Dear Stella,
I have a girl friend who has actually been my crush since 2010,I couldn't talk to her because I was so shy to walk up to her,we later met through a mutual friend,we have been dating since 2011,and I so much love her and its so apparent that the feelings are mutual.and am thinking of proposing to her real
soon,she's so humble,reserve,down to earth,open minded,trust worthy,beautiful,with good sense of humour,(but she can't satisfy me on bed,that's not an issue,she's ready to learn and improve in her skills) But the main problem now is,she has BODY ODOUR! Though am not so sure if she's aware of it or not,am thinking of talking to her about it or something but i think it might be embarrassing to her,not too sure of the reception from her and I don't want to loose her.what do i do? should I talk to her about it,even though have heard it can only be controlled and can't be stopped? And I also heard its hereditary,is that true? Kindly post this on your
blog,I need to know people's idea towards it before making up my mind.
Thanks!
Anonymous
u jus giv it a try nd tell bcos she needs to knw so as to control it.
ReplyDeleteI'm soo sure she's a yoruba gal...we igbos can never have body odour even if we don't take our bath for months...its in the genes
DeleteYou just show how foolish ure to the world.....Idiot!
DeleteWrong u Miss Igbo gal,I had an igbo friend on campus then,classy chic but with a deadly body odour!
DeleteSo u see it has nothing to do with where one is from.
Jst tell her, she will understand better sef.
DeleteBody odour has a cure if u use d right things. Tell her to start wit lime on her armpit first.
Anon 12:33 u wan start abi?
Oloshi oloriburuku. Jobless igbo girl with positive HIV status. May ogun god of iron terminate your life.
DeleteOshisco!
Okwa f*ckin igbo goat, you are such an uneducated retard! WTF does body odour have to do with tribe? For your info, I know tons of Igbo men and women who stink so pls STFU if you have nothing useful to say! Lost F*cker bringing tribalism to SDK's blog
DeleteStfu.. You need to visit Egbeda. In fact, I'm begging you to come to Egbeda. I will personally take you to some peeps.. It's not a tribal thing, idiot. Abeg, Stella, write on this issue. I vomit a lot nowadays cos the odour on some peeps is toxic and no, I'm not pregnant.
DeleteNo don't tell her.. Keep sniffing in the odour wheneva she's around you! Shior!
DeleteObviously u don't wana help her!
And for the peeps talkn abt yoruba girls ds n dat, body odour is nt al abt tribe its al about "obun".
N most peeps "kobalise" themselves while growing up. I ve a sis who can do fashion for africa,but she dare nt go out without bathn wt perfume frm head to toe and her deod is always in her bag cos wheneva she sweat she smells terribly. N she knows y.
When she was growing up then as a teen they use to beg her to be hygienic especially when avn her monthly period bt no she's jst so lazy and dirty! Nw she wana do oge and her past is catchn up wt her!
Afoowafaa ni most! So u can be a yoruba or hausa or ibo, if u are dirty and lazy n can't take good care of urself, u wl smell pass pig sty!
That's how I had a crush on one guy like that...and that's how I found out about his body odour.
ReplyDeleteMy take of it is that you talk to her about it...and it can aslo be treated
I also heard that some could be spiritual...cus there are some demonic spirits that do not want some people to get marrid so they make them smell
Ignorance is a disease. Please get well soon.
DeleteHmmm..well...to the poster. If u were concerned and brave enough to address her lack of experience in the bedroom, then in the same breath you should be able to address the body odor palaver. If She adhered to the bedroom one, me thinks this will be no different. Bcos both are issues that can be embarrassing anyway.
DeleteWhile d bedroom one can be hidden from outsiders as u groom her inside, the BO cannot be hidden or curtailed from them.
So I say this is of greater important than any other. Tell her, she would love u for it. Godspeed
**of greater importance**
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ReplyDeleteI don't know where you got your theories about controlled and hereditary BO but I know it can be eradicated depending on the cause.
