I salute you with Hailings!
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Shout out on a beautiful Monday afternoon.......
Did anyone here buy Dangote shares? I encourage you to do it if you have money....You can buy ten shares if you no get at all and see how it goes....
Let me take a break from posting but will be enabling comments..
I have some posts scheduled to come up......
I have one question to ask here...Why do some of you follow BV Eka Joy on social media and come back to troll her in the comments? nawah, its not nice at all..let her be or you troll her on her handle so that she will know its you, not that you will commenting on something that has nothing to do here and trolling and making shocking comments.....
Creating content either as a journalist or as a content creator is not easy.....I dont think Eka is doing it for the money cos there is really not much anymore and they are tightening the ropes and this is why there is so much fake news for traffic and even at that i hear that monetising will soon be so low that people will lose interest...Eka is doing it for fun.......Make una let her or anyone else here creating content to breath......
Live and let live or you leave and let live!!!
Thanks.....
😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘
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SPONTANEOUS POST AND IN HOUSE NEWS HEADLINES..
I will never ask anyone to do me headline again...something that i can do by myself, i decided to create fun with it and some people cannot sleep and are giving me orders on how to gift out.....
I cannot remember what i said i will give oh but if i use your content i will gift you something and wont announce it, its on you to announce if you like when you get it.......I may use yours and modify to my taste..
I didnt like 90 percent of it cos most were too long and out of content...Headlines need to aways be SEO and most of them were not all......What you people posted is the body of a post and not a headline...Only one person almost got the attitude i like so will be using most of hers...
Make una take am easy, i no send anybody and WILL NOT BE REPLYING OR RESPONDING TO ANYONE...That ship salied in 1912...
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INSIDE THE MIND OF A WOMAN GOING THROUGH MOTHERHOOD
I saw a question on Friday In House News about how and what to do to homeschool one’s child, and I will do my best to answer it. Like everything in life, it requires planning and learning. With homeschooling, you learn as you go.
Homeschooling is simply when a child is educated at home instead of attending a traditional school.
There are different approaches to education, and you have to choose what works best for your child and what suits your reasons for homeschooling. We have the Behaviourist approach to learning, the Cognitive approach to learning and the Humanistic approach to learning.
Under this umbrella, there are twelve types of homeschooling: Montessori, Classical, Eclectic, Unschooling, Charlotte Mason homeschooling, Road schooling, School at home, Online homeschooling, Games homeschooling, Unit homeschooling and Project‑based homeschooling.
I started with the Montessori method when my first child was a toddler. For him, we now use the Eclectic homeschooling method, while his siblings use the Montessori homeschooling method.
I find the Montessori approach suitable for my kids because it is child‑led and flexible enough to meet their learning needs.
For the Eclectic homeschooling style for my first child, I lean towards a combination of Classical, Montessori and Unschooling.
I really wish I could break it down more. There are a lot of resources online to help you make a choice.
Also, if you are in Lagos or Abuja, there are strong homeschooling communities available. They organise meetings, classes, excursions and hangouts for homeschooling parents and kids.
There are mentors who will guide you through the process.
There are also amazing printable activities and materials for homeschooling toddlers on Pinterest.
The highlight of one of these meetings for me was speaking with Nigerian young adults who were homeschooled until they went to university. They are young parents now, homeschooling their own kids. Listening to their point of view helped me become more flexible with mine.
Homeschooling until they go University how?????????????Please how? Cos this thing is messing with my head!!!......I would need some space from this pikin so why hang with me until University...Please i am clapping right now for anyone Homeschooling their child oooooooooooooo….
One has to also be financially capable to homeschool a child….
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Be Your Own Hero and Celebrate Yourself
There comes a moment when you stop waiting for applause and start giving it to yourself. Life will not always hand you cheerleaders, so choose to become your own hero , the one who rises, fights, grows and refuses to shrink.
Celebrate your strength, your survival, your small wins, your loud victories and even the quiet battles no one saw.
Honour the version of you that kept going when everything tried to break you
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NOTORIOUS FOR JESUS
I remember one of my big aunts whom my mother raised. She was an orphan. Her parents died a year apart, and after their deaths, her siblings were scattered among different family members.
My mother became very fond of her because she was beautiful, hardworking, and well-behaved. She enrolled her in secondary school and supported her throughout the six years. But after she completed her senior secondary school exams, she approached my mother one day, thanked her for everything she had done for her, and told her that she needed to leave because she wanted to take care of her siblings.
My mother felt betrayed. She cried and tried to convince her to stay, but her mind was already made up.
That night, my father spoke to my mother about the situation. He told her that although she had been kind to the girl and had done so much for her, she was now a grown woman and no longer a child. She needed to leave and experience life for herself.
My father also told my mother that he was sure she would eventually come back because, in his words, there was probably a man behind her sudden decision to leave.
Long story short, my mother eventually gave her the freedom to go. She left.
But, lo and behold, about a year later, she suddenly called my mother and said she wanted to come and visit. When she arrived, she was already pregnant.
She begged my mother to allow her to return because the man responsible for the pregnancy had abandoned her.
My mother told her she would think about it and get back to her, but deep down, her mind was already made up.
She felt that once the girl had made the decision to leave, she had to live with the consequences of that decision. My mother had given her an opportunity, supported her, educated her, and treated her like her own child. But when she chose to walk away, my mother decided she couldn't simply come back whenever things went wrong.
My mother never accepted her back.
Hmmm if she had come back, she may have had the baby and run away to come back with another pregnancy…..Once they start useless gbenshing, they never stop.
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SIMPLE FACTS THAT MAY SURPRISE YOU
1. Sleeping without using a pillow may help ease back pain.
2. A person's height is mainly inherited from their father, while their weight is mainly inherited from their mother.
3. When you suddenly feel exhausted, shaking your head may help bring your energy back.
4. The human mind naturally pays attention to things such as food, attractive people, and danger.
5. Listening to high-tempo music can raise your heart rate and make you feel more energetic.
6. Chewing gum may help improve your memory and ability to concentrate.
7. Turning on a blue-light filter on your devices may help reduce eye strain.
8. Smiling, even when you don't really feel like it, may help lift your mood.
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Sent in by BV Glory O.....Thank you for always sending in materials for in house news.......
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WEIRD FACTS
----Don’t broadcast every high and low of your life. Just live. Don’t try to convince the world you have a life.
-----Forgiveness is the key to happiness, according to psychologists.
----A husband and wife from California who were born on the same day, married for 75 years and died just one day apart at the age of 94.
----Usually, the people with the best advice are the ones with the most problems.
---Mark Wahlberg was actually booked to fly on one of the planes that crashed into the twin towers on 9/11, but he missed the flight.
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FIRST DAUGHTERS TAKE YOUR FLOWERS
FIRST DAUGHTERS TAKE YOUR FLOWERS
Who says a first daughter isn’t romantic and sweet?
They would say “we’re too strong.”
“Too responsible.”
“Too busy carrying everybody to be soft.”
First daughter , the planner.
The one who checks if everyone ate.
The one who solves problems before they become problems.
The one who holds the family together even on days she’s falling apart.
So people assume we forgot how to be soft.
But the truth?
We’re the ones who remember your favorite cake flavor without you saying it twice.
We’re the ones who will sit with you till 2am just to talk.
We’re the ones who write long messages, plan surprise dates, and pray for you in secret.
We’re romantic ,just not loud about it.
We’re sweet — just not performative about it.
Our love shows up as consistency.
As “I got you.”
As showing up when it’s inconvenient.
As choosing you, even while we’re choosing everybody else too.
So no, being a first daughter didn’t make us hard.
It taught us how to love deeper.
To love with my hands, my time, and my heart.
To every first daughter reading this:
You’re allowed to be both strong and soft.
Responsible and romantic.
The backbone and the cuddles.
We’re not too much. We’re just that girl
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A MEMO TO MEN ON MCM
Dear Men, these are some important things to focus on so you stay out of women’s business and pages online.
1. Go see a dentist; some of you have never gotten your teeth examined or cleaned in your life. Healthy dental care is vital for good health.
2. Your feet are like a rock, go get a pedicure and sign up for periodic visits. Don’t forget a manicure as well. Having nice fingers and trimmed nails is a flex.
3. Stop taking sxxual enhancement pills or concoctions; you are close to getting a cardiac arrest. Go see a doctor about your erectile dysfunction; many of you have issues in that department, including young men in their 20s.
4. Improve your personal hygiene. Many of you are passing infections to women because you don’t clean your manhood properly and daily. Clean your buttocks; the brown (shit) residue in your boxers is disgusting. Change your boxers every day, like your unsolicited daily opinions and comments on women’s pages.
Good luck .
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May this new week bring us peace, unexpected blessings, and opportunities. May all our efforts be fruitful, and may we have countless reasons to be grateful. ❤️
ReplyDeleteCheers to a blessed and productive week ahead ✨
Manchester United, mtcheeww.
Amen 🙏
DeleteManchester derby filled with controversy , PGMOL needs to do better…. I didn’t watch the game cos Spectranet decided to be mad with their epileptic network 😒
Amen 🙏
DeleteAmen 🙏🏼
DeleteYagazie oke ogom.
Madam paris, you didnt greet him nwokem today. What happened?
DeleteThat weird fact "people with the best advice are the ones with the most problems" SO TRUE
Delete15:55 her eye dun white
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Good day to y'all on this space. It's the beginning of a brand new work week and hey, do make it count! Hope your Monday has been it or nah? Do have a stress-free day wherever you are at.
ReplyDeleteQuick One
1. Pegs
2. Keys
3. TV Remote
4. Stockings/Socks
5. Spoons
Which one of these aforementioned options would win/cop an award for something that randomly disappears at home?
#MotivationalMondayationalMonday
#MagicMonday
#ManCrushMonday
#MarvellousMonday
#MoneyMakingMonday
Spoons
DeleteFollowed by pegs
Do not copy Chidera, IR
DeletePegs o 😊 they get kidding all the time.
DeletePegs and spoons for me. As for my stockings, I pair them alwaysss. My keys and remotes have their special seats , so e go hard for them to disappear. Lol 😂
DeleteEnjoy your day too
You are raving mad with no one to tell you @Anon1445. Ode ni e!
DeleteGood day to y'all on this space. It's the beginning of a brand new work week and hey, do make it count! Hope your Monday has been it or nah? Do have a stress-free day wherever you are at.
DeleteQuick One
1. Pegs
2. Keys
3. TV Remote
4. Stockings/Socks
5. Spoons
Which one of these aforementioned options would win/cop an award for something that randomly disappears at home?
#MotivationalMonday
#MagicMonday
#ManCrushMonday
#MarvellousMonday
#MoneyMakingMonday
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Spoons and pegs.
DeleteIn my house, it is peg followed by spoons then keys.
Delete*missing
DeleteSpoons and pegs. I don't know where they disappear to
DeleteTO the men out there who can boldly tell a strange girl or lady:
ReplyDelete“Please stop it, I can never cheat on my wife on our matrimonial bed.”...........
TODAY’S MCM GOES TO US!
May doors open for all of us this week. 🙏.....
The door will definitely open dear Jellybean🙄
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DeleteAmen 🙏
DeleteHappy Men Crush Monday to all our Odogwus in the house 😍
If you don’t have the capacity to raise a child, you shouldn’t bring one into the world. You’re not just affecting one life, you’re creating problems for all of humanity.
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Absolutely true 👍
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DeleteGo back to yesterday’s clapback , there’s a lovely message for you ❤️.
DeleteAnon 16:52,
DeleteThanks.
I don't need to go back or check anything. I'm tired of clapping back at anyone here. Ike adịzịzi m. I have no strength left for this.
On this space, some things that once mattered to me no longer do. I’ve been here long enough, and I’ve watched people come and go. I just want to be happy and live in peace. You’re all free to say whatever you want. I’ve left that place and that position. It’s not worth it anymore.
©️ TEEJAY
Homeschooling....well, they are yours and momma knows best.
ReplyDeleteBut social interaction is also a form of education.
Children with down syndrome have special schools where they meet and interact.
Every child matters and I think cutting them off will do more harm than good.
Yes , people are around them but they are not peers.
There's this understanding and all that comes with interacting with your peers Traditional school affirds that.
Stella..which be usess gbenshing?
But the world is telling young people to be woke. Prop6jow have sex from very young age of 16 sef. Too old even.
Truth is ,na God hi hello because Las Las..it's the girl at the receiving end. Check now,it's own uncle that invited her over like the one cutting uncle's hair in the column looking for a small girl.
How is this gbenshing thing sef? Some people just get derail thanks to premarital sex.
ReplyDeleteEveryday I keep seeing reasons to close leg.
Mtchewww. Poor thing.
Like you are now a vagin eeh kwa🙄😅okoo
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Yes love....I am
DeleteGood afternoon y'all
ReplyDeleteHola babe ❣️ how’s your day going?
Delete@Game Mistress, the Hallelujah challenge isn’t happening today, till 5th of October… today till 29th is for evening fasting , from 6pm to 9am
That last meme is the truth.
ReplyDeleteI only advertise my wares now, no more life updates.
Glory O thanks for sending in stuff. I will try that sleeping without a pillow and see how it affects my back ache.
You are welcome Asa🥰
DeleteYesoo,just try it but make sure you are lieing on a flat surface ie the bed or mat as the case maybe
Just like how they are here.
ReplyDeleteHow people will complain of haters on their status everyday
Talk about fake friends all year round
Talk about people monitoring them...
They are looking for what to hold on to. Sizing up and hoping one day they will see what to use and talk.
Hopers can hope
Haters can haters
Jesus will still be the Lord. End of discussion
The homeschooling stuff, won't the child be laid back socially? You will homeschool till university?
ReplyDeleteHian!
It's good for children to mingle with other children in a school environment.
Omo! Dem dey try o
DeleteDear Mummies and daddies, a new school session has started 📚 And there is pressure everywhere.
ReplyDelete* Pls don't over work yourself. Do what you can afford.
* Buy essentials not extras.
* Take one step at a time. When you do your best, God will do the rest 🤗
Eka dearie, pls don't listen to negative people. I love how you started your podcasts as something you love to do. It will yield profits for you, amen 👏
Have a blessed week beautiful people 😍
Good Afternoon Beautiful People ❤️
ReplyDeleteI love the weather today🥰
Good afternoon beautiful people.
ReplyDeleteI salute everyone here 🥰
ReplyDeleteHope your day is going on well
First daughters,take una flowers🌹 once again,na only God go see all the first daughters through Amen 🙌
Lols @ "That ship sailed in 1912...😅
You are welcome Nne SDK,
I appreciate🥰
Those trolls are just jobless.
ReplyDeleteMotherhood poster, you are really trying. But I just feel they might not really concentrate since you are the one doing the home teaching and stuff. Just my opinion.
September is running with speed
ReplyDeleteO chim mu
Okechi mu
Good sunny afternoon people of God
ReplyDeleteYour mother did the bestest thing abeg @ NFJ
Fact 3 wowwwww
Fact 5 lucky Mike
Dear First Daughters, abandon not thy noble quest💐 💐 💐 🥂
Good afternoon SDK and BVs.
ReplyDeleteGood day everyone
ReplyDeleteMay this week bring all good expectations. Amen
I don't use pillow like dat but the backache of a thing.. well e fit work for others sha.
ReplyDeleteWow😳 who would have known him today? Thank God for ur life. @ last fact.
Keni nice day ✌️
Stella, I’m not doing it for fun oh! Lai Lai! I’m doing it for money. I’m hoping someday soon, I start earning money from them! Running 3 AI pages across all platforms isn’t easy at all.
ReplyDeleteBtw, those that have run across my page have never trolled me sha, and still don’t (to the best of my knowledge). They told me their IDs already and they are people I already like sef! God works in mysterious ways sha as e no dey let my enemies come across my pages.
hian ok...
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ReplyDeleteThis story reminds me of the parable of the prodigal son in Luke 15.
The son made a terrible decision. He left his father's house, wasted what had been given to him. But when he came to his senses and returned home, his father did not stand at the door and say, You made your choice; now live with it.
Instead, when the father saw him from a distance, he ran to meet him.
That does not mean the son's actions had no consequences. He still had to live with the decisions he had made. But his father's love was not withdrawn because of his failure.
This is where I see this situation differently.
The young woman was an orphan. She had lost both parents and had been separated from her siblings. She may have genuinely felt responsible for them. Yes, there may have been a man influencing her decision, but she was also young and perhaps did not fully understand the consequences of walking away from the woman who had taken her in, educated her, loved her and treated her like her own child.
Her decision may have been wrong, but sometimes people make foolish decisions without fully understanding the pain and consequences those decisions may bring.
If I were in your mother's shoes, this is what I would have said to her👇
What you did hurt me deeply. I loved you and wanted to give you a future. When you chose to leave, I felt betrayed. But despite everything that has happened, you are still my daughter in my heart. I cannot erase the consequences of your decisions, and I cannot pretend that what happened did not hurt me. But I will not abandon you simply because you have fallen. If you are willing to take responsibility for your life and your child, then we will find a way forward.
To me, that is the difference between enabling someone and showing them grace.
Grace does not mean saying that what someone did was right.
Grace does not mean removing every consequence of their actions.
Grace does not mean allowing someone to repeatedly take advantage of you.
Grace says, What you did was wrong, but your mistake will not determine whether I will show you love.
I wouldn't condemn your mother. She was human. She was hurt, disappointed, and probably felt that allowing the girl to return would teach her that actions have consequences.
But as a Christian, I would still lean toward forgiveness, restoration, boundaries, and accountability rather than permanent rejection.
After all, there may come a time when the person who once walked away from us needs the very grace we once received from God.
We should correct people when they are wrong, but we should be careful not to close the door that God may still be asking us to leave open.
Because sometimes, the greatest expression of love is not rescuing someone from the consequences of their mistakes; it is standing at a safe distance, extending a hand, and saying, You made a mistake, but you can still come home.❤️
Yinmu. Carry your goody 2 shoes self outter here. Pretending to be an angel online, shior
DeleteStella, i bought 190 units of the Dangote Refinery shares. Let's see how it will all go. I may still buy more too. This is the first time i am buying shares in Nigeria though i've been thinking about doing so for some time now.
ReplyDeleteInteresting much!
DeleteCongrats dear...
DeleteHow's the return going to be like in the long run? Hope it doesn't take so long before one can get his/her money back? I am still bemused as to how it works but I can see it on my Moniepoint and UBA.
DeleteYou have to wait if they will approve/ allotted the 190 units... if it oversubscribed... they will refund you back some of the money...
DeleteThe final decision will be after the closing date.... but I pray they approve all for you....because Nigerians Don crash all the platforms....right now
Goodluck
I homeschooled my son for a term in primary school due to relocation, i loved the experience but i dont think its advisable to do that for a long period because children also need each other asides their siblings to mix with.
ReplyDeleteGoodafternoon everyone.
You're right dear. School goes beyond formal education 👍
DeleteThank you so much, @Choc, Mor, Glory, Marie, Osundi and Waju for the birthday wishes and prayers.
ReplyDeleteThank you for celebrating me and for all the kind words. God bless you all and grant you your own heart desires too.
Busy day, the learners' turnout in school today is impressive, over 95% and new intake are in school. How far with the school runs parents? The Lord will continue to strengthen us.
ReplyDeleteThe # 2 surprise fact is so true of me and few of my sibling, but the reverse is the case for the other.
Stella, I sent mine own headline through mail the first time you mentioned it here, I never knew it was to be posted here.
Hello everyone, e go bi.
Sleeping without a pillow can ease back pain, will try that
ReplyDeleteHello everyone 💞
Hope your day is progressing well
Eka, what's your Tiktok handle? Let me follow you. Please follow back too 😊
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DeleteKing Jerry is a cutie, SDK is a beauty, Nk is looking pengy! all of una foineeee!
ReplyDeleteFacts 2 no dey always follow ohh! My mum is taller than my Dad,I am tall,my other siblings are talk except 1 person.
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ReplyDeleteGood afternoon everyone 🥳
Happy Men Crush Monday to all the amazing men here 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
IHN
ReplyDeleteGood afternoon everyone 🥳
Happy Men Crush Monday to all the amazing men here 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
Has anyone noticed that money doesn't make noise. So let's be wise
ReplyDeleteGood evening everyone and happy new week
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