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My closest friend and I are interested in the same person.W e are both acting as if its nothing but i know that he has slept with the two of us because i read a chat he sent to his friend whose also my friend.........(Story for another day)
My friend is acting weird and i can tell that he has poisoned the friendship
What do i do? Iam confused and very angry...
Why dont you just plain ask her if she is dating him?make you dey there dey waste your confusion and anger oh.....ask her!!!
Why dont you just plain ask her if she is dating him?make you dey there dey waste your confusion and anger oh.....ask her!!!
He told another friend that he has slept with the both of you, and you are still interested him. Just leave that guy
ReplyDeleteThis scraping of the barrel for dregs ain’t worth it! This is too much for young ladies in the prime of their youth and beauty, you are the prize. Just move on and let her have him if that is what she wants. She may be acting funny because she is pregnant or worst. Why not talk to your friend openly? If you both really want him and he is interested in you both like that then do co-wives and be at peace.
Delete@anonymous... who is what prize? 😆..@poster. Y'all are fulfilling the dudes fantasy. Friendships should be strong enough to withstand little trials like this. Both of you have already served the cookie, knowingly, on a platter. It's time to consider what's more important to you and live with your decision.
Delete@anonymous... who is what prize? 😆..@poster. Y'all are fulfilling the dudes fantasy. Friendships should be strong enough to withstand little trials like this. Both of you have already served the cookie, knowingly, on a platter. It's time to consider what's more important to you and live with your decision.
DeleteWhat kind of friendship is this,so both of you can't just discuss the guy even before he gets to f**k both of you.
ReplyDeleteJust ask her but the friendship can't remain the same again especially if she's in love with him..
If she's not in love with him then both of you can ask the guy together..
What kind of man sleeps with two friends and you’re saying two of you are interested in the same man.. Shey una dey okay like this ? The man don run una two street cos he def won’t be with either of you..
ReplyDeleteGod bless you for this comment 👍
DeleteWhy are you all assuming that the OP and friend are female? This may just be some gay dudes collecting pipe. The chronicle is all over the place.
ReplyDeleteNa only your comment make sense!
DeleteUna two no get sense. The nacker sent a chat to a mutual friend of his and the poster who is now acting weird. Wetin hard for this to understand?
DeleteWhat manner of low self esteem and lack of man is this
ReplyDeleteIn this world of over 3billion men
A passed around cup of cold tea is what you are beefing over
Na wah o, na you know how you na dey fall in love because it can never be me, you're still interested in a guy that's stringing two friends along, unless all of you are doing threesome or need him for just pleasure, I see no reason why you're interested in him.
ReplyDeleteThat man na real man. Please two of you are confused . what kinda relationship do you have that one guy dey control una emotions
ReplyDeletethe guy must be loaded for you two to be interested in him or what is special about him?
ReplyDeleteyou two should face front already.
Pls step aside and have some dignity.How are comfortable with him having slept with both of you?
ReplyDeleteMessy messy messy! Abeg extricate yourself from this hot mess.
ReplyDeleteThis got me laughing ..oh yeah?
ReplyDeleteYou're right. Oddly funny. Grown ladies acting confused,cos of a jerk.🙄🙄🙄
DeleteNaa Blogbrity I don’t think they are grown ladies
DeleteIt sounds like they are university girls in their late teens/early twenties
It’s usually kids that age who get entangled in these types of situations
Students in universities/other tertiary institutions tend to have a lot of time and energy for inconsequential relationships, situationships and knackings
This is because at that age, most of them are being taken care of by their parents
They don’t wake up early in the morning to go to work or to go and hustle
They don’t have kids they are providing and caring for
This gives them the time, energy and peace of mind to engage in meaningless entanglements
Anon@19:32
DeleteNo vex.
Your comment is not completely correct.
Grown working women and or hustling women do as in the post.
Somewhere in the post, poster is still talking in muted tones about another male friend – the chat receiver.
It is only polygamy women, esp. the losing women, generally 8.
On every other man-woman X matter, a woman should speak only for herself.
Even previous posts by men and women on this blog shows age has nothing to do with restraint or the lack of it on X affairs.
As said, no vex O.
He is not a good person. No. Leave him alone and walk away. Are you asking because you are interested in him? This one has cost you your friendship. What else are you willing to give up for him?
ReplyDeleteWalk away, your own will show up. One who will not play two friends.
Ladies have some dignity. Almost certain,he's a bit rich. The reason for this kind of foolishness. 😠😠😠
ReplyDeleteAsk your friend. Have a honest heart-to-heart with her. I’d advise you to leave the guy even if your friend is no longer interested, unless you don’t mind the community preek.
ReplyDeleteMan Done Finish Finish For This World Abi
ReplyDeleteThe Yeye Sombori Is Just Using The Both Of You Cos He Clearly Knows That You Both Stupidly Like Him ..
You Berra Give Ya Self Brain 🏃
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How did this even happen to the extent that both of you couldn't even confide in each other? Are you sure you guys are friends at all?
ReplyDeleteHmmmm
ReplyDeleteThe two of you should plan how to confront him if you still value your friendship. Whether he latter dates one of you or not, he'll still dump you two in the final analysis. You know why? In his head the two of you are cheap and prefers pr...ek than the loyalty of friendship you owe yourselves as girl friends, so you're not worth it. Please add Value to your Personhood and stop disgracing yourselves... mstweeeeee😔😔
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