I'll be surprised if she doesn't know about her BO already. If you love her, you will tell her. Find a conducive time, probably after making love to her and telling her you love her repeatedly, while holding her close and stroking her hair, tell her you've noticed she has BO. Tell her you are ready to assist her in finding a soulution.
If she knew already, she would realize her Perfumes aren't working and be happy she has your support.
Man up and let her know or look for a suggestion box or send her an anonymous email telling her about her predicament.
DeleteHeiyaa, lol, just tell her politely, like baby if u dnt tk ur bath at nyt d sweat and all makes u hv ds odour dt is not so nice, u can get her a strong doedorant and a good body spray that lasts, and also encourage her to tk her bath morn and nyt, and scrub d armpit, behind d ear and vjay thoroughly,and leave no hair under d armpit,also she shld try and not wear one clothe often without washing it well. this will stop it soon. Good luck
ReplyDeleteWow. You are a good man. For you to have been putting up with the odour and lack of bed skills, you should be commended.
ReplyDeletePlease tell her about her body odour. Work with her on it just like you've been doing with the sex matter
Body odour hereditary kwa I don't think so bt she can use good feminine deordourant nd perfumes in hidden areas nd bath with her nd pretend like u ar romantic meanwhile use d opportunity t scrub her body dat way she learns do it often. Secondly, buy her good expensive packs of deordourant nd perfumes. Thank me lata. Experienced chick
ReplyDeleteDude! You will definitely hurt her feelings if you go blunt on this.
ReplyDeleteInstead, buy her gifts of scented soaps, perfumes...you know....toiletries that would help chase the odour away.
You've got to be tactical man! You gotta help her do this without embarrassing or hurting her feelings.
Cheers!
Gbam!
DeleteU said it all,dis should help
DeleteBloglord and wide eyed, I love your comments on this blog.. I don't comment always, but I read comments always. Thumbs up to both of you.
DeleteOLUYOMI ODUKOYA!, don't comment always?
DeletePerhaps I didn't notice o
@oluyomi iranu oshi lo she e!
DeleteAgbaya jatijati, old mama youngi!
Get a life plsssssssssss!
Thank you o Anon 2.36, Oluyomi that comments on almost all Blog posts is forming "I don't comment always".
DeleteOshi o da
I don't think so darling bloglord. I think he needs to talk to her. Buying it is never enough. If you don't explain the need and reason for buying those items, it will seem like he's just being sweet. There's no need being sweet about this. When people stink up other people's space its unfair. Tell her u love her but she needs to make an extra effort to stop smelling.
DeleteWhen i first started at my present job, I'd just say someone is smelling and walk up to someone else who isn't smelling and say let me smell you. It will be funny but I have sent the message across. they started to call me sanitary prefect. I'd buy and distribute compact sure deo, offer gum, and disposable brushes. So people now kinda feel I may call them out on their BO issues but truly I no get the liver to do am personally. I'd just throw the information out there. So dear boyfriend, Hurt her feelings cos its u and her she'll thank you later. And dont stop loving her.
Stupid suggestion!
DeleteWhy assume she isn't already using soaps and perfumes?
She needs to be told so as to embark on a more serious plan. True love does not pretend or lie or suffer in silence.
Stupid suggestion!
DeleteWhy assume she isn't already using soaps and perfumes?
She needs to be told so as to embark on a more serious plan. True love does not pretend or lie or suffer in silence.
Bloglord abeg dt one no go work.... she may even put d gifts aside cz she really doesn't know how critical her case is...av always known one thing...wen ur bf tells u he's with u no matter wt d problem u hav is,deris dis joy dt comes with it...nd trust me she'll even find herself appreciating him more...d best he can do is to tell ha in a very nice way....they could even go shopping for perfumes nd deodorants together...she can never feel embarrassed dt way...nd mind u,he has to b very fast abt it,d moment a total stranger tells her abt her BO,she'll be soooo disappointed in her bf cz he knew all d while....oga pls tell ha dis night after a passionate cuddle...
