Oh Wow!....Just wow!
STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
Suffering And Smiling - The African Love Concept
Hey Stella,
i am not a mushy person but in my mind you have come to be my sister and a hero. You have defied the odds and not afraid to speak your mind.
My name is Mrs Y.H and i need you to post my name out there and my story is just to warn young girls that marriage is not all there is to life but that your choice of partner is very key.
I met my husband at the age of 17 and in my first year in the university and since then we were very close. In my 4th year like every normal girl in my time i decided to date other people and left him. I did not go back because for me there are certain codes which are never date a guy who has dated or asked your friend out and also never go back to your vomit.
Alas i went back and ultimately got married to him. Eveyone warned me, even my guardians said there was something about this boy i should just let him go but i was in love. Did i mention i really did love him and during our 2 year hiatus i never met anyone that i loved as much as i did him
From the moment i married him till date it has been one indiscretion on his path to another. I went to do my masters and my husband was in Nigeria (this was 6 months after i left) and he was removing my pictures from the wall bringing women to our matrimonial home etc. How i know i say the messages he left on his phone not that i was snooping because he came to visit me during the summer and was only after 2 weeks i saw these messages.
I am even ashamed of his indiscretions from girls in his office who even threaten to report his to management saying he should do undertaking to my house maids. Did i tell you i am single parented and have been this way since the age of 9?
Stella, my story is long. I have contemplated suicide several times especially owing to shame but what keeps me are my kids i have 3 beautiful kids.
Right now i am very unhappy in my marriage and at the brink of depression but what can i do? I chose this life. Please note when i even married my husband he did not have a car and we did not even have a hues in the first 4 months of our marriage.
Maybe these traits were there and i ignored them but earnestly i did not see these. My husband was then was faithful and a happy go lucky guy. What changed? I don't know.
Now he walks out on me, today i found out he was to meet a girl in ikeja confronted him after he told me he was going to see a friend of his i don't like and cannot ask. It is not easy but it is my life what do i do? i had no mother and i am determined to be the best one i can to my kids so i stay. I have prayed, i have cursed God but i only have myself to blame.
Girls, while some men can pretend; please pray consistently before choosing a life partner it does not matter their status.
i wish everyone well in this journey of life but for me i would never embark on this journey in another life time.
I have taken to hoping for my prince charning who would love me despite it all.
To all the lagos girls sleeping with my hubby as he tells his story of how i left him in school i say well done. Life often throws us curve balls doesn't it?
Stella i am not looking for advice as i know my solution and until i can conveniently pay my kids fees myself without help then i am here. Suffering and smiling which is the African way because i know i would get nothing.
I pray you remain the woman i have come to admire and God bless you and your family.
Until then i remain,
MRS Y.H
Thanks for the compliment...As regards your situationship with your husband,I am tongue tied and dont know what to say but it is good to know that you know what to do.Stay strong Babe.
Stay strong, it is well..
ReplyDeleteWow am speechless. Poster your are strong.
DeleteIt's well
DeleteHmnm, what a life! Wishing you all the best.
DeleteClick my name for all your celebration cakes and cupcakes, cheers
Hmmm...this is painful. One place you wouldn't want to make a mistake is in marriage. I say that the second most important decision after deciding to follow Christ is the choice of a life partner. If only we know that God is so interested in our having a happy married life, we will involve Him as we choose our life partners. Sometimes we base our choices on what we see and feel but when we abandon our will to God and allow His Spirit to guide us, He who sees beyond the physical will lead us and He doesn't fail, I promise us. Be strong dear. Don't be depressed. It is well.
DeleteFor relationship tips, discussions, inspirations etc please visit www.mitchelleobatu.blogspot.com
The Lord is your strength
DeleteJesus fix it!
ReplyDeleteIt's indeed a situationship
*******LOND SDK & SDKERS*********
Who breeds all this horseband??????
DeleteBut you shouldn't have gone back to him.
May God heal your home.
Na wah ohh...
ReplyDeleteI don't even know what to say...
Single girls biko,don't suffer with any man ohhh...
Poster,I wish you well..
What da fuck? U want to commit suicide becos of a cheating husband? For what kwanu? Abi u dey craze ni? How can u even entertain that thought? U better get urself a lover and enjoy urself..
