Midweek hailings
WEDNESDAY MEMO
I salute you all oh..
Arrrgh why this Ai come change Teacher Nk to another name? babe abeg no vexs, i go redo am next time, i have to post this.....
Enjoy the rest of the day and dont let anyone stress you oh.....
The One Finger Judging Others And The 4 Pointing Back
People forget that the same finger they lift to judge another person is the same finger quietly reminding them to look inward. That one straight finger pointing at someone else always has four bent fingers pointing right back at you, asking if your own hands are clean, if your own heart is tidy, if your own corners are as spotless as you claim.
Life has a way of exposing the truth: sometimes the loudest judge is the one hiding the biggest mess.
This is a gentle reminder to slow down, breathe, and check yourself first. Clean your side. Fix your attitude. Mind your heart. Because the world is watching, and the truth always finds its way out. Before you judge anybody, make sure you are not guilty of the same thing or worse.
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POSITIVE WAYS TO ACCESS GOOD LIFE
---. Life isn't complicated; our thoughts make it complicated. Shift your focus from negative things to positive ones , and life will be simpler.
---. There's nothing wrong with moving on. Sometimes holding on is more painful than letting go. Learn to let go of your past.
---. Forget what everyone thinks of you. Follow your heart and do whatever it takes to succeed.
---. Stop complaining and start doing. Don't just wish for it, work for it.
---. Be productive, not busy. It's not enough to do things, do the right things.
---. Learn new things, even in difficult times. Look for small glimpses of hope. Remember to become stronger.
---. Accept the fact that life isn't perfect. The real world rewards people who do good things , not perfection.
---. Identify what's important to you. Focus on your priorities and eliminate unnecessary things.
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NO CLASSMATE AGAIN
At the 75th Anniversary of Mawuli School, a man fondly called ‘Kportimelakle’ was there. He will be 90 years old soon and was part of the 1959 year group.
He came to celebrate, hoping to meet his classmates but sadly, none were around. Most of them are gone and may be, those alive were too frail to join the celebration.
He said “ I did not meet any of my classmates”. That moment was deeply symbolic. It reminded me that life is fleeting, and our time together is limited. The people we laugh with, work with, and walk with today will not always be with us in the future. So, let’s love while we can.
Let’s forgive easily, support generously, and celebrate one another while we’re still alive. Legacy isn’t just in what we build, it’s in the hearts we touch and the lives we uplift. Let’s live fully, love deeply, and leave no kind word unsaid.
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THE COST OF ANGER
One guy bought a brand new 2026 Camry Hybrid and just as he was turning to head to heard to Bonny Camp by Governor's Place at Marina, this Honda Pilot, that was trying to dodge a Vanagon, removed his side mirror.
The Honda Pilot driver sensing he had je gbese, took off to 3rd Mainland Bridge.
Mr Camry chased him and finally caught up with him at the interchange to Dolphin.
He slammed into him from behind.
His airbags activated. He was saved.
Honda Pilot was not so lucky. No airbags activated. Driver had a head injury, cut lip and also suffered whiplash (that he carried for 5 months).
And his pregnant wife, whose water had broken, that he was rushing to the hospital, passed out, but thank God for an Ambulance from Lasuth, that was on a return trip from the St. Nicholas, back to Ikeja. The Ambulance stopped and helped.
God's hand. Or coincidence. All survived.
Cost:
Honda Pilot; front and back windshields, boot, back bumper, rear lights, panel beating, spray job=3.8m
medical bills = 2.7m
Camry; major repairs N14m
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WEIRD FACTS
---- Don't chase people. Work hard and be yourself. Under these two principles, the right people will find their way into your life.
---- Nobody knows whether spiders fart.
---- Your voice sounds deeper to you than it does to everyone else.
---- You can lose yourself trying to please everyone, but you can also lose everyone trying to find yourself.
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Good afternoon to y'all. How has been your day sfsg? Is it raining wherever you are at or the sun is shining in its full glory? It tries to rain sometimes and the weather now becomes clear to the shame of cloudiness afterwards.
ReplyDeleteQuick One
Are you going to take a takeaway filled with some absolutely delicious smokey jollof rice containing four pieces of fried beef and titus fish OR 5k straight up without mincing words like right now?
#WomanCrushWednesday
#WittyWednesday
#WonderfulWednesday
#WinWinWednesday
Hello Vincent how are you keeping'on
DeleteAll of the above...plus rice o,plus 5k o,all joinπ.I go need cold juice to top it up na.
