TUESDAY MEMO
Shout out to everyone oh...…..I hope that your day is going on well?I have sneezed like ten times since morning...…...LOL.....Its getting to that time of the year!
By month end, the time will change and you will get confused if you are not used to it...It will look I posted too early and you will see comments like ''Thank God I met Spontaneous post today''...E no go anywhere before and I don't tamper with the time.....The extra one hour shift backwards help people sleep one hour more...…
I don't even understand, why doesn't the whole have the same time? who came up with this different time idea?
Na wah!!!!
I am about to make chicken soup...Not chicken peppersoup oh...Chicken soup....Not for swallow oh......Ndi oyi chicken soup.....lol
Enjoy the rest of the day and feel free to do some advert...…...
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Be Intentional About Being a Good Person
Being a good person is not accidental , it is intentional.
It is a daily decision to choose kindness over cruelty, empathy over ego, and integrity over convenience.
In a world where negativity spreads fast, being good becomes a deliberate act of strength.
Goodness shows in how you speak to people, how you treat those who cannot repay you, and how you behave when no one is watching. It is in the small choices: respecting others, keeping your word, showing compassion, and refusing to let bitterness shape your character.
Life will test you. People will provoke you. Situations will push you but being intentional about goodness means you rise above pettiness and stay committed to who you want to be, not what the world tries to turn you into.
Choose to be a good person on purpose, with purpose, and without apology.
Your character is your legacy.
God help me remember this always!
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TEACHER LIFE
There was a day a parent came to school ready to fight a teacher because, according to him, she was fetish and wanted to use his child for ritual.
As a pastor, he said he would not stand for it.
Apparently, his child had taken home a piece of feather from the classroom.
When he found it in the child's bag, he started calling management staff, saying the teacher wanted to steal his child's destiny.
The following morning, he came to school demanding to see the teacher.
He wanted an explanation for the feather and a red bottle top he had found in his child's bag.
The HM had already spoken to the teacher, who explained that the feather had been used during a lesson to teach the children about heavy and light objects. Other teachers in the same department also confirmed it because they had feathers in their own classrooms.
As for the red bottle top, that was simply a coincidence. We all had different colours of bottle tops in our classes we used for counting.
But the man wasn't backing down.
He said he had prayed and received a revelation that the teacher was evil and that his child should be removed from her class.
At that point, the HM had to comply because imagine the child remains in the class, something completely unrelated happens, and the man comes back saying, “I told you people!”
The teacher was quite happy the child was changed and the new teacher is literally walking on egg shells.
LOL...i can understand the teacher but i understand the parent better..he must have received a rude shock seeing that in his childs bag na....
The following morning, he came to school demanding to see the teacher.
He wanted an explanation for the feather and a red bottle top he had found in his child's bag.
The HM had already spoken to the teacher, who explained that the feather had been used during a lesson to teach the children about heavy and light objects. Other teachers in the same department also confirmed it because they had feathers in their own classrooms.
As for the red bottle top, that was simply a coincidence. We all had different colours of bottle tops in our classes we used for counting.
But the man wasn't backing down.
He said he had prayed and received a revelation that the teacher was evil and that his child should be removed from her class.
At that point, the HM had to comply because imagine the child remains in the class, something completely unrelated happens, and the man comes back saying, “I told you people!”
The teacher was quite happy the child was changed and the new teacher is literally walking on egg shells.
LOL...i can understand the teacher but i understand the parent better..he must have received a rude shock seeing that in his childs bag na....
Well done teachers!
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WHO PINNED FINANCIAL RESPONSIBILTY ON A MAN ALONE???
Who said a man must carry every financial responsibility alone?
Before you come for me, hear me out.
Yes, a man should be responsible and provide for his family. But marriage is more than one person carrying all the weight while the other simply receives.
What happens when life happens?
What happens when business is slow, a job is lost, or unexpected challenges arise?
Marriage is a partnership.
As a wife, your support matters too: financially when you can, emotionally, mentally, and in countless other ways.
No, I'm not saying you shouldn't enjoy your husband's generosity or that he shouldn't take care of you.
I'm saying don't see yourself as someone whose only role is to bear children and be taken care of.
Bring value.
Contribute.
Be a source of peace and strength.
Sometimes your support is money.
Sometimes it's encouragement.
