TUESDAY MEMO
I salute oh..
My day is going on as expected and i thank Baba God.....
A BV messaged me and i want us all to pray for her..she went for evacuation...someone that did Fibroid surgery about three years ago and removed her uterus suddenly started bleeding again and the tests did not reveal anything....extensive tests and blood works, so she may have hurt herself somehow, so the only solution according to her is evacuation.....I asked her if it was gbenshing that hurt her, make i know, she said no.....
God abeg save us women from different things ooooh. Please pray for the BV to come out safely and heal well in Jesus name...
I am easily traumatised when i know someone is going through anything that causes them pain......
Women are really really trying and any man who has a woman that he does not thank God for every day, or a mum and sisters that he does not pamper,then you are cold hearted....
I pray that men who compare the pain of a woman to an animal, place or thing, fall deeply in love one day and get the message.....
Have a nice day....
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posting at 201pm..hahahahahahahahhaha
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SECRETS TO HAVING A STRONG RELATIONSHIP
If you desire a loving and lasting relationship with your partner, you and your partner need to adopt the following habits below:
1. COMMITMENT:
Commitment is very important if you desire to have a strong relationship with your partner. You have to decide to stick with your partner and make the relationship work irrespective of the flaws your partner might have. Couples who renew their commitments everyday, in words and deed, are on their way to having a strong relationship.
2. KEEP YOUR PRIVATE LIFE PRIVATE
When you put your relationship on social media, you invite the public to your relationship. Keep your private matters private. It’s a relationship between you and your partner and not between you, your partner and the public. You can share your fun dates with your partner or some nice photos together on your Facebook or Instagram app but make sure you draw the line where necessary.
3. KNOW WHEN TO LET THINGS SLIDE AND LEARN HOW TO MANAGE CONFLICTS
Finding ways to reduce the frequency of conflict in your relationship by letting go of the little things will help you build a strong relationship with your partner. Arguments are normal in a relationship but you should make sure you never insult your partner during an argument. Always listen to what your partner has to say during an argument.
4. LEARN TO LISTEN
Speaking less and listening more is important if you want to build a strong relationship with your partner. It’s important you always pay close attention to what your partner has to say. Ask your partner how his/her day went and listen to him/her talk about their day.
5. MAKE TIME TO DATE
Spending quality time with your partner is important if you desire to build a strong relationship. Nothing substitutes for time together. No matter how busy you are, always create time to go out on dates with your partner
6. BE TOTALLY TRANSPARENT
Partners in strong relationships have no secrets. If you desire to build a strong relationship with your partner, you have to be completely transparent with your partner. You don’t need privacy in your relationship if you want a strong relationship.
7. TRY NEW THINGS TOGETHER
Whether it be something as simple as watching a movie neither of you has seen, or something as extreme as skydiving, trying new things together as a couple is important if you want to have a strong relationship. Trying new things together keeps the excitement and passion going in your relationship.
8. COMPLIMENT YOUR PARTNER
You shouldn’t save the compliments for big events alone, make complimenting your partner a regular occurrence. You make your partner feel special and noticed when you compliment him/her and this helps build a strong relationship
9. NEVER PUT EACH OTHER DOWN IN PUBLIC
How you treat your partner in front of others matter if you desire to build a strong relationship with your partner. Never ever put each other down or say anything negative about your partner in public. Only say supportive and kind things to each other in public and save disagreements for when you both are alone.
10. NEVER GET TIRED OF SAYING “I LOVE YOU”
These three little words “I love you” are important if you want to build a strong relationship with your partner. No matter how long or hard your day was, always end your day by telling your partner how much you love him/her. End your day with the words “I love you”.
11. LEARN HOW TO COMPROMISE
You have to understand the value of compromise if you want to build a strong relationship. You may not always want to do what your partner wants but if it’s important to your partner, do it with a smile on your face.
12. Pray and Play Together:
Couples that pray and play together stay together. Hand in hand each morning before you face the vicissitude of life, read a devotional and pray together.