DeleteNa wah o, why are you guys drinking panadol for my headache na? Do I comment on Stella's blog always ni? And even if I do, how is it your businesses?? Get well soon, the sun will shine again, biko. No be me koba anyone of you.
Delete@Oluyomi, Pls shut up n go take a seat. "And even if I do" then why were you lying? *hiss pls today is independence day. Honesty begins wiv you! RS
DeleteShut up, Ode!
DeleteKnew you will come back and respond.
Alainikanse jatijati.
When you know that you are a regular, why tell a white lie?
oh shattap oluyomi!!! u are always on all blogs. nuisance! famzer
Delete@oluyomi madam big mouth!
DeleteR u not ashamed to even reply?
See as u be like cold eko for ur dp pix! It's nobody biz if u comment or read steady na u know but y agbaya like u wey dey comment all d time go come talk say u no dey comment abi na ur ghost they do d comments ni? I think i have told u b4 n am still saying it again leave blogs for we d young blood or better still resign to reading alone. Haba ! U don old make children dey insult u from left n right na! Kilode! Respect ur age na! Who get time drink panadol for dat ur big head? We or let me say i jst dey tell u d truth! Get sense madam!
Tnx blog lord . U always mk sense. And let me add pls after buyin those toiletries tell her u always wan to persve them on her n whn they r finished u wl get more .
DeleteMake una go hug wet transformer, anonymous fools.. If you know you have a life, why not get an identity? If I'm bold enough to use my pix, why not use yours.. You dare not cos y'all are uglier than bats... Btw, it only means y'all are internet trolls if you see me everywhere. It means you are also on these blogs. Whoever is angry with my comments, jump in front of a moving train,, abeg. Hisssssssss, nonsense. You wanna battle me, get an identity. Faceless cowards.
Delete@oluyomi u wey be like chicken wey rain beat! See dis oponu of a woman! To think u r a mother n yet messing ur self here! Jobless mofon, guess u have a degree in gossip?! Full time house goat! Cos if u have a job or something to occupy ur time wit, u for no dey jump from blog to blog. Get a life madam! Or better still display ur e-mail add so i can hook u up wit a job.
DeleteBut on a serious note, madam oluyomi, u no know say u don pass to dey mess urself here? I warn u for d last time n for ur own good, get a life asap!
Iranu oshi!
Hehehehe i laugh @ ur stupidity madam oluyomi!
DeleteKeep fooling urself!
Asswipe!
Yawns.... This is the last I'd reply anonymous mofos. If you know you aren't cowards, reveal yourselves and let's go head to head.. As far as I am concerned, y'all a bunch of noisemakers. What are your names again? Yeah,, that's what I thought- nameless, faceless and classless. Y'all will forever remain anonymous. Every good thing will remain unknown to you. Like I said,I dare you to show your ugly faces. I remain Oluyomi Odukoya. Y'all can kiss my black ass.
DeleteIn order not to embarrass get alot of roll on and body sprays for her. With that you can gradually tell her to have her bath twice.
ReplyDeleteMy six years old daughter started having odour but am already training her with roll ons and its working for us
Training Ke? She is not a dog. Please. Take her to a Doctor cos it might be to do with her kidneys or something And make sure she drinks a lot of water mum.
DeletePls tell her, but do it with love.@first daughter
ReplyDeletePls tell her, but do it with love.@first daughter
ReplyDeleteNa Wetin A go do you for Sterra? You are just too much. Na who be that Oyibo guy in the foto gan sef? Na wa for you.
ReplyDeleteOk,Ok, to begin with, we are all human, Odour, sweat, stankonia, whatever, name it, someone's got it.
This should be an easy matter. If you are that close to a partner, lover or whatever way you want to define it, then you should feel comfortable to delve straight into the matter. " Hey honey, you smell like that delicious Ogbonno soup you cooked for me yesterday," said in a jovial way could set the way. Both of you might have a good laugh about it and if she is smart enough she might get a bit of a hint to ask more questions about her Olfactory lobes' irritating smell and do something but some women might still not get the hint.