DeleteAs for me,i cant come and go and kill myself cos of a man..Two can play d games..Let my husband try cheatjng on me,na dat time i go hook up with all those guys i've been crushing on...mtcheeeeeew!
@chizoba so loving your comment. You crack me up
DeleteWhy curse God tho?? Have u not read d book of job?? Quickly begin to pray for forgiveness. God will help u IJN Amen!!!
Deletehmm na wa o. funny dt with all d holy of holies we hv here, married men still hv fanny pushed to their faces by women who knw they r married. mtcheeew. women, we r our own enemies.
ReplyDeleteHUSBAND AND WIFE.....smh
An email from a wife to her husband.
I know you're upset.You have every right to be. I know you feel like you've been manipulated,but just know that everything I did was because I love you and the children.
Please don't blame Christie, it wasn't her fault, I talked her into it. I guess being my best friend has it own occupational hazards. I don't know how much she told you, but her having sex with you, was solely my idea not hers.
It took a lot of convincing on my part before she even agreed to this. So don't blame her, she isn't a monster.
If you must blame someone, blame the person you've been married to for five years....... blame me.
A normal marriage is hard enough.continue reading
I hope you are stealing his money?. Do so small small n keep saving.
ReplyDeleteI am angry.
Very angry.
Brb
Payback time....u left him for a while n wen u cldnt find a suitable man,u came back to him...Ofcos he was loyal @ first cos he didn't have money,he must av been plotting it for a while dat 'i'l show dis lady' ...believe it or not,everyman has d tendency of behaving like him in dat situation but d fear of God n d spirit of forgiving will be d difference
DeleteHe has it @ d back of his mind dat u cld leave again anytime sometin goes wrong,so he has zeroed his mind dat he doesn't have a loyal wife....a friend or family member might have warned him about it
DeleteNo be only money...she should start stealing pricks outside too...No time for national nonsense.
DeleteBitchpls abi bitchprick u no well. They were only dating and not married when she broke up with him. Im sure u have no man. With this mindset. Onyemburushi!!!
DeleteHmmm, this marriage of a thing tire person, may God help us all.
ReplyDeleteHi poster, im going to have to post this under someone else's comment, so you can see it, Please ignore all those who tell you, you left him so that's his (flimsy) excuse for doing what he's doing now that's a lie from the pit of hell, if he was faithful from the beginning dating and all he would still be faithful, a faithful man is a faithful man like I always say a God fearing man is a God fearing man, yeah you mmust have heard advices like pray things would change blah blah.... yeah i'll ask you to pray, but i'll also ask you to zero your mind from that marriage, because you had a single parent background that don't mean anything, if your uncomfortable an just living a lie please and please walk out, let go of your pain, misery hurt etc! Just let go, take a long walk, tell him your giving the marriage a break God hates divorce but he loves us and hates to see us hurt, don't kill yourself cuz you don't want a repeat of history, don't kill yourself cuz you want to bear Mrs, you can take care of your kids please take a walk make new friends, be happy, forget about prince charming finding you, forget about a man putting smiles on your face I'm sure your kids do that, channel all that energy to something else, Firstly yourself, channel the energy of loving someonelse to loving yourself yes be selfish, if you Love yourself other people would Love you, a a man that truly desires and respects you would come and Find you, Be happy you owe yourself that, Get closer to God, let jesus christ be your comforter, healer provider, Lover, talk to him everytime you feel hurt, weak or weary, I hope you find happiness.
DeleteHmm, like seriously. All is well
ReplyDeletena wa ooooo... different stories each day. Madam it is well stay strong for your beaitiful kids, they need you.
ReplyDeleteD Lord is ur power nne..... Chukwu gba gi ume.....
ReplyDeleteMadam,
ReplyDeleteYoyr hubby changed cos you went back to him after the 2years hiatus.
Am sure he felt, "oh you see, there are no men out there, so she came back. "
He felt you had no other option hence your returm to him: reasons he is treating you like trash and frolicking with other girls.
Honestly, you were warned from the beginning.
You even felt it within you that he wasn't goin to be a 'good husband' hence the break yet you ignored all these signs and went back.
I pray you find your feet and move on with your kids.
You can't pay for your mistakes forever. You deserve to be happy.
mY thoughts exactly....how can u go back to your vomit???
