In a post on Instagram ,Toolz questioned why people often quietly struggle with continuing a relationship if the partner's parents don't like you? And what if your own family don't approve of your partner?.
Sharing her honest take, she stated that she would walk away if her partner's parents , especially his mum doesn't like her.
However, she noted that when it comes down to her own parents,she would try to make things work.
It's just never a good atmosphere when such happens.
ReplyDeleteWalk away walk away, how are you sure your MIL likes you? And not just pretending cause you come from a family with status???? I didn’t know my MIL was a big time bitch till I was married and pregnant. She hid her bad character very well. All her son’s wives don’t have anything to do with her. They even ran away from Nigeria with their husband and kids because of the chaos she was causing in their marriages. But nobody tell me her bad character before the marriage.
ReplyDeleteShe go de attack you de spread bad story about you among her kids and extended family members so they can all hate you. She calls her kids everyday to find out gossip about what their wife is doing and then start spreading gist and manufacturing stories. Imagine a rumor monger MIL!!!. Very terrible person that is not happy in her marriage so she encourage her children all sorts of bad things against their wives as motherly, experienced advise.
I have had to pry my husbands ears from her mouth and she does not like me. None of her DIL talk to her. Me and mama don’t talk at all anymore. Especially when I saw everything I told her naively to help me talk to hubby was turned and used against me so badly that it almost destroyed my marriage. I no send anybody o, I am here for my kids. If you have bad character, better display it well before the marriage so people can make decisions. If you pretend till the person give birth, omo we go finish ourselves there cause my kids are way more important than any mama . And I will go to war and destroy anyone so my kids can have their peace of mind and grow up happy in their father’s house.
She don de do am and get away with other wives, with me she jam agbako cause I no too gbadun like that. I rude wella. Mama go just carry hand for face, keep quiet de look when she come our house now. SMH. Very troublesome and treacherous woman. She tells everyone I don’t tolerate rubbish. Hahahahahah.
You will also reap what you sow in time. Wives always hating on mother in law.
DeleteAnon 14:39, you will also reap what you sow and your DIL’s will deal with you if you come and try to destroy their marriages. I don’t come from a family where my parents involve themselves in our marriage. All my SIL’s are very happy and na them de chase my mama sef with calls and gifts.
DeleteNo MIL on this earth because of that can get away with troubling me in my marriage because, we give our DILs peace of mind and space in their marriage. My MIL, everything she does to us have bounced back on her daughter’s heads. Their marriages have all crashed and some are unmarried over 45. So, like I said, I think you are wicked like my MIL and your DIL will deal with you to the point you will lose access of that your son.
You think it is ok to ruin another persons child life after they have had kids because you gave birth to what? Jesus? Na only you born pikin??? DIL also gave birth to her own and their interest will always come before yours. They are kids, they need love and protection and peace in their father’s house. Not a crazy MIL trying to destroy their lives with no boundaries. Rubbish.
Sometimes you don't know they don't like you until you are married. That's when their true colour shows.
ReplyDeleteTrue. Mine did not welcome any of her in-laws. Stopped speaking to her. Hope they get the message.
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ReplyDeleteToolz, me and you oo. I'd bounce as well. I can't deal and I protect my peace so jealously, I don't like anything threatening it abeg. I can't be fighting avoidable war
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