Wonderful Wednesday hailings!!!
WEDNESDAY MEMO...
How una dey????Hmmmmmmmmm I have one or two things to say about BV Ugama and all the stories he said here but i need to respect all the white hair he has and let it go...... if he is reading this i need him to contact me cos the phone number he used to call me on, no longer works, i had it checked out and the sim has been inactive ...
I hope that he is OK? OR did he rush aboard again over a weekend and forgot to return to Nigeria?
Enjoy my memo after this.....
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WONDERFUL BLOG VSITORS I HAVE MET Part 2 of more ot come
Yesterday i talked about BVs Castle and Martins inside in house news.....
Today i want to tell you about my two big sisters, BVs Doris Day and Teena and some others...
Teena does not comment becos of the demands of her job but oh my goodness she reads every comment to the last dot...i remember that years back an email address would send me links of stories to post...She always refers to me as ''SIS''...
When i woke up 6am to work, she would be in my inbox trying to help me out....I didn't know who she was and i didn't ask questions until one year i noted she no longer mailed me..so i got in touch with her and asked why i had not heard from her....She was she was sick and had had surgery.....I found out that she is highly placed in her Job and lives in the US....The kind of big sister anyone want to have,,
She has been in my life since then and if you mess with me, she wont take it.....She is the big sister i never had and one of the blessings Godsent me via this blog.
BV castle knows her and has been blessed many times cos na Castle dey handle her food stuff things....Miss Ess is also her cooked food handler....Some people read comments and they love you even before they reach out to you.
Doris!....where do i start from? this one loved me before i met her when i did meet her everything fell into place....she is the big sister i never had and comments regularly here...Known her for years and her wit and humour are non- negotiable.....Madam Doris surprises me every now and then and i am so used to her surprises that i always wait...she would call a food vendor in berlin all the way from Italy where she is based and pay big money to have my fave food sent to me.....The food vendor said to me that ''Stella where did you find that woman? she loves you too much'' I told her that i know!..I am currently spooning hot vegetable into my mouth and she paid for it..it was a surprise...
I am grateful for being blessed with these two women but there are more blessings oh...
What of glamourous granny in the US? That one prays for me every day and that year that i had surgery, i felt her presence around me cos she never left her phone, she prays for me almost every morning and always prays for trolls to leave me alone...when the drama starts, her prayers intensifies...Thank you glam granny gigi.
There are lots of people i have known from this blog and i dont want to mention some and leave some but these ones are examples that must be used....
Eka joy??One of the popular blogrities(Celebrities) we have here and we fight all the time but i know she will not talk to you if you hurt me or attempt it..I know..
What of my Jeweluchi choc noir?We have become sisters from here and its always a pleasure when we talk.
I am sorry if you feel hurt that i did not mention your name.....everyone here has impacted on me , both good and bad but i am positivity focused right now, especially since it looks like people are trying to make me look bad with all the recurrent rubbish going on...
If you meet a wonderful person like me and you cannot keep the friendship, then you are the problem cos i give friendship a lot of chances before i take a walk....
Tomorrow and as the days go by, I will be remembering Blog visitors who have impacted on me here and privately...How can i not count my blessings when the devil is trying to help me count those fighting me?
I have a WhatsApp group that i formed out of love and it doesn't mean that the people there are better than the ones commenting here, I just didn't want so many people...I thought forming a smaller community would be great but some people tried to use it to do me dirty....I recently thought about deleting the WhatsApp group and just distancing myself from everyone and concentrating on blog work but i remembered my native name and the reason i was given and i said hell no, I will never give up and someone think they won...You can win in your own terms on your own lane but not ON MINE!!!
I will always show the kind i have in me, i will never stop being who i am because of anyone or anything....My WhatsApp group will stay and if you dirty yourself, i take you out and add more.....On Friday, i will be naming all the BVs on my WhatsApp group for clarity....
I am an open book and have always been one but if my privacy begins to smell like shit , then we will flush it...
Just know one thing, before you try to do me dirty, know that i have no iota of shame and my keeping quirt must mean that I LOVED you....
Let us all learn how to fight and move on and not keep coming back to draw blood..
This place must be a place of peace from now on...........even if i get one comment, I am fine but keep your trash in the bin OK? Tomorrow we go again....
I dont know how to use love words much but my actions will show you how deep a person i am and how emotional i am, if you abuse my feelings, I dont look back,,
Thank you for reading. I hope it was positive to read?
