.
If wealth gives you a big house but a distant wife and lonely children, you missed the point. The aim of making money is to enjoy life with your family.
Money should serve the family.
The family should never be the price.
I hope every man takes note of this.
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Happy weekend Stella and fellow bvs.Thank God is Friday.
ReplyDelete“I was expecting him to flog her since she feared cane”
ReplyDeletePoster,meaning he always flogs her when she is wrong,while you do the reporting and on the long run;you end up being the “GOOD MOTHER” while her dad becomes the Villain right?
This is one manipulation act I still dont understand in most marriages;and many men keep falling for it in the past;then the kids grow and be more attached to their mum in old age;not knowing she was the one pushing everything..well,this would be a topic on a very good day here.
I don’t appreciate flogging any child at all;and if you as a mother need the “cane discipline” that much;do it yourself and stop reporting your kids to your husband..because we all above 18 know exactly what we are doing..
@MARTINS
Even me, I always wonder why women report their children to their father, instead of discipline the children by themselves if they make mistakes, because both of my parents were disciplinarians, nothing like waiting for the one before administering punishment, infact, while one was punishing you with cane or punishment, the other one would be putting pepper to encourage the punisher, nothing like this one would rescue me from the other one.
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Is it possible to make money and have time for the family. It is a dicey situation and only God will help MEN. I had a strong connection with my wife and my first child in our early years of marriage. For my second child I was most times on transit or away. I now had to use technology to make out time. I feel so much joy and then guilt looking into my second child eyes when I have to leave on Sunday again. I sometimes couldn't look at my wife when i am leaving. I thank my wife for playing a strong for role in my absent. Now we all together it better. Baba God now I need so much money and peace #billing nur dey finish. I have also joined in the shouting game #Family is everything
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