Sometimes it's standing by him when life isn't going according to plan.
The strongest marriages are not built on "your money" and "my money."
They're built on "our future."
Let your children see teamwork.
Let them see two people building together, supporting each other, and facing life's challenges as one team.
Because a healthy marriage isn't about who gives more.
It's about both people showing up for each other.
#copied
The only people who would be angry about this writeup are the people who feel its referring to them.......Someone who married a Swedish guy lost the marriage becos she entered it with Naija sense and wanted to drain the man....He must bring money for everything..HE RAN!
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WHO PINNED FINANCIAL RESPONSIBILTY ON A MAN ALONE???
Who said a man must carry every financial responsibility alone?
Before you come for me, hear me out.
Yes, a man should be responsible and provide for his family. But marriage is more than one person carrying all the weight while the other simply receives.
What happens when life happens?
What happens when business is slow, a job is lost, or unexpected challenges arise?
Marriage is a partnership.
As a wife, your support matters too: financially when you can, emotionally, mentally, and in countless other ways.
No, I'm not saying you shouldn't enjoy your husband's generosity or that he shouldn't take care of you.
I'm saying don't see yourself as someone whose only role is to bear children and be taken care of.
Bring value.
Contribute.
Be a source of peace and strength.
Sometimes your support is money.
Sometimes it's encouragement.
Sometimes it's standing by him when life isn't going according to plan.
The strongest marriages are not built on "your money" and "my money."
They're built on "our future."
Let your children see teamwork.
Let them see two people building together, supporting each other, and facing life's challenges as one team.
Because a healthy marriage isn't about who gives more.
It's about both people showing up for each other.
#copied
The only people who would be angry about this writeup are the people who feel its referring to them.......Someone who married a Swedish guy lost the marriage becos she entered it with Naija sense and wanted to drain the man....He must bring money for everything..HE RAN!
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WRITTEN BY A MAN FOR OTHER MEN
Mr lover boy is ready to throw hands with strangers to defend her honor, yet she won’t even defend him in a simple group chat:
If your girlfriend respects you, she will never put you in situations that require violence or public drama. The moment she insists on keeping contact with a guy you’ve told her is unacceptable, drop her immediately. No conviction means no respect ,she will keep testing and walking over you.
Women secretly admire men who use intellect and frame control, not simps throwing fists on their behalf. You’re risking your safety and freedom while she’s unwilling to risk minor social awkwardness for your reputation. That’s not partnership. That’s one-way simp service.
A woman who values you will de-escalate conflicts, not create or enjoy them. Many only love the validation of having men fight over them — not the man doing the fighting.
Brotherly, never fight other men over a woman who won’t even fight for your image. If her actions constantly drag you into high-stakes drama, she values attention more than your peace and safety.
Cut her off. Real queens protect their king’s reputation. The rest belong to the streets.
#copied
This made me smile......I imagined the face of the writer.....
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DO NOT COMPARE
· ----No one is greater than you, and even you are not greater than anyone.
-----You are unique , You are a perfect reflection of the divine.
· ----When this realization is clear, you go out on this beautiful world gracefully.
-----Never worry about what the world around you is thinking.
·---- Do not let your mind worry by comparing yourself with others, and you neither care about the opinions of others nor expect anything from anyone.
-----When the divine child within you arises, comparison completely fades away and leads you to a more joyful and fulfilled life.
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WEIRD FACTS
...... Memories triggered by scents are stronger than memories triggered by any other sense.
....... Your shoes are the first thing people notice about you subconsciously.
......People who swear a lot tend to be more honest, upfront, and loyal to friends, partner, and family.
·.......with empathy, the ability to care for others.
...... Everyone's tongue print is different, just like fingerprint.
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Just keep it low, be real, be humble and believe in possibilities 💯 %
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DeleteThat's right 👍🏼
DeleteUna good afternoon o. Wetin dey pa?
ReplyDeleteI am not even in a good mood but its all good as I am still hopeful something can happen much later.
Quick One
Are you team fish pie or meat pie or chicken pie?
#TerrificTuesday
#TurnUpTuesday
#ThinkTankTuesday
Team meat pie and chicken pie, fish pie is a no go area for me, the first time I tried fish pie I nearly vomited my intestines..
DeleteI love that positive attitude. Cheer up, don't lose hope, because better days are ahead for sure!