DeleteBloggie na lie oh..its not bcos she went back to him..A good man is a good man while a bad man will always be bad..
DeleteI went back to my husband who was my childhood crush and sweetheart..He doesnt treat me bad..Its not in his habit cos his papa and mama born him wella..
Chizzybaby,
DeleteI agree with you that a good man is a good man and a bad man, bad! It is quite unfortunate for the poster
Gbam@chizoba's comment!!
DeleteChizoba thank u. Its this their backward way of thinking that causes wahala in marriages . people break up and make up. Whats the big deal when dating???? So she should date only him in her life???
DeleteIt is well,Stay strong madam!!!!!
ReplyDeleteGod in control
ReplyDeleteIs it that you dont know how to speak english or what?
Deletegood to know that you no what to do
ReplyDelete#GODWIN™
God heal all marriages
ReplyDeletei have stopped praying for God to bless any man that will come my way. They are all the same. Sorry madam, be strong for your children.
ReplyDeleteif you want to do something, please put otapiapia inside his food. his head go correct.
side chicks, back chicks, front chicks, shoulder chicks, una weldone. continue eating another woman's potty.
No matter what ladies hear or read concerning marriage, therr are those that'd still marry the wrong man for the wrong reasons. There's alwsys sum1 for sum1 out there, sometimes its ur past life playing into ur presence or karma catchin up with u or buried secrets creeping up in diffrent forms... Most secrets don't stay buried, not even Victorias secret.
ReplyDelete*present*
DeleteB4 one oversabi come correct me then say "thank me later"
it is well!...let him continiu...karma is def a bitch. soon those girls go begin show the guy pepe nobody go tell am.
ReplyDeleteStay single and live longer.
ReplyDeleteBeautiful n Gifted! This ur philosophy eh eh! Dnt let my mum catch u oooo lol! Al we need in this life is God n finance not a horseband!
DeleteLol. Mumsy has twisted my mouth already.
DeleteOur parents don't understand that the men of our generation are bad news. I really used to think that some are not that bad, but recently...
Abegi! Na me, God and plenty money this time.
#aintgotHEARTforshit
You don't need an advice, what do u then need? My dear u need an advice ok becos most marriage suffers all wat ur marriage is suffering, what most people does its packaging. Why would u say you've curse God, don't be depress to that extend sis, I so feel ur pains, call upon God in times like this and he is ever ready to hear u and solve it for u. This isn't d end of d world cheer up my dear. jesus loves u more than u ever think
ReplyDeleteHow can u curse God because of a mere man? Even women looking for the fruit of the womb which God said none of us is barren did not curse God..anyway when u find ur feet financially,u can leave
DeleteOh dear!
DeleteIt is well dear!
ReplyDeleteGod will see you through...
yet another unhappy marriage chronicle... When will this stop??! God help us single girls... It's not easy
ReplyDeletePlease dear poster.....dont curse God. He loves you just d way you are....stay Strong. God will fix u
ReplyDeleteDid u say u cursed God? U lost me there! Let me tell u something d bible tells us that trails and tribulations must come, but the assurance we have as children of God is that the fire will not burn us and the flood won't drown us. Woman examine urself, u can't b a child of God and he will allow u suffer, how can u pray to a God u curse. My advice for u is to genuinely ask God for mercy and watch him move on your behalf. If u repent, by the time God is done with your husband, he will lick your feet. I know of happy marriages and sad ones, it's simple, be on God's side and be happy, be on d other side and u will get it. Dat is y it is gud to hear from God b4 u marry
ReplyDeleteThey warned you but you refused to listen. So whose fault is it? Your husband or yours? When you women have acted foolishly, you come here to rant angrily, who u de vex for?
ReplyDeleteWhen you have acted foolishly, you will all say ''u have contemplated suicide but cos of your kids''... You for do am na. Rubbish. Probably, a good guy was around the corner begging you to be whis wife and you refused.
You even cursed God and u are proud to say it.. Thank your stars say no be satan you cursed, him for multiply your pains.
poverty.why do i say poverty ,if she is able to take care of her three kids herself ,she wont be suffering ,we come from a society where you do say to yourself where do i start from ,how do i take care of this kids all by myself .while i always say it ,if you cant bear the heat get out ,nobody came to this world with a bag of money ,is either you work for it or your parents did work for it ,please madam put your self together and just walk ,With hard work and God by your side you will surely overcome .
