Happy Friday hailings!
FRIDAY MEMO
It is a beautiful day and i am still in that good mood talked about yesterday.....
Am i living rent free in your head? I hope its good thoughts you have of me? Cos the thing about hating someone who doesn't know you is that you are definitely wasting your time...Some of the anonymouses who drop hate comments here for me, do i know you? nah, i dont know you and i will never know you....Isnt that a waste of your hate? It applies to everything else in life.....
Some of you waste time doing negative things when there are a lot of good things out there to do....The energy is negative when it can be positive!
Some people didn't wake up today, some will not wake up tomorrow...You are still breathing and wasting your breathe on hating people...Tufiakwa.
You can drop all the hate comments, you want, i read them and laugh and delete....I move on fast but guess what? Hurt people, HURT PEOPLE!!!
Free yourself from hate and move on...I will not stop preaching and its not cos I am looking for anyone's friendship, Its my ministry and that is why God always tests me by bringing very wicked people my way to see if i will preach love after they stab me.
Some of you were jobless, clueless and useless when i had already started my work as an Agbero Journalist and now you want to try and mess up my name, my work, my sweat with your forking lies and stinking, arrogant cow dung behaviour? God go shock you...
I work up in a very good mood, was enabling comments midnight and saw some comments that made me realise some people are living in prisons that cant make them sleep cos they badly wanna see me hurt, they badly wanna break me but it aint happening....I may be light skinned from my albino grandma but honey, black dont crack.....MAY GOD HEAL YOU, honestly!
BV Omotola i know you begged me to stop replying those trolls but i cant, the only thing i wont do is curse them again....preaching through writing is my Ministry and my inner voice is telling me to keep addressing them until they flee or change...
Some of you dont like these my writeups and the drama here but excuse me, its part of the fun and part of what life dishes to some..
The only thing i can assure you is that the days of toxic comments here are gone.
If by any chance you see any typo in this writeup, please dont correct me, use your eyes to correct and move on.
Is this a rant? no, I wont give anyone the power to take me to anger boulevard ever again cos i have realised what no one else has...LOL!!!
Have a great Friday and see you in the amebo post at night....
US based Glam granny gigi, i know you will reply me on whatsapp..Maami please dont worry yourself nnaaaaaaaaa....
The face of an Intentional kind woman!!!!...Hahahahahahaahhha I just remembered that actor i posed that said his nose is like aiconditioner...hahahahahahahaha wetin my own be? fan?
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INSIDE THE MIND OF A WOMAN GOING THROUGH MOTHERHOOD
I love playing in the rain, my kids do too, at the first sound of the rain, they run out to play. I love hearing them squeal and laugh out in joy while they play.
I am usually waiting for them inside with hot cocoa, hot noodles and a warm bath. I would have loved to join them more often but if I do, I won’t be able to make sure all they need to be warm is ready , so I delight in watching them.
Recently my social media timelines has been filled with people being struck by lightening , its scary, the death and even tales of those who survived and the health issues they have to deal with for life has left me so scared of playing in the rain.
The constant weather notification on my phone reminding me of possible thunderstorms daily is feeding the fear.
For now my kids and I are banned from playing in the rain, they were initially sad about it, but they are getting over with it.
I plan to get an outdoor shower system, so we can just simulate rainfall on sunny days. Till then we will be indoors when its raining.
Hmmm I love rain a lot but i love to watch it fall..I even beg people when they say its raining to send me videos....Watching rain fall makes my day, it gives me Joy to see water coming down..I am one of those people who can smell rain hours before it falls..I dont know how i know but theres something i smell, its like fresh water....I love rain but i can never forget that one of my beautiful cousin was struck down by lightening when it was raining .....
So when planes are flying and there is thunder and lightening, how do they do? cos i always think of this oh...
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TWO GIVERS IN A RELATIONSHIPWhen two givers enter a healthy relationship, something powerful can happen:
Both people feel seen, valued, and supported.
Instead of asking, "What can I get from this relationship?" they ask, "How can I contribute to it?" This creates a cycle of generosity, appreciation, and trust.
However, there is an important catch:
Healthy givers don't just give—they also know how to receive.
If both people constantly sacrifice their own needs, avoid asking for help, or compete to be the "strong one," resentment and burnout can develop.
A healthy relationship between two givers looks like this:
1. They support each other's growth.
2. They communicate their needs honestly.
3. They appreciate each other's efforts.
4. They don't keep score.
5. They give freely, not to earn love.
6. They allow themselves to receive as well as give.
7. They solve problems as a team.
8. They create emotional safety for each other.
REAL TAKE!