DeleteTo answer your question: I'm team fish pie all day. Don't let the meat pie people deceive you, we have the real flavor. 🐟
I love all...ate one fish pie the onions made me want to throw up..I detest seeing it especially in pies
DeleteI enjoy pies of any kind especially chicken pie.
DeleteBut my kids love fish rolls I make. I don't make them as pies....I make them as rolls.
I'm team all especially when the pie is rightly filled.
DeleteTeam meat pie with chilllll coke, any time any day.My love for junk food eehh..LORD help me🙏
DeleteMeat pie is my forever favorite, i can do chicken pie too
DeleteThe sun is friendly today ...
ReplyDeleteJust kinda tired and need to sleep
Its not friendly here o, too high!
DeleteHa! Friendly ke? The sun wey dey shine this afternoon didn't come to play at all.
DeleteIt's not friendly here o.
DeleteThe sun here forgpt we are in October not march, am roasting
DeleteI agree with the poster that wrote being a good person is intentional.
ReplyDeleteSign out post 📌💯
ReplyDeleteGood afternoon SDK and BVs. It's a sunny Tuesday. 😍
ReplyDeleteSame here
DeleteGood afternoon 😘
DeleteGood afternoon everyone
ReplyDeleteWhat a freaky fabulous Tuesday, the sun is sunning, enjoy the rest of your day
I love it,at least my clothes will be dried
DeletePeople of SDK blog, we have been suffering since Sunday mid night till now. NEPA went on strike ooh.
ReplyDeleteEwo..this is much o... sorry..wish we can WiFi light to you
DeleteChai... With this heat?! Una doh o
DeleteSorry dear, naso we see am for here. Half half light.
DeleteLora darling, been a while 😘🤗
Ah so sorry o.
DeleteLoving weather... I've got nothing to complain of..just grateful and thankful
ReplyDeleteYes o no complaints but gratitude.
DeleteI even thought the time change will be 23rd, I guess I thought wrong. Na month end for some people sha 🙂
ReplyDeleteThere's a tongue print too? Wawu!!
ReplyDeleteGood to know 👍
Enjoy the rest of your day everyone 👌
Yes dear, just like our fingerprints 😊
Delete..WHO PINNED FINANCIAL RESPONSIBILTY ON A MAN ALONE???
ReplyDeleteThe same men who rant about being the head of the home and see their women yet see the women in their lives as inferior beings
The men who demand total submission from their wives, but completely ignore the biblical command to love their wives selflessly, acts of humility (like Christ washing the disciples' feet), and the instruction that both partners should submit to one another.
The same men who demands submission even though they don't love their wives as Christ loves the church and showed humility by cleaning the disciples feet
The ones that screams submission because the bible says so yet ignore that the same bible that says both men and woman are meant to submit to each other
The same men who pinned household responsibility on the woman alone because it makes her 'sensible'
Timid men who do not want their wives to work because they feel financial freedom leads to being exposed and outspoken
The same men who believes a man can cheat but a woman shouldn't and if caught the man should be forgiven after all what would the woman do if she finds out he cheats and who knows if the next man she marries will be faithful while the woman should never be forgiven and divorced since an 18 years old vjrgin bride is who is waiting for him outside with zero body counts from a wealthy home with culinary skills and high sex drive.
The burden of being the sole breadwinner is a self-inflicted wound of strict patriarchy.
The rigid, patriarchal men are the ones who pinned financial responsibility on themselves because they believe it allows them to maintain absolute control over women.
Asides from money what do some of them bring to the table?
Hello beautiful people 💕
ReplyDeleteThe way this blog moved on without the self acclaimed Alpha male is a lesson to all. Especially those ones that think that everything revolve around them.
ReplyDeleteEven as he sneakily wants to do a comeback everyone ignores him🤣🤣 even his nwa boi didn't blink an eyelid 🤣🤣 oga high service couldn't stay long on anonymous.
I saw his comment few days ago and no one I mean no one noticed 🤣🤣🤣
Do whatever works for you life no get manual. Some women started paying bills because they don't want to be dependent on the man,and the man left everything to her to carry, since she's able. I'm not a fan of leaving everything to man, but no carry load wey na man suppose carry unto say you want show good woman oo.
ReplyDeleteWhat a tiring day..thank you Jesus,..
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