THURSDAY IN HOUSE NEWS

  Hailings.....

THURSDAY MEMO

I greetilicious you all..

Soon the EU clock will change to one hour ahead of Nigeria,  it will happen this weekend. We will wake up and the day will be running ahead of us in a red satin dress!

BV Oki i saw all your complaints oh.. Be sure that you are on my mind.....

I remember all the giveaways that you missed on this Blog....Almost 5 or more, you never contacted me despite many pleas..I think you were making money then on Facebook? What happened? Cos you were hardly here and ported fully there...Did you run out of content? Hmmmm na only those wey don attempt am dey know how e be......Thinking and getting content beyond the normal news to engage people is not easy at all............I really dont like seeing people using their families to do content on their monetised pages, it shocks and pisses me off but hey its none of my bizness.....Otherwise i for advice you to use your baby as content... Oki you are on my mind and i know that God will never forget you in your time of need... Out of curiosity purposes, mind if i ask what you do for a living? Can i do you free advert to get you customers in case you are selling anything?

To the rest of you, have a nice day and dont troll....

Hugs hugs hugs to anyone who needs one!

Sandraaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa!!!! LOL

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MINDBLOWING WRITE UP

You see pastors, both male and female, saying things like: “If you’re tired, just open your legs. Even if you’re not in the mood, just…”
Then you go to certain corners of social media where women whose brain has been roasted by their religious leaders, and you hear things like: “I was menstruating and my husband wanted it, so I had to give it to him.” Or “I gave birth three days ago, and my husband wanted it, so I removed the comfort pad and gave it to him.” Do you people have bodies, or did they make you out of sticks?
You’ve debased yourselves so much that you think you’re nothing but food for a man simply because he married you. And then you hear those f00lish comments from pastors saying your body no longer belongs to you.
It is with words they confuse you, brainwash you, until you believe you no longer have a body because you’re married, even though blood still flows through your veins, and you have feelings, and you feel pain and joy. I want to correct this nonsense dehumanizing of women today.
YOU DO NOT OWE YOUR HUSBAND SXX!!!
You should only have sXx when your body desires it, when you feel joy in giving it.
If you’re unhappy, tired, or not in the mood, it is perfectly okay to say: “No, I am not in the mood.”
If you’re in your natural period, such as menstruation, you should take your time. After childbirth, you should heal, take time to heal your body, as long as you want, not even as long as doctor said, but as long as YOU want. 

A man who asks you for sXx just weeks after birth is not a man; he is an idiot and does not deserve your body.
YOUR BODY IS STILL VERY MUCH YOUR BODY, AND YOUR BODY ALONE.
What you signed at the altar is faithfulness, to give yourself to the person you chose to marry alone while still married. It is not an agreement for unilateral access to your body at every given time without permission.
Yes, your husband should ask you if you want it before he even removes his boxers.
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Hmmm issues like this has even caused divorce between couples..The way some men are wired is shocking........I cannot even give any woman advice on how or when to part her legs.......Some women are so low on self confidence and the man sees it and uses his weakness to terrorise them....Yes, Sxx is a weakness for some.

This goes both ways........I remember someone who forced her spouse into doing it to her two hours after she birthed her baby.....She said that it was the sweetest she had ever had....The man should have said NO.

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WOMEN READ THIS!!!
Marrying a man who has money is good,
but marrying a man with no emotional intelligence or no genuine interest in your wellbeing is a quiet tragedy.
Money can pay bills.
It can buy comfort, vacations, and status.
But it cannot listen to you, cannot protect your heart, cannot stand up for you when it matters, and cannot heal emotional wounds.
A man without emotional intelligence will:
• Dismiss your feelings
• Weaponize silence or anger
• Make you feel lonely in the same house
• Turn love into survival
A man without your best interest at heart will:
• Compete with you instead of supporting you
• Prioritize ego over peace
• Watch you struggle and call it “strength”
Wealth without empathy is empty.
Provision without protection is incomplete.
Marriage without emotional safety is exhausting.
So yes, money matters.
But character, empathy, and intentional love matter more.
Marry a man who sees you, values you, protects your heart,
and chooses you even when no one is watching.
That is real wealth.
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WEIRD FACT
In 1724, Maggie Dickson, a fishwife from Musselburgh, was hanged in Edinburgh’s Grassmarket after being convicted under the Concealment of Pregnancy Act.
She was pronounced dead, placed in a coffin, and the cart set off for her burial in Musselburgh.
On the way, the coffin began banging; when the lid was opened, Maggie was alive. Under Scots law, her sentence had already been carried out, so she could not be hanged again.
She lived another forty years, became a local celebrity known as “Half-hangit Maggie,” and died around 1765. The story has been retold for nearly 300 years and is still remembered in Edinburgh folklore.

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