"When two takers enter a relationship, they fight over who gets more. When a giver and a taker enter a relationship, one often gets drained. But when two healthy givers enter a relationship, both people win. They serve, support, and appreciate each other without keeping score. That's where trust grows, love deepens, and connection thrives."
BE GUIDED.
#copied
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DO NOT MARRY BECAUSE OTHERS ARE MARRYING OH
It is better to be single and happy than to be married and miserable."
Marriage is a beautiful institution, but it should never be entered because of pressure, age, loneliness, or the fear of what people will say.
A peaceful single life is far better than living every day in a relationship filled with pain, regret, disrespect, and unhappiness.
Being single is not a curse. It is a season of growth, self-discovery, purpose, and preparation. Use this time to build yourself, strengthen your faith, pursue your dreams, and become the best version of yourself.
The right relationship should bring peace, support, love, understanding, and mutual respect—not constant tears, fear, and emotional stress.
Never rush into marriage just because others are getting married. Your journey is unique. Wait for the right person, the right time, and God's direction.
Remember: Happiness is not found in your relationship status; it is found in having peace within yourself and living a life of purpose.
Choose peace over pressure. Choose wisdom over haste. Choose happiness over misery.
If you agree, drop a and share this message with someone who needs to hear it today.
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When you choose someone to build a life with, don't only look at how they make you feel.
ReplyDeleteLook at how they communicate when things get hard. How they treat you when they're tired. How they handle pressure, disappointment, responsibility, and change. Because attraction can begin a story, but character is what has to live inside it. Their habits will become part of your days. Their reactions will shape the atmosphere of your home. Their way of seeing life will either bring you peace or slowly take it from you.
You're not just choosing someone for the beautiful moments. You're choosing someone for the ordinary days, the difficult seasons, the decisions, the silence, the future. Love matters. But the person you build with matters even more.
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DeleteWhile we are in the Season of Genital Meet and Greet.
ReplyDeleteThe Season of High Pen#le Mil#age.
Men Should Learn to Respect Women when they say NO. Because they can tell you they gave you consent for Pent#ation not Ejac#lation.
Many are not aware that while s#xual activity is ongoing and the Lady at any point in time Says No, Stop or withdraw Consent.
If you as the Guy continues to Pene#rate.
It is legally considered 'Grape'... Oh! Yes.. it is.
That's Sexual Assault.
Consent during coi#us has to be Ongoing, Clear and Voluntary.
Saying "YES" at the start doesn't mean "YES" to everything or the whole thing.
NO at any point means stop immediately..
Continuing after consent is withdrawn is LEGALLY and ETHICALLY treated as "Grape" and S#xual Assault.
STAY GUIDED!!!
Motherhood poster nothing will make allow my kids out when it is raining, they will catch cold which will need medical expenses, abeg I don't look for trouble oh..
ReplyDeleteKeep shining Stella ✨π
DeletePeople who say negative things about people they don't know or may never see is bewildering. This is a blog for crying out loud, read, laugh, comment and go!
ReplyDeleteDon't let hate become your reality because of things that are not a big deal. What you should put your energy into is your real life.
Big Stellz, keeping going Momma. You are doing well handling the enemies of good things.
Thanks sweetie
DeleteThank God is Friday blog visitors, good afternoon everyone
ReplyDeleteGreetings babe π how’s your day going? It’s a rainy afternoon here
DeleteGood afternoon y'all
ReplyDeleteIt's been a very hectic week. Pheww... Thank God I'm done with the workload for this week.
Hola darling π
DeletePele π€π€π€ it’s weekend, so try and take enough rest
Good days everyone
ReplyDeleteKeep your head up , everything will fall into places at the right time
See payment and explanation. When you were doing your own damaging of people, it was sweet right? Just look at you now , even had to be begging for people to tell you they love you the other day. You never see shumtin
ReplyDeleteThe monitoring termits are out.....make una bring their food......
Deleteme painment? I have only pity for you..i hope that you read what i wrote well...
Beg people to love me? nah people love me!
Does anyone love you? .dont repent oh,how do we know if you dont wake ip tomorrow?
Do you need transport money to be following me up and down? cos it must not be easy at all...you don eat? are you jobless?
You refuse to comment with ID but following me all over
which one are you? should i guess? una too plenty but you are the one who trolls as a hobby1
may GOD HEAL YOUR PAIN
AMEN
'Payment ko 'painment ni'.
