A few months ago, this woman wanted her daughter to learn AI skills.
She discovered the lady knew the skills but had not been practicing.
She did not want to disturb her, so she planned to pay someone else. I told her to speak to the lady and offer 40k, so it would not look like she was using her because she feeds her.
Later, she told me the lady insisted she would not teach her daughter for less than 90k. Someone she had helped for over three years.
I told her to pay if she could afford it, since it was safer for her daughter to learn close to home.
The lady demanded full payment upfront, collected the money, taught the girl for two months, and stopped.
The woman was angry and wanted to confront her, but I laughed.
People do not understand that those you stand for, sacrifice for, or almost kill yourself for can still turn around and hurt you.
The woman was angry and wanted to confront her, but I laughed.
People do not understand that those you stand for, sacrifice for, or almost kill yourself for can still turn around and hurt you.
We are all raised differently. The fact that I can go any length for someone who has never helped me does not mean another person will act the same way.
Many people come to my shop to withdraw 1k, and I ignore the 100 naira charges because their balance shows they need help. My neighbor who also does POS may never do that. It is what it is. It does not stop me from being good.
The woman vowed never to deal with the lady again, but I told her life teaches us lessons. If she does not learn now, bigger issues will shake her later.
I have a friend who once had money (yahoo money) and never bought me sachet water. He had many friends and ladies around him. Today, he begs for urgent 1k, and I never deny him except when I do not have.
Many people come to my shop to withdraw 1k, and I ignore the 100 naira charges because their balance shows they need help. My neighbor who also does POS may never do that. It is what it is. It does not stop me from being good.
The woman vowed never to deal with the lady again, but I told her life teaches us lessons. If she does not learn now, bigger issues will shake her later.
I have a friend who once had money (yahoo money) and never bought me sachet water. He had many friends and ladies around him. Today, he begs for urgent 1k, and I never deny him except when I do not have.
Last week alone, he asked twice. Some of our friends have blocked him because he keeps begging, but when he had money, he was nowhere to be found.
Still, I help him because I understand life. But that does not mean others will.
In all, let us continue doing good. No matter the betrayal or negative vibes. People who are not ready to take steps are the ones who discourage those who are ready. If you allow them, you may disconnect from the purpose God created you for.
You do not need to be a pastor to change the world. Anything you do that speaks life, peace and positive change is enough. You do not need a microphone or Bible verses to make impact.
Still, I help him because I understand life. But that does not mean others will.
In all, let us continue doing good. No matter the betrayal or negative vibes. People who are not ready to take steps are the ones who discourage those who are ready. If you allow them, you may disconnect from the purpose God created you for.
You do not need to be a pastor to change the world. Anything you do that speaks life, peace and positive change is enough. You do not need a microphone or Bible verses to make impact.
This can never be me...Your own is too much abeg!
That lady should cut off from that ungrateful lady.....
Urgent 1k once or twice and i block you cos what is that? The people that blocked him are wise otherwise h will not learn his lesson the next time he makes money....Or you think he will remember you?
Kindness should be reciprocal, look for people who intentional reciprocate kindness and goodness and not blood suckers.....Stop trying to be too nice, it wont make you go to heaven..LOL
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So Pinky you mean we should give money to people that are not worth it?. Most people in this life are where they are because they are not givers. The popular saying that givers does not lack does not apply to giving wicked people money and support.
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