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USING AI TO MAKE COMMENTS
I wonder why any of you will allow Ai to overtake your intelligence...Even if you have to use it , dont rely on it too much...Most of the comments i see here now are all Ai cos nobody wants to make mistakes anymore...is there a problem with not being perfect????Please take it easy with the machine comments, they are boring to read.
Even the prayer comments have lost originality cos its all Ai and too damn long to read....Please we appreciate the people wake up to post prayers but please be realistic, if you are praying such long prayers in the morning, wont the people sleep off?
This comment is made in love, do not read meanings into it oh...
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NOTORIOUS FOR JESUS
One night, I had a strange dream. In it, someone I knew offered me a large sum of money. I woke up, brushed it off, and went on with my day, believing it was just another random dream.
The next night, I had the exact same dream. This time, the person clearly mentioned a specific amount of money. When I woke up, I couldn't shake the feeling that the dream meant something.
A few moments later, my phone buzzed. It was a message from the same person in my dream. He wanted to give me money, but the amount he offered was much smaller than what I had seen in the dream.
Then he explained what he needed from me. He wanted to use my international passport, my business registration documents, and some other important personal documents.
One night, I had a strange dream. In it, someone I knew offered me a large sum of money. I woke up, brushed it off, and went on with my day, believing it was just another random dream.
The next night, I had the exact same dream. This time, the person clearly mentioned a specific amount of money. When I woke up, I couldn't shake the feeling that the dream meant something.
A few moments later, my phone buzzed. It was a message from the same person in my dream. He wanted to give me money, but the amount he offered was much smaller than what I had seen in the dream.
Then he explained what he needed from me. He wanted to use my international passport, my business registration documents, and some other important personal documents.
Immediately, alarm bells rang in my head.
I knew that if whatever he intended to do went wrong, I would be the one facing the consequences. No amount of money was worth risking my freedom. I wasn't about to end up in prison for ₦250,000.
Instead, I quoted him a much higher amount, thinking that if I was ever going to take such a risk, it would have to be worth far more. He quickly replied that he couldn't afford it, and the conversation ended there.
Recently, life has become financially difficult. Debts have piled up, and there are moments when I remember that ₦250,000, and wonder how much it would have helped me. I wish I had accepted the offer.
But when I think more deeply, I remind myself that financial hardship can be overcome, while a damaged reputation or a prison sentence could change my life forever.
I concluded that, Sometimes, what looks like a missed opportunity is actually divine protection, and that not every offer that solves today's problem is worth tomorrow's regret.
I believe that dreams may reveal possibilities, but wisdom is knowing which doors to walk through and which ones to leave closed.
I knew that if whatever he intended to do went wrong, I would be the one facing the consequences. No amount of money was worth risking my freedom. I wasn't about to end up in prison for ₦250,000.
Instead, I quoted him a much higher amount, thinking that if I was ever going to take such a risk, it would have to be worth far more. He quickly replied that he couldn't afford it, and the conversation ended there.
Recently, life has become financially difficult. Debts have piled up, and there are moments when I remember that ₦250,000, and wonder how much it would have helped me. I wish I had accepted the offer.
But when I think more deeply, I remind myself that financial hardship can be overcome, while a damaged reputation or a prison sentence could change my life forever.
I concluded that, Sometimes, what looks like a missed opportunity is actually divine protection, and that not every offer that solves today's problem is worth tomorrow's regret.
I believe that dreams may reveal possibilities, but wisdom is knowing which doors to walk through and which ones to leave closed.
Send your account to my PA and she will send you 100k..I hope that helps....This is spontaneous so dont waste time oh....
This also doesnt give anyone the right to come into my inbox expecting anything....I have had enough of that..i will give when i am moved to and not becos anyone pushed me..if you are here for the takings and you dont get, please go to other social media and try your luck....OK???
It is a new dawn here........
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FEW HABITS THAT MAY DAMAGE YOUR BRAIN
1. Poor sleeping habits
2. Consuming too much sugar
3. Sitting all-day
4. Listening to videos or songs at full volume
5. Consuming too much negative news
6. Too much screen time ( spending time on tv and social media )
7. Too much stress
8. Social isolation
9. Too much thinking about the past and future .
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GRAND MOTHER'S ADVICE
---.Always remember that there is nobody on this earth that does not have problems. You are not the only one that has problems.
--- Challenges are part of life. It is only a dead man that has no challenges.
---There is no problem that has no solution. There are solutions to the pains you are passing through.