Try step 2 by dropping subtle hints such as. Having a playful conversation about health issues touching on such a sensitive subject and mixing in a few other "sideline" topics. " Baby stop eating too much garlic because it comes out through your pores," type of gist might drop a major hint and after saying this, if you present a canister of a Sweet deodorant encouraging her to wear it after having a long shower to ward off all garlic smells, it might just break the severity of your deliverance of the body Odour message. Lol don't blame me if she delivers you a dirty slap sha.
I can go on and on but who am I but a fan of Stella Dimoko who visits and drops a line from time to time. Ultimately, if you have a problem with your GF's. Body Odour, tell her in a way that would not offend her. At the end of the day she might be your future wife, and why dump a BENTLEY COUP because it has a dent and end up with a smokey motorbike? Fix it, no one is perfect ma peeps.
@ DSmartNigerian follow or just read my Twitter feeds. Happy Green and white day to you all God bless.
Tell her the way it is forget about her reception.
ReplyDeleteI agree. If u drop hints, if shes sensitive like me she would realise and it would hurt me. Be direct. Baby ive noticed that theres this smell/odour that u get after a long day. How do we deal with/handle it. She might ask how? Then just give her one or two instances u noticed the smell strongly. That u dont want to hurt her but its best u say the truth cos ure her best friend and u have got her back.. From there u guys would find a solution. Beating around the bush isnt nice. Theres no nice way to say this to anyone but let it come from a place of love. Cheers.
DeleteI had this guy dat was seriously on my case.very rich nd very nice guy.he had body odour.at 1st I didn't know wat to do.bt decided to tell him. One day,I bought lots of body mist nd expensive perfumes.I said "baby,deres smtin iv always wanted to tell u bt don't wanna hurt ur feelngs cos I don't know ow ul take it" then I droppd d bomb.nd d gifts.days later,he told me his friends always laff at him bt none ever mentioned it.he thankd,gave me gifts nd told me he'll 4eva appreciate wat I did nd he'll never 4gt.since den if I call him once dat I need smfn,he'll do it twice! Tell her,she'll luv u more
DeleteWhy did u guys breakup then?
DeleteMr Lover Man,u were supposed to be the first to tell her she has body odour not being here and contemplating whether to!if u are a true friend and lover.as the popular saying:'its only a true friend that can tell u ur mouth is smelling'!
ReplyDeleteAm happy u love her so much,together u can overcome it.go see a doctor.
lol my own advice is that you buy a new sim card use it to send her a message telling her about the body odour and advice her to get male deodorant it last more than the feminine one's then you break the sim don't write your name biko.
ReplyDeleteLoL!!! What an odd but perfect idea!! Speak your mind in the SMS oh, so she can understand how terrible and embarrassing the body odor is.
DeleteOmg!
DeleteLOOOOOOOOOL!!!
Nice advice
DeleteNice comment! Also buy her deodorants,roll on, sweet scented soaps could also make her understand dat u know abt her BO
DeleteBros don't tell her outrightly o! Whether lovingly or politely. No matter how, she will be soooooooo embarrassed. (A friend lost a good guy going thru this route)
ReplyDeleteBe sensitive! Buy good toiletries that can help and always present to her as gifts...
From there you can monitor and ensure she uses them regularly. How do you do this? tell her in a sweet way "did u bathe with the scented ..... I got u? OR are you wearing d ....perfume? U smell so sweet that I can eat you up"
Trust me! She will always bathe with them 4 times a day sef or use the product frequently.
#mission accomplished. She loves you more, body odour eradicated. Wink!
And when she runs out of these toiletries, what next? Truth hurts but helps, problem solved. Hit the nail on the head and keep the eyes wide, you dig?
DeleteButs if it's. Beyond just deodorants,how does he stylishly' get her to get to see a doctor?
DeleteHe should just tell her d truth lovinly and let them both find solution.
If she decides to leave him,fine!how many guys can cope with body odour and sexual naivety.#tank God for love##make she go front' try see na#
Fail.
