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Friday, June 24, 2016

Chronicle Of Blog Visitor Narrative....


HIAN!....Na wah!






STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
SERIOUS ADVICE NEEDED ASAP

‎Hello Stella, please help me share but hide my identity.  There's confusion right now in my life. I have two stories to share but one at a time. I need serious advice please from you and my fellow blog readers. 


Last year January, I met a guy, he was 37 then, an only child, a nurse, doing really well. So you can imagine when this guy came to me for a relationship, after doing small shakara for him, I agreed to date him a month later.

 It was a long distance relationship. I just finished University and was waiting to go for youth service, he kind of brainwashed me to select the state he's in during registration. I did and fortunately was posted to the state. We all were happy. But my ppa ( place of primary assignment) was in another local Govt. So we ended up not seeing each other often. 

But I try to go visit him once in a while. It was during one of my visits that's I noticed him chatting with a particular girl. Normally I don't touch his phone, even though he scrutinizes my phone anytime I visit him. So I took his phone when he was sleeping and checked his conversation with this girl, though he deleted them before going to bed, the girl sent a last message which he did not read. She told him that she loves him and will continue the conversation tmrw and ended with goodnight my love. Fast forward  to the following morning, I confronted him, he told me the girl was his ex, that there nothing going on. Ok, agreed. 


We went to the market, bought things and I went in to cook. He started chatting, after eating, he went to take a bath, I took the phone and checked, my eyes couldn't believe what I saw, there right in my presence, my boyfriend was sex- chatting the girl he claimed was his ex. Because I was already dressed and was waiting for him to finish bathing, I left the phone open on the table and left with my bag. Fast forward ‎to a month later, after much begging and all both from him and his friends, I allowed him to come visit me where am serving, imagine someone that came for us to talk about things, he came loaded with packets of condom.


 I was so crazy that I threw him out of my house. Then the beggings and promises followed, he solicited the help of his friends, they called and apologized on his behalf. Only for me to go see what could be done and if we can salvage what's left of the relationship and the first thing this guy want was sex. He was just all over me. I told him to calm down and let's talk, he said after that he couldn't hold himself anymore. I pleaded, he refused, I threatened to shout, and cry rape, that was when he stopped. I went outside the room to cool off, when I got back to the room, I met  him masturbating. While on it, it was abusing me, saying that it's my fault. 


I couldn't stand and watch the nonsense he was doing, but there's no way to go back cos I had no one on me. I asked him for tfare,he promised to give me only if I help him out. I sat on the table where he kept his wallet and managed to take just 500naira. At least that would take me to a bank to get money for myself. I left, I waited for bike, it was during the scarcity. I couldn't see a bike, I decided to walk.


 Then I saw a car coming with speed, when it got to where I was standing, I found out that it's my boyfriend. He stopped and came straight to me, asking me to hand the N500 back. I was so embarrassed, people were passing, and looking at us. I asked him if he want to embarrass me here, he said yes that I should give him back his money. He opened my bag and took the money. 


I was left stranded. I had to beg a bike man to take me to a bank then I paid him. Since then, I decided to forget him and move on with my life. Because my sister wasn't aware of all these, she called him weeks ago to inform him that I will be joining my mum in the US after by August. So for the past 2 weeks, he has been calling, crying on phone and begging for me to forgive him and accept him back. He gave his mum my number, and the woman has been calling me, that she want to meet me and all that. 


I need some serious advice, cos right now I don't know what to tell the mother. What should I do? Please Stella your red pen is highly needed too. 



*Are you so naive?My friend wear your running shoes and RUN!!!

185 comments:

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    1. Jules loves Iphie24 June 2016 at 16:17

      I am angry you are confused . What kind of girls are we breeding? Dearie, this man has shown repeatedly that's he's an unrepentant cheat, and to top it all off, he is wicked and self centered. Why are you giving it athought? Are you going to be marrried to his mum? Pls discharge his mum politely. The man is simply stupid...now that he sees a prospect in you, he's sober. Sweetie biko walk and never ever look back. He has exhausted his chances and deserves no othe.

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    2. Miss. Poster should have quit the relationship since 1900. Now all hope is not lost wear running shoe 👟 and do Usain bolt.

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    3. Some grls r born stupid!!!
      .killing urslf 4 1 guy wen dr r billions ...mtvheww

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    4. Just change your number biko. No time.