DeleteI am trying my best o @ChocoNoir. It gets overwhelming for me sometimes cause it ain't easy but I keep on keeping on.
DeleteThanks for asking and hey bless up!
I am curious and and would want to ask where you are resident outside Nigeria though but it's not under compulsion. You can write the first two or three letters or better still, code it.
This 2026 has been one hell of a year for me but thank goodness all the same.
Where do I even begin from? Is it my half brother/sister brouhaha that made me react or the things that I have lost?? Its all good and of course, I am not about to let naysayers win right about now.
Enough said!
Good afternoon. Money o. I even need it now ππ
Delete@Vincent honestly I asked because I've been thinking about you and if your dad has been laid to rest ? Also I didn't see your comment for some days and I wondered if you were fine.
DeleteSo the thing is I live in multiple places because of family life π , Don't worry things would work out keep holding on...well one of these days you'd hear from Stella stay strong.
They offer this one handshake he wants to grab the whole arm, oniranu. What's your business with where she lives. Choc, avoid this guy
DeleteTHE REAL PRIZE..
ReplyDeleteNo matter what happens
Don't let it wreck your day/week.
Pick the lessons.
The lessons are the real prize,
Trust in God, workhard, fast and pray, bcos one day it must come to pass, all the hardship will be no more, it will end in praise.
Amen.
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This life is so funny π€£π€£ How you guys Cynthia, Paris and co suddenly act as if you are not concerned about what is happening to your once beloved Manchester United is shocking. I know you know you have a match today, but of course you already know what the outcome will be, so you don't want to talk about it. Is this how Manchester United has fallen? The Red Devils!!!! Old Theatre... The theatre of dreams.
DeleteCynthia this morning was praising PSG, the very PSG we dealt with and were crowned world champions. I was like, is this how women move on so fast? She has thrown her support to the PSG team that I wonder what happened to all that chant of "United for life."
Oh well, I can give you the scoreline for today's game against Como if you don't mind. You see that man online wey una cut him ₦650,000 in the very first match of the season against Hull City wey swear for una, make una contribute that money go beg that man and give am. E be like the curse don begin affect that club. See Manchester United see relegation.
©️ TEEJAY
Teejay, United is my club forever!
DeleteI support PSG in France and Real Madrid in Spain.
As a football fan and lover of the game, you're allowed to support more than one club after your main.
My club isn't doing well which is normal with everything team, we will get better, for now, I'll keep enjoying the beautiful game that other teams that I like are playing.
What is my own whether spiders fart or not. π€£
ReplyDeleteStella why do i feel attacked @ this would have been me ??? ππππ
ReplyDeleteCome have some coffee ☕️ you'd love it !!! I got a new coffee machine for iced coffee love love love it !!!
Choc baby, I think I need that coffee as well. I wouldn't mind. Away from that, I have been trying to say this but I don't know how you'll react to it. I noticed you usually use small letter "i" instead of "I" in your comments here often. "I" should never be in small letter, no matter where it is in a sentence, unless when it forms a word. It's just a little observation I humbly want to point out to you.
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Awwww...coffee people ☕π
DeleteHave a sweet day Choco dearie π₯°
Tj, you are one to correct. Na wa π€£π€£π€£π€£
DeleteTJ it's my phone keyboard and sometimes i really don't have the energy to correct it. This is why sometimes i dont make comments cos it's very tiring.
DeleteHey Adunni how are you doing trust you're doing good, the month flew !!!!!!
DeleteYes oh I could have coffee round the clock doesnt matter the weather there's coffee for every weather.
"Choc baby", are you for real Teejay?
DeleteSince I started taking my iron meds, I just had to stop taking my favourite coffee and green tea cos you just dont know the best time to take them without blocking iron absorption. I need all the iron I can get now. Let coffee rest small. Ndo
DeleteU don see where pauper dey correct KING
DeleteAwww Abby there was a time I couldn't have coffee too it was so heartbreaking my dad would always tell me it was temporary now I can have coffee whenever I want. I'm even going on a coffee date soon πthat's how much I love coffee .
DeleteWhat's happening here? Y'all anons are not nice. Some bvs just like to go anon to chat shit. I used to write the small letter "i" and got corrected too. I took need and there hasn't been any problem with that again. There's nothing wrong with correcting someone and class should never even come to play in this kinda scenario.
DeleteWe all get corrected at one point or the other in life and this descending into an avenue to downplay it is not cool at all.
ChocoNoir doesn't even look bothered but y'all carrying it on your heads like gala being hawked in Lagos traffic is wild!