DeleteMyopic solution
Tell her as it is please.
Cleaners in my office and domestic staff at home I give deodorants use them only on sundays and when they run out e no conSIGN them.
DeleteFail.
DeleteMyopic solution
Tell her as it is please.
Dude jst know dis,if sm1 else tells her,she'll never 4give u.
DeleteLmao!!!@ Julit, u ar damn right. If it finishes, okpari o. Until u buy another one shaa...
DeleteThis is nt a difficult situation at all...first when both of you are together, stylishly bring up the topic by 1st asking her how u smell especially when you are sweating. Also ask her what she thinks of the deodorant you are using, then turn d tables nd tell her u dnt like her deodorant (that is if she uses any). If nd if not, tell her to dry Nivea roll-on (d white 1, i use it-it lasts all day long)...then, take her on a random shopping and make sure u buy urself a nice perfume. Also ask her to pick a nice one as well or better still pick it 4 her...if the both of u are really in love, she will learn 2 be like u over time, so make sure u have ur bath regularly-morn/nite, after exercise etc...
ReplyDeleteBODY ODOUR IS NOT HEREDITARY!!! Dnt be deceived...BABIEs can only have BO if they are not properly bathed/cleaned/washed during their 1st 3months on earth. They dnt come with it!
Thank me now :-)
You d best mama! U b Yankee resido? Well said! Shaving the armpit hair helps too. Sebaceous hair is a breeding ground for Odour inducing bacteria. Nobody got time fo' that.
DeleteThis is nt a difficult situation at all...first when both of you are together, stylishly bring up the topic by 1st asking her how u smell especially when you are sweating. Also ask her what she thinks of the deodorant you are using, then turn d tables nd tell her u dnt like her deodorant (that is if she uses any). If nd if not, tell her to dry Nivea roll-on (d white 1, i use it-it lasts all day long)...then, take her on a random shopping and make sure u buy urself a nice perfume. Also ask her to pick a nice one as well or better still pick it 4 her...if the both of u are really in love, she will learn 2 be like u over time, so make sure u have ur bath regularly-morn/nite, after exercise etc...
ReplyDeleteBODY ODOUR IS NOT HEREDITARY!!! Dnt be deceived...BABIEs can only have BO if they are not properly bathed/cleaned/washed during their 1st 3months on earth. They dnt come with it!
Thank me now :-)
Buy drummer air-freshener n stick it to her armpits.simple
ReplyDelete@eje,u r mean! LMAO
DeleteYou are very hilarious!!!!!!!! Drummer air-freshener. Kai.
DeleteHello Aunty Stella, your blog is so matured and unique. I have been sending Emails but it has not been going through. Please Aunty publish this for me I really need the advise of the readers of this great blog.
ReplyDeleteI am in love with my boy friend of six years. we both fall in love with each other for different reasons,he
Is all I want in a man. I love him and he loves me too
We plan to tie the knot in few months time,since we started dating he introduced me as his wife to be to every family member around and I have done the same too. My only problem is that he is the bread winner of his family. The little amount that he earns he spends it on his family members. He feeds his aged mother and father, his brothers and sisters, his aunts and uncles. The list is endlessly. I have a job but what I am paid is quite small. So he rarely spends on me instead I support him. However, I am really scared because I don't know how we will leave together when he can sell his tV just to send feeding money to his sister's house whose is married. Am I been selfish? How do I convince him that you need to care for your immediate family in such away that it will not deprive him his own happiness. His family wants more and more every day. I am constantly baffled how much he loves and gives to them yet he wallows in poverty. I am not against giving but there should be a limit.
DeleteHe isn't married to you yet. If he starves you when you get married, then you might have a ground for complaints.
For now, its his money, not yours.
Tanks I appreciate
DeleteMy opinion ....suppose it gets worse after marriage and then u ask him to limit his spending on his family and he does and then the family turns and fights you????
DeleteThink well dear....discuss this with ur family.
