TUESDAY IN HOUSE NEWS

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TUESDAY MEMO

Shout out to you my people......
I hope that your day is going on smoothly? Those of you fasting,are you fasting to lose weight or just fasting to fast? My fasting is from 7- 12noon ..Before i start i take a cup of zobo tea and that it.....I just had my dinner at 1.30pm...So til 7am tomorrow (Hahahahahahahahhahaahhaha if e reach your turn say u no go bite small chicken or biscuit along the line ooo).....Some of you have sudden weight gain and its not the 10 cups of rice at a sitting that you eat......   

 Its not the one paint bucket of eba that you swallow before the day is over after eating the rice.....What you are passing thru is weight gain cos pre-menopause..I am always amazed when you tell someone they are in premenopausal stage, they will that they are too young....Perimenopause is not the menopause itself ..Please woman read up, read up!!1...Men also do yourself a favour by reading up so that you can understand when her body and libido changes.....I should be a coach oh....I know so much and i didnt get to study medicine after all.

Enjoy the rest of your day.....

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READ AND HAVE SOME SENSE

If you dịe in an abusive relationship, whether as a man or woman, the only thing people will do is talk about it for a few days or a week. You will trend, and content creators will use you to boost their pages. That's all. Nobody truly gives a f**K about you, the children you left behind, the reason for your death, or wants to seek justice for you. They are only after the engagement and trending gist of the moment. After that, they jump to the next trend, and life continues.

That's not even the painful part. You might get to hear, while your corpse is still at the mortuary, that your partner was exchanging styles and body fluids with another.
The truth is, once you see married people having marital problems, go and do your research. In most cases, either of them already has a standby replacement or random lover they are engaging with sXxually. So, while you are dẹ́ad and yet to be buried, they are finding comfort in the arms of their standby lover. At that point, you are the least thing that matters to them. I once told a story about the man who went to marry his side chick even while his late wife was still at the mortuary.

After the controversies and your burial, give them less than 2 years. No matter how bad people will paint your partner to be, they will still see lots of people who will be willing to marry them, especially if it's a man with small change. They are either getting married to the standby lover they were knacking while having issues with you or they are getting random people to marry. If they have money, they pay few influencers, top security personnel, and the court to market them as good and clear their names.That's how your partner, whom they trended online as bad, will trend again as good. By then, people will start to accuse you as the bad one in the grave. Remember, a dead body can't talk. So, in order to be on the safe side, it's your civic responsibility to make sure that no marriage or relationship ends your life. It is more honorable to bear the tag of a divorcee than to bear "Late" on a burial poster.
Forget about what people will say. The same way they will trend you in death and move on under 7 days, that's how they will trend your divorce gist and move on within a few days. But this time, you are alive to tell your story yourself. It is the one who goes to battle and comes back alive to tell the story that is considered the Hero.
I am of the opinion that in marriage, once your peace, mental health, sanity, life, or well-being is being threatened without the person involved making any amendments, kindly quit. We are already living in a hard society. You don't want to add another stress to your life. If you like, stay there and fooool yourself under the tag of fighting to make your union work or say you are only staying because of your children. You can never keep or please a person who has already made up their mind that they don't want you.

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WEIRD FACTS
---- Bookkeeper and bookkeeping are the only words (without hyphenation) in the English language with three consecutive double letters

---- In Russia, it is illegal to tell kids that gay people exist.

---- “Horripilation” is another word for getting goosebumps.

----Silent and "Listen" are spelled with the same letters.

-----The key to happiness and success: Dream big, work hard, stay focused, and surround yourself with good people.

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TO ALL MEN WITH KIDS
To the fathers who walked away because the marriage failed.
To the men who confused leaving a woman with abandoning a child…
this is for you.
You don’t stop being a father because you stopped loving the mother.
Divorce is not a resignation letter from parenthood.
Times have changed.
Children are no longer blind, dumb, or easily manipulated.
They don’t need anyone to “turn them against you.”
Your absence already did the job.
While you’re busy rewriting history and playing victim,
your children are growing with memories you can’t edit.
Absence speaks louder than any excuse you’ll ever give.

While you were hiding, and starting over,
someone else was carrying the full weight of parenting alone.
Someone else was showing up every single day.
Children don’t need to be told who failed them.
They felt it when you didn’t call.
They saw it when you didn’t show up.
They understood it when excuses became a pattern.
Stop lying to yourself with
“They’ll understand when they’re older.”
Older is when it hurts the most, because that’s when clarity comes.
And please, trash that delusion of “Don’t worry, they’ll look for me later”
Bro… you might be waiting forever.
Children don’t look for titles.
They look for presence.
They don’t chase surnames.
They remember who showed up.
You can’t disappear for years and expect applause later.
Love delayed is still neglect.
Responsibility postponed is still abandonment.
One day, they won’t need explanations,
they’ll simply choose peace over people who chose themselves.
“They will look for me later ”
Looking for what exactly?
A stranger with a shared DNA?
Kids don’t go searching for people who chose distance.
They grow up and protect their peace.
You can’t vanish during the hard years
and expect access during the good ones.
You can’t abandon the process
and demand the reward.
Fatherhood doesn’t take breaks.
And absence is a decision, whether you admit it or not.
One day, your child will stop asking questions.
That silence that follows?
That’s not forgiveness.
That’s closure.

Do better while there’s still time.

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THINGS YOU SHOULD KNOW ONCE YOU CLOCK 40 YEARS OLD

1. Someone makes 10x more than you do in a 9-5 job because they have more "leverage" with their work.

2. Distraction is the greatest killer of success. It stunts and destroys your brain.

3. You shouldn't take advice from people who are not where you want to be in life.

4. No one is coming to save your problems. Your life's 100% your responsibility.

5. You don't need 100 self-help books, all you need is action and self discipline.

6. Unless you went to college to learn a specific skill (ie. doctor, engineer, lawyer), you can make more money in the next 90 days just learning sales.

7. No one cares about you. So stop being shy, go out and create your chances.

8. If you find someone smarter than you, work with them, don't compete.

9. Smoking has 0 benefit in your life. This habit will only slow your thinking and lower your focus.

10. Comfort is the worst addiction and cheap ticket to depression.

11. Don't tell people more than they need to know, respect your privacy.

12. Avoid alcohol at all cost. Nothing worse than losing your senses and acting a fool.

13. Keep your standards high and don't settle for something because it's available.

14. The family you create is more important than the family you come from.

15. Train yourself to take nothing personally to save yourself from 99.99% of mental problems.

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