Reading why she stopped mentoring people made me excalim ''This life'!!!''
During a ministration, Tope Alabi shared how her past efforts to support others ended in betrayal.
She said, she once housed and supported a singer and her family, even handling payments to ensure fairness. But things turned sour when the woman’s husband refused to play instruments for her, citing family tradition, and later revealed her private prayers to rivals.She that another artist she helped also turned against her, causing serious challenges. She said: “Different arrows were shot at me, but God rescued me and my family. That’s why I stopped mentoring.”
Ndi arrow. Ha abiakwa
ReplyDeleteI’ve stopped mentoring too because I always met with deep betrayals. Many people hate you even while benefiting from you because you are a constant reminder of what they wish they were.
ReplyDeleteSome even wonder, at times to your hearing, why you deserve what you have.
Give them bread, while teaching them how to bake theirs, but no, they want your own bakery that you’ve built over the years.
Very painful thing.
You are correct. Even in the career world they are there
DeleteVery well written. Many people hate you even while benefiting from you.
DeleteJesus is our example. You help because Christ commands us to do so and not because we are expecting anything from those we helped
Better rewards does not always come from those we helped rather God raises helpers for you when you need help too. .
@Zaram, it’s not a matter of expecting returns from them because the greatest rewarder is God Almighty. The matter is the deep rooted hatred you realise they have for you and the secret plot to destroy you; which makes you start wondering where you went wrong.
DeleteI believe it’s safer to help anonymously or from a distance.
I somewhat believe her because these gospel artiste I do not think most of them are actually gospel. The love of money has blinded thier eyes. I saw one with the daughter of one of these big churches and they both entered private jet. I was wondering what was happening.it is well, God knows who is who these end times. Religious deception is hitting us hard
ReplyDeleteWhat does she mean by family traditions? Her husband can't submit under a woman leader or what? Hmmm
ReplyDeleteHmmm 🤔🤔🤔
ReplyDeleteIt's well
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