Weekend hailings....
FRIDAY MEMO
How una dey. I woke up to see wet ground this morning and it surprised me. The weather is just doing come‑and‑go....cold today, warm tomorrow. By next month, the clock will change and Europe will be on the same time as Nigeria again.
I really don’t want to address this, but I have to. BV XP, please stop mentioning me in any write‑up you do. I do not like the demeaning way you refer to me. I have no problem with you, but I cannot allow you use certain words on me and expect me to look away. Whatever you think I am .... mugu, mumu, smart, stupid , you are correct. Just don’t mention it openly again.
Also note that I did not know you have private contact with France, and I have no intention of coming between the two of you. Why would I want to do that? If it looked that way to you, please overlook it.
I have nothing but like for you.
Papa Chucky, please stop engaging yourself in a war of words with women here...just ignore them abeg you...E dey your body...Just ignore!!!!
I am seeing that they are trying to turn you to a woman hater before you know now they will add that i am the one enabling you...So please do it for my safe and cos of my love for Chucky oh...
Hugs to all....
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Time To Reflect On Yourself And If You Gifted Smiles Or Tears
Sometimes you need to pause and look back at your own footsteps…..
In the last week, month, or year, did you give people smiles, or did you leave them with tears?
Did your presence calm situations or scatter them?
Did your words heal or wound?
Did you show kindness or did you allow anger to speak for you?
Reflection is not punishment. It’s correction.
It’s how you grow, how you soften, how you become better than yesterday.
Today, take a moment and ask yourself quietly:
Did I gift smiles… or did I gift tears?
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NOTORIOUS FOR JESUS
Last year, I was working with an online company that was Arab-based and, by extension, Muslim.
I had a class with two young girls. One of the students, an 8-year-old, abruptly asked if I was a Christian or a Muslim.
At that point, I knew where the conversation was heading, and although I would have preferred to quench it, I wanted to enlighten this innocent mind.
So, I replied that I was a Christian. At that point, her countenance changed, and she quickly added that she didn't like non-Muslim teachers.
I looked at her and felt so much pity. She could even summon the courage to say the word "Christian."
It became clear to me that someone had brainwashed the child.
At that point, I had only one mission and, perhaps, one chance to speak to her about Jesus.
However, I had an impediment. It was an international academic class, not a street or a church.
I had to find a way to introduce her to the concept of Christ without necessarily calling the name Jesus or Christ.
I remembered that the gospel of Jesus is love: "Love your neighbour as yourself." Nothing more. The gospel cannot be spread with a sword or hatred, but simply through the empirical formula of love.
So, I told her that it didn't matter if she didn't like me; I loved her.
At that point, she went silent, and her countenance fell. I could tell she was disappointed because my response wasn't something she had expected.
At that point, the classroom went silent. Imagine telling someone you hate them for no reason, and they tell you they love you for no reason.
The other child said, "Teacher, I love you." Sigh.
At that point, I knew Jesus had saturated the room. Something had been done to their minds, a thorough renewal, a new orientation, and a new outlook.
The children had unlearned what they had been taught, and now it was time for them to start doing research on their own and not depend solely on what they were told.
It is amazing how a simple truth can cancel out so many lies.
The rest of the class was conducted mostly in silence. I had done the work of an evangelist.
After I bade the children goodbye, I realized that we don't always need to say much. Sometimes, very little can carry so much weight.
I also realized that we don't always have a lot of time. We must always be prepared through the Holy Spirit.
Not a topic i wanna meander into…...
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KNOW THIS
--. Your word must be your bond!
--. Show gratitude. Always!
--. Some people come into your life from r a season. When they leave, let them.
--. Failure is okay. But what you do after you fail is what eventually defines you.
--. The 10-10-10 rule. Will this matter in 10 days? 10 months, or 10 years.
--. Integrity is non negotiable
-- Life moves fast! Take the photos for the memories.
-- Listen more than you talk"
--. Your word must be your bond!