      At 37? That guy is cursed.
      Me that av controlled babe, she gave ne blue balls, i still went to drop her sef. Talk more of sm1 u say is ur gf.

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    5. Lmao @ him speeding to come collect N500. Lwkm!

      Girl, do you need a jet for the flying you need to do from him?

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    6. Lmao. This is so funny. I had to read it again and comment aswell. Oh my word! That his car race kills me. ROTFL

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    7. Biko dnt go o. At 37+ y em mama no go beg u.infact block der numbers, no do d girl is gud ruin ur future o.

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    8. Lol. Olodo question!!!! Someone that disrespects u!!! Of course he is begging cos he heard USA. Ode. Agree for him and send ur miserable chronicles seeking divorce advice very soon

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    9. So even guys too hustle for this obodo oyibo things? Na wa.
      Babe leave the guy in the dust, wanking and blamkng you for it. Maybe he took drugs and wanted to blister your pussy in the hope of impressing you to stag with him.
      Imagine him embarrassing you in front of people, what if they had linched you and killed you in the process of beating you cos he branded you a thief.
      He left you stranded, thats how much he cares for you.
      I dont know what you are thinking about when this guy is involved. He is a loafer and a cheat who does not ot value you but what he can gain from you.
      Before now it was sexual relief now its green card.
      Recieve sense.

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    10. What kinda narrative is this?! So annoying!!!!! The handwriting is on the wall girlie. Run!!!!

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    11. Mumu chronicle poster here are some pertinent things you missed out:
      1. You have low self esteem and that's why you keep going back to this guy. You feel you might not get any other toaster if you give him a final NO. Are you ugly or do you have mouth/body odour that no guy talks to you?
      2. I put it to you that you asked your sister to call him otherwise why would your sister just assume you haven't told him when it's not as if she knew you were having issues.
      You've been looking for a way to get him back and you just want to sample the opinion of BVs to know if you're doing the right thing. You want a boyfriend at home in case you don't meet anyone when you travel and you don't want this guy to move on without you.
      I seriously don't understand why the guy wants you now as you'll be away. Things didn't work when you were in the same city and you believe it will work with a distant relationship. What visa are you even going to the US with that everyone is already talking about you taking the guy to US? Is it that easy abi you be citizen?
      Lastly you never told us he took you to his mama so who is she calling you as? Why dint you tell her wrong number abeg I don tire to type.

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    12. Hahahaha... this is the REAL KARISHIKA!!!!!


      Babe rrrrrrruuuuuunnnnnnnnn

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    13. I'm angry she's confused too

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    14. If only my exam question was dz easy..... Babe d answer z RUN

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    15. Poster come and learn the art of ignoring calls and messages from me. It's because you are picking that's why you can hear their beg. You berra move on

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    1. Mumu chronicle poster here are some pertinent things you missed out:
      1. You have low self esteem and that's why you keep going back to this guy. You feel you might not get any other toaster if you give him a final NO. Are you ugly or do you have mouth/body odour that no guy talks to you?
      2. I put it to you that you asked your sister to call him otherwise why would your sister just assume you haven't told him when it's not as if she knew you were having issues.
      You've been looking for a way to get him back and you just want to sample the opinion of BVs to know if you're doing the right thing. You want a boyfriend at home in case you don't meet anyone when you travel and you don't want this guy to move on without you.
      I seriously don't understand why the guy wants you now as you'll be away. Things didn't work when you were in the same city and you believe it will work with a distant relationship. What visa are you even going to the US with that everyone is already talking about you taking the guy to US? Is it that easy abi you be citizen?
      Lastly you never told us he took you to his mama so who is she calling you as? Why dint you tell her wrong number abeg I don tire to type

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    1. Hello poster, you don't need him in your life, don't go to the mum for any reason whatsoever. Explain to her your stand on the phone. Open up to her why you will never be her daughter inlaw, her son is wicked to leave stranded and not discipline sexually.

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  4. Stella why didn't you post my comment? On the omugwo chronicle, I think every1 is got their right to say how they feel concerning some certain post.