--- The way you picture yourself in your mind can affect your happiness. Picture yourself as a valuable and beautiful person. Avoid low self esteem and inferiority complex.
--- Do not mind about what people say about you. Some people are sadists. They can just say something's just to make you feel sad.
---. Make friends with reasonable people who make you happy. Do not make friends with people who make jest of you or laugh at you over your challenges.
---. At your leisure time, keep yourself busy with your favorite hobbies like reading , Learning, etc.
--- Do not allow anyone to intimidate you with money and material things. A poor man today can become rich tomorrow. Change is constant.
---. No matter what you are passing through today, do not give up. As long as there is life, there is hope. Never stop trying. Give it one more time.
--- Be very #prayerful. Pray without ceasing. Prayer is a catalyst that can speed up your blessings to come to you on time.
---. Be courageous to go for what you want. Life is all about risk. If you don't take a risk, you will not get the desires of your heart.
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Una good afternoon o
ReplyDeleteWe welcome IHN
Miss Ess, how you dey dear? 🥰
DeletePurest darling 😘 How you dey?
Forget Spain they play ball, France no see ball play for complete 90mins.
ReplyDeleteFootball it's a beautiful game mbok.
In my view, every team in this world cup is a flop. Some just appear better at hiding it than others. The quality of play in this particular world cup is so subpar and shocking. Even Spain and Argentina cannot be compared to what they were 4 years ago.
DeleteOzour… na so poverty people Dey talk
DeleteSo Lamine Yamal go play world cup final before Ronaldo 😂😂.
DeleteThe thing I love about Spain is that they're so young. Small small boys dey play against old men wey don tire. See passing, see running.One France player go just see three Spain players surround am immediately. Their pattern of play is so clean and sweet to watch.
DeleteWas so happy for Spain
Delete18+
ReplyDeleteAminatu......
I say make we try
" Bee DSM"
Weytin cutlass dey do for your hand 🖐 again.....?
Wait!!! I no hear you!! You say????
Na so zem dey do am por kano......
Always cracking dead ass dry jokes.
DeleteLet kano people catch you!
Delete😂 advanced play
DeleteLolo my sister..... longest time
Deletewhere you enter ? I Don miss you
Good afternoon y'all
ReplyDeleteFuneral money appears faster than hospital bill. Pls take care of yourself & eat healthy 🥗
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Our big sisters@Teena, Dorisday & Eka Joy, thank you being there always for Stella 🙏♥️
Una doh my beautiful people 😍
Doh ooo
DeleteHealth is wealth 👍
DeleteHello beautiful Adunni 🥰
So true,
DeleteGod bless you bv Teena,Doris,eka,glamgranny,thank you all for being a sister to stella,
God reward you abundantly.
Thank you Teena and Madam Doris for being a sister to Stella. God bless you always.
DeleteDoh, Lora dear 🥰
DeleteMercybee darling, you sabi jor 👍
Dohhhh My Lovee 🥰
DeleteSDK, you are a great woman. Keep being you and the Lord will continue to bless you.
ReplyDeleteThe beevees you mentioned up there are all amazing people. Castle, Glam Granny, Teena, Doris Day, Miss Ess. God bless you all.
That said...
The memo about AI usage: I am not saying using AI is bad but making yourself a salve to it is the problem. Most people can't write properly again without using AI. It's so funny when you see undergraduates and postgraduate who can't write a near to perfect condolence letter, application letter or acceptance letter.
So bad though
An anonymous last week accused me of using AI for comments. I wanted to be pissed but then what would have been the point?
DeleteI like the effort SDK has put into sanitising this space. It reminds me of what this place used to be like a couple of years ago.
Stella so you have all these lovely ones and you will always deny not knowing anybody here and don't want anybody's friendship .
ReplyDeleteThose that wash clothes , like how long does it takes to dry in this almost everyday rainy season??
ReplyDeleteIf it rains at 9°latitude when
DeleteR = rainfall (mm)
φ (phi) = latitude
λ (lambda) = longitude
h = elevation (height above sea level)
T = temperature
H = humidity
P = atmospheric pressure
Find the Longitude?
I used to dry mine indoors overnight. It won't smell of the clothes were properly washed and rinsed.
DeleteJerryyyyy, dem go soon wipe you cord for neck. Continue....
DeleteJerry Jerry Jerry many times did I call you..
DeleteLora don give you the answer 🤣🤣😂
Jerry na only ye ye comments dem dey see you. The day you will make a reasonable comment here I will do giveaway on your behalf.