--. Show gratitude. Always!
--. Some people come into your life from r a season. When they leave, let them.
--. Failure is okay. But what you do after you fail is what eventually defines you.
--. The 10-10-10 rule. Will this matter in 10 days? 10 months, or 10 years.
--. Integrity is non negotiable
-- Life moves fast! Take the photos for the memories.
-- Listen more than you talk"
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BEST NIGHT HABITS
--. Always brushing your teeth.
--. Drink a warm glass of water 5–10 minutes before sleeping. You could even keep a water bottle near you.
--. Switching off your phone/ laptops/ any digital devices 1 hour before sleeping.
--. Wishing good night to your family.
--. Pack your things and bag, for the next day. It really helps me be relaxed instead of rushing for things at the last minute.
--. Taking out, your clothes for the next day. So that you ensure they are clean, ironed and yah its easier to choose when you are not in a hurry.
--. Reading 1–2 chapter of a book.
--. Making a to-do list.
--. Follow a night time skin regime. Also people having long hair should tie it before sleeping.
--. Reflection, quiet and meditation
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I had a dinner date last night.
ReplyDeleteSo, while I dey go just three estates away from my house I noticed say music dey everywhere and I was hearing some serious Igbo songs and chants......
Naso I see my neighbour. He flag me to park, so I just put head one. I only wanted to stay for a minute, but before I knew it, I don join them singing and chanting.....
Then I started smelling the aroma of roasted meat and jollof. My voice became louder than everybody's own. I dey sing, dey chant and dey enjoy myself. At that point, I don forget say I dey go date....
Somehow, I was served one BIG bowl of jollof. I dey shake waist, dey nod head to the music and enjoying myself like say na my family celebration.......
Na so one person from nowhere begin pour powder for people's face and head.
Then from behind, person pull me and pour powder reach my neck, join head and face......
I already sabi the custom. In some Igbo communities, when dem just give birth to a child, this kind celebration fit happen. One side of my grandparents na Igbo, so I sabi wetin dey happen.
Five minutes later, one woman come pour another FULL powder join am.
Na there I remember say I get dinner date.
I check my phone and see 14 missxed calls from the lady.
I apologise say I no fit come again and say make we pick another date.
She tell me say I no serious........
So I decide to snap my face with powder and meat for my mouth and send am to her........
Her response?
Thousands of π€‘π€‘π€‘ emojis.
So people no dey patient again?
π€ una Good daiii
Whoever coach Phyna, na better Coach, Phyna just used the running around tactics against Nkechi, cos of her body size Nkechi gas out and weak before she strikes, no much thing Phyna do just tactics and it works
ReplyDeleteAnd for Apki abeg no they disgrace yourself abeg, na everybody they win you. Mtcheeww.
Happy Blessed New Month Everyone.
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Very funny to watch
DeletePhyna knocked her out π as for Akpi, he should just respect himself
DeleteStella, like I said yesterday, Im not in any WhatsApp group with anyone here neither do I private chat XP…. Why would I be checking up on her here if we private chat? I believe you misunderstood her comment yesterday about me being the chairman of I don’t send WhatsApp group, it’s just a figure of speech not that we literally have a WhatsApp group
Interesting, Phyna mouth matches her energy π
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ReplyDeleteTGIF! π₯π₯ Una good afternoon o. Wetin dey happen? I am super stoked for this particular weekend and all sat to see who becomes the winner on Sunday. Y'all should vote Cool FM's finest, Sheba mbok.
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Happy weekend everyone. How Una dey?
ReplyDeleteIf you do not have any issues, either health, etc, thank God daily.
You are actually the wealthiest . You just don't know it yet
Haven't you heard there a re problems money can't solve? Stay thankful always.
