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STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
WICKED SISTER IN LAW
My mother who.is in her late seventies is the most industrious woman I have ever known. She sells everything in season, travelling from one local market to another. She passed her strong business spirit to all her daughters. She was always the first to wake up and the last to sleep. You will never meet my mum at home.
My father, may his soul rest in peace, was her complete opposite, a jolly good fellow who loved to eat and drink, while my mother carried the family.
We lost our last son at 23 and our first son at 40. The death of my first brother broke my mother deeply, but it never stopped her from hustling.
Years ago, when I became seriously ill and everyone thought I would die,. One midnight, she went around our village naked with a bell, crying, “This will never happen. I will not bury any of my children again!”
By God's grace, I survived.
I am married with children.
Last month, I received a call to rush to my village. I arrived to find my mother tied up, her mouth, hands and legs bound, and placed in a wheelbarrow by women in my village. She was driven round the village in that state.
She had allegedly dafecated, mixed it with urine and poured it on my sister-in-law and broke the window glasses of my late brother's house, my mother contributed ,70% in building that house, she also built my father's house where she is staying.
They said my sister inlaw raised an alarm after she poured the mixture on her, vowed she will die used bottle and broke the glasses in her husband's house. My sister inlaw does not stay in the village, she just visited with her children.
Yes, my mother is stubborn, but seeing her tied, humiliated and crying broke me completely. I called my elder sister, she came the next day, we took her to the hospital but the trauma remains with me. I wake up trembling whenever I remember it.
This is the woman who spent her entire life making sure her children never lacked anything.
Why did my sister inlaw not call me or my sister when the incident happened, why did she choose to call the village women?. She is my only sister in-law because I do not have another brother.
So many why on my mind. I do not even know how to handle this matter.
My mother who.is in her late seventies is the most industrious woman I have ever known. She sells everything in season, travelling from one local market to another. She passed her strong business spirit to all her daughters. She was always the first to wake up and the last to sleep. You will never meet my mum at home.
My father, may his soul rest in peace, was her complete opposite, a jolly good fellow who loved to eat and drink, while my mother carried the family.
We lost our last son at 23 and our first son at 40. The death of my first brother broke my mother deeply, but it never stopped her from hustling.
Years ago, when I became seriously ill and everyone thought I would die,. One midnight, she went around our village naked with a bell, crying, “This will never happen. I will not bury any of my children again!”
By God's grace, I survived.
I am married with children.
Last month, I received a call to rush to my village. I arrived to find my mother tied up, her mouth, hands and legs bound, and placed in a wheelbarrow by women in my village. She was driven round the village in that state.
She had allegedly dafecated, mixed it with urine and poured it on my sister-in-law and broke the window glasses of my late brother's house, my mother contributed ,70% in building that house, she also built my father's house where she is staying.
They said my sister inlaw raised an alarm after she poured the mixture on her, vowed she will die used bottle and broke the glasses in her husband's house. My sister inlaw does not stay in the village, she just visited with her children.
Yes, my mother is stubborn, but seeing her tied, humiliated and crying broke me completely. I called my elder sister, she came the next day, we took her to the hospital but the trauma remains with me. I wake up trembling whenever I remember it.
This is the woman who spent her entire life making sure her children never lacked anything.
Why did my sister inlaw not call me or my sister when the incident happened, why did she choose to call the village women?. She is my only sister in-law because I do not have another brother.
So many why on my mind. I do not even know how to handle this matter.
People of God, this Narrative came with a video.....I am shaking after watching it and reading this reason for treating that old woman like that............I cant deal and i can only imagine that whoever does anything like to any of my parent will not go scot free.............Ah i will not allow you go scot free oh......She was tied like a ritualist and there was blood all over her......Please make sure you deal with that your wicked sister in law....Your brother has no right being married to someone who allowed this happen to his mum...I dont care what she did...She could have stopped them from hamring her!!!
Wicked evil sister in law...
This video is heart breaking!!!