Take turns to pray for your marriage, your challenges &your children. If its your turn to pray, lift your spouse's burdens to The Lord and thank God for the wonderful spouse He gave you.
Never miss an opportunity to celebrate life's milestones together. Celebrate anniversaries and birthdays. Make it simple and sweet. Play and laugh together. Be merry with the person you married and watch your love for each other grow from strength to strength
You will not fail in marriage in Jesus name
# Remember Love is Natural
#copied
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AGE OF EACH OF THESE COUNTRIES:
Nigeria: 66 years
USA: 250 years
Netherlands: 445 years
Sweden: 503 years
Spain: 547 years
Monaco: 729 years
Switzerland: 735 years
Thailand: 788 years
Mongolia: 820 years
Portugal: 883 years
Hungary: 1,026 years
Poland: 1,060 years
Denmark: 1,061 years
England: 1,099 years
Norway: 1,154 years
Russia: 1,164 years
France: 1,183 years
Morocco: 1,238 years
Bulgaria: 1,345 years
China: 2,246 years
Iran: 2,575 years
Japan: 2,685 years
Ethiopia: 3,000 years
Egypt: 5,125 years.
Make we leave Nigeria to breath, she's still a baby learning how to walk.
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WEIRD FACTS
---You cry when you cut onions because your tears react to the propanethiol s-oxide released by the onion, creating acid in your eye.
--- Friendship isn't about who you've known the longest. It's about who walked into your life, said "I'm here for you" and proved it.
--- 93% of students now do their research online rather than in a library.
---- The structure of your brain changes every time you learn something new.
---- Huh? means the same thing in every language.
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ONE CHANCE MARRIAGES
Many men married ladies they had no business marrying simply because she was cooking for you, washing for you, cleaning up after you, and doing other “wife duties.”
You were so impressed by things you should have been capable of doing for yourself that you ignored deeper issues staring you in the face.
Now you are married and suddenly you are discovering character problems, value differences, disrespect, lack of peace, poor communication, incompatibility, emotional instability and all sorts of things that were always there.
What exactly do you want us to do now?
The signs did not appear overnight. You ignored them because your stomach and your comfort were leading you.
In the same way, many women have ended up with men who became weapons fashioned against them simply because of money.
He was paying bills,Sending transfers and Funding soft life.
Meanwhile, the man had anger problems, controlling behaviour, no compassion, terrible values, pride, manipulation and all sorts of red flags. But money covered everything.
You convinced yourself you were “loved” when in reality you were dazzled.
Now you are married and shouting that he is wicked, proud, controlling, toxic and unbearable.
But truthfully, many times, those signs were not hidden. The love of money simply blinded your eyes.
You never see anything sef.
This is why people must stop entering marriage desperate for rescue.
A lot of people are not looking for a life partner. They are looking for someone to save them from discomfort. Some want a cook and housekeeper. Some want an ATM and lifestyle sponsor.
Then reality comes after the wedding
Marriage has a way of exposing motivations. Very fast.
If you cannot stand on your own as a functional adult before marriage, there is a high chance you will ignore serious warning signs because your emotions, needs, desperation or dependency will cloud your judgment.
#copied
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*Right now, your greatest responsibility is getting your life back on track and becoming the strongest, healthiest version of yourself.*
ReplyDelete*Don't waste your energy worrying about who stays, who leaves, who understands you, or who changes. This chapter is about choosing yourself. Heal your mind, rebuild your discipline, protect your peace, grow your finances, strengthen your body, and reconnect with who you truly are. The people who are meant to be part of your next chapter will find you when you get there.πΆ♂️
Thank you for this Isaac π
DeleteMy prayers are with you our dear BV. May God grant you divine healing and restoration π
I pray for a big August miracle for you and your family in Jesus mighty name. You will come back to testify to the glory of God ππ€
True talk bro, unfortunately,most people discover it very Late
DeleteWell written π―
DeleteDivine healing to the bleeding BV in Jesus name amen
On point..