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    1. Mumu chronicle poster here are some pertinent things you missed out:
      1. You have low self esteem and that's why you keep going back to this guy. You feel you might not get any other toaster if you give him a final NO. Are you ugly or do you have mouth/body odour that no guy talks to you?
      2. I put it to you that you asked your sister to call him otherwise why would your sister just assume you haven't told him when it's not as if she knew you were having issues.
      You've been looking for a way to get him back and you just want to sample the opinion of BVs to know if you're doing the right thing. You want a boyfriend at home in case you don't meet anyone when you travel and you don't want this guy to move on without you.
      I seriously don't understand why the guy wants you now as you'll be away. Things didn't work when you were in the same city and you believe it will work with a distant relationship. What visa are you even going to the US with that everyone is already talking about you taking the guy to US? Is it that easy abi you be citizen?
      Lastly you never told us he took you to his mama so who is she calling you as? Why dint you tell her wrong number abeg I don tire to type

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    2. Thanks but you shouldn't abuse me at the same time. Am privileged to have a US citizen as a mum though it's not something to brag about but you asked for it. And secondly my kid sis thought this guy already know my plans, so she was just like repeating it to him. And no physically I've not met the mum but we've spoken once on phone when the going was good. Thanks again

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  5. Go back sucker for punishment
    Keep doing this nonsense, your chronicles go full here

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    1. Hisssss, poster you must be dumb. You need a couple slaps too

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  6. LMAOOOO!

    What should you do, how?

    Somebody who clearly has no respect for you and wants to use you as a ticket out of Nigeria. Hahahaha! Better block them ALL or change your number.

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    1. Real LMAOO...hehehe
      What a funny World we Live in
      People normally look for signs on how they will be treated in their relationships 'leaving you stranded' is one of it.
      Actions Speaks more than mere Words...
      Goodluck on your final decision

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  7. If u accept that over grown horny lizard back, then you deserve a mumu chieftancy title.

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  8. He doesn't care for you . Period .

    Women we forget too easily the evil things people do to us , forgetting that leopards never change their spots .

    This is someone who was actively cheated , lied about it , nearly raped you , disrespected you by masturbating in your presence , embarrassed you by taking back his NGN500 and left you for stranded . Imagine how catastrophic that would be if it had been in the night .

    Now he hears u are relocating and he's already thinking of how to wife you ,and get to the us through you ... If you let him re- use you , you will not only ruin ur life , u would totally deserve it!

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    1. Jules loves Iphie24 June 2016 at 16:19

      Thank you! Poster should you ever accept that man and marry him? Your doomsday is just doing press up.

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    2. Some kind of mumu questions you people ask on this blog dey vex me.

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  9. The guy hear US, hin ear come rise!!!

    Please this is too obvious darling, make sure Usain Bolt got nothing on you.

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    1. Sigh. Wat do u mean u dnt knw what to tell the mother? Tell her u dnt want her son back. period!! Why are u trying to be naive?.. even if they have paid ur brideprice, return the money.

      A 37 years old man hasn't settled down up till now. He's still busy playing games. Sigh. How do u pple waste months with such men sef?. Na byforce to be in a relationship sef.?

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  10. Hahahahahaha...
    What's with Nigerians and America?...infact,abroad as a whole?...
    Well,I don't blame them...living in Nigeria is like living in hell fire!...
    Poster,you don't have a business which such a person biko...
    You deserve a better guy!...

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  11. How old are you again? A 37 year old person acting like a monster and you are thinking twice about it? When he should be married and cuddling his kids.

    Please do not go to her mother, it is called emotions blackmail. Now he knows you are about to travel, he wants to be nice. Please let him.cry you a river.

    Run my dear.

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  12. U want us to tell u to run abi?

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    1. With what your profile looks like, those pictures, Your flabby ass, fat face. You are not qualified to give this lady any advice. Madam apprentice in a salon

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    2. Anon 17:12 take a chill pill

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  13. Poster tell his mum you both are done for good, are you a learner? If you forgive that guy again he will play football with you.

    Move on with your life and make sure you do not think twice to send him your photos once you travel out.

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  14. Block his number and that of his mother. If he was doing so well he won't bother to make up with you upon hearing that you are travelling. And you sef, do you need people to advice you on this? A womaniser, a masturbator and a stingito. Hian

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    1. I swear!!! Three most dangerous qualities:1. Masturbating
      2. Womaniser. 3.Stingy! !!!
      You would hv dug ur grave if u ever give him a second chance! And a masturbate always does pornography too so add that to d mix and u will hv d perfect poisoning to kill any marriage/relationship no matter d level of tolerance u may think u hv!.

