Hmmmmmmm.....
STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
ADVICE NEEDED
Over the weekend, I visited my boyfriend and while we were watching a movie on his phone, he received a call from someone who whose name he saved as Blessing.
Over the weekend, I visited my boyfriend and while we were watching a movie on his phone, he received a call from someone who whose name he saved as Blessing.
During the conversation, my boyfriend used masculine pronouns to refer to Blessing, like Bobo, Guy LOL . which struck me as odd given the female voice I heard.
When the call ended, I asked him about the caller and he said she was just a friend and that I was over reacting. I questioned the inconsistency in his words and actions, pointing out that if there was nothing going on, he wouldn't have used masculine pronouns.
I then asked him to call her back to prove my suspicions wrong, but he refused. Left for me, I would never disrespect him like that as I don't even keep male friends or receive odd calls that would create rooms for disrespect to him.
What should I do?
You are probably the main chic..Most sidechics know immediately what to do if they call and their guy is with the wife or main chic....What you can do is watch if its a pattern with him but please avoid confrontations when you both are alone ooooooo.....so that he doesnt get angry and mistakeny kpai you...
You have not officially caught him but be watchful
Are you married? Did he make any vows to you? Abeg shift
ReplyDeleteAll these energy over a boyfriend? Do you lack love at home? Relax your beautiful head my dear, if he does anyhow dump him and move on to the next. Stop worrying your pretty head.
ReplyDeleteStella you are so dramatic eh, your mind dey far o, how you take reason this "kpai" now now??
ReplyDeletePoster your Bobo is a suspect and your feelings are right
She's right have you not been seeing how men have been kpaing women over minor issues
DeleteDon’t let him gaslight you
ReplyDeleteMove on
sabi you both are just dating, if you are not okay or don't trust him enough with his explanation. Just walk away.
ReplyDeleteIronically back in the day, there was a boy in my class whose name was Blessing( which was actually rare for a boy)... and so many more like that. Dont overthink it unless he give you reason to .
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