Teejay , please you're pointing with 1 finger and your remaining fingers are pointing right back at you. Your written English most times isn't that good Sir. It's not everything you see that you must speak about. Just an observation about you.
DeleteI just love the smell of coffee, it's divine.
DeleteSome of you are incorrigible. What was wrong with the correction I did? Don't other people correct others here, even those who do it condescendingly? Simply because it is me, as usual, it will become an issue, but if it was someone else, you wouldn't drop this unsolicited take of yours. The person I corrected didn't feel bad about it but gave a reason for it. So what is your pain about it? I don suffer for this blog. Every Tom Dick and Harry must use me want shine here. It's well o.
Delete©️ TEEJAY
What's happening here? Y'all anons are not nice. Some bvs just like to go anon to chat shit. I used to write the small letter "i" and got corrected too. I took heed and there hasn't been any problem with that again. There's nothing wrong with correcting someone and class should never even come to play in this kinda scenario.
DeleteWe all get corrected at one point or the other in life and this descending into an avenue to downplay it is not cool at all.
ChocoNoir doesn't even look bothered but y'all carrying it on your heads like gala being hawked in Lagos traffic is wild!
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Good afternoon, ladies in the house when you want to cook fried rice which brand of curry do you use to give it that green color.. thanks In advance π
ReplyDeleteCurry is NOT what gives fried rice that colour. Blend spring onions, bell pepper, sieve and use the water to parboil your rice.
DeleteCurry dont give it green colour, its all this branded spices that gives that green colour(larsor/amawonder/spicity).
DeleteDont use too much of it.
Green bell pepper*
DeleteGino curry with a little grinded turmeric powder.
DeleteWhat gives it that green colour is green pepper, you blend green pepper, 4 is okay.
DeleteCurry marsala. Go with anons method too.
DeleteI prefer ducros curry but I think I'll go with anon 14:33 too, I'm trying that method next time im cooking it
DeleteThank you all for your input, I really appreciate it…
DeleteYour fried rice doesn't need to be green. Just make it very rich and yummy, the colour doesn't matter.
DeleteIt's actually the veg combo that gives it the colour π₯π½
DeleteYeah Anon 15:38....I sometimes use curry marsala because of the nice colour.
Tumeric does the magic, original tumeric. I use Gino curry though.
DeleteSometimes I wish I could write recipes like XP and co I'd have dropped one for you .
DeleteIs it only me that has never used turmeric to cook?
Delete@Osondu. I think Tumeric makes it yellow not green.
DeleteBIG MAMA ♥️, I sight you. The smile that comes to my face each time I see your picture is indescribable. You're indeed a beauty to behold.
ReplyDeleteStella, it's like I'm missing something here. You're a woman, of course. You're not a man. So I don't really understand what whoever said meant about that. Or was it that there was emphasis on the woman.
This one, APC no wan release and share money abi e get wetin dem don already plan and perfect for next year election. I no just understand Bobo Chicago. By this time last year money don already dey flow. I need the money o. They should make it snappy please.
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Awwwh Teejay π
DeleteHope you are good.
I'm grateful π₯°
Yes I'm good beautiful Momma...
DeleteGod has been faithful.
©️ TEEJAY
So sorry I couldn't reply you guys yesterday on IHN. Rain beat us wotoporiously during school runs. Very windy rain.
ReplyDeleteWe do have steady power supply. Infact we're in band A, so for BEDC shutting down their services isn't funny at all. Fuel is very expensive, solar that one is no go area.
Thanks everyone for your concern and show of love.
Beautiful bv Big Mama, BV Ron and Teacher NK
The owner of a popular street wear clothing brand that talked about closing the business earlier in the year is said to be missing and was allegedly found floating on water. I just hope this isn't true π
ReplyDeleteI just hope to God that it is all cruise. Make nothing do that babe oo.
DeleteAnd this person does not have a name ?
DeleteI saw on Harisson page that she's alive and well.
DeleteUpdate: she has been found alive, Thank God.
DeleteGod abeg o, what is happening these days π¨
DeleteThey say she's fine.
DeleteShe threatened to kpai herself because her toyboy said he's not doing again.
Ah... I hope it's not what i'm thinking. When there's life, there's hope.
DeleteOh wow who could this Be.
DeleteThank God ooooo
DeleteMy people, turned out the whole drama was bcos of boyfriend. We need to bring back shame π€¦
DeleteSee my beautiful sisters up there π
ReplyDeleteWCW to you Stella & our lovely ladies on Sdk blog...Love you all ππ π
We have a fine weather today, enjoy your day beautiful people π
I love rain π§ lol
DeleteWeather is calm today, loveeet!
