ADVICE
A honest question........
Please when is the perfect time to ask your man for something or a favor, because we've been dating for 7 months now and I've not asked for anything, my birthday is still far. He just sends me one or two things and some cash occasionally.
I'm a student by the way.
Beggy beggy!!!!.......Must you ask him for anything? Must you????? Your birthday is approaching and so? What are you suing birthday to do? Do you know if he already planned something for you?
Ask him for a 2026 Lamborghini..na change naa.. it's nuffin 😂😆
ReplyDeleteMy dear, be flirty and tease him a lot but close your legs and both lips
DeleteUnlike Stella I can see he is the type to expect sex from the jump and perhaps ypu don dey give and there4expect some follow through after 7months of wife privileges. Some naaija men will just want it their way wiyhout pampering their girl cus for the selfish ones sex na oxygen. Hiss. Girl practice hoarding
Again as he no get SENSE tease him o, flirt, dance dress and talk dirrybut no handjob, blowjob, andclose both lips tightly.
Detest ppl taking others for granted thats cheating
Poster dont ask him, but deny him intimacy of any sort. Nonsense.
DeleteIgnore comments that want to gaslight you. 7 months of sfingy man gbenshing u aggressively, the man is wicked
Abeg feel free to ask him when you want to.
ReplyDeleteHungry girl spotted
DeleteCandy, what happened to you lately??
DeleteThere is no perfect time to ask favours from your boyfriend.
ReplyDeleteGo ahead and ask for what you want as long as it's not an outrageous favor.
Ask o, ask.
you should better look for a way to start making your own money so that you can take good care of yourself, stop depending on a man to take care of your need. You want to task him money, did you give him money to keep for you/ don't you have parents or relative who should take care of your needs?
ReplyDeleteWhen you ask a man for money for everything he will start disrespecting you or treat you anyhow. Learn to make your own money, look for ways to take care of your needs. Tell him what you want since your life is for a man to foot your bills. You are not even his wife yet you want to carry all you load on the young man, soon the guy man will delete you because of billing.
Hope you are a man with this your comment. If you are a woman, hope you also know that the free kpekus you are giving your boyfriend according to your comment you should wait for him to marry you before going down with him. Hope you are slow 100% taking care of your needs and the workaholic that you are. why do you need your parents and siblings to take care of her needs when you already said she should go and work and take care of her needs. Did she mention she was depending on the man? carry me wholesale na em you be
DeleteI doubt u have a functional brain
DeleteYou no get papa? Ask your papa ..Many of you are in relationships for the financial gain you can get. So you Dey give am time ni, you for kuku bill am on the first date. Elebi
ReplyDeleteMust you involved her papa? She asked a harmless question, if you dont have advice for her,read and pass,na because you no get respect for your papa na why you dey bring people papa for social media talk.
DeleteAsk away my dear, what is the worst thing that can happen, he gives your request, says no or tell you to hold on untill he can or even reach a compromise
ReplyDeleteMy dear ask away,
Many Nigerian women are into relationship because of material gain.
ReplyDeleteSo what?? I ask so effing what??
DeleteIf I may ask, the men get into relationship for what ??
Carry your hypocrisy and go and drink beer, taa but friday
My dear, a lot of men that have their shit together would rather not be in a relationship with a woman. Yall are selfish and always have an agenda. Also, what’s the point of being with one when you can have plenty? If na children, get a surrogate. There’s really no need to be stuck with one woman if you’re still going to taste others.
DeleteMy dear ask .lt will help you know him better.But not always.
ReplyDeleteMy dear ask for Bugatti jare na baby girl life we want🤗🤗
ReplyDeleteYour likes need to dead this mentaltiy. What happened to your parents or family member?! Is anything stopping from working to earn if the need is that important. What are you planning of giving in return? Your body or what?
ReplyDeleteI am sure you are asking this because you've viewed relationship as a means to meet your need.
He doesn't owe you anything, you both should cultivate the habit of gifting which a means to express love.
Felicity
"Seven months is long enough to be comfortable asking for help if you genuinely need it. You don't have to wait for your birthday or some 'perfect time.' Relationships are about communication, not mind-reading. That said, don't ask just to see if he loves you or to test him. If there's something you need and you trust him, bring it up naturally and respectfully. His response will tell you a lot.
ReplyDeleteAlso, from what you've said, he already sends you gifts and cash occasionally without being asked, which shows he's thoughtful. Focus less on when to ask and more on why you're asking. If the need is genuine, there's nothing wrong with speaking up."
He’s sending you money
ReplyDeleteDon’t spoil it by asking
Continues to express thanks
Poster he gives you money. Wetin again. Ask for his kidney. If u want connects or business it will be nice. Please set a standard for yourself
ReplyDeleteIol... fu ny
DeleteAll this mentality is what leads so many of you into abusive relationship
ReplyDeleteYou wrote that he sends you stuff and cash occasionally. What else do you want to ask for? His kidney?
ReplyDeleteTruly longer throat and beggy beggy rxnship. What are you giving or have given him since the 7month? Anyways na you know the kind of rxnship you guys share. Set a standard for yourself girl and discard this wrapped mentality.
ReplyDeleteDon't ask him. It's this your birthday that you'll use to know what he feels for you because love and giving go hand in hand
ReplyDeleteAlien mentality to me. I never learnt to beg for anything. Its a buddy relationship. We compete in spoilation.
ReplyDeleteNo be only beg... date your equal or near equal
Baby girl you don't need to beg. Just ask for the little help you need and let go.
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