All I know is that the sister in law won’t last
ReplyDeleteIf my mother in law dare pour me her shit mix, I will do the same to her. Ọ na-apụ ara?
ReplyDeleteI will even do worse ! Na for dat wheelbarrow she go kpai nonsense
DeletePoster what was the Genesis of the fight. Because you started from your mom's reaction but you didn't state the intial issues that erupted the first day your mom and your Sil met.
ReplyDeleteYour mom was wrong to pour those 'things' on her. That's very very bad. She would never do that to her children. I wish you mention what led to your mom doing that tho.
Your sister in law was meant to call you guys but in the spur of the moment, she shouted to people around.
Those people went overboard like they hated your mom before the incident and saw a perfect opportunity to degrade her or had a personal vendetta with her and tied your mom up and the SIL was meant to not let them do that to your mom but she allowed and encouraged it, and that is where I can categorically say she is MAD.
Very MAD.
While you deal with your Sil, yes, you must deal with her don't forget to deal with the village women too. Everyone involved must taste your wrath.
I'm speechless
ReplyDeleteBut wait a human being mixed shit and urine and poured it on another person child and it is okay like this. God Abey ooo. Let me jump and pass.
ReplyDeleteIt’s possible she has dementia or it’s in the early stages because they tend to do that when it comes on them.
ReplyDeleteSee copy from google for further information:
Fecal smearing in dementia—medically called scatolia—is a distressing behavior usually driven by physical discomfort like constipation, confusion, or unmet sensory needs rather than deliberate misbehavior. Addressing medical triggers, modifying clothing, and simplifying the bathroom routine can help manage and reduce this action.Why It HappensPhysical Discomfort: Severe constipation, hemorrhoids, gas, or skin rashes can cause rectal irritation, prompting the person to reach into their pants to find relief.Confusion and Disorientation: The person may forget how to use the toilet, fail to recognize what feces is, or lose the social boundaries that prevent handling waste.Unmet Sensory or Hygiene Needs: They might feel wet, itchy, or soiled, try to clean themselves, and become confused about where the waste should go.Lost Coordination: Advanced brain changes make it hard to sequence simple actions like removing clothes, wiping, or disposing of waste properly.Practical Management StepsCheck Medical Causes: Ask a doctor to check for and treat constipation, urinary tract infections, or hemorrhoids immediately (treating underlying constipation often stops the behavior).Change Clothing Options: Use jumpsuits, back-zippered garments, or snug all-in-one suits that make it physically difficult for the person to access their underwear or diaper area directly.Establish a Toilet Routine: Take the person to the bathroom at regular intervals—such as after meals or before bed—to reduce the chance of unexpected accidents.Keep a Calm Response: Avoid yelling, shaming, or showing intense anger, as this can increase their anxiety and lead to more agitation; clean the area quietly and matter-of-factly.Modify the Environment: Keep the path to the bathroom clear, use a clear sign or picture of a toilet on the bathroom door, and remove loose items or wastebaskets that might be mistaken for a toilet.
But wait because she is an old woman @Poater you see nothing wrong with what she did? Okay isoright
ReplyDeleteNo mind the idiot
DeleteYou are the idiot here you untrained rat. Were you there to confirm she did the act?.
DeleteAs in? The sister in law is an angel walahi. The way I would have grabbed her and given her the beating of her life ehn? Do you know what it means to pour someone shit???
Delete@18:34 ewu!!
DeleteTie ur mama keep for your house cuz next time she fit no survive am
Anonymous 18:34 if she didn’t do it will the poster not say so ? Anu mpama
DeleteThis chronicle broke me, Whatever we do on earth has a pay day. That daughter in-law will one day be a mother in-law.
ReplyDeleteStory for the gods.
DeleteIf that woman's son is alive. Will that lady do that to his mother?
ReplyDeleteGod has not created any mad daughter in-law that will do such to my mother. Heaven will get a visitor. After suffering to raise a son you called a husband, built the house you calined she broke the glasses, you had the audacity to tie her like a chicken.
Poster, do not allow this slide. Make sure she pays for it. Call boys to tie her too and drag her around.