ReplyDeleteTruth is vagina is the curse of all these problems. If only our men will stick to and just as they expect us to stick to one dick then there will be less issues
ReplyDeleteI de always talk am say the thgs prick and pussy de cause for this world eh, to say fuck no sweet at all, ths world for be a better place I swear, knowing sex is only for the purpose of producing children, world population for no evn reach half of wat we hv today, and u knw wat that means, brazillian hair wldnt sell cus it dsnt make u look sexy, wetin be sexy? Wen the word no go evn exist, prick n toto don de cause wahala for ths life since the days of Adam&eve, well the bible say if a part of u causes u to sin, chop it off.... At least sum tribes chop of clitoris evn b4 the kids knw wat its meant for, that's wat I call a stitch in time saves 9.
Delete@anonymous may God give you sense. Amen. I feel sorry for your daughters (born or unborn)
DeleteI really feel for u poster ur really in pain . By Gods grace I'll be in nig next wk ,can we hook up with the kids even if it's just to give u a hug and take u guys out ? If interested drop ur email be strong dear . I'm a woman pls .
ReplyDeleteAbasi mbok...this is too much
ReplyDeleteJust be happy and be there because of your lovely kids.
Na wa.....Lord give us a beautiful home and sweet marriage
@Galore
Hnmmm it is well. God help me please when I get married.
ReplyDeleteTO all the LAGOS sluts and sluties fucking dis woman's HORSEBAND...she don warn una o..or else God go superglue ur TOTO
ReplyDeleteMake we hear word. The 2years she went haywire b4 she went back 2 her husband wetin she use am do?
DeleteTessy baby why are you taking this personal? Are you the fucker of someones husband?
DeleteIts well
ReplyDeleteSome bad girls get good well reformed husbands, Some good girls well you build the man for the other babe to come and take over.Karma does not always work.Consider urself the gatekeeper for their marriage.Pele, life continues.
ReplyDeleteExactly...
DeletePeople should stop saying karma cos that shit does not work!!!...
Upon all the curses people curse our politicians,they are still enjoying life...
Abegggiii ..
Stories that touch.
ReplyDeleteSame old story and same old excuse, I can't leave because of my kids, That's same reason every women out there gives, what if one of the parent had died while they were much younger, so they'll not survive abi? Why didn't the Bible consider children or kids before saying u can only leave a marriage on the ground of unfaithfulness? Why didn't it say u can stay if you already have kids. Women should learn to stop making we men believe once you have kids for us men you can't leave again which will continue to encourage lots of men out there and boost their confidence to continue cheating by giving all this reasons that they're staying because of the kids.
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Gbam!!
DeleteQuite impressive! And comn frm a man? Wow!!! *a round of applause*
DeleteThis is soul food, I actually screen grabbed it!
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DeleteIs lagos girls your problem, of course you left him in school and he is paying you back anyway stop complaining allow your husband to fuck other girls,it seems cheating is the only ish you got,forget it and face your marriage,your husband has money and girls are ready to give him clean pussy,perhaps they may not be interested in taking him away
ReplyDeleteWhat on earth will make you curse God? I know you're in pain but pls madam, don't EVER make that careless statement again
ReplyDeleteAbout your problem, your own marriage is not the worst. There are people in worse situations and they're still moving on. That God you are cursing is the only one that can give you solace at this point. Buy Our Daily Manner prayer booklet. Read your bible daily and pray for peace of mind. Pray for the grace to forgive him and strength to live with his inadequacies. Pray and fast regularly. Also pray for him to change. God stil works miracles and He can put your husband in a situation that will make him seek the face of God. Dont nag. Execute all your wifely duties with diligence and grace. God will see you through. If you're done having kids, drastically reduce the number of times you have sex with him and when you do, make sure you're protected ALWAYS. If a deadly infectious disease has to bring him down, at least you've got to be around to take care of your kids, not that we pray for that.
The problm with young girls when they're desperate to settle down is that they think they can turn a blind eye to an unfaithful husband's ways or change him in the long run. Its impossible! A grown adult cannot be changed by a woman, just because he got married and I've never ever seen a woman that is happy in a marriage with an adulterous man. The trust is eroded, sex will be limited or non-existent, no bonding, no peace of mind, no attention from the man(too many ladies to attend to), and sometimes, financial incapicitation. So single ladies pls, be very careful. Marriage ain't worth mortgaging your peace of mind. Your ideal husband MUST be God-fearing, but then, are you?
Don't mind her... Even cursing God, issoriat.. Instead of her to be at least be grateful that she is working and can provide for her kids... Some women in her shoes depend solely on their husbands for finances and most times the men make use of this advantage and make it hell for them. She de there de curse God.
DeleteAm a man, but some men are wicked sha..
One thing she should know is that, the two years they had issues and left each other, the man cannot take it whenever he thinks of it. In him, she flirted and seriously, no man will ever forgive, even though the men also had their share with other women. African society no de help women at all. Men and women committed same offence, the man is forgiven, but the woman isn't.
Don't even knw wot to say, d Lord is ur strength! Guess those traits were in him buh u never saw dem. God help us all. Its well
ReplyDeleteJust tire after reading this post! God what kind of life is this? While would women suffer in their marriage this way? Dear God pls fix it for her in Jesus name Amen
ReplyDeleteHmmmm! The Lord will do a new thing
ReplyDeleteOkay -_-
ReplyDeleteMy sister your own is better o,As for me what has happened to me in my marriage I cannot even say it out.The greatest mistake of my life and am even scarred for life.Pls if he is not willing to change move on before it gets to my own story.
ReplyDeleteEyaa...
DeleteSend in your story make we read and learn...
It is well it can only get better
DeleteBe encouraged, when there is life there is hope
Remember it can only get better
Marrying the wrong spouse is the greatest mistake any human can make. I pray you find a way out soon. please try not to be so depressed. E-Hugs.
ReplyDeleteMadam, I feel for you, but you also made a mistake which you are to be blamed for. In life, when one or two people say don't do this cos of this or that, pls even if you won't take their advices, don't throw it away. There must be elements of truth in what Wey must have told you. Suicide is never an option at all.
ReplyDeletePlease focus on your career and make sure you are there for your kids. Aspire high and make good income so u can provide for your kids.
God bless you.
Another sad marriage?
ReplyDeleteGod please fix these tales
Ladies need to be advised that where ever Love seems to be taking them to, they should remember to take common-sense along.
ReplyDeleteStella, I think you need to create avenue for ladies/men in happy marriages to send in Posts praising or gushing over their partners cos this kain normal trend of cracking marriages sends a psychological negative signal to the 'About-to-weds'.
If he has money n u r his next of kin, turn him into a vegetable n take over..very simple n gradual.
ReplyDeleteMtchewww, rubbish.
Hmn! Eyin aye. Customer iya dolphin. Anyway i gues u grew up in a home where men r turned to vege.
Delete'Money makes u fuck women wıthout stress', where u dey abeg? Hehehe!
ReplyDeleteUr comments neva cease to amuse me.
And plz dont forget to gıst us abt ur experıence on Sıngles and mıngles.
And yes, dose anony wu tk offence at d sıght of ur comments r even more entertaınıng.
Wld check back soon.
Lmao u not serious, y r u looking for that u yeye guy? Lol
DeleteDon't mind Stella. If she sees I want to say a story or write anything long, she will disable it.
DeleteIt is becoming annoying. I have real life stories to tell and relate with. Not fair mehn
Hahahahaaha...
DeleteThat guys comments cracks me up!..
Where is DD my rove*SideEyes*???...
Fear don dey grip person with all ds relationship sagga. It is well ooo
ReplyDeleteI graduated in 2010 and since then I have not gotten a job. Totally unemployed. Not that I am lazy but I have attended all manner of interviews, yet no show. I have this beautiful lady I have been dating for long too. She is a career woman and doing OK for herself. She been ringing bells in my ears that ''2015 must not pass her by''... I must do the needful or she will find someone else. Sometimes, I feel bad with her rants and sometimes I feel its not her fault cos she is a woman and 30years of age this year. I know she has been having toasters and flirting with them on social media chats. Desperation has set in her and I wonder why? If tomorrow she dumps my sorry ass and gets married to one of her toasters, and things go wrong, she will come here and send in chronicles for people to advise her. For goodness sake, what is this 'am getting old mentality with women''?
