STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
ADVICE NEEDED
Please before i start i beg that no one throws me any insults as i am not in that frame of mind to take any ....
I will change the details a bit in case anyone involved runs into this piece..
My cousins daughter lives with me, she is in her late 20's and dating a far older man...she only started living with me about a year ago but has been dating this man for about a year plus and off and on cos there are others....
He is in his late 60's and I am in my early 50's....
Please before i start i beg that no one throws me any insults as i am not in that frame of mind to take any ....
I will change the details a bit in case anyone involved runs into this piece..
My cousins daughter lives with me, she is in her late 20's and dating a far older man...she only started living with me about a year ago but has been dating this man for about a year plus and off and on cos there are others....
He is in his late 60's and I am in my early 50's....
He is doing very well financially and married with kids...His whole family do not live near him....His wife is expecting a co wife in at anytime and is ready....
I am doing very well but unmarried with a man i am seeing...I also do not have a child.
The lady living with me is sugar daddy crazy and has them in dozens but only allowed the richest one into my house..
The older man she is dating and I developed a spark which has been growing....She is presently not around and he has been frequenting my house to see me.....We have also done lots of deals together with her knowledge and all deals came out well....This man is a catch...very intelligent and smart...
We have been talking and i want to take my chances with him to make a baby whose future will be secure on both sides.......
I am not sorry to say this but rich is magnetted to its kind
He is on the same page with me.....I want to make my cousins daughter a money offer to leave him for me and concentrate on Others..
Is this a good idea?
He is on the same page with me.....I want to make my cousins daughter a money offer to leave him for me and concentrate on Others..
Is this a good idea?
If i don't do this respectfully with her, he wants to break it off and that might sour things.....I don't want that ......
I have been talking with his wife and she is excited about me coming in as co- wife and she gave me her reasons which i cant disclose here... Note that they are not Muslims.
Sometimes we choose people who compliment us over that crazy love feeling that withers with time....
Should i make the proposal or allow him break up with her?
I have been talking with his wife and she is excited about me coming in as co- wife and she gave me her reasons which i cant disclose here... Note that they are not Muslims.
Sometimes we choose people who compliment us over that crazy love feeling that withers with time....
Should i make the proposal or allow him break up with her?
WOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOW.......what an understanding wife? Or she already knows he is a loose pant and will end up with another woman?
Anyway your way is OK and for someone who allegedly has longer throat, she will definitely jump at your offer.
I like how you dont wanna sneak behind her .
My bad advice to you would be to go ahead with the man, he is far too old for her and whatever understanding they have will not stand.
Just have a one on one with her ....And if she agrees and later goes around telling people that you stole her man,deny it and have her arrested for defamation of character...lol
Good luck to all involved. Since the first wife is in agreement, you are good to go.
ReplyDeleteThe complicated relationships that exists these days pass power ooo. Elbow grease to una. Me, I like peace and simplicity and I don face my God. Poster will you be fine if after becoming a baby mama he gets another woman? Because I think he will, as his type is hardly satisfied and he has enough money to sponsor whatever he wants. I like a man with integrity. A man without integrity may be intelligent, but he will use the intelligence to outsmart you and may not care about you or how you really feel. Just be aware of everything that could happen if you make up your mind to enter this arrangement, because you sound like someone that doesn't want stress.
DeleteSo, in other words you 'snatched' your cousin's daughter sugar daddy, and you wanna be a babymama. Ok. Wehdone.
ReplyDelete@Candy Not baby mama. 2nd wife.
DeletePlease let us know the outcome of your decision.
ReplyDeleteExactly update us on how everything go later
DeleteWishing you good luck though 🤔
Poster please it's very important, update us ooo.
DeleteThis particular woman is all shades of a walking red flag you can imagine!
ReplyDeleteShe is a red billboard, red pant and everything red.
DeleteShe's red sea
DeleteThis is complicated, since you and your cousin's daughter see nothing wrong in the situationships you all are encountered in, whatever rock you people's boat.
ReplyDeleteUna just dey gbensh like merry-go-round, what's a 20 year old doing with loads of men? Thought you have your own man? All you should stay in one place my fren! 😏😒..
ReplyDeleteKelvin Dat Edo Boi...
They are all bunch of shameless people
DeleteImagine, a grown azz 50+ yr old woman running toe to to with her promiscuous cousin who is in her 20s. Dipping it low and spreading it wide for whomever. Now one trickster senior citizen he-goat with his overworked peen will transfer her cousin's v@ginal fluid into her and that is ok because second wife title will be there, and what value is second wife status for a high achieving woman as she claims to be? Make it make sense. She don't even know if the cousin is treating infections or diseases from her lifestyle but this one wants to run in on it to get her own dose, bout pay her off to leave the man.
DeleteThe cousin will never stop sleeping with the man and he will never stop sleeping with her if she lays it on him, even if he marries you. Do you think your body can do the things a woman in her 20s easily can, and for a lascivious man he will always go for what is young and in its prime, because he can have it and get it easily. We've all seen this movie and we all know how it ends.