Have a lovely weekend
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DeleteTruly Health is wealth
Since last week i know how much i have spent on medication
Thank God am better now
I wish you plenty sales
This life is not exactly fair to women. Only a woman will go through painful menstruation. Only a woman will go through painful child birth. Then comes pre-menopause symptoms. Unplugging you totally from your own life. No one prepared me for this pre-menopause stage in this life. I spent so much on medication because I thought it was malaria and the rest.
ReplyDeleteMay God have mercy on women.
Good afternoon y'all
ReplyDeleteSo, today my gym management launched a new body scanning machine. I was scanned and everything is fine, except that I need to loose 1.3kg body fat.
I currently weigh 66.3kg.....The highlight for me is that I do not have visceral fatπππ
My weekend is made.... Oh la laππππ
I forgot to add that my metabolic age is working 2 years younger than my real age πππππ
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ReplyDeleteGood afternoon everyone π₯³
Keep smiling, keep believing, and trust that better days are ahead.
Have a beautiful and blessed Friday!
Better days ahead π―
DeleteStella, women are turning excesscode into a woman hater, really? Ns wa. Don't you see how he goes about insulting women unprovoked? Take dimplez for example. He called her daughter of jezebel, and all sorts. This is someone that was just gisting about her son. Caution him, and stiop enabling him.
ReplyDeleteHmmmmmmm the matter no taya you?
DeleteMe that is always minding my business
May God heal him
So the men here shouldnt have a voice but we all see you guys gang to insult him too? HE fit you guys wella pls sdk let these troll feel the heat too.
Delete14:09, just dey look.
DeleteGood afternoon my people, how are y'all doing?
ReplyDeleteThe festival season has started over hereππ.
WE KEEP MOVING!!
Good afternoon SDK and BVs. Happy weekend. πππ
ReplyDeleteHappy weekend beautiful BB π₯°
DeleteHello everyone ππππ
ReplyDeleteI posted this on Sp yesterday and I thought I should make the post again. The sanitary pad trends i talked about the other day was about how lot of women were complaining, not just one or two, but dozens, about hormonal imbalances, severe itching, rashes, burning sensations, and even peeling of the genital skin after using certain brands. Some popular brands were directly called out in the comment sections. The complaints were much and honestly alarming. Many women said they thought it was an infection at first, until they stopped using the pads and the symptoms cleared. Then I started seeing videos from some medical practitioners talking about how some of our sanitary pads are made with arsenic and other toxic chemicals in high doses, and that this is the cause of the many complaints women have been reporting. They explained that some of the fragrances, bleaching agents and super-absorbent materials used to make the pads "extra white" and "extra absorbent" contain chemicals that shouldn't come in contact with such a sensitive area, especially for long hours. Has anyone else experienced this? Do you also have such complaints after using certain sanitary pads?
Why was my reply yesterday to Bv Excess code not enabled?
ReplyDeleteYou have one hour to respond or what happened in 1967 will happen here.
Na you dey enable the currses directed at me,na you dey form cry baby. It is werking for you.
Just reply.
And errrrm, dem no invite you to naming ceremony?
No news for here,what's appin?
Let me have Independence Day 2 chawa πΏ
Amma abia.
Don't mind her, she was even the one that mentioned your name first but now coming to warn you not to mention hers. Always playing the victim
DeleteGood afternoon Beautiful people π
ReplyDeleteThat sign out post is so true!
I had a little understanding with a woman I treated like a sister and she told the man that was trying to settle the rift that me and her we are not blood related, after that time, I just shifted smallπ
Shuuu Big Stellz who i be. Please if u feel offended by words or banter. I mean no harm. Dimplez gaskiya am truly sorry. Ur Pimplez mean a lot to me. We need to clear them. Don't let dem come between us. I have received my healing. TGIF. Happy Weekend to everyone. God bless you. Remember love conquers all. Love you all.
ReplyDeleteSign out post is true, it will now look as if there's something else to the small misunderstanding, when they started saying all sorts.. God have mercy π
ReplyDeleteHello everyone..
Its so sunny ☀️ on this side..
Keni nice day ✌️