DeleteGreetings people
DeleteAbsolutely π―
DeleteFly away Peter, Fly away Paul.
ReplyDeleteCome back Peter, come back Paul.
LOL ππ€£
Nursery rhymes that year π
DeleteHola Nwokem π©Άπ how’s your day going?
To the bleeding bv, Gods speed upon you , may He heal you completely π
Good afternoon to y'all and π hope everything be fine wherever you are at?
ReplyDelete@Stella posted a minute past 1pm on the dot and it's a bit late sha.
Quick One
Which would you rather pair your beans with?
1. Garri
2. Bread
#TerrificTuesday
#TurnUpTuesday
#TruthfulTuesday
Beans and garri
DeleteDepends on my mood π
DeleteGarri
DeleteGood afternoon to y'all and π hope everything be fine wherever you are at?
Delete@Stella posted a minute past 1pm and it's a bit late sha.
Quick One
Which would you rather pair your beans with?
1. Garri
2. Bread
#TerrificTuesday
#TurnUpTuesday
#TruthfulTuesday
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Take your time, to write, proofread and then post. Than always coming back to drop an edited version everyday. If it was someone else doing this, you would have dropped your own "2 cents". π
DeleteThe garri better be Ijebu garri oo. When I am in the office, I will soak the garri but when I am at home, I will do what we call concrete (konkere). I will put the garri on top of the beans. Very sweet ooo. If possible, I blend the garri a little to turn it to fine grains (lebu). It goes well with the beans.
DeleteBeans and Ijebu garri..
DeleteBeans is a nightmare talk of pairing it
DeleteVincent I like that you are bringing fun questions here.
DeleteI will like it with bread.
The wife wey dem give me for kano....3days ago
ReplyDeleteAlmost take her bath inside washing machine....... this morning
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This marriage is it:
Stay or wakaa πΆ
Lol π
DeleteGod abeg o...na village woman? π€£π€£
DeleteThat Kano's mass wedding was sponsored by the the State government. Seems to be a campaign strategy.
DeleteAs how na?!
DeleteBros we Kanoians now be oluku reach like dat na.. easy π
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DeleteDem give you wife
You no get shame for not getting wife by yourself
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@Smb you know nao
Delete@Adunni.... for night city girl baddie but for morning villager
@Lora I go bring our wife from kano nao recently
Delete@bros na me talk am .... no vex na fagge side
Lovely afternoon to you all amazing people.
ReplyDeleteHow is everyone doing., the rains keep th..reatening.
It's a little bit sunny today, even though .
Have a beautiful rest of the day
Yeah it’s sunny here today
DeleteHola babe π
@ weird facts: --- 93% of students now do their research online rather than in a library ——- yeah right ❗️
Oh Lord Send Your Divine Healing Upon The BV , AMEN
ReplyDeleteWellcomeee Innnnnnnnn Houseeeee Newssssss
I Greetlicious Everybody ooooo ❤️
Hello iya Boys
Amen π How are you doing dearie? π€
DeleteI'm Fineee My Loveee ❤️
DeleteNa true true Nigeria still dey sxck breast....
ReplyDeleteTo the bv up there you are heal..........
Say this to your body
Omoh..Not everyone holding your hand is holding your heart. Oluwa saanu fun wa ooooo.
ReplyDeleteI pray for that BV, she will go in peace and come out in peace. It's not yet your time. God will surely take control and avert any mistake to be made by the surgeon in Jesus name.
We keep moving
Amen to your prayers Pinky π
DeleteOh God of COMPASSION..pls have Mercy on d Bleeding BV.
Delete.make her completely well. IJMN ..Amen.
Pray for divine healing for the BV.
ReplyDeleteTo the bleeding Bv, total healing I wish her.
ReplyDeleteStella what are they evacuating again? Since she doesn't have a womb?
God's healing hands are upon you@bv
ReplyDeleteGood afternoon everyone
Hola darling ❣️how’s your day going?
