Wednesday In House News

 Midweek Hailings!

WEDNESDY MEMO

How everybody dey?Se o wapa?I am busy dragging igbese and also trying to obtain someone, both are not easy, people dont like to return what they collect and i dont have energy to chase...let me concentrate on positive energy and ignore the oni gbese....Mscheeeeeeeeew!!!
So let me address something.......If anyone has dated anyone on this Blog and it didnt work out, how is it a crime?why do some people go under anon to think they are spilling?And cos some dated and married doesnt make dem better than the one that didnt marry.....There is a time and place for everyone....what is even worse is marrying someone not meant for you cos you are desperate....

Let people and stop calling Candy and Sandra's names and leaving out the men..:That shows its a lady doing the calling out...Be a sister, not a snake...

I stopped STELLAS SINGLES MINGLE cos of too many scams and ritual kpai-ing but if you are interested in any BV, please contact me inbox and i will make the connection.....Gossip news, love, rumour mongering, marriage and babies et al, all join for here...

Live and let live or LEAVE and let live....

Sandra my madam even if you don date 100 men, you will find love OK?Candy you too,A lucky man should find you soon cos you are too beautiful nah.....

Make una help me beg annon wey dem no send message to stop the dragging....I suspect who it is but wont mention names cos I am not too sure.

Have a beautiful sunnylicious day.

Hugs

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NO DOG PHOTO TODAY

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FROM TUESDAY CHRONICLE POSTER

Thanks for posting, Stella, and God bless everyone for their input especially those who understood where I was coming from and knew it wasn’t about the specific amount of money she asked for, but how it came across as entitlement to me. I appreciate you.
To clarify once again, the woman is a widow. Her late husband was our family car repairer, and I have known her for years now.
I don’t mind opening a shop for her because, personally, I don’t like it when someone keeps coming to me all the time. However, I have been in countless situations where I thought helping “once and for all” would bring relief to both me and them… but some still came back to ask for help.

 You start to feel like they think if you can assist, you definitely have more from where that came from, so they don’t even want to detach fully. That’s the reason I sometimes give in this manner, for my peace of mind.
Have you ever supported someone for years, then one day they tell you they want to buy a car for an Uber business, and you happily send the money thinking you would finally be relieved, only for the wife to deliver two weeks later, and they buy a cow for the naming ceremony? And without even asking where the cow came from, they started explaining that it was a gift from someone. Then, a few months later, they start asking for money again, and the Uber business? Non-existent!
I know the grace of God is key but you can set someone up all you want, yet If they haven't developed discipline, structure, accountability and delayed gratification, there's nothing else you can do.
That said, I am willing to have a conversation with her about setting up a business that can sustain her without creating a cycle of dependence, especially considering she does not have a formal education. Thank you.

You are so nice and i can feel that you have a lot of empathy towards people but my dear,you need to stop letting people ''UMMU'' you.

Discuss a business with her but please block her after that so that she wont be able to reach you for some years...You see that ''She does not have a formal education ''is why she will keep coming back.......

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NOTORIOUS FOR JESUS
A lady on my friend list once shared a story that made me reflect deeply on tribal preferences in Nigeria. According to her, the guy, a Yoruba man who was working in the creative industry approached her about marriage at a time when he was still struggling to rise above a heavy burden of debt.

Interestingly, she had never seen him as a romantic partner. To her, he felt more like a brother. They talked often, laughed, and shared deep conversations about life, faith, and their careers.
So when he suddenly asked to be with her long-term, she was completely taken by surprise. She hadn’t imagined such a possibility. But he kept pleading and assured her he was serious. To show he meant what he said, he even involved his pastor. Despite the fact that she was four years older than him, he remained determined.
Eventually, she agreed to give the relationship a chance. But convincing her own people wasn’t easy either. Some of them were not comfortable with the idea of her marrying a Yoruba man.

After some time, however, they decided to support her choice if that was truly what she wanted.
As they began planning for the future, one of the first things she insisted on was that he clear his debts. Fortunately, he did so quickly because he was working with a PR and advertising company. Things seemed to be moving forward. She even helped him secure the apartment they planned to live in after their marriage.

She stood by him through the stress of dealing with agents and landlords until the apartment was finally released, since they had presented themselves as a couple.
Then something unexpected happened.

 At the beginning of 2021, he called her on the phone and ended the relationship. The reason was his mother. 

When he travelled to Ibadan to tell her about the woman he wanted to marry, she strongly refused, insisting her son would never marry an Igbo woman. She asked him to choose between her and the woman.
Ironically, the woman later said that if he had spoken to her first, she would have advised him to listen to his mother. She would never want to come between a man and his mother.
What bothered her most was not even the breakup itself, but the fact that he ended everything over the phone instead of speaking to her face-to-face after all they had been through together.

Still, she didn’t allow the experience to make her bitter. She said her heart never stopped loving, and she never developed hatred toward the Yoruba tribe. In fact, she joked that she might still end up marrying a Yoruba man one day.

 If that ever happens, she says he must call her “Ife” and “Aya Oba.”
What do you think about tribal preference in marriage?

I have an Uncle who insisted all his kids must marry from our tribe and they all did....I think inter-tribal marriages are so beautiful..I would have loved to be an Igbo mans wife, i love everything about their tradition and how they treat wives..I like Nwuyedi thingy and all

However i think inter racial marriages are the best....I am in one and its the best thing that ever happened to me....The beauty of it all is second to none!

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ALERT FROM WEDNESDAY SPONTANEOUS POST ABOUT CONTENT CREATORS ON SOCIAL MEDIA

My people,stop giving content creators that film pity contents money. It's all scam , in fact the latest scam now.you see any content creator that films pitiable lifestyle like, poor environment,poor cooking,poor business,pity tales , never give them money.these people are as not as poor as they portray.they just want to rail on the kindness and vulnerability of Nigerians.

They sell that pity to you to buy and start giving them money and when they see it doesn't work, they'll make a video saying an angel gifted them something whereas are things they bought for themselves so you too can be moved to gift them too.all is psychological scam.

I just found out some one that lives in a fancy apartment but rented a face me I face you very dilapidated room in a slum just to use to shoot her contents, which after shooting like several videos a day she goes back to her real apartment.

You can't afford crayfish in your meal but can buy shooting equipments plus heavy data. Its been working for them but thank God people are opening their eyes.

 know someone that has used pity content to build a house and still doing the pity content.local 419....

Imagine the nonsense!!!

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WEIRD FACTS
---- Drinking a cup of coffee before working out can help burn fat cells more quickly.
---- The best revenge is to move on, get over it, and continue to succeed. Never give someone the satisfaction of watching you suffer.
--- Blood donors in Sweden are sent a text message every time their blood is used to save a life.
----Being alone weakens your body. Having friends strengthens your body....HOW?
---- Respect people who find time in their schedule to see you. Love people who never look at their schedule when you need them.

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3 Powerful Ways to Manage Your Money (No Matter Your Income)

Money doesn’t disappear… it is mismanaged.
If you truly want financial peace, start with these 3 simple habits:

1. Know Where Your Money Goes
Stop guessing. Start budgeting.
When you control your money, your money stops controlling you.

2. Save First, Spend Later
Don’t wait to “have extra” before saving. Even small savings today can rescue you tomorrow.

3. Avoid Unnecessary Debt
Not everything you want is worth going broke for. Debt reduces your freedom, discipline increases it.

Remember:
It’s not about how much you earn… it’s about how well you manage it.
Start small. Stay consistent. Watch your life change.
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