DeleteStella I thought you said that you won't be enabling such comments anymore.
One day, you will say the one that will hook you and will mistakenly say it with ur giveaway scavenging ID. You will see
DeleteAnon the weight of hate you carry doesn't even allow you to spell well. Don't you think it's time to stop and free yourself?
Delete@Stella kindly note that the best medicine for pained and frustrated people is silent. it will even be okay you approve their comments let people keep seeing how jobless some people are but note that anyone you have extended a hand of love to by giving of cash or any other form that tame about to insult you already heaved coals on his or her head. Stella don't bother stressing yourself over them
DeleteAnon, hate is choking you. Free up yourself.
DeleteAnd you had to take off your name tag just to drop this weak take. Mtscheeeeeeew
DeleteStella you are beautiful ❤️
ReplyDeleteMay God bless your kind heart.
I choose to believe things are possible, even when I don't know how they will happen.
GOOD AFTERNOON MY SDK FAMILY πΉ
thank you maam
Deletei dont care about how i look,it feels too good to be me!..lol
I MEAN IT FEELS SO GOOD TO BE ME
DeleteIt doesn't matter how you were created.
DeleteJust make sure that you are taking care of yourself .
Hurt people, Hurt people.
ReplyDeleteJust two words but they carry so much weight.
I've come to learn that healing involves taking responsibility for making sure your unresolved pain doesn't become someone else's burden.
May we heal enough to stop passing our wounds on to other people. Be the person who breaks the cycle.
This is word!!
DeleteHurt people, HURT PEOPLE
Be the one who breaks the cycle
trolling termits read this o
Exactly,I concur
DeleteLOL, your nose lbe likeπ€..... hahaha make I no tok wetin dey my mind. But I know you're wonderfully and beautifully made with a kind heart by God.
ReplyDelete@Motherhood poster, my kids love playing in the rain but I don't allow them because they're always sneezing.
It's a rainy afternoon, the weather is so cold. Do have a great weekend fam.
Bv God's Favor
Forgot to go anon?
Delete@ Anon, her blog name is there na..
Delete14:43, you people are so disgusting. She even used her hands to type her blog ID at the end of the comment yet you are saying she forgot to go anon, is Stella a monster that one cannot joke with her?
DeleteYou people are a sorry case.
It is still people like you that will leave their blog IDs to abuse her in anon mode like you are using anon now when you have a blog ID.
Go get a life!
I'm waiting for you to come and say I'm bv God's favour
SDK, is this the cap wig you were talking about? It looks good on you and the colour of the extension suits your complexion. I likeee π
ReplyDeleteJolly baby, I saw a black Tundra yesterday with a lady seated behind the wheel. My mind just went to you π
DeleteHow are you dearie?
TGIF! What's crack-a-lacking wherever you are at? It's like schools are supposed to go on holidays next week Friday but most students have decided to stay put at home after their exams and I am like, what's the need for the remaining one week that's going to be absolutely dry without students? Na una know o!
ReplyDeleteThe Observer, I honestly don't get your outburst the other time truth be told. I just reiterated that it was "a blog" and not "a block" cos Stella said something about certain people not knowing how to pronounce or spell it as the case may be but you were yapping what I don't know then. How do you people even get triggered by someone's comment like that? To make the matter worse, you misconstrued the comment merely throwing in some correction. Be calming down cos nobody has the monopoly of madness.
Kelvin should not catch you.
DeleteStella, taking the high road means you’re choosing respect, kindness, and growth over drama.You don’t have to stoop to anyone’s level. Keep on living your vibe, and let the drama drive itself. Everybody go dey alright laslas!
ReplyDeleteHow una dey, my people? Hope this rain no dey disturb? πππ
We dey fine o my babe.
DeleteNo rain for my side today.
Enjoy your day π
Hahahaha Stella π€£π€£ According to my Dad, na oxygen consumer π€
ReplyDeleteSdk, sincerely speaking, your reputation of genuinty precedes you π I have heard so much about you before I joined this fine blog...which was why I joined in the first place π
Your name is associated with respect, originality & goodness. My friend told me how you assisted students, widows etc those days, so many you must have forgotten about. But guess what? God did not forget π₯° I want to use this opportunity to tell you that you're an ASSET, you're GOLD π and your name will never fade away. May God continue to bless you today and always π Love you Stella lala π
Hurt people HURT people, clock that!
ReplyDeleteIts the start of the weekend people..
Enjoy yourselves and stay safe π
Good afternoon everyone π
ReplyDeleteSDK your skin is glowing ππ keep it up
Lovely afternoon to you all.people.
ReplyDeleteHow are you all doing.
Happy weekend.
Beautiful Stella how are you ππ
This cold is plenty much oo and i come dey hungry join. Dont even know what to eat. No moimoi ready on glovo app, so I am left with buying office moimoi. See me see toilet oo.
ReplyDeleteInstead of buying what won't suit your system why don't you manage snacks until you get home.
DeleteYou mean you use your money to buy shit? Why not you order other foods?
Deleteiya Boys Is A Queen ohhh
ReplyDeleteA.Queen Oh oooo
iya Boys Is A Queen Ohhhhhhnhh
Wellcomeee Innnnnnnnn Houseeeee Newssssss
I Greetlicious Everybody ooooo ❤️
ThankGod It's Friday ππ
Hello iya Boys
Pls let me go anonymous to rant..
ReplyDeleteI took in last month but decided to get rid of it bcos I was not ready for another child..we were going through hard times..
I met with a neighbor who introduced me to a nurse..she gave me injection and drugs(to insert in my vjay and also under my tongue)..the period came 3days after I took d injection and lasted for 5days..
My period came again dis month but it didn't come d way it used to..it was just like spotting but it came with clots..Today makes it exactly two weeks it came dis month and I haven't stopped bleeding..d bleeding was so much dis morning..I had to call d nurse and explain to her..she said I should allow it come that it will stop but I am very afraid and thinks it's an incomplete abortion.
Pls what drugs can I take to make d blood stop cos I honestly don't have money for evacuation..I am always feeling dizzy and I am sure it's bcos of loosing too much blood..I am going through a lot walahi
Are you serious? Why would you even involve your neighbour in such matters that should be personal? Abortion is horrible to begin with, then you go solicit a neighbour's help with only God knows what kind of Nurse you patronised? You are experiencing the unusual and instead of you running to the hospital, you came here hoping for more suggestions that may just be as quackish as what you got from the nurse.
DeleteYou better go to the hospital and also seek forgiveness from God.
The Observer.
Why are you saying Wallahi? Of course anyone who goes quackish route, is likely to face consequences. I am sorry circumstances made you to make a wrong decision to abort and via wrong route but you must go to the hospital for proper checkup.surely loss of blood/ Iron causes dizziness. May God see you through and relieve you of the stress.
DeleteThe Observer
Abeg carry your self go hospital sharpaly sharpaly!!
DeleteWhich kain thing be this??
Ah.... I don't even know what to say to you!
DeletePlease go to the hospital for proper check up and treatment. Sorry dear.
DeleteIt’s better you go to the hospital for check and proper evacuation. You better don’t joke with your life. And next time you want to make out with your husband, either of you should use protection. Stop putting your life at risk. Na who die lose
DeleteI detest Abortion with every thing in me.
DeleteWhen you were knacking raw without protection or using pills after, you did not remember that you are going through hard times? Family planning or prevention pills would have saved you from this rubbish you put yourself in.
DeleteGo and borrow money and go to hospital except you don't love your life. This is what kpai's most women who go through quack abortion.
Hello ihn π₯°
ReplyDeleteGood afternoon everyone and how's your side today.
This my street eeh, once schools go on break it will be like a graveyard, like you can walk from the beginning of the street to the end and you won't see a soul. Na this period those wicked ones dey snatch phones.
Stella you look so beautiful and this your wigcap is fine. Your skin is skinning meehnn ❤️ you are beautiful just the way you are, you don't need to fit into anyone's definition of beauty.
Happiness is found in having peace within yourself and living a life of purpose π
Bvs enjoy the rest of your day.
E go surely be ✌πΌ
Please be safe.
DeleteGood day Stella and everyone.Srella pls ignore the haters.You are beautiful ❤️.
ReplyDeleteGood day everyone
ReplyDeleteI guess I'm done for the day π€Έπ»♀️
Beautiful Stella, with a heart of gold ❤️
ReplyDeleteGood afternoon my good people of SDK blog.
ReplyDeleteGood afternoon SDK and BVs. Happy weekend. πππ
ReplyDeleteHurt people hurt people indeed. When people carry unhealed pain, they often pass that pain on to others through their words, actions and attitudes. You cannot control how others treat you but you can choose how you respond.
ReplyDeleteAura for aura in this instance will only keep the cycle going. Choose kindness, patience and forgiveness where possible . That's the only way to stop the chain of pain. May God help us.