ReplyDeleteAnyway, wit stories like this coming from married woman, I just tell God to bless me anytime He wants. I am not in a hurry anymore, am 31. Marriage is not everything. Women learn to take advice and listen to advises when coming from one or two people. There is always an element of truth.
To my gf , I know you are reading this, and I want you to know that whatever decision you want to make, is in your hands.
May God help the writer and may my future daughters not be in such situation and may my future sons not be beasts to their wives.
Port Harcourt Boy!
Liar Liar pant on fire..U never loved her..cos if u do,u will borrow money and pay her bride price..What does it even take to get married?
DeleteU want to dump her through this blog? Thunder wey go fire ur broke assbis still doing press up..
Who said u are young at 31yrs? Oga u don old oh..Go and marry before u turn to uncle gwegs!
So she should stay with you till she's 40? So when and if you eventually make money, you'll dump her for a younger girl.
DeleteU didn't tell us why you left him for 2yrs, if it was his fault, den u messed up big time coming back to him, but if it was ur fault then u deserve everything that u are getting, u can't eat ur cake and have it back seriously, after u left him tasted south, north and east, u now bring urself after 2 solid years when u saw that no one treated u better, when you saw that u left a better man to meet worst outside!
ReplyDeleteWhen you dey enjoy for outside him dey mourn shame and heartbreak, now wey him dey enjoy him life u come dey vex, u forgot that everybody has the liberty to live life the way it pleases the!
Some women thinks they are wise, they think men don't knw what they are doing, he shouldn't have accepted u back after that 2years but I knew he intentionally did it to purnish u, did you knw what he went tru when you were away? the insults from his friends and buddies? when you no see person marry you, u run back because u b rihanna!!! mtcheeew!
Stella u need to start talking sense into ur female BVs ,coz I have discovered all of them are holy and perfect, they always put all blames on their hubbies, while some of the problems are they themselves, they forget reality and only focus on fantasies they watch on movies, we are in Africa for God sake and u must behave like one!
All those our forefathers that their marriage lasts do you think they don't have problems, or u think our great grand mothers are aliens? No, they simply face reality of life and work vehemently to keep their home!!!!
Now go back to your hubby, or get his close friends or family members and apologize till he forgives you, some people will come and reply this comment and tell you, men should not treat women bad bla bla bla but are also in pain in their own house, beg him to forgive you, pray and pray for a happy home and am sure God will intervene, but if you are too big to beg, u can divorce or stay there and suffer!
Gbam!. Thank you very much for this write up...
DeleteAnd I add, that there are two sides and three sides and even four sides to a story...
She just said her part.
Poor woman.... eyaaaa.
ReplyDeletelife is a choice
Is that all you have to say.
Deleteis dis all u av to say today? I long to read your comment on chronicles daily. see me scrolling to read ir comment nd laugh real hard only for me to find this today. I'm heartbroken....
DeleteKnow this people............Relational/Marital issues are not prayer issues, Its just what it is.
ReplyDeleteLord pls console all d ppl dt dia marriage is hitting d rock, n give dem wisdom to carry on. Its well sister be strong, prayerful n be wise.
ReplyDeletePlease just try and encourage yourself so that your can be strong for your kids
ReplyDeleteMadam.....may the good lord continually strengthen you and fill you with wisdom.
ReplyDeleteYou will smile truly again.
Let us hear word...you enjoy the Mrs title more than you enjoy sanity or your children's sanity. What is suffering and smiling. Abeg let us hear.
ReplyDeleteU noticed all these and u still went on to give birth to three kids.. one or two ok buh three insensitive of u..
ReplyDeleteU noticed all these and u still went on to give birth to three kids.. one or two ok buh three insensitive of u..
ReplyDeleteMadam for saying you even cursed God goes to show the kind of woman you are. mtcheeew.
ReplyDeleteGod is your strength Ma'am. To the single ladies sleeping with her husband, leave the man alone before she'll send something to you all. No come get STAPH wey no go gree leave you alone.
ReplyDeleteWell since you've Masters don't tell me that you aren't working for your kids future. Save and Save, buy properties.
ReplyDeleteYou cursed GOD because of a mere man? GOD, your creator? Please, go on your kneels and ask for forgiveness with all sincerity.
