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CHEATING BOYFRIEND
My boyfriend will carry my hand bag and put it in his neck publicly, he open car doors and any door for me, he will kiss me in public, buys me gift and present to me in public. infact all girls seeing us in public wishes he was their man but guess what?? he is a serial cheat!!! He is perfect for me in everything but has that one dot of stain.
There's nothing I ask him that he rejects and he's ready to kiss my feet. He can carry me in his back in public and always kissing my hands in public, he's a dream man.
Anytime I end the relationship he comes back with his manipulative tactics.... I have always been forgiving , now we are over 2 years and I am so attached. I don't know what to do, I'm confused now.
Please it's not about my age but I've never been this deeply and loudly loved.
I am tired of the same complain all the time...How can you allow yourself be in this kind of relationship?? You see all the flags already enjoying the perks that come with the relationship...
My good and bad advice are mixed together cos you know the right thing to do...
Please break up with him cos this isnt love at all...If you cant break up, abeg cheat back and be happy...

You are not ready to leave, cos if you are, you won't be sending in this chronicle.
ReplyDeleteFor some people , cheating is not a deal breaker… puck ur poison
ReplyDeleteSame way 'my neighbour' was lovey lovey. He didn't bring in the latest. His pieces are tested . He brought home the HIV. Well,times has improved so has the diseases and infections.
ReplyDeleteThen it wasn't as how you can easily get help. She got infected and died with it. Uncle took meds and lived.
It's not always about the public display. There's more to life than PDA.
Anyways, I'm not the butterfly in my tummy woman. What do I know?
Sweetie,
ReplyDeleteCan I be honest with you? I’m worried you’re hurting yourself here. A man who has already shown you who he is, and is now doubling down on promiscuity and you’re still asking for advice?
Were you not loved at home? Weren’t you raised to know you deserve better? You should have trusted your judgment when you first saw his character. But emotions made the decision for you. If you keep going like this, you’ll learn the hard way. Please break it off now. A cheating man rarely changes in marriage. He doesn’t respect you. A man who cheats is not a responsible partner. You said you’re not desperate, and I want to believe that. So what’s keeping you? The title of "Mrs"? Material benefits? Do those two things deserve your peace of mind and mental health?
I’m begging you walk away. Right now you don’t have a partner, you have someone who’s just stringing you along. If you let him talk you into marriage, you’ll pay for it. A man who cheats and is condoned will never respect or value you. I say this because I love you.
©️ TEEJAY
Marriage is for Better for worse. Once you accept to marry him despite his flaws, you have already consented to his philandering ways.
ReplyDeleteForget the love and everything and stop now if you can't cope.
DOZZYBEST.
Make we dey calm down o..God knows ..I got proof..abeg na everything be breakup? E b like everybody get next plan Biko..ain't marrying again but..
ReplyDeleteWhat you type, does it usually make sense to you?
DeleteAre you okay?
DeleteStellz good afternoon..I'm sending to u tonight.. make anybody no just dey find pity.. I'm not against this post but there are.things against the "sxe" male I want to learn something ..God dey
ReplyDeleteAre you intentionally dumb or is there something else we don’t know?
DeleteHow can a lady date a man for 2 years and he hasn’t proposed and you are still there? Don’t be like me, now I am childless and husband less in my 50s.
ReplyDeleteYoung girls if you are dating a man 6 months and nothing tangible is coming out from it, move on. Those sort of people are time wasters. And don’t have canal knowledge of a man who hasn’t paid your bride price, you are not a kesiah.
Na Real man na. Enjoy it and please stay protected
ReplyDeleteAre you people not always scare of infections??. Women we are really like rubbish. Something a msn would just dump you as it edey hot. Try to cheat back and see what he would do.
ReplyDeleteIs oblivious you love him as he is.continue.Every mallam with e own kettle.
ReplyDeleteThe public affection is beautiful, but please don’t confuse being loved loudly with being loved faithfully. He may be romantic, generous and attentive, but cheating repeatedly is not “one little stain”—it is a serious breach of trust. The fact that you keep leaving and he keeps returning with apologies, only for the cycle to repeat, tells you something. You are attached, and that is understandable. But ask yourself: Can I truly be at peace with this man, or am I only afraid of losing how he makes me feel?
ReplyDeleteIf he were my boyfriend, I would choose my peace and walk away unless his change was proven consistently over time, not promised emotionally. You deserve the romance and the loyalty.
I hope he doesn’t bring infection as gifts as well otherwise chop and enjoy
ReplyDeleteHe’s a narcissist
ReplyDeleteOnly God can save you once they get you
Pray to God to spoil it for you
If cheating is not your deal breaker, no wahala 😁
ReplyDeletePoster faithful men no plenty ooooo them no reach 10% so give yourself sense. Just dey buy plenty cd keep for am,one dey him go tired.
ReplyDeleteAnd she should also stay on standby to help put the cds on him, on days he forgets to wear the cds.
DeleteRun! Run! I had someone like that, I thought he was madly in love with me and can never look elsewhere. Everybody around his vicinity wanted us to be together. I don't even know how was able to play his game that many people didn't know he was a serial cheat except his friends, and he has so many friends and loyalists.His friends knew his games yet they kept encouraging me to accept him , lol. Chai... I don suffer. Are you sure that this your man is not thesame person am talking about? Is his name Uche-Prince? The one his late dad has many houses where he collects rent? He's currently building a two storey building?
ReplyDeleteThis guy would lift me in public.. everything you described. I would fight him but he always overpowered little me, lol. Na so I go look small when I want dodge enter under him color to escape kissing. I no gree. Na so them send spies to watch over me.
Don't mind that your man. He won't even marry you. He may get you pregnant and abandon you for another victim. You think you are the only one he has treated nicely like he does for you? It's a game. Such people don't get married, don't be deceived. You can't gage him. If I start to tell my own story eh. You will relate very well.
I fought this guy man to the extent that my ribs felt as if it wanted to break one day. I pitied myself that day walai.
He used to bring in girls by 11-12 pm when nobody would see him. Married women oh, aunty gwegs o, any available person at all. He was doing all that even when he was still chasing me and making me believe that I was the only one. I felt that I was loved and he couldn't do wijout me, lol, what kept me was the fact that I didn't like his lifestyle if not eh .
In my dream I received warnings many times to disregard him but I kept doubting the dream because I felt he was truly in love.
I thank God that I was able to find out on time with the help of a friend. From there I started seeing him clearly for who he is and even catching him red-handed lol. I told him to feel free, after all I wasn't dating yet.
You weren't dating him but he was already too close, carrying you in public? That one was a player.
DeleteThese kind of men are not afraid of convincing you to introduce them to your family. It's all part of the game
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