Do you also know dat dis same guy could turn against you and team up with his family labeling u a family-breaker????
A broken courtship is always better than a broken marriage.
U have a point dear
DeletePls tell her, my husband told me when I had vjay odour, am very clean but I had left my coil in too long. I went to see my gynaecologist and had the coil changed, that was the end of the odour. Imagine he didn't tell me? Eventually he'll start avoiding me. Just tell her to take her bath twice not use her undies twice especially bra, use roll on and have a clean shave on her armpit and vjay area. Good luck!
ReplyDeleteI don't have BO but I don't just like d smell of sweat so I do dis like 1ces a week I use Roberts Antiseptic Disifectan or any of d Antiseptic to clean under my amrpit.it sounds crazy right but it sure works.@poster so u can tell ur gf 2use that 2clean under her arm then take a bath b4 using Deodorant
ReplyDeletePls don't directly tell her wen U guys talk u chip it in about d perfumes she uses n makes sure Her armpit is not bushy she shaves reqularly n use strong Male perfumes n bath Twice a day. It will help!
ReplyDeleteDo u know about kedi health care products? I learnt and heard testimonies that their product is very good, i mean it works. Mayb u get her the pills for body odour. Buy it on her behalf and give it to her as present. By God's grace i pray it works for her. #justsaying#
ReplyDelete@ Eje,u are sick! Dear bros,do what bloglord said ok.
ReplyDelete@eje. Lol! Stick drummer airfreshner to her armpits. ROTFL. U r sumthg else.
ReplyDeletelove
ReplyDeletecovers all n sees no mistake. Lookin 4 anoda gal is nt d solution cos d
devil u already knw is far beta dan d angel u dont knw. Jux take it
upon ursef dat u wil always buy deodourant for her n pls dont tell her.
I have noticed people with MO and BO dont take lightly to being told
ReplyDeletethey take offences and its not always funny
I will suggest u buy her some shaving sticks, men's roll on (dont even go near ladies cause it may be too mild), try this Red door roll on, its scarce but men the smell wl push away any BO, nice perfume, u can do d red door roll on and perfume, dont get eau de toilette cause those dont last well, bt the time u give her all these as presents, she'll get d message, just buy some lime and keep in ur bathroom and f she asks u why do u have them, tell her u use them to scrub ur arm pit cause they r very good for BO and u think she shd try it too even if she does not have, ts good for every one
YOu have to be honest and tell her.
ReplyDeleteHere's d cure; tel ha about it,let ha rub lime in ha armpit and strategic parts of ha body few mins b4 bathing den after bathing she shud apply forever living aloe shield deodorant u wud c results,I did same 4 1 gal she was very thankful.forever living products r gud
ReplyDeleteBath regularly shikena
ReplyDeleteD best solution for BO is using lime to rub ur body like 30mins b4 taking ur bath. It works!!!!!!!!!! Seriously. As for telling her, if u don't want to tell her, just buy d lime and u both use it for like a wk (even if u don't ave BO). Believe me, u'll ave results wthin dat 1 wk. Forget all ds soaps and roll on jo, except as an addition sha
ReplyDeleteO boy! U sound like the very good type and i admire u for dat, nt all guys wud even want to find solution or tell der ladies, dey jst start avoiding u, lemme clarify BO is not spiritual nor heriditary, it is by far the easiest thing to cure, you need to sit her down and tell her the basics, be prepared, she will feel bad and flare up and might not speak with you for a while, do not be botherd keep on calling here, send messages you love her and would not imagine life without her. Bak to the matter, let her change all her panties to cotton as it cud be a good breather for her pussy, make sure she shave the hair in her armpit and pussy regulary, every 2 weeks or as fast as it grows, use the lime therapy, tell her to use lime before she goes to sleep, stick to sure roll-on, it is the best odour fighting and sweat suppressing agent, look for the one that has alchohol, depending on how bad she stinks, she can start up using sure roll-on and body spray together, wheb there is a significant change she can stick to one, make sure she doesnt repeat her clothes, if she sweats, it must be washed. If she goes to the gym she shld bathe thoroughly cos micro organisms/bacteeria could be on the top layer of the skin and cud breather infection. I do not think ur predicament is dat much of an issue. Google is ur friend, read more and thank me later
ReplyDeleteI suggest you talk gently to her. It will also help if you have ready made solutions on hand to help combat it - bathing regularly, shaving of underarms, never wearing her clothes more than once, avoiding overly spiced foods, get a really good deodorant/perfume and such like stuff.
