What is their gain for treating someone elses child that way but protecting theirs?Dont ask me read on and add your experience if you were a victim.....or still one!!!
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''All of a sudden IGBO WOMEN are trying to debunk being wicked…. 90% of y’all are evilllllll.
I lived with my father’s cousin, I literally turned to bone…. I lived in fear, I was scared to eat or move my body, I woke up at 4am daily and slept at 1am the next day.
I was older than her kids but I get to pick the last when things are shared or I do not get a share at all, na why meat pie making Dey traumatize me, na that last flour wey bakers dey throw for pan wey I dey chop, I didn’t get to involve in treats, I don’t get to eat noodles with them, I also had to babysit.. my routine.
1. Wake up at 4 and prep them for school.
2. Take them to school and make sure to be home before 7:30 as she leaves for work.
3. Take care of the baby until she sleep
4. Clean everywhere, wash toilet, clean kitchen and start prepping lunch before they return.
5. Bathe the ones I can and allow the boys bath themselves.
6. Force them to eat and spend the rest of my evening making sure I shout and gather all the papers they tear because if she finds any on the floor when she returns, I go chop ceramic plate for head or body.
7. Prepare dinner, water for her bath, and the kids, make sure I eat after everyone has eaten, make sure the house is cleaned to the brim before I sleep at 1am.
8. Get someone (her first son about my age) not allow me sleep because he was molesting me.
(Me report ke? the day I summoned courage and told a mature neighbor that confronted her, I chop better beating wey blood pour eeeh, say I dey accuse her son) so I took the battle upon myself to fight the boy every night…. I literally sleep half sleep because of fear.
I still loved them, I still nurtured the baby, she was so healthy and didn’t like even her mom feeding her but me, at 6 months plus, she had started walking… she never fell ill….. I was super careful with her.
The baby dedication they did, I wasn’t allowed to come out, na one of the pikin sneak food come give me..
I had so many times the daughter took blame for my error in exchange for my Sunday meat and she never got punished.
I remember one time I was exhausted and the baby woke up and crawled out…. I nearly disappeared.
My sister came to visit me, cried when she set her eyes on me and swore never to leave me behind…. I felt like I was going to paradise because I couldn’t say I wanted to go and was praying she never leaves me, what if she didn’t take me away and I got beaten for saying I wanted to go???
I was accused of being possessed because I always smiled when I was being beaten to a pulp… no tears.
I was taken to a church for deliverance and pastor said I wasn’t possessed
This woman still had the guts to come to my village to request that I return, that I take good care of her kids…
Auntie MABEL, God will punish you shaaa.
#notodomesticvoilence #SayNoToViolence #storytime #trend #justice
I lived with my father’s cousin, I literally turned to bone…. I lived in fear, I was scared to eat or move my body, I woke up at 4am daily and slept at 1am the next day.
I was older than her kids but I get to pick the last when things are shared or I do not get a share at all, na why meat pie making Dey traumatize me, na that last flour wey bakers dey throw for pan wey I dey chop, I didn’t get to involve in treats, I don’t get to eat noodles with them, I also had to babysit.. my routine.
1. Wake up at 4 and prep them for school.
2. Take them to school and make sure to be home before 7:30 as she leaves for work.
3. Take care of the baby until she sleep
4. Clean everywhere, wash toilet, clean kitchen and start prepping lunch before they return.
5. Bathe the ones I can and allow the boys bath themselves.
6. Force them to eat and spend the rest of my evening making sure I shout and gather all the papers they tear because if she finds any on the floor when she returns, I go chop ceramic plate for head or body.
7. Prepare dinner, water for her bath, and the kids, make sure I eat after everyone has eaten, make sure the house is cleaned to the brim before I sleep at 1am.
8. Get someone (her first son about my age) not allow me sleep because he was molesting me.
(Me report ke? the day I summoned courage and told a mature neighbor that confronted her, I chop better beating wey blood pour eeeh, say I dey accuse her son) so I took the battle upon myself to fight the boy every night…. I literally sleep half sleep because of fear.
I still loved them, I still nurtured the baby, she was so healthy and didn’t like even her mom feeding her but me, at 6 months plus, she had started walking… she never fell ill….. I was super careful with her.
The baby dedication they did, I wasn’t allowed to come out, na one of the pikin sneak food come give me..
I had so many times the daughter took blame for my error in exchange for my Sunday meat and she never got punished.
I remember one time I was exhausted and the baby woke up and crawled out…. I nearly disappeared.
My sister came to visit me, cried when she set her eyes on me and swore never to leave me behind…. I felt like I was going to paradise because I couldn’t say I wanted to go and was praying she never leaves me, what if she didn’t take me away and I got beaten for saying I wanted to go???
I was accused of being possessed because I always smiled when I was being beaten to a pulp… no tears.
I was taken to a church for deliverance and pastor said I wasn’t possessed
This woman still had the guts to come to my village to request that I return, that I take good care of her kids…
Auntie MABEL, God will punish you shaaa.
#notodomesticvoilence #SayNoToViolence #storytime #trend #justice
Let me mind my business before I’m insulted and labeled a woman-hater.
ReplyDeleteStrolls away.....
©️ TEEJAY
No one should label you such name. You are the one that made it obvious you hate women, but you want to settle down with one. 🤡
DeleteU this boy
DeleteIt's not a secret you hate women
DeleteThis story as bad as it is cannot be a justification for an aging man that is refusing to settle down to explain why he is not married. It is only a weakling of a man or one that is inherently wicked that will allow his wife to maltreat another man's child that is living with him and his wife.
DeleteThere is no perfect woman just like there is no perfect man.
So, guy, just settle down so you won't be telling us how you got home to make soup and swallow for yourself as a single man at the age of 50.
There was a man in the house while all this happened. His role in protecting this innocent child was not worthy of reporting. He is also the father of the young little molester roaming rooms and not being pummeled for assaulting his inlaw at night. If it was a reasonable man, that son will require government permit to have an erec-shun the way he would be beaten by his father.
DeleteYou guys should stop this. It is not fair to him. Whatever he has please forgive him . TJ that has chronicles on action points with female folks. He his a good cook and know how to pamper women. Cut him some slack. He his a die hard lover boy. U take God beg una.
DeleteExcesscode, enough with this 'high service', defending up and down. When he goes about yarning thrash about female bvs, you don't caution him. Die hard lover boy my foot.
DeleteThe angels and saints on the blog will soon come out so who Are the abusers ,? Smh
ReplyDeleteAunty Mabel I join the poster in asking God to punish you wherever you are.
ReplyDeleteAmen
Delete'This woman still had the guts to come to my village to request that I return, that I take good care of her kids…'
ReplyDeleteThe stupid audacity!
Hahahahahahaha. She nor well. Just imagine the audacity.
DeleteYou nor cuss her out?
Lol 😅 Slutty baby, she no well true true. Dem for show her small shege there sef 😄
DeleteVery wicked soul, some of them will not allow the children living with them to attend proper school. Their own children will attend good schools but children staying with them will attend school then in Coker that is if they go regularly and must run back to continue where they stop.
DeleteIgbo women are very wicked. I am telling you! I do not befriend them.
ReplyDeleteI think that the misogyny in the culture makes them seek an outlet to release the pain they feel. I tried severally to befriend Igbos. Ah! I gave up women in my culture don't do certain things I saw amongst igbos. It is indeed a problem.
A church nearby recently rescued a boy who has suffered so much from his madam, Mama Chinemerem. If you see this child, only 9y/old & he was looking older & haggard 😓
ReplyDeleteI can tell you with my full chest that 90% of them are wicked.
ReplyDeleteI don't know how to type for long cus my hand get tired fast.
My own was my blood sister same mother different father
She doesn't beat but the house work wan finish my entire existence that now I can't do much in my own house.
Little chores like this, I'm tired and weak.
Abeg they are wicked. When I see them even in church how they maltreat and change house helps when, I pity those gals
Mostimes, living with someone and doing all the house chores is training on its own but over doing like this is will now turn to wickedness in high places
ReplyDeleteWhat stupid training?
DeleteAmosu they're here o
Delete15:30 read me well over doing it is wickedness in the high places
Deletebia 16:20 last time i checked you were here as the Amosu nah but you for use 🆔 so that anytime we see you we will know that you are from Amosu generation
F***off Glory! Go and train yourself!
DeleteNo wonder u resemble house geh.. the pple u lived use over training wound you mtchewww
Delete@ Glory, if you are a mother - i hope you are already training your children by making them do the jaki work, and if you are not yet one, plan to treat them like slaves when you give birth to them as na training wey you call am
DeleteUmu bingos
DeleteUmu efulefus
Keep talking rubbish
I Balancianga 🤓
Anon cussing on Glory do remember how bark of yam feels like that itching feeling. That are y'all are. Y are u guys twisted. No be everything go be fight na.
DeleteNwanyi iberibe
DeleteParents should train their children. There's no training in abuse. If you need help with house chores, employ an adult doing this job.
Deletei don't know what to say about women who treat other kids under their care like nothing. May God never allow our children to be under another person's care.
ReplyDeleteIt's so common among Igbos because they usually have plenty children that they cannot cater for as they grow up, they end up giving some out to go work as helps, they usually need someone to train some of their children for them because they don't control how they give birth. That's why we get to read this violence all the time.
ReplyDeleteI witnessed maltreatment of maids from a few Yoruba people too but it is not as much as Igbos because of the above reason. Ig o person will have between 5-8 children with no tangible job, they will be selling vegetables or corn and pear, husband will be working as driver or security guard.
This is really really sad. A tribe known for such wickedness, na God go help them.
ReplyDeleteMeanwhile, the little girl in my parents house is living in paradise. Her parents are complaining she's growing rapidly. She attends same school we all attended. Has her own room, toilet and bathroom.
The one with my sis inlaw has been adopted by my brother. She bears our surname.
You need to see how well they are being cared for. What does it take to show kindness and love to humans like you?
Any one with that spirit of maltreatment towards their help, relatives, etc, God will surely punish them.
What state are you from?
DeleteAwwww, God bless your brother & parents 🤗 That's how it should be 💕
DeleteThis women in this situation should be ashamed of themselves! Protecting your kids while treating that of others as trash is shameful. Wicked behaviour!
ReplyDeleteIt's well...
ReplyDeleteMy only problem now is they will never change/ learn. Just give it 2-3years another evil woman maltreating her house help will be on social media and she's gonna learn the hard way.
ReplyDeleteIt is still happening up till this very minute. Most Igbo women are wicked to their helps. I had my own experience with my uncle wife and others. What they can’t do to their children they do to another child without sympathy. Only few are good with others children.
DeleteNa wa ooooooo 💔
ReplyDeleteAnty Mabel no try at all 💔😔
Thank you!!! I see a lot of ladies on the blog insulting that woman and I just laugh.
ReplyDeleteThe same women who insulted me when I wrote in a chronicle sometime last year about how the house help in my in law's house was suffering and they all came at me insulting me , telling me to mind my business 🤣
I was even expecting them to tell me what to do but I got I insulted because the lady in question doing the evil deed to her house help was my SIL. They told me to mind my business and go to my husband's house now everyone is acting like an angel. Except Stella and one or two the rest are just hypocrites and two faced. Now I am seeing some of these bvs acting like an angel getting angry at the lady who was caught pretending to care and I just laugh
They have positioned their minds to believe that in-laws are evil and wicked forgetting they are one also. They believe wives are always innocent.
Delete17:47 The ones who feel that way are actually the evil and wicked ones, extremely hypocritical and filled with bias. If God blessed you with a good wife, thank him.
DeleteA man lent his brother one million the wife was squeezing face while the same husband will pay his wife's sisters brothers school fees buy a car for her parents and be giving them pocket money and it's okay. Like when he paid her bride price her family's responsibility was part of the package.
Anyways, I couldn't get a solution on what to do because
It was just very few that cared about the househelp but a lot of the bvs who commented were filled with unnecessary anger they were just insulting themselves not me. So I just went and told my brother when he got back and he said the few times he was around he noticed it too and he had told her countless times to not maltreat the househelp and he was surprised she hasn't changed. He told the house help to leave and told his wife she is never to get a househelp ever again.
I know a young man who never tells his wife what he is doing for his brother and his brothers children.
DeleteHe said his wife made her parents and siblings part of his financial responsibility and he owes her no explanation for what he does for his own brother. Besides his wife does not work or do any business and he earns his money by himself.