DeleteThe people that splashes foamy water on the wall while bathing without rinsing it when done what’s exactly is the color of their problems❓common sense ain’t truly common…i used to wonder really if their brains doesn’t connect for them to know they need to rinse the wall when done? Such a disgusting sight
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DeleteYou and I are on the same reasoning..even back of the buckets that soaps will be splashed everywhere you can't rinse or clean up everywhere...I hate such with passion...but then we're told to accommodate them
I saw a man with a big scar on his forehead at a supermarket farrr from my house. He was with his wife and daughter. He kept stealing glances at me until our eyes met and he smiled. I bought what took me there and left them still shopping. When I got home and opened Facebook lo and behold, I saw him under people you may know. π² π«’ π³ The big scar made it easy to recognize him on the DP so I said make I confam and it was truly him God abeg o
ReplyDeleteTechnology ❌❌ π ♀️
Juju ✅✅ π
Good afternoon People of God.
Wow Egypt is very old
What an incredible story.
DeleteAnd what a coincidence.
Hmmm
Se na map algorithm we go call this one now abi wetin?... God abeg o!
DeleteHard to believe though lol .
DeleteMay the Bv come out safely in the mighty name of Jesus. May God perfect her healing.
ReplyDeleteIt is well with her.
Amen dearie, we pray for divine healing for her π
DeleteAmen!
DeleteGood afternoon πππ
ReplyDeleteTo the BV going through health challenges. God will see you through.. He will grant you speedy and permanent recovery. Amin
Hope your day is going well π
Egypt ivdey hail ππ
ReplyDeleteSunny Afternoon Everyone π₯°π₯°
Divine healing to our blog visitor that is sick.
May God come through for you..
May God perfect your healing πππ
Oh God please heal that bv cos I'm really scarred
ReplyDeleteHow are you scarred? The right word is scared, not scarred. There is a difference.
DeleteOh well, maybe she's scarred from a similar experience ( her or someone else)
DeleteMay the abundant grace of God locate the sick sister in Jesus' name. Amen. May she have testimony of how she recovered.
ReplyDeleteI pray for the BV that God takes control of her situation and give her a mouth full of testimonies. Amen
ReplyDeleteHeavenly Father, we commit the bv going for surgery into your hands. You are the God who sees what doctors cannot see. Lord reveal the hidden cause of this bleeding in Jesus name π
ReplyDeleteWhere medical knowledge has reached its limit, let your mercy speak in Jesus name π. Let her come out of this stronger, healthier and with a testimony that will glorify our name in Jesus name π.
We pray for complete healing and restoration, in Jesus name.
GOOD AFTERNOON MY SDK FAMILY πΉ
Amen
DeleteGood afternoon SDK and BVs. God's speed to the BV. God will heal you completely .ππΏπ€
ReplyDeleteWelcome IHN
ReplyDeleteGood afternoon everyone
I Pray for divine healing for the bleeding BV
Sign out post on point
I pray for the bv going through pains, divine healing in Jesus name. It is well with you
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ReplyDeleteGood afternoon everyone π₯³
To the BV who is bleeding, I pray that the mighty hand of God will rest upon your life and your health. May God grant you divine healing, complete restoration, and a quick recovery. May He strengthen you, keep you safe, and bring you back home safely in Jesus name. Amen.
Tomorrow makes it exactly 3 weeks since I had my fibroid and vaginoplasty surgery at LASUTH. Looking back, I’m grateful to God for bringing me this far. It has been a journey, but God has been faithful every step of the way.
Oh... May God continue to strengthen you.
DeleteThank God for you ππ
DeleteIt ended in praise ππ₯°
Jehovah is your strength
May God perfect your healing, hugs dear π€
DeleteTo the BV going for evacuation, you'll come out saved. Have a permanent healing.
ReplyDeleteIt's well @ the last post
Good afternoon Beautiful people π₯°
ReplyDeleteThe sun came out today!
The Bv ... It is well with you in Jesus' name.
ReplyDeleteGood afternoon everyone
ReplyDeleteMay God's divine healing be upon the BV. She shall testify. Amen
May the healing hands of the Almighty rest upon the BV. It is well with you, sister. Good afternoon everyone. Hope our day is going well.
ReplyDeleteNothing I no dey hear these days ooo.
ReplyDeleteSeems the set of devils they released from hell this time around have mental disorder. Cos tell me what made these thieves, went to a grave,exhumed the dead body,and stole the casket?
When the same devil wants to disgrace you,he will carry you enter where you no know.
Thank God they were caught, if not double wahala for the dead body.
Omo! People get mind oooo
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ReplyDeleteMy little advice: On one chance marriage.
The Bible says, Can two walk together, unless they are agreed? (Amos 3:3).
Therefore, before saying yes! ask yourself, can we walk together spiritually, emotionally, morally and practically?
Some people are not looking for a spouse, they are looking for a saviour from poverty, loneliness, discomfort or responsibility.
But the spouse was never meant to be your saviour.
Jesus is.
Cooking cannot cure a bad character.
Money cannot cure a controlling spirit.
Beauty cannot sustain a marriage.
A luxurious lifestyle cannot manufacture peace.
Do not allow temporary benefits to make you ignore permanent problems.
Pray before you fall in love.
Observe before you commit.
Seek counsel before you say yes.
Because the red flags you ignore while dating may become the tears you cry inside marriage.
May God give us the wisdom to see beyond what we desperately want, and the courage to walk away from what he never ordained. ππ½
Marriage is not a rehabilitation centre where you marry someone hoping that your love will change them. Only God can truly transform a person's heart. Seek God, but also seek wise counsel. Don't allow desperation to silence discernment.
Age of the countries up there.
ReplyDeleteNigeria would have been more than 66 years if not for the colonial ma
Nigeria would have been more than 66 years old if not for the colonisation.
ReplyDeleteHow so? When Nigeria never existed before colonisation? North, South, East, West were never one country, the British coined that name: Nigeria.
DeleteOh thanks for reminding me.
DeleteNow I remember it was regional before the amalgamation.
God's mercy and divine healing unto you dear BV. God is in charge of your situation, amen.
ReplyDeleteI pray for divine healing for bv going for surgery.
ReplyDeleteThe years of those countries really shocked meπ₯Ί
We pray for a successful evacuation.
ReplyDeleteGood afternoon ladies and gents
Good afternoon BVs
ReplyDeleteSuccessful surgery and speedy recovery dear Bv
It is well with the Bv going for evacuation in Jesus name, May God perfect her healing π
ReplyDeleteI pray for Divine healing for that Bv, Nigerian is really the youngest
ReplyDeleteGood afternoon everyone
ReplyDeleteHowz the day dey go
I pray for the bv going for surgery, for the success and divine healing
Enjoy the rest of your day
Fibroid!! God punish that thing. Since I was diagnosed with it, I have been very careful cos even surgery doesn't guarantee shit! My aunty was diagnosed with fibroid at 68, so you can imagine.
ReplyDeleteStella i need you πΆπ«️π«©
ReplyDeleteOmo thank God for my life o, the only sickness I've ever suffered in life is typhoid and Malaria which doesn't pass two weeks
ReplyDeleteSending love to all women in painsπ«
Divine healing in Jesus name.
ReplyDeleteGod's healing hands on the Bv ππ»
ReplyDeleteEgypt nabreal ancient and modern .
Been a very busy day.
Toddler Nigeria will get up some day.
Cheers to a pleasant day π
BV that is going for surgery. God will go with you and make it successful in Jesus Name Amen.
ReplyDeletePlease can someone help sort this out. I can't watch videos posted by Stella on this blog. What can I do to rectify this on my phone. All videos come out as picture.
ReplyDeleteBv going for evacuation divine healing upon you
ReplyDeleteEgypt is the oldest country in the world π³