DeleteKJ, you no well o 🤣🤣
DeleteAnon, I spread out clothes far from each other & air dry near the window 🌬️
Na wa for you oh Jerry, ontop drying of clothes you dey ask longitude and latitude question, okay oh.
DeleteThank you BV Teena and BV Dorisday.
ReplyDeleteGod bless you for being a source of joy to Stella.
Challenges are part of life. It is only a dead man that has no challenges.💯
ReplyDeleteStella may God bless your good heart ❤️
GOOD AFTERNOON MY SDK FAMILY 🌹
Very true !
DeleteOur beautiful Big mama, doh 🥰
DeleteSo true
ReplyDeleteGod bless you bv Teena,eka,glam granny, Doris,
Thank you for being a sister indeed to stella,may God reward you abundantly.
Amen
DeleteGood afternoon SDK and BVs. God bless you beautiful Doris,Teena and Eka.🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿
ReplyDeleteAmen
DeleteHello beautiful BB 🥰
DeleteAmen in Jesus name 🙏
DeleteHello All,
ReplyDeleteThanks to all the BVs mentioned in the memo. You all rock 🍾
My own is that, going forward, once I spot someone here that I feel is not genuine here based on my strong radar that detects people like that, I will resume pointing it out and y’all better not come for me.
ReplyDeleteThis is why I was subtly mentioning Miss H’s own and never pointed out Agama’s own! But you won’t ever see me under their comments!
I’m returning to status quo! I don’t care anymore if you people call me names for that! It’s getting too much
Always knew Ugama was a fraud with his AI generated stories...Agama Ugama!
DeleteGood afternoon my people,how are y'all doing today?
ReplyDeleteHappy women crush Wednesday 🥰 to all hard working women.
Na God they run am for us.
And to the wonderful bvs SDK mentioned, thanks for being real and truthful to our celebrity blogger.
WE KEEP MOVING!!
Na who no really know Stella no go know the kind of beautiful soul she is! This woman will be my big sis for life no matter what we face together!
ReplyDeleteDon’t even bother trying to involve me in your hate for her cos it always will be DOA!
Stella, thanks so much for being who you are!
Way to go!!!
DeleteBless your heart .
Awwww@ big sis for life 💕
DeleteYou're doing well Eka dear 🤗
God bless you for loving Stella♥️♥️
DeleteGood day Stella. Reading your post above about these amazing BVs, filled my heart with joy honestly.
ReplyDeleteWe have all seen here how many times you have been h..urt, b..etrayed etc and having such amazing people from same blog, is such a delight to read.
You deserve every blessing, YOU ARE A VERY GOOD AND KIND PERSON. Very thoughtful, generous and empathetic. An amazing soul through and through.
I pray that God surrounds you with many more good people, so the bad ones will be far outnumbered and become irrelevant
And thank you all amazing BVs for being so amazing and thoughtful
Amen..you're right
DeleteYeah I'm very glad that regardless Stella has genuine people around her.
DeleteMama T and Mama D, and Mama G
ReplyDeleteThank you for allowing God use you to be such a blessing to our amazing SDK.
May God always come through for you and your eon.
Amen
Chocolate noir, Martins, Castle, Eka etc you all are the real MVP.
ReplyDeleteMore blessings in all your endeavours
And keep being amazing 😍🤩😍
🫂 Thank you babe 😘
DeleteBless you too.
NFJ congratulations on the 100k . May God sort everything out for you
ReplyDeleteHey people, have an amazing rest of the day 💘💘💘
ReplyDeleteSir Ugama? Olololoooo
ReplyDeleteBVs I need your advice please. I just got a very very expensive wig from a luxury wig seller. It’s my first time splurgeing like this on a wig. It took 2 months to get it and it stinks to high Heaven. The stench fills any room I enter. Is this normal? Surely, all these Big Girls couldn’t possibly be working around with a stinky wig like this. Did Wanneka pull a fast one. I can’t return it and I spent over a million for it. HELP. I’m just full of regret. Who sent me. The wig has plenty problems sef. The fitting sef is one kin wogo-wogo. What a waste 😔
ReplyDeleteA million bucks just to smell like a corpse?🤭
DeleteTake the wig for treatment. I'm sure they can get it sorted out in no time.