I met a child help with wounds all over their skull I asked and was told it's lapalapa looking sickly and malnourished. They sat on the floor I told them to get up and sit on the chair. It's later I sensed they were being abused .
ReplyDelete90 percent??? I guess I am amongst the 10 percent
ReplyDelete90 percent really???
Yes 90%
DeleteUna too wicked
Asa Odogwus that can't fight their Odogwus are finding outlet in maltreating people's children.I and a cousin stayed with someone but were never maltreated,maybe because she's my sister.Till tomorrow,we still send gifts on Mother's and Father's day.
ReplyDeleteInstead of abusing people's children,why not send them home to their parents,eh Asa Odogwu?
As for me I was treated like a slave in my own father's house, worse than what that lady went through..
ReplyDeleteBy who? my step mother who is Esan by the way, her wickedness knew no bounds..
But yes, this is a common thing amongst igbo women!
They are the coven members. Very toxic with bitter hearts.
ReplyDeleteHmmm...
ReplyDeleteI honestly agree with this poster.
90% of child maltreatment/abuse are from Igbo women.
I remember when I was teaching in a public school (Npower) many of the pupils are hoysehelps from Igbo families and I know what I saw.
There was this particular girl I took interest in because she was always coming to school with bruises. Infact there was a day that I got so angry and wanted to follow her home to see her guardian, the little girl started crying saying they will kill her for telling me. Infact stories plenty.
My fellow Igbo women should please do better, if you can't treat them like your own please leave them with their parents.
Why so wicked? I wonder if such people have Hearts at all.
ReplyDeleteThere's a maid in my compound, the woman she lives with is Yoruba. When they brought her, she was short , skinny and looked malnourished, within two years, she has grown up so much that I wonder what the woman gives her to eat. The woman has a little child, she said she needed someone to play with the child and do little things in the house. She takes care of the maid like her own child. She attends school and does not wear dirty or old clothes. Her skin is very clean too.
I wonder why their husbands ignore the violence being meted out to these young souls. If my wife ever gets a help, if she maltreats him or her, I will tell her to send the help back immediately.
God bless her
DeleteThe women and age group societies need to take on this scourge of wickedness against house helps. From August meeting and even at their Igwe's palaces, offenders and their husbands need to be fined and their houses cordoned off till they make restitution. Even the lazy parents using their children for hard labor and spending the children's sweat must pay a fine for exposing their kids to danger. If the returns from the child's suffering are taking and used to fatten and care for these children, it's not too much.
ReplyDeleteYes,Umuada needs to step in at this point
DeleteSeconded... All they do at women gatherings are gossips and exchange of words.. nothing meaningful
DeleteMine was my blood sister same mother same father, she took me to Lagos I saw hell.
ReplyDeleteNa wa oo . Sorry Dear
DeleteChild labour is a crime!
ReplyDeleteChild househelps should be banned in Nigeria
Jail time of 50-200 years for anyone found abusing a child in any form including child labour.
Federal Government should give free primary and secondary education, and breakfast to every pupil.
Free medicsre for children from infancy to 16 years old.
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WHAT IS THE FED. GOVT. USING ALL THE MONEY THEY BORROWED FOR ❓
Child labour is a crime!
ReplyDeleteChild househelps should be banned in Nigeria
Jail time of 50-200 years for anyone found abusing a child in any form including child labour.
Federal Government should give free primary and secondary education, and breakfast to every pupil.
Free medicsre for children from infancy to 16 years old.
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WHAT IS THE FED. GOVT. USING ALL THE MONEY THEY BORROWED FOR ❓
My own mother was extremely wicked she used to spray insecticide into the maid’s eyes, she used to beat the maid’s to stupor the only difference is she did it to me too I’ve had pepper grounded and put in my private parts, I’ve been flogged with house whips till my enter body was covered in scars,I was asked to sleep o the wet bathroom floor , I ran away at the age of 14 and the only reason my parents got me back was because I fainted on the road and when I was revived the only thing I could say was my father’s number, I tried to remind my mother the other day of how wicked she used to be when she was criticizing the viral video of the lady that left a child’s body in scars. Igbo women are very wicked and I can say this because I saw my mother do it to her maid’s and me her first daughter while y siblings were treated like royalty.
ReplyDelete😲😲😳 your birth mother? My goodness.Sorry Dear
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