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Is it possible to be in a marriage but be scared that one day your hubby will leave you based on some of his chats with women, and I can't question him because he said he is not emotionally available for me ..
He is nice to me but hides his phone and in love with another woman(I don't know their current situation now)as he removed my access to his phone when I discovered their long relationship since 2023.
You are scared that he will leave you one? The modafoking cheater has already left you!!!!...It is only his bullsheet that is left.....Since he says that he is emotionally unavailable,ignore him and everything that concerns him and face things that make you happy...I dont wanna say this but please pick yourself from that nonsense you call marriage and leave!!!
He has left you sis. He is only waiting for you to make the move so he can move on to his other woman.
ReplyDeleteIt not easy fi victims of emotional abuse to leave dem marriage. What demma need is empathy, comfort and emotional support.
DeleteWe country have a lotta poor people, especially women. Please offer dem comfort, offer dem sympathy and respek. Dem go through a lot.
Many women inna we country can't fit stay alone. Dem need a companion, dem need a man. Jah please provide and protect inna we women.
Oh Jah, guide and guard ya daughters from vampires, from blood suckers, from violent people, and from downpressors!
Selah!
What the heck are you still doing in that marriage? You just made me loose appetite for my lunch!
ReplyDeleteTaking a break cos this meal is too rich to go to waste.
My dear, please is your husband the gateway to heaven?
ReplyDeleteOr did He d I e and resurrect for you?
He clearly told you every and you are still there?
What level of low self esteem is this?
So you believe you will never get another in this life to want you or love you?
Why torture yourself this much?
Whatever you think is your issue that you feel you must kpai put there, aunty FIX IT and LEAVE.
A Man is clearly OPENLY CHEATING and you are here worried he might leave?
Chai. Who do you this thing?
Let me just tell you. HE WILL SURELY LEAVE. Either now or later.
Even your fears and insecurities can push him further away.
I can imagine you walking on egg shell everyday and probably seek his permission before you can breath.
Note that Fear can lead to h b p ooo. And h b p can lead to d e a t h.
This is what I said yesterday, and I will say it again: Married to you, but in love with another person, been in a relationship with her since 2023. Why are you doing this to yourself? He even said he is not emotionally available to you, and you are still saying he is nice. I am not sorry to say this, you are not sharp.
ReplyDeleteI typed but it got wiped out. Leave
ReplyDeleteHe has already left you.He doesn't love you.And you know.Stop acting ignorant.
ReplyDeleteOmo, what are you still doing with an emotional unavailable man. You just want your mental health to be damaged. How can you even focus on a man that don't have feelings for you. Just pray nothing serious happened to you because that man you just described up there will just abandon you.
ReplyDeleteWhat do you mean by he is nice but hides his phone from you? What is the meaning of nice?
ReplyDeleteThis is not good
ReplyDeleteSorry
Untill women stop using marriage as a poverty alleviation program, men will NEVER stop disrespecting them.
ReplyDeleteShe sounds like she has good money
ReplyDeleteShe’s probably scared of being divorced
Your feelings are understandable. From what you've shared, your fear isn't just insecurity,, it comes from constant broken trust. If he hides his phone, had a long-term relationship with another woman, and says he's not emotionally available for you, the man don leave you tay tay na. Na you dey marry yourself since.
ReplyDeleteYou deserve a marriage where you feel loved, secure, and able to ask questions without fear. Don't settle for a relationship where you're constantly anxious.
It is possible that one day, he will finally leave physically. But this is dependent on some variables : 1. If what is making him to fall more in love with that woman continues to be positive, he might one day leave. If the other woman is not attached to any spouse, he might one day leave. If he still has the means to live with the other woman, provides her material needs, he might leave.
ReplyDeleteI feel you didn't disclose much about why he is not emotionally available for you. Did you hurt him?
Can you please provide more details.