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  15. Please run very fast as this guy is not serious, an opportunist at his best. Suddenly he thinks that you could offer him the opportunity to also join you in the State. He is very egocentric and immature. You do not need him!

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    1. Ladies put up with way too much shit, which is why men are so pathetic nowadays. And you can't be nice and courteous to men, because if you are, they are immediately convinced you think they are hot and you want to f*** them. Found that out in an embarrassing way.ugh😕

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  16. My sister you have started running, Pls add more speed. Don't look back o.

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  17. If you go back to your filthy Vomit, you'll be doomed forever

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  18. Please run very fast as this guy is not serious, an opportunist at his best. Suddenly he thinks that you could offer him the opportunity to also join you in the State. He is very egocentric and immature. You do not need him!

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  19. I can specific your age here hmmm either 23 or 25years, whatever receive sense in jesus name. The picture is so clear for you to see

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    1. And I wonder y she is dating a 37 year old guy. Three less than forty. D-banj's category old perpetual bachelors with no more love to spare. Bae, take him back, your suffer head is doing press up.

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  20. Poster u dnt hv a chronicle. Infact u dnt even love him. I dnt knw wot u r still doing with a selfish human being like him, r u coming here asking for us to beg u take him back? Dude is a ticking time bomb, please flee!!!!!! Dnt even consider going back to him at all! He will use n dump u n while at it, makes sure he squeeze u dry. I hope u listen because the next time u go bck to him u might only be sending a chronicle bt they might attach ur obituary!

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  21. Thief! Because he don hear US

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  22. Dont you even think of it . He is a bad omen , flee from him.

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  23. First of all, all ye senders of chronicles, stella will always hide your identity so no need telling her.

    As for you poster, are u mad? Tell the mother what he did, tell your sister, infact tell everybody. He's mad. He heard US and he's coming back and to think u r even considering it.

    Hold on! What if u didn't have money in ur account? How would you have gotten home? Did u think of that?


    Respect yourself and threaten to get him arrested for 'threat to ur life' and move on.


    Haba!!!

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    1. Jasmine, have you ever been in love? Please leave her to do what's right oooo. Babe, please forgive him cos nobody is perfect. Marry him as soon as possible so his moving with you will be easier. Remember he's a nurse so pasture green well well over there. He will treat you better in the US OK? Shebi you are his helper? Don't forget love is blind and STUPID!

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  24. Go back ke? I forbid it on ur behalf. U will only be used n abused. He heard US n his ears opened. Pls,on no condition shld u be found arnd such being!

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  25. Poster u dnt hv a chronicle. Infact u dnt even love him. I dnt knw wot u r still doing with a selfish human being like him, r u coming here asking for us to beg u take him back? Dude is a ticking time bomb, please flee!!!!!! Dnt even consider going back to him at all! He will use n dump u n while at it, makes sure he squeeze u dry. I hope u listen because the next time u go bck to him u might only be sending a chronicle bt they might attach ur obituary!

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  26. Poster u dnt hv a chronicle. Infact u dnt even love him. I dnt knw wot u r still doing with a selfish human being like him, r u coming here asking for us to beg u take him back? Dude is a ticking time bomb, please flee!!!!!! Dnt even consider going back to him at all! He will use n dump u n while at it, makes sure he squeeze u dry. I hope u listen because the next time u go bck to him u might only be sending a chronicle bt they might attach ur obituary!

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  27. Some situations are glaring and you will still be asking for advise just Negodu!

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  28. My dear, you better forget him, cause he's an opportunist.

    He will do worst things if you end up together. Abeg wait and the best will come along. God bless.

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  29. See Mumu raise to power 20. Ok my advice RUN FROM THE BROKE ASS GUY. A guy that use motor to pursue you because of N500.00 na wa for some guys ooo.

    So he hear US, he come begin cry like an IDIOT. Tell him it is ok, you don hear.

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  30. Mumu girl, dats how u girls will be loving guys anyhow.

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  31. Madam, any man that engages in maturbation is a scum, a freak and a pervert.
    Such person lacks proper parental upbringing and home training. He will cheat without thinking twice.
    He will also be highly shameless and irresponsible.
    Stop every means of communication with him..
    Problems arise in marriages when responsible person marry an irresponsible one. Some things a responsible person will find annoying or abhorrent will look normal to an irresponsible fellow.