ReplyDeleteJust be sure to not put her down though, you are trying to help not give her low self esteem, right?
And by the way, I don't think it was necessary to tell us if she was satisfying you in bed or not cos truth be told, she doesn't owe you that yet.
@ Bloglord, He needs to tell her. She need to hear such thing from someone close to her than strangers. What if he buy the toiletries and she end up giving it out or keeping it and not use it religiously like the way he expect her to if she didn't understand the purpose of it? like a friend of mine. How can you want to marry someone and not be able to tell them the truth? it depend on how he put it across to her, if he choose his words carefully and wisely like Anonymous No 3 suggested, there shouldn't be any embarrassment or annoyance of any kind.
ReplyDeleteI think this is why God created ALL of us so differently sha!!! I would have proffered my boyfriend to tell me rather than buy presenting some stupid toiletries to give me a hint. I'll read meaning to it that he can NEVER be honest with me if we end up together and with that, I will keep my distance. If that relationship survived, It will be that God has written it to be so.
ReplyDeleteAhhh!!! Leave OKWA alone o, He/She is suffering from Dementia nii. He/She hasn't got any bone protecting his/her brain and must have hit it on the wall. Stupid Fellow.
ReplyDeleteAgree with you comment #66. We tell our love ones the truth, and they won't take it badly as we might think.
ReplyDeletetell her to use insecticides
ReplyDeleteYou have to tell her but in a very sensitive way. Start by saying something she never knew about you. For instance, " I used to have k leg but now they are straight". Something like that.
ReplyDeleteThen slowly let her know, you might receive a slap, endure it!
Now steps to eradicate body odor are as follow:
1.BATH- always tell her to take her bath at least once a day. When we sweat, the bacteria on the skin + sweat = odor.
2.ANTIBACTERIAL SOAP: use soap that has antibacterial on them to reduce the amount of bacteria on the skin.
3.TOWEL: always towel yourself DRY. No wet spot, no bacteria to smell.
4.INDUSTRIAL strength Antiperspirant or Deodorant: The difference is that deodorant mask the smell of bacteria while antiperspirant prevent sweating. * your girlfriend cn use both*
5. CLEAN clothes: Try to change clothes as soon as you start sweating, that is when the smell start.
6.FOOD: tell her to cut down on 'offensive food' like hot pepper, onions, okporoko, dawadawa etc.
WEBMD is my friend.
Na wa oh even if I don't shower for days I won't smell,I have a friend that stinks on not having her bath.
ReplyDeleteStella, i think you should address this issue of these small rats insulting grown ups. Make your own comment and leave. Why insult Oluyomi? It's just really upsetting. She's jobless because she comments on blogs. So you that have a job or should be in school, why are you here? What do you even know about life? Thats why a whole lot of you can't keep a home when you marry because of your caustic mouth. Oluyomi, ignore the stupid chid rating about jare. Very rude things. You would grow old yourself, lets see how you would take being insulted.
ReplyDeleteThank you so much.. I appreciate..
DeleteTell your girlfriend the truth, it might be hurt but then she will be able to find a solution to her problem.
ReplyDeleteThe woman with six years old with smelly armpit, please know this is not normal , you should see a doctor immediately , she might be suffering from what they call precocious puberty, that means she is going into puberty very early. There are drugs available to stop this . Please google this because the disadvantage is she might not able to attain her her supposedly height level. I know this because my daughter is going through the same thing.
be like... take a fucking shower you cunt
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