Thursday In House News

Hailings......Almost Weekend!

Thursday Memo

I greet you all....

Now let me make this clear without sounding nasty or rude..

This is my Blog and my rules...enough of the nonsense please!

I had to take and back seat and observe some things and the deal breaker for me in when disrespect does not know when it should stop-LIKE STOP!!!

I will not tolerate shades anymore here.if you have a problem with any one please state it and do not cross the line by insulting other family members and if you start a shade and you are shaded back, let it end there!

No one is dragging anything with anyone but it becomes wickedness and witchcraft/wizard when you deliberately set out to chase away my blog visitor because you do not like them- good or bad i like them-their evil plots always chases dem away but i like them regardless...

What is so serious that you people will be fighting each other year in year out and will not let others breathe in the comment section.....?

I dont care how much you rant at me but let other people breathe.....

The one that said people are licking my axx too much here, thank you for the observation, can i borrow your own to give to them to lick? You think it is easy running a blog? You think it is easy getting people to visit a blog every day? you think it is easy getting them to lick axx?

God is the Boss here and not me!

I RETURN ALL GLORY; ALL WORSHIP ALL HONOUR AND ALL THANKS TO GOD FOR GIVING ME this blog to run and helping me impact lives; I thank him for giving me enough resources that some people will sit down and think of scamming me....

I thank you God for always showing me another hidden path when wicked people reading this blog come up with reason why i am not good enough.

Thank you for always turning limes hurled at me into Cappuccino!

Ignore anyone that you dont like, even if they reply to your comment.....

Thank you all for reading this......

Positive response without apportioning blames to anyone is welcome.....

If after reading this you choose to continue i hand you over to God....

Something cracked me up badly and still cracking me up...I asked ''why did you leave the Blog'' and someone replied that they left because i wasn't paying attention to them....Hahahahahahhahaha So if you don leave, who drop the comment?

All of you under anon, oya come out, we miss una.... stop hiding cos i have been seeing a lot of you under anon...come out ooooooooooooooooh

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 What Changes After He Gets You?”

Once a man gets what he wants too easily, sometimes the value changes in his eyes not because you are less, but because the chase is over.

But let’s be honest—it’s not about “sleeping with him” alone.
It’s about intention, mindset, and the kind of man he is.
Some men will sleep with you and still see a future.
Others already decided you were temporary before they even touched you.
So the real question isn’t:“How many slept with you and married you?”
It’s:“Was he ever planning to stay in the first place?”
Know your worth. Move with intention.
Not every connection deserves full access.
Let’s stop pretending…Some men don’t marry what they get too easily.

Not because the woman isn’t worthy but because they never came with serious intentions.
So before you give him access, ask yourself…
is he building with you, or just passing through?
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WEIRD FACTS

--- Five Things you can do to be happier: 1. Meditation 2. Smiling 3. Exercise 4. Help others 5. Follow your passion

--- NASA plans to probe deeper into Uranus in the 2030s.

-- Mentally talking to yourself during tasks is actually a good way to keep yourself focused.

-----An ugly personality can easily destroy a pretty face.

------: Having sarcastic friends will make you more creative. Sarcasm is considered a brain stimulant.

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A TWO PARENT HOME VERSUS A ONE PARENT HOME

A loving single-parent home will always be healthier than a toxic two-parent home because children don’t grow by counting parents, they grow by feeling the environment.
Two adults in a house mean nothing, if there is tension, silence, disrespect, and fear. A child may not understand what’s happening but they absorb it.
And what they absorb, they often become.
But one present, aware, healed, emotionally safe parent can change everything. Peace teaches better than chaos ever will.
It’s not about having two parents…
it’s about having a home that doesn’t wound the child living in it. So, please, stop encouraging people to stay in toxic relationships or marriages, JUST BECAUSE you believe children necessarily need “a two-parent home”.
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Hmmm this is really deep..A lot of damaged souls would have been saved today if a lot of mindsets can accept that one parent home also works for a child...

If you are reading this and allowing your child live through toxic marital scenes everyday, just know that it would even be better to train a lion than the monster that you are training.....

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This message is Especially for those people monitoring my life here on the Blog and other social media....

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OUR MOTHERS VERSUS TODAY'S WIVES

Our mothers were not easy to replace, but today's wives are so quick to be replaced, why? Yesterday, it was leadership and followership marital relationship, a marriage where children will say, 'my mother never shouted on my father', the man was seen as a leader, not a friend who could be disrespected.
In our time, civilization removes the arrangement, so husband and wife relate like friends, they run marriages with short lifespan, because equality brings competition.

 The divorce in our environment is caused by changing narrative, why will you substitute our rich religious and cultural upbringing for adulterated foreign considerations.
In general, research shows that divorce rates tend to be higher in urban (city) areas than in rural areas. Before some sisters enter into marriage, the other women that will replace them are the sidelines. Many women think the title 'wife', cooking, other room activity or cleaning is what makes them relevant in marriage, those things are replaceable.
Until you can be useful to a man's future, you can be replaced by another wife who understands his vision. A wife is not a friend, she is far more than that, she is a pillar behind the vision of a responsible man. While a friend can be replaced, a wife remains relevant throughout the lifetime of the man.
Always pay attention to details.
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Divorce happens and love also happens

This writeup just makes it look like a woman cannot survive without being called a mans wife..Abi na me no understand am?

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CONFUSING READ
The most expensive woman is one who doesn't ask for your money. She won't need you to pay her bills or fund her lifestyle. She already does those things by herself.
She's operating on a level far above needing a man to pay for her hair or nails. She's grown to a level where she needs things that cost more than money.
Things like loyalty. Respect. Open communication. Reciprocity.
Brothers, since the time women got the freedom to self-determine, the game has changed. For the first time in history, the world is witnessing a generation of women who don't need to outsource survival or trade off the bare minimum for marriage.
Now, women have the power to negotiate for love itself because they have options.
Now they need a man who can meet them eye to eye. Someone to match their energy and level of investment.
She wants premium things like emotional stability and masculine presence.
She's the most loaded helper you could ever meet because she'll help you at home and away. But her standards are different as well.
She'll help you build a home and also a career. She's all round. A wife, a mother, a worker, a companion in every sphere of life. But her price is far above those who only need your money and a house.
She wants leadership. Friendship. Companionship. A real soul to soul connection.
To find her is a bigger luck than striking gold. But she'll also need you to level up and play a different game.
She'll make you the envy of other men. But she'll also shape your character more than anything else you have encountered.

If you're up to the challenge, welcome to your golden years. And congratulations.
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This write up looks OK at first but it is one that actually gaslights a woman into not accepting that she wants money from a man......This is a Naija mans mindset cos even oyibo dey give their women...Their society teaches everyone to be independent and no have entitlement mentality in any friendship or relationship but check out this lame writeup written definitely by a naija man.....

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3 TYPES OF MEN WOMEN FIND HARD TO WALK AWAY FROM

1. The “Problem Solver” Man
He shows up when it matters and Fixes things, supports her, stands in the gap…
Even when love is shaking,
it’s hard to leave someone who always comes through.

2. The “Soft Life Sponsor” Man
He may not be perfect… but he provides comfort
Bills handled, surprises, care, enjoyment…
Walking away from him feels like walking away from peace of mind

3. The “Emotional Safe Place” Man
He listens. He understands. He makes her feel seen.
With him, she can be her full self without fear.
Leaving him? Feels like losing home.
Sometimes it’s not love that makes it hard to leave…
it’s what the person consistently does for you.
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Number two is the best cos you can never find a man with all three qualities...

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