FRIDAY IN HOUSE NEWS

 Weekend hailings...

FRIDAY MEMO....

We are experiencing heat wave in this part of Germany...Staying indoors protects you but the minute you go out------SUYA!!!......lol

I have postponed my shopping to tomorrow cos I am attending one of the Bambinos graduation ceremony.....

I am so excited cos there will lots of food...Oyibo food but really yummy..

Hugs and kisses to everyone.....

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XP SERIES

So yesterday inside in house news an anonymous made a sweet comment and ened that it did not have an ID and XP posted a link to show the person their ID , i clicked on the link and lo and behold it took me to the birthday post of disappeared BV Olori Isis...

So is XP accusing the annon of being olori Isis? what is her proof? Did she use her vertu device or a new one????

This is a new in house series and you have no right to insult the poster...She is hereby required to back up allegations with facts...I know say she no go fall ym hand........

Olori Isis, if it is indeed you, good to know that you are still here......There is Olori Isis and Olori orente right?Una well done.... TIGHT HUGS TO YOU ISIS....

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NOTORIOUS FOR JESUS'

That year, I was still in secondary school and our school had gone to the stadium for the annual inter-house sports competition. After the celebration, a few friends and I decided to trek home instead of using transport.
As we wandered through unfamiliar streets, we came across a storey building that many people in the area knew about. It was a place where Ahewos lived and met clients. The constant movement of men going in and out of the building made its purpose obvious even to us as teenagers.

What caught my attention was not the building itself but the reactions of the people around it. As the women walked past, some grown men openly called out to them, laughing and making remarks. Instead of ignoring the attention, the women responded with smiles and greetings, as though it was a normal part of their daily lives.
I remember feeling a deep sense of discomfort. At that age, I could not understand how they seemed so unbothered by the stares, comments, and public attention. In my young mind, I expected them to feel embarrassed, yet they carried themselves without hesitation, moving through the street as though they belonged there.
As we continued our walk, I found myself thinking about what I had seen. It was one of those moments that stayed with me long after the day ended. The noise of the stadium faded from memory, but that brief encounter remained vivid.
For the first time, I realized that people can become accustomed to situations that outsiders find shocking. 

What looked strange and uncomfortable to me appeared ordinary to them. I kept reflecting on how differently people live their lives and how easily circumstances can change personality. I genuinely feel that if life hadn't thrown them in that direction, they would be different.

I have seen asewos in this Abroad that are addicted to what they do....The life here offers them good things but what asewo life does for them is what they want......life presented them with different phases and they chose the sweetest...Imagine gbenshing for a living and some of them enjoy it oooooo

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TEACHER LIFE

Discussion Day (Open Day) was last week.Before the parents arrived, I gathered my class and begged them:
"Please behave yourselves today. Your parents are coming."
They all nodded like responsible citizens.Everything was going well.The children were looking beautiful in their cultural outfits. Parents were arriving. Discussions were going smoothly.
Then I started hearing: "But it's mine!" "It's mine!"
I turned around, gave them the usual teacher look, and continued speaking to a parent.
The next thing the parent said was: "Uhm... they're throwing punches."
I turned.And there they were.
Two tiny boys in senator suits exchanging blows like they had a long-standing family dispute .Chineke.
In front of parents. On Open Day. After I had begged them.I immediately left the discussion to separate the fight and started apologizing to the parent.
"Sorry ma, sorry ma."
The woman just looked at me and laughed. Then she said:
"I don't know how you do it, but God knows I knows I don't have this patience."
Honestly, it just takes the grace of God to pull through every school day.

Teachers need flowers everyday cos i dont know how they do it...When my Bambinos were small, sending them off to school every day was theraphy for me...I dont know how the teachers managed a lot of them in one room....Sometimes i see the chaos and look at the faces of the teachers, they are forever smiling.....One time when my Bambinos were in kindergarten, a new male teacher started and ran away after some months cos the kids broke down his mental health....lol

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My princess likes playing pretend cooking a lot. Most times she is with my pots and spoons in her corner cooking away and sometimes she gets in my way because she can go on for hours when I am cooking.

She likes to play pretend baking too.,
I started complaining because it was a tussle to get my things from her when I want to cook. Surprisingly my Instagram algorithm started showing post of little girls playing in their own children play kitchen, fully functional and modified for kids.
I mean, safe knives, blenders, mini microwaves, mini refrigerator, cake mixers, pots, spoons, mini electric cookers, toaster name it. Anything you can imagine in a kitchen, so I started to nurse the idea of getting her one and in pink too since that is her favourite colour.
I mapped out the area in the house I was going to do the setup and started searching online for everything I would need for her, when I found them and saw how much they cost I couldn’t believe my eyes. I am definitely not the target audience for this setup.
The total amount and cost of plumbing for her own functional kitchen would buy me a new set of very good pots and the Kenwood mixer I have been eyeing. I chuckle every time I remember the cost and have since stop complaining about her getting in my way when cooking. Instead I am making my current kitchen more adaptable for her.

Check for them on temu abeg, they are very cheap...i even saw some the day i ordered the wig cap..check for play kitchen for girls....

BTW Temu is sending me gifts...make e arrive first and i will talk about it.

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ABBREVIATIONS YOU DIDNT KNOW

POV – point of view  

BTW – by the way 

TBH – to be honest

BRB – be right back

IRL – in real life – 

SMH – shaking my head

ASAP – as soon as possible

DIY – do it yourself – ا

FAQ – frequently asked questions

AKA – also known as – 

FYI – for your information – 

LMK – let me know  

LOL – laughing out loud 

JK – just kidding  

IDC – I don’t care  

If you chat with me how in heavens name will i know JK means just kidding? na wah oh....

Please add more....

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9 LESSONS FOR LIVING A WISER LIFE 

‎1. A foolish person never changes.

2. If you try to be everyone's friend, you harm yourself.

‎3. You cannot build your happiness on the pain of others.

‎4. Your biggest enemy and critic is often yourself.

‎5. Live as if your old self is gone, and make the most of what remains.

‎6. When you cannot decide which path to take, choose the one that brings growth.

‎7. If you care too much about what others think, you will stay there prisoner.

‎8. True success is living with a peaceful mind.

‎9. Do not let what you cannot do stop you from what you can do.

‎copied 

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