Let me save my anger for better things.
As she suffered to raise her own na so the suffer to raise the sister in law.
DeleteYou must be very very mad !!!!
ReplyDeleteSo you mean it’s okay to pour 💩 on your sister in law? You dey craze .
Dem no tie well sef stupid peeps
Such an annoying chronicle.
Poster, you did not tell us the background to the story. Have there been issues between your mother and DIL? You say DIL doesn't stay there and only came to visit so what could have been the issue. No matter the issue, your mother went too far with what she did. Her actions reek of intentionality. Will someone smear you feces mixed with urine and you will just be looking at the person. Given the way we are in this country DIL would not have wanted to return fire for fire and so called witnesses before people will say she is lying. SIL on calling the villagers may have set off a chain of events that she did not know would end in the way it did and could not control thereafter. When the women came to judge the matter, how did your mother react to them. Where i come from, what your mother did is a sign of witchcraft. Someone opined that the reaction of the villagers may have been done out of jealousy ( which is possible) . You seem to want to refuse to see where your mother threw the first stone in this specific situation. Posters are now retreating into our age long defenses... she is a mother, you too will grow old, you will one day be a MIL etc etc. Are these an excuse for such nasty behaviour on the part of the MIL. Or could it be borne out of the arrogance of "na me get house, na me build am etc etc. For SIL calling the villagers, that is natural abi don't we see it and experience it... calling people to be our witness so we don't get gaslighted. What are the traditions in that village with respect to such behaviour... we do not know. I didn't see the video but based on Stella's reaction, it must have been bad and dehumanising. Para 9 is not very clear about who did what... who broke the bottle, who broke the windows, which house is being referred to, husband of MIL or husband of DIL. All this being said, Poster has done the right thing to take your mum for trauma conselling and therapy and then face your SIL. You could report it to the council of chiefs or whomever is the highest authority in the village.
ReplyDeleteNa winch she be na
DeleteThey expect married women to take anything, cos they feel they are doing the woman a favor for her marrying into their family
ReplyDeleteUnless ur mom has dementia; she deserve what she got
She even deserves worse
DeleteAll this plenty background story just to excuse your mother's evil behaviour. Nobody go gree say im mama na winsh. Your mum got exactly what she deserved. Your sister in law is even an angel for not taking matters into her hands. Nonsense!
ReplyDeleteGbam!
DeleteHardworking my a$$!
Who gives a bloody fuvk?
Poster if you don’t get this smelly chronicle out of here moronssss
Please, narrate from the beginning of their misunderstanding. It was will go a long way in letting us know what the problem is and what to contribute to its solution.
ReplyDeleteIs your mum having dementia?
Hmm. Please better take your mum to go stay with you whereever you are. That sounds like dementia. My late father when he was rescued to go stay with my ha brother used to curse my brother's children until brother got angry and wanted to send him away; my golden-hearted sister in law refused and took care of father till his death. I remain forever grateful for what that woman did for our father. She treated him like her own father in a town where my father's own daughters were but they cannot take care of him. May God help you to care for your mother. Please don't do or say anything to your sister in law
DeleteMind your mother's welfare and face front.
Only if she is having dementia but if she is healthy, she had no reason to pour faceves on anyone......thats a witch behaviour.
ReplyDeleteYou mean you don't see anything wrong in what your mama did, no matter how you painted your mother as good person by listing all the good things she has done, she's a very wicked soul for pouring shit mixed with urine on someone, especially her widowed daughter-in-law.
ReplyDeleteFor a person to pour another person's shit mixed with urine, that means the hatred is so strong and she can also pour her acid if she has access to it.
Your sister-in-law is even nice for not delivering the judgement by herself in her fury and calling the villagers instead, what a wicked mother-in-law.
In my own opinion, your mother deserves what she got, I believe she will never try such a thing again in her life as they taught her lesson.
Nobody should please come under my comment to insult me o, if not, they will also pour you shit mixed with urine, then we will see how happy and calm you will be when it happens.