MONDAY IN HOUSE NEWS

 New week hailings!!!

MONDAY MEMO
Hey, It's a beautiful day, please enjoy the rest of the day.......

Now let me say something......This is for those threatening me at midnight with comments everytime i make a post about Obi that criticises him ...Una be jokers, I have deleted that post and this is the reason i avoid political posts and only post about the president when his media team mails Journalists......I enable comments on post concerning the president and his team does not make comments threatening my life or my blog life but i make one on Obi and it doesnt go down well with the obidixxts, they begin to threaten me...The one dropped yesterday, i know the person is based in the US....It is people like you that make it difficult to support that man ..I will never do any post concerning him again whether now, during the elections or after it..PLEASE NOTE THAT I SAID IT HERE:I WILL AVOID ALL POSTS THAT HAVE TO DO WITH HIM WHETHER HE BECOMES PRESIDENT OF NIGERIA OR HE CONTINUES GALLIVANTING SMOOTHLY.....It is draining for me....I don delete the post of yesterday so free me.....Its disgusting that you are always dropping comments that you are reporting my blog anytime there is a story on him here...It is good that you have reported cos it is you who will b shamed......Let me continue with others who like critical reports......

Please if anyone wants to react to the person i mentioned, dont type out his fullname cos i wont enable it..dont want him mentioned here again....tired of the serious threats...........

Let me drink Cappuccino to relax ojare!

Have a nice day and stay outta wahala way...

BV ENGR AYYUB FASTING GIVEAWAY

BV Engr Ayyub has come again....

He is one of the Giveaway recipients of this blog who never fails to come back during fasting period to help some people with what he has....
He wants to support four muslims and one Christian during this fasting period ahd he is giving 20k each

If you are a BV with an ID and you are fasting, Indicate in the comment section and i will reply you if i pick you..Please this is not a regular Blog giveaway so dont come to my inbox

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TEACHER LIFE

This one doesn’t involve the kids at all, but it’s too funny not to share.
Some weeks back, I attended a seminar with my Headmistress. She offered to drop me at my bus stop. As we were approaching, she suddenly slowed down, squinted, and parked.
“Is that not our school bus?” she asked.
I looked.
Same colour. Same everything.
Her face changed immediately.
“This time? Almost 6 pm? Did the bus develop a fault? Why didn’t anyone inform me?”
Before I could even respond, she was already calling the Head Driver, asking why a school bus was stranded with children inside.
We both got down and crossed the road.
As we got closer, it became very clear:
Those were not children in the bus.
Grown adults. One even chewing gum with confidence in the front seat.
The driver was at the door of the bus, loudly hustling for passengers.

A SCHOOL BUS....Chineke. The audacity.
The moment the driver saw the HM, his soul almost left his body.
“Mr S!” she shouted. “WHAT are you doing?!”
“Madam please…”
“Where are my children?!”
“I have dropped them, ma.”
“Where is the bus attendant?”
“I gave her money to go home, ma.”
At this point, the passengers started begging on his behalf.
“Madam abeg.”
“Madam forgive am.”
She turned to them and said, “Everybody should come down before I show you people crazy.”
She collected the key from him immediately and called the Head Driver.
When the Head Driver arrived, she handed him the keys, entered her car, and drove off.
That was the last time we saw Mr S.
This teacher-life eh sometimes you think you’ve seen it all… then a school bus starts doing commercial transport.

I felt so bad reading this...It was not a funny read at all...I wonder what has become of Mr S....She could have given him another chance...ONE LAST CHANCE!!!

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NOTORIOUS FOR JESUS

I have asked God several times why he allowed me access to the family who hired me as a tutor for their autistic son but I never find answers until recently.

I met the mother while I was job hunting and she was the heir to the multi million business that her family had.

She welcomed me and started talking about how she thinks I was a good fit for her son, however, she is careful for the kind of people she exposes her son to. She didn't tell me about her son's condition until I met him and discovered myself but I don't blame her, I assume she wasn't proud.

At first I was disappointed by her action because I expected her to be honest with me about her son's medical condition before inviting me over to her house. I felt deceived and coerced, Nevertheless, I decided to wave it.

We agreed on a fee and she traveled to America briefly. During the vacation, I was visiting to tutor the child. Oh the challenges! But the boy is a real definition of beautiful. He would whirl and twirl and I would run to hold him while breathing at top rate, he would wee on my dress (not on purpose) , screeches, suddenly resist sitting and roam around endlessly while I try to settle him but it just made me loved him more because it was my first time working with a neuro-divergent learner.

After a while, he recognised me and would wail once I was about to leave, all the while his mother still away. His mom returned and reneged on the amount we negotiated on the ground that I was too expensive. 

Hmmmm... She also instructed her personal assistant to waylay and verbally abuse me.
I have done many research after my episode with this family ended abruptly but it was until recently that God gave me an answer to my question: WHY? God told me, "I wanted you to learn compassion". Since then, My orientation about the people who have this conditions has changed and I show more empathy than judgement.

 Another sad read!!!

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WEIRD FACTS
----The Eiffel Tower shrinks by about six inches during the winter
--- Consuming more cheese and red wine can help reduce cognitive decline
---Golf was the first sport ever played on the moon
---Women live an average of five years longer than men

---- Two things define you: Your patience when you have nothing, and your attitude when you have everything.
----Social media is fake. Enjoy your real life.

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WHEN A MAN IS TERMED SELFISH

It’s selfish for a man to enter a woman’s world, get her pregnant, and then mistreat her when she’s at her most vulnerable.
Do you understand the pain she goes through?

Her body stretches, tears, bleeds. Her organs shift. Her hormones crash. Her brain chemistry changes overnight. One moment she’s glowing, the next she’s exhausted, aching, and staring in the mirror trying to recognize who she is.

Mentally, it can feel like she’s losing herself.
Some women experience such intense hormonal shifts that they feel disconnected, even from their own baby. Not because they don’t love the child, but because their nervous system is overwhelmed. They feel numb. Discombobulated. They can’t eat. They can’t sleep. They don’t recognize their new identity.

That is not weakness. That is transformation colliding with biology.
And that is where a real man steps in.

With emotional support when she feels broken.
Financial support so she can rest.
Spiritual support when she questions herself.
Physical support, cooking, cleaning, holding the baby so she can breathe.
Any male can create a child.
But a man protects the woman who carried his legacy.

If you can’t guard her in her most fragile season, you never deserved access to her body in the first place. They call me the king of simps, but in truth I’m the prophet of women! If your fathers and grandfathers didn’t teach you, I am!
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Understand What Women 'Actually' Notice

People don’t fall in love with surface details ; they fall for meaning.
And women, in particular, don’t just hear words ; they 'feel the intention behind' them
Most of what women pick up isn’t spoken… it’s perceived.
They are patterns of emotional intelligence and signal reading.
And the more you understand them, the more you communicate with clarity, not confusion.
Learn how to speak with presence, understand psychological signals, and raise your social radar.
Respect isn’t given by chance or by force — it’s built through presence.
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