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    1. @James, I agree with you for the first time. 🖒

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    2. God Bless You James

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    3. SecondEd! Many likes James. For once u hv spoken d truth. And coming from a man too. I hate men that masturbate. I fuck in hate them! Perverts

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  32. Na gold digger em be. He heard US and stopped masturbating. Nne biko keep moving, that one wasn't your boyfriend, he was a manipulator and a user

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  33. @poster:are you stupid or what?
    Don't u have sense or what....God gave you sense to think!
    What exactly do u want frm such a guy?
    No wonder most ladies end up with "horseband" in the name of husband.
    You should knw he came back bcos he heard US......u are so dumb@poster
    I see you foolishly ending up with that jerk
    Dude is looking for a way to travel out as per nurse Eliza

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  34. Poster it is simple.
    Tell the mother that you are not interested.
    Tell your family what's been going on with you and him, and advise them accordingly.
    Don't entertain any plea.
    Maintain your lane and set your eyes forward.
    Don't look back, lest you turn to a pillar of chronicles.
    Best of luck.

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  35. Berra run, which kind of useless guy is dat one sef

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  36. My sister run fir your life
    The guy is a big thief...I'm sure its because of the USA he heard that why he came back begging.
    Some naija guys need iron hand.

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  37. Maybe you need to change your dressing to attract nice guys... That's a good way to start fixing your problem.

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    1. This your advice too make sense,all these nuns or deeper life kind of dressing sometimes keep evil men away.

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  38. Poster pls wear your running shoes, don`t accept him. he is a gold digger. pls and pls don`t date him anymore, but you can forgive him

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  39. And you're asking, isn't it clear, girls tho

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  40. Come u dis poster, u no wise abi watin dey worry u??.. be confusing ur head der, don't run for ur life.. shuooo,see clear matter,u re still der asking for opinions..

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  41. Why did you even send this chronicle? that guy is a major ass hole, he doesnt even like you, he likes your body. Please you deserve better than that walking disaster and waste of cells. Must you even be in a relationship? please calm and stay off anything men for now, work on building yourself when you are not searching you will meet someone who will value you not all this "help me out" men.

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  42. YOU BETTER RUN! RUN AS FAST AS YOUR LEGS CAN CARRY YOU!

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  43. Forget about this retarded guy and move on with your life. He's got many baggages!! Where was his mum before? hmm!

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  44. that guy is one chance . please tell his mom politly that u both were just friends and nothinh more. btw how sure are u that she is his mom. move on with your life dear. the guy is not it

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  45. This girl why your mumu come raise to power 100 like this? Hahan you don't need a prophet to tell you to flee

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  46. Chisos onye ebere. I was expecting the end of this Chronicles to read that the guy contacted some deadly veneral disease and you are thanking God for saving you.

    You are confused? Oya accept him na. He would propose, marry you, get you to file his papers, move to yankee and dump you like a sack of watery shit!

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  47. Is your head need some slap abi i wonder why people don't learn from there mistake.

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  48. The guy heard USA and he wants you back werey ni bobo yen!

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  49. Pls just forgot him and move on with your life, like you said

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  50. Forgive ke, so he will use u and come over to US. Forget the fool and move on with ur life.

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  51. Please forgive him. I beg u

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  52. Lolz. Which advice u want make we give u. Hian! Abeg waka.

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  53. All these girls with soft heart... U better give him the insult of his life then block his number. Tell his mum in simple English "ma, I cannot date your son" then block her line too.

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  54. That man is nothing but a sorry excuse for a man.... Obviously he wouldnt tell his mum all the nonsense he did,even to the height of driving out and collecting back the mere 500naira,disgracing you in public!! Even if his ancestors calls you,pls your answer should be no,you dont even have to give them a listening ear because when the time comes,it is you and him and not you and his people. Just as Stella said,RUN!! No time for nonsense.

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  55. Poster you're just a mumu. First grade!!
    Why did your sister even call him? That man is a dog and a beast in one.
    Pls go back and come back with more chronicles. We are here to read, console and abuse where necessary.
    You want to go and see his mother so she will jazz u for her son to follow u to US? If you like you can go.

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  56. Steeeuuuuupid mofucka...so he only came back cos he heