Stan responded: ''That is a very tough question to answer
Real love is enough, am not talking about "butterflies in your tummy"...not that
The love that Christ preached, the one that is agape, the love in Galatians 5:23, it's not built on flesh, it's genuine, the love that they say if they slap you on this side, you turn the other side, it's the one that's selfless, the one that's kind, forgives easily because the things that happen in marriage or relationship that don't make it work , the fact that you cannot forgive...Love is enough if it's the right love''
Interviewer: ''Can cheating be forgiven''?
Stan: ''Absolutely , I can forgive Cheating but we shall not continue in sinning that grace might be abound.
So you would not be stupid but if someone offends you or does something that's not right, that's what it is..........It is not a licence to be stupid".
The love that Christ preached, the one that is agape, the love in Galatians 5:23, it's not built on flesh, it's genuine, the love that they say if they slap you on this side, you turn the other side, it's the one that's selfless, the one that's kind, forgives easily because the things that happen in marriage or relationship that don't make it work , the fact that you cannot forgive...Love is enough if it's the right love''
Interviewer: ''Can cheating be forgiven''?
Stan: ''Absolutely , I can forgive Cheating but we shall not continue in sinning that grace might be abound.
So you would not be stupid but if someone offends you or does something that's not right, that's what it is..........It is not a licence to be stupid".
His choice, and I’ll respect that. But not for me.
ReplyDeleteThe very day you cheat on me is the very end of whatever we had. I’ve never tolerated it in a relationship, so why would I accept it in marriage?
The worst mistake you can make is to forgive and take back a cheating partner especially a woman. You’ll pay for it dearly.
You know why?
As a man, you should be afraid when your wife knows you’ve caught her cheating. She’ll do anything to conceal it. No woman wants the shame of being exposed for cheating, so she’ll do everything to keep you from exposing her, even if it means poisoning you. That’s why a man should be terrified when he finally catches his wife cheating. There’s a chance you won’t live long. In fact, you stopped existing to her from that minute.
To every man his own. Whatever decision you make about a cheating partner is on you.
©️ TEEJAY
A cheating wife or girlfriend that is caught is a dangerous women.
DeleteThe quickest you announce the infidelity to the world, the better for you.
No go form Real Man deh keep silent, she go just kpai or set you up.. immediately you catch am, you better begin shout am everywhere immediately and make sure you have evidence
Life is not one size
DeleteMany forgive and move right along happily
Anon 12:53,
DeleteIf you truly love your partner, you won’t cheat on him or her. When a woman cheats, she’s already checked out of the union mentally and emotionally.
King Dante,
The shouting got me laughing 😂 Actually, many men won’t shout because they can’t stomach the embarrassment it would cause them.
©️ TEEJAY
Una fit kpuff person with laufta .
DeleteTEEJAY~ {BIG TEE EZEGE}31 May 2026 at 14:32
DeleteAnon 12:53,
If you truly love your partner, you won’t cheat on him or her"
Teejay, everyone knows that the saying men say that "a man can love his wife and still cheat on her is a lie" and you just proved it with your comment as a man.
May God give you a faithful wife like yourself.
Me thinks he meant he can forgive if the person truly repents of it. No one above mistake and no sin to big to forgive from a person a proclaims God's love.
ReplyDeleteWhat he said: Once can be forgiven.
ReplyDeleteThat is if he is sincere, not looking to sell market. Because it is now clear his products are sold in a market patronized and controlled by those who want men who forgive cheating or serial cheating.
Alot of nigerian women cant understand this
ReplyDeleteOnce can be forgiven but serial cheating 🏃♀️ I think that’s what he is passing across and I agree with him
ReplyDeleteThe fear of a dry pocket resets some men's brain.
ReplyDeleteMen have done worse to have their pocket full.
Women have made it clear that creatives who do not accept their cheating is likely to go broke.
Every male creative wants to be a millionaire by accepting his wife's cheating.
He will accept wife's cheating.
Money changes all rules. Always.
Ode
DeleteTo each his own.. I can forgive my wife for other serious things but cheating, no way..the way I’m built, we are gon continuously have problems that will result in resentment..it can’t work
ReplyDeleteSdk men....i wont forgive a cheating girlfriend/ wife.
ReplyDeleteMe....why should a woman accept you the man when you cheat? What makes it different or any better if the gender changes.
Me ...I won't forgive a cheating girlfriend or wife BECAUSE I also won't cheat. Now that's a good excuse.
Some men can't relate,but he is actually speaking from his conviction as a Christ like man,.
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