Stinks? It's not normal o 😮
DeleteWhy don't you let the Seller know about this smell...also the fitting. You should have value for your money pls
Stella you're an amazing person and glad you had good people in your corners....thanks to y'all
ReplyDeleteRaining afternoon everyone...
God bless all those in SDK's corner.
ReplyDeleteStella, you are a strong and beautiful woman, and I'm learning resilience from you. Thank you for being a worthy role model.
Hello beautiful people 😍.
ReplyDeleteHope your day is going well 😊
I'm just happy that the constant rains has reduces a little. Thank God abeg. The heavy traffic it has caused in the past few days isn't funny at all.
ReplyDeleteStella, you're an amazing person. Knowing you has been nothing short of awesome. I know wetin I dey talk. May God keep showing up for you.
Good afternoon beautiful people.
ReplyDeleteWelcome IHN
ReplyDeleteI came early today.
Thanks to the amazing bvs mentioned up there. God bless you all.
ReplyDeleteSign out post is well written 👍
Hello everyone, enjoy your day 👌
Amen 🙏 God bless you too 🥰
DeleteDearest Sdk. You are the Anointed, D Giant among all.. wit d little u have , you still give to members instead of buying banana island flat.
ReplyDeleteI want to thank you sincerely for all ur help., visible n invisible.
May God's SHOWERS of blessings continue to fall on you , AMEN
Amen 👏 Thank you for making Stella proud 💕
DeleteThanks to all the amazing and beautiful blog visitors mentioned up👆👆
ReplyDeleteBlog visitor Teena 🥰
Blog visitor Doris Day 🥰
Granny gram 🥰
Eka joy 🥰
Choco Noir 🥰
You all are blessed 🙏 🙏 thanks for loving SDK.
Stella you are loved.
You have a lovely heart.
God continue to bless you immensely 🙏..
Raining Wednesday.
Good afternoon my good people of SDK blog. God bless all SDK mentioned. Una own no go spoil. God will always bring good people your way because you're a good person.
ReplyDeleteBeautiful people how una dey?
ReplyDeleteWellcomeee Innnnnn Houseeeee Newssssss
ReplyDeleteI Greetlicious Everybody ooooo ❤️ ❤️
Thank You Teena,.Mummy D And Granny For Loving Iya Boys
She's Such A Good Soul
May this Lovee Last Forever AMEN Amin
Hello iya Boys
Hi people ☺️
ReplyDeleteHaving a great day??
Good afternoon everyone 💕
ReplyDeleteGood day bvs
ReplyDeleteHowz the go dey go
Nfj , it is well
God .bless SDK.
Happy wcw to all amazing women
Stella, you're a very great and amazing woman, only a fool or wicked soul will not like you, so it's normal that you attract all these special great people that love you dearly, you deserve to be loved by them and everyone else, to all the people that Stella has mentioned, we really appreciate you and thank you very much for loving her and showing it.
ReplyDeleteStill basking in the euphoria of this cooool day.
ReplyDeleteSee me awwwwing here, is good to be good.
Got home tired last night and still needed to go fill My camp gas. As I lifted the cylinder I remembered the journey of that cylinder. The money that bought it was one of My earliest give away from here. I just package the money go but gas cylinder. Prior to that na kerosine stove wahala. Why Wont I mention a little prayer for you Jewelu? It indeed pays to be good .
To everyone that has put a smile on your face too God bless them all 🙏🏻🥳
Good afternoon, everyone
ReplyDeleteThanks to the amazing BVS turn sisters
Stella, you are a good woman and a strong one at that. never STOP being who you are!!!
Enjoy the rest of your day
Hello ihn 🥰
ReplyDeleteGood afternoon everyone, just coming back from kachia.
Awww Stella,knowing you is loving you and God bless Teena, ma'am Doris, sweet Jewelu Choco baby and glam granny G for their love towards you.
NFJ poster thank God you were smart enough to dictate his moves and didn't allow greed get into you.
The sign out meme made a lot of sense 👌🏼
Y'all should enjoy the rest of your day.
E go surely be ✌🏼
Good afternoon Bvs
ReplyDeleteGod bless you Stella and the below BVs
Teena🥰
Doris Day🥰
Granny gram 🥰
Choco Noir 🥰
You all are blessed,Stella you are loved😊
Eka Joy, God bless you immensely 🙏you are a gem☺️
Awww, thank you to Bv Teena, Doris Day, grandma Gigi, and Eka Joy for being there for Stella,, may God continue to bless and be with you in all you do.
ReplyDeleteCongratulations to @NFJ poster.