DeleteHello beautiful Adunni π₯°
Love you too baby.
DeleteYeah, the weather is a bit friendly today.
Goodafternoon Adunniade.
Where una dey see calm weather o, I'm jealous of you guys cia here, the weather isn't smiling.
DeleteHi, adunni
My beautiful Ifenkili π₯°π₯°
DeleteYou too π
DeleteChoco baby, it's my favorite season too π
DeleteMercybee dearie, this weather deserves some beautiful pictures π
My beautiful Mariam, have a sweet sweet day π€
Awww...GM darling, it's been so sunny this week. Don't worry, harmattan is coming π€
Osundi my dearest π₯° Have a lovely day π
Lora dearie, enjoy your day π₯°
Good afternoon SDK and BVs . Lovely women at in house cover. πππ
ReplyDeleteYea lovely women ♥️
DeleteBb darling π Have a sweet day.
DeleteDont chase people ke? If you have what I need to progress in life, ama chase you oo. Ama look for you.
ReplyDeleteAlready perceiving Christmas in the air. That beautiful feeling I always have during ember months don come upon me again. I was feeling myself and felt good from inside this morning as I stepped out of the house to go to the office. Everyone was just staring. Lol.
Welcome IHNs.
Lol ππ @ your first paragraph. Funny but true.
DeleteThe weather (inside my house) feels "christmasy" (whatever that means)π
Deleteπππ@ Chase after the person.
DeleteYes o, ama look for you π€£π€£
DeleteAby baby, how you dey? π
Your first paragraph though @Abi. ππΉ
DeleteChristmasy/Christmasey...All join!
Whether Christmasy or Christmasey..all join @Lora.
DeleteI can feel you babe. Cool feeling as though walking in The air
DeleteGood afternoon everyone.
ReplyDeleteMe that I'm not even Igbo, I want to vote for Alex Otti.
ReplyDeleteSee workings na, no silly excuses.
So a Nigerian governor can actually work eh? Wonderment.
The funny thing, another hardworking governor can go in and make all Alex Otti s achievements look like child's play.
That is how politics is supposed to be.
Not that someone will enter and everyone will still be hailing a governor from '75 as best gov.
Shame.
Honestly Alex Otti really transformed Abia state.
DeleteAlex Otti is working. Good governance is possible but greed won't allow the "others" do the right thing.
DeleteHe deserves a second term and that's on period!
DeleteGOOD AFTERNOON MY SDK FAMILY πΉ
ReplyDeleteStella may God bless you richly.
You are beautiful ❤️
DeleteBeautiful mama.
DeleteAwwwh Osundi π❤️
DeleteBeautiful ladies up there π€©.
ReplyDeleteThat cost of anger is so true. Look and think well before you act.
Beautiful women sighted up there ♥️π₯°
ReplyDeleteThanks to last night rain, today's weather has been really calm.
Keni nice day ✌️
Beautiful WCW to every woman here
ReplyDeleteThis guy that's currently on adventure onthe Congo basin, his team posted that they've not heard from him in 16 hours π²
ReplyDeleteBut he posted he was on the second Niger bridge, where he had to turn back cos his drone showed some guys coming out of the bush.
DeleteUr own na to bring bad news
Delete15:07, I'm talking about Ash Dyke.
DeleteBig STELLA ...... Take πΈ πΈ !!! You Don turn pro for this editing business! Beautiful ladies....
ReplyDeleteGood afternoon everyone
ReplyDeleteHow go dey go
Happy wcw to all amazing women in the blog
Good afternoon
ReplyDeleteGood afternoon ladies and gentlemen, how are y'all doing today?
ReplyDeleteHappy woman crush π₯° Wednesday to all hard working women of sdk villa!
WE KEEP MOVING!!
Good afternoon everyone π. Happy WCW to every woman on here.
ReplyDeleteEnjoy the rest of today ☺️
IHN
ReplyDeleteGood afternoon everyone π₯³
Happy Women Crush Wednesday to all the amazing women here π₯°π₯°π₯°π₯°π₯°
The eyes though, I could have sworn number 8 is mine π. Wo, we'll be fine.
ReplyDeleteBeautiful women ☺️
ReplyDeleteDear Igbo bvs,
ReplyDeletePlease what does oyoyom mean
Very beautiful women up there.
ReplyDeletePlenty fine women full here