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Saturday, June 13, 2026

Pinky's CORNER

I was at my shop on Friday morning when a friend passed by in a keke with his heavily pregnant wife. I was even joking with him, telling him that his wife should not be stressing herself, not knowing it was her due date. She got to the hospital and two hours later, I received a call that she had given birth to a bouncing baby boy. The joy was something else.


I went there to visit and then returned to my shop. The wife was discharged and got back home around 7 pm that same day. 
What a wonderful God. 
On Sunday, I went there again with another friend of mine who also knew him. We got there, played, cracked jokes and everyone was laughing. 

That Sunday, I did not attend church service. I later sent him a WhatsApp message asking for his account details, and I sent what I could afford to his  account. After that, he went inside to bring the blessed baby and handed him to the other guy. I was willing to carry the baby, but experience with people has taught me a lot, so I only played with him while he was still in the other guy’s arms. A few minutes later, we left his house and I went back home to rest.

Sadly, on Monday morning, the first call I received was from the same friend who went with me on Sunday. He told me that the baby had died. I was shocked. 
What happened, how did it happen, I kept asking. He said the mother explained that the baby had not been sucking well since Friday and the father was aware, but they thought he would pick up later. It was not until the middle of the night that they realised he had passed.

It is so painful, even though he is not their first child, because this could have been prevented. I see no reason why they rushed home from the hospital, and even if they insisted on going home, the baby should have been taken back to the hospital on Sunday afternoon when they noticed he was not sucking. But they ignorantly believed all was well.
I pray that no one will lose his or her child in Jesus’ name because the pain is deep.
Ire oooooooo.

25 comments:

  1. Pinky! Please stop! Do not blame the parents for the death of that baby! And I assume you have not made this statement in front of them! Not being able to suck in the early stages, is not a primary cause of death and perhaps experience may have also taught the parents, having had other children, that babies eventually pick-up, so please be sensitive with your words and do not judge the parents!

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    1. Don't mind the goody master. He acts like he is better than others. See him asking why they rushed home, as if the woman is the first to be discharged a day after delivery.

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  2. In saner climes the parents would have been prosecuted for parental negligence, the baby starved to death. What kind of carelessness is this. I’m riled up. Why were they even discharged in a day, didn’t the Dr notice the baby wasn’t sucking? Well it is well

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    1. Are you a doctor? How did you arrive at this conclusion. You're basing your assumption on a writeup by Pinky that's a third party and not the parent of the child . Well done

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    2. This your"in saner climes" statements always make me laugh. Research perinatal care in the west and elsewhere and you will be calmer.

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  3. Why are you blaming the parents? It is not strange when a baby refuses to suck. Learn to control your tongue, and the way you judge people. While at it, cleanse yourself. You have a lot of negativity around you.

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  4. The new mother and child shouldn't have been discharged before 48hrs after birth for close monitoring

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    1. And if the baby was not latching on in those 48hrs you think Dr's will be concerned?

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    2. Poster says she's not a first time mother. Maybe she has always been discharge a day after her child or children have always survived.

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  5. That’s not good enough
    Why blame them
    You don’t even have the full facts

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  6. A baby receiving nourishment is critical. In this country where I live, after the birth the nurse will get the mother to feed the child, observe and make their notes. A child who is not feeding will not be released, they will go to nicu.

    On a spiritual level, maybe the child changed its mind and decided it did not want to be a child of those parents🤷🏽‍♀️

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  7. You’re like I no carry the pikin
    No be me kill am
    Just being there you can do something

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  8. Pinky and sad news are 5 & 6!

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  9. Looks like all dem Anon are Cowards. What are you guys really scared of.

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  10. A lot of women go home same day and the children are 28-38 yrs old now

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  11. The Dr shouldn't have discharged them and who goes visiting a newborn so soon after birth???

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    1. This is true. That baby was not to have come into contact with practical strangers at such young of an age.

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    2. Cost may have been a factor for the couple. It may be better to attend a government hospital and elongate ones stay for at least 48 hours but even in the USA, may mothers hurry out of hospital within 36 hours or so due to their insurance limits to avoid paying extra.

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  12. Well maybe we all have different approached to things.... For all my 3 children i spent circa 5 days in the hospital checking to ensure all our vitals (me and baby) were fine. None of them suckled immediately. I gave them water and those expensive formula that mimic breast milk . The first is 27 and the last 23. God knows the best. The parents will surely blame themselves for this but what can one do? No one goes out of their way to kpai their own child.

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  13. It is pretty normal for babies not to latch on to breasts and feed for the first few days. My second child didn't take to breasts for close to a week. In the meantime though, we were giving him glucose in water. Just a pinch of glucose though. There have been cases where babies have refused to suck breasts entirely and other measures had to be adopted.

    Sudden Infant Death (SIDS) is one of the leading causes of infant mortality. And there is no known reason behind it.

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    1. Thank you for mentioning SIDS.

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  14. Pinky can never share a good news here. I don't know if it's only sad incident that happens in your area.

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  15. Sad news, no one really knows what happened! When I had my Baby, my breast milk didnt flow, the nurses were insisting I don't give my Baby formula, they tried forcing my breast milk out to no avail. I made sure I dischardged the next day, got home and fed my baby formula. Imagine Baby not eating for 12 hours all in the name of baby friendly, na me carry my pikin, no one go dictate for me.

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  16. What a sad story.. may God comfort them. Rip baby

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