I agree with Eka. I see red everywhere. Things are really happening in our times.
DeleteYou need to ask yourself if God sent that man to you or the devil is the orchestrater of this connection. When you are able to answer that question you will know what to do. If you see godliness in where you are attempting to go then you are as blind as a bat. Man who knows the inner and outer regions of your cousin is what you desire because money is there. Enjoy your family ram if that is what you want, who am I to tell you otherwise.
ReplyDeleteGod ke?
DeleteFor your information the wife that is happily waiting for you marry her husband knows that her husband is trying to use you for money ritual and increase their wealth. Your little cousin just dodged a bullet
ReplyDeleteWhy are you decoding it for her? Let her continue with her shenanigans, she will soon learn. A man's wife is not fighting you over her man and you think it's normal
DeleteChimooo anon 15:33 isi gini 🙄
DeleteNa bitter truth ooo
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You already made up your mind ma'am. 🙄🙄🙄
ReplyDeleteYou expect a man in his late 60s to start all over and raise a new baby? This man probably has grandkids!!
ReplyDeleteI don't know if your ages are part of the details you've changed, but if not...old sperm and old eggs means an increased chance of the child being developmentally-challenged!
And just because the wife has accepted a co-wife situation does not mean his kids will.
You are trying to secure your child financially, but when he passes, what makes you think his kids will not legally battle yours?!
She's not reasoning beyond money and marriage lol. Her longer throat will soon tell her.
DeleteI really hope a lot of men are reading this blog.
DeleteMen: you are the prize. Work hard, make money, and set high standards for women who come around you.
Who are you warning not to insult you when you sat down and came up with this rubbish? It’s like you’re from a family of hot pants, both you and your cousin.
ReplyDeleteSo with all your riches, in 50 years you’ve been on earth, you never saw another rich man to ‘magnet’ if not the sugar daddy your little cousin brought to your house? Lmao! You’re here talking about rich attracts its kind. Mtchew!
As in ehn 😕
DeleteWhat kindof entanglement is this ?? Anywaysbe careful maam, to avoid any form of Insult from her. That lady is more like a daughter to you.
ReplyDeletedo what makes you happy. Just go ahead and speak with her and do not tell her the man is too old for her. Just offer her the money and allow her to make her choice. All the very best.
ReplyDeleteWishing you all the best
ReplyDeleteIf it’s a child you desire a child so much, you can get a soeem donor and go for ivf. It’s better than this entanglement with your cousin’s daughter and her man friend
ReplyDeleteIt's not about any child. Did you forget that she mentioned having a man of her own as well? It's all about money. She probably saw some gifts the cousin received and want her own. The ppl who I fear the most on this earth are the ones who believe their own lies.
DeleteGood luck oooo
ReplyDeleteHello iya Boys
Ahewo family . It runs in your family
ReplyDeleteIt's okay if you chose to be a second wife so long as you are not hurting the first wife. I won't judge you so long as you are not born again. But can't you get your own man for the baby stuff?
ReplyDeleteThat little cousin of your's though. What a tear tear eyed somebody.
Ok.wish you the best.I forseen big problem with the girl .Why don't you let her find out by herself.
ReplyDelete@STELLA ANOTHER OLORIBURUKU ADVICE
ReplyDeleteWhy did this make me laugh out loud?
DeleteI think you should take him
ReplyDeleteThis can get her out of this craziness
What a family of particular concern
ReplyDeleteThere is no need for this chronicle, your mind is made up
Madam poster drink water and gurgle in your mouth and then spit it out. Dat is how you should spit your cousin and that old man that wants to marry you out of your life. Who raised this kind of women God abeg oo. Please re-read what you wrote and advice yourself accordingly!
ReplyDeleteWhy don't I believe this story? Madam you're not saying the full truth. How can the wife be ok to have a co-wife? You're just saying this to make the situation look good
ReplyDeleteCongratulations.. your mind is already made up.. so do what pleases you.
ReplyDeleteDon't kill yourself because of a man.
ReplyDeleteThe man and his wife will.just kpai you slowly and the man will keep doing his thing with your cousin.
If you offer her money, she will collect, then consult her friends and continue the relationship behind your back.
Madam remove your hand from such sin , so that you will live long
One this 60+ plus man saw other mature rich ladies but chose your cousin probably cos of what she does in the other room and believe me, you can't compete with her neither would u satisfy him. She'll most probably take your money and they'll continue the gbensing. You said u are rich, why not go find an average younger man to spoil with ur money while he lavishes attention on u? Besides what makes u so sure u can get pregnant and birth healthily at your age? U can even adopt if it is children you want. Kindly think it through logically and all the best.
ReplyDeleteNa waoo...things dey happen ooo...
ReplyDeleteHmmm o ma ga o
ReplyDelete