ENVIOUS FAMILY FRIEND
One time a family friend invited us for their birthday kids party and because I dressed my baby so fine to her kid's birthday party immediately she saw me and my baby she said ahh everyone is looking at my baby mind you my baby was only 9 months then suddenly she started making faces and stopped talking to me and till today we don't talk anymore.
After that party ,because my baby dressed well she refused to post her pictures on all the platforms she shared the pictures.
I have maintained my position since then. Now about two years later, the man of the family has reached out again that they have a child dedication coming up and we've been invited again.
I'm confused on whether to go again or not because I dress up my kids to taste for any outing.
Please reject the invite and tell him that you are already invited somewhere else...dont attend abeg vos people who are jealous can do anything oh!!!
She was angry because your baby was being admired by others. Abeg do not go anywhere. What nonsense.
ReplyDeleteDon't go before she poisons you and your baby. But people have time and I wonder always if we are in this same world.
ReplyDeleteThis happens to me all the time but I don’t care. It’s Damn if you do and damn if you don’t. If you don’t go they’ll say something, if you go with your kids dressed nicely, they’ll still talk. People will always look for something or someone to put the blame of their problems on..
ReplyDeleteDon't bother going.
ReplyDeletePlease don't go. Tell them you have another event that falls on the same day
ReplyDeleteIf you have to go for whatever reason, please dress your child(ren) as u would normally do.. if the woman wan kpai make she pkai
ReplyDeleteSIMPLE!!!
DeletePoster learn to use your tongue to count your teeth. Not every nonsense should be chronicle. Apply small adult common sense. If you dont have, apply small protective maternal sense. Becos it looks like you will die if you no go show off, or chop rice for the party. Long hiss.
ReplyDeleteI mean...!
DeleteIf you can send money why not. Wisdom is profitable to direct.
ReplyDeletePetty me will go and dress my child very fine again but won't eat or drink anything there..I will even laugh and greet everyone including her..
ReplyDeleteNobody can make me feel small...never,she should deal with her insecurities.
What if you or you child end up matching on the poison they planted on the ground. Show if kills my dear
DeletePeople like you allow pettiness over take your reasoning. In her opinion, the poster made her feel small. Understand the mental dynamics
DeleteIt is not compulsory that you must be there. Be wise as serpents and harmless as doves. That is my point. Good afternoon from here
ReplyDeleteShe has shown you who she truly is.....attend at your own peril.
ReplyDeleteDon't go where you are not appreciated.
ReplyDeleteLimit your association with those who see you as rivals
ReplyDeleteThank God for giving you discerning spirit. One thing is to have the lead ; but to follow the lead is another thing.
ReplyDeleteMust you go? If they employed either you or your hubby, then find a way to answer present; something like talking your hubby into going alone. If the above isn't the case, tell them you are so busy. You can still send birthday presents ahead.
ReplyDeleteMe I'll go and dress even better so she can kpai finally
ReplyDeleteAnd end up stepping on poison that is planted on the ground dey play. You think the woman doesn't have her second preparation this time it won't even be about just not posting pictures online she'll go a step above thst
DeleteWe are in a very very wicked world. It is not worth it at all. People like that won't mind going Xtra mile to get at you....they focus on your kid.
DeleteSo it is better to avoid certain things.
you should tell the man of the house that you people already have somewhere to go to but if you have a gift, just go ahead and send it. No need to visit a house you are not welcomed.
ReplyDeletePls don't expose your kids to the evil ones.
ReplyDeleteIf you have means of sending her gifts. Pls do so.
It's well..
The husband invited your family, It's no big deal. Go for the dedication, dress as you deem fit but don't be everywhere to show off your kid's dress sense and gain all the attention. Be at the event, stay in your spot, when you are done, leave quietly.
ReplyDeleteso you are not talking. And out of the blues, Oga invites you to a baby naming.
ReplyDeleteDo you have to go? When did you settle the ish that you want to go for a merry ??? Pls be careful.