ReplyDeleteIf you can travel abroad for a course and your husband visited you for 2 weeks out of the few months you were there, then you are financially capable to fend for your 3 kids, IMO. They don't have to be in an expensive school or live in a luxurious flat. Get 2 rooms self contain, and find affordable schools around.
Please, this is not an advice because you said you don't need it, it is a suggestion, which you can accept or not. Best of luck.
Nitty.
@Tayan Taylor I wondered at your comment. Are you sure you understood the story, so she left him at some point and they got back together is that a reason for him to cheat on her? So the lag girls can sleep with her hubby cos he has the money to throw around. No worries I pray by God's mercies that you don't go through that. I understand when I hear people say women are their own enemies.
ReplyDelete'WANDERING DICK SYNDROME AT IT AGAIN'. Men biko are you cursed ? why do u ppl find it difficult to put ur dick in one place. if you cant be with one woman pls don't get married. its like most Nigerian men want to continue dat bachelor lifestyle even afta marriage, dey just want a wife and kids in d house to prove to society dey r responsible with a family or satisfy dere families.
ReplyDeleteThat is why I admire ppl like Beyoncé's mother, Tina Knowles. When her husbands dick started producing kids allover d place,she left her 30plus marriage to save her dignity. And is now happily married to sm1 else. It isn't easy to leave a marriage,but when sm1 is giving u everyday misery, that you want to commit suicide over dick matter, not worth it........................FOREVER 16
All these sad tales in marriages,
ReplyDeleteThe more i hear it, the more i love my "obim" the more. Nobody can discourage me with any Chronicles biko.
The stories of 100 people cannot represent that of over 160 million people in Nigeria.
I wish i have what to say, just to encourage you but nne, adim speechless.
XOXO MYSTERY
Seek God
ReplyDeleteWhy don't you woomen talk to yourselves. After all these men don't sleep with other men! The women here venting are married women. Who says your men are your exclusive properties? Leave all these issues and live your lives!
ReplyDeleteAm here to read comment
ReplyDeleteStill this kind of stories everyday... Hmmm
ReplyDeletePele!
ReplyDeleteAll these women sef, una no dey bad na only the men dey bad . I pray oo. Every time men this men that, women no dey cheat Abi na only men?
ReplyDeleteI'm a married woman and I must say marriage is not for the weak! My husband is not a womanizer but that doesn't mean he might not be having flings and all. As a lady I've grown in my marriage. I take my husband as my brother, I forgive his mistakes and move on with my life. I don't have time to be looking at everything that happens. My mother in law is the best. She tells me that she cries in her marriage but wipes her tears because she's determined to keep her family together so long as her husband doesn't cheat or beats her.. all I can say is pray. My sister, it's only God that can fix ur marriage not man.. Check urself too and try having a heart 2 heart discussion with him. Make extra effort to keep ur home together. By all means look for a way to keep u happy cos ur life shouldn't revolve around him. Also inform his parents about what is going on and ask them to talk to their son. End of story
ReplyDeleteMadam u ain't telling us the whole truth,pls don't paint ur story for cheap sympathy. Okay when u met ur husband he had nothing but now you are where u are cuz you can't pay ur kids school fees. Meaning u made him successful and went broke? Or u married a scammer when the going was good and didn't save for rainy days !!!!! Yea rite u got served 👅 Abeg give us full gist next time. Or pay us to synpazise with u. Signed sdk ojugo
ReplyDelete@ Mrs Y. H, abeg no kill urself....
ReplyDelete@ Irene B, abeg no vex, I agree with th esleling of his money small small.
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i am Jessica Gomez by name. Greetings to every one that is reading this testimony. I have been rejected by my husband after three(3) years of marriage just because another woman had a spell on him and he left me and the kid to suffer. one day when i was reading through the web, i saw a post on how this spell caster on this address drblessingherbalhealinghome@gmail.com , have help a woman to get back her husband and i gave her a reply to her address and she told me that a woman had a spell on my husband and he told me that she will help me and after 2 days that i will have my husband back. i believed her and today i am glad to let you all know that this spell caster have the power to bring lovers back. because i am now happy with my husband. Thanks for Dr.Blessing . Her email:drblessingherbalhealinghome@gmail.com
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