Yes!

Very Very cheap. Make we no deceive ourselves.

skin crawling

No, I don't think it is. A first date doesn't mean you're just getting to know each other that very day. You can know someone for a while and have been communicating without meeting each other, especially in a distant and online relationship. The chemistry built over this period becomes so intense that you both really crave to meet each other and possibly make out. You finally meet for the first time and make out on the same day. Does that mean she's cheap? No.

Secondly, if you want to ascribe cheapness here, why limit it to the woman alone? So a woman giving in willingly on a first date is cheap to you, but the man who couldn't control himself isn't? One thing I have come to understand is that whether you give it on the first date or a later date, if it's meant to be, it will be. I have seen people make out on the first date and later get married, whereas those who made out after much delay ended up separating later on. The important thing I would say is that no one is cheap if it's done on the first date. The most important thing is, let it be willingly and not under compulsion.

Let the person you're giving it to be worth it. That's all that matters.


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No. There are people that had sex on the first date, and still waxing strong in their relationships. Just do what works for you.

Capital NO.
Do whatever that works for me.
That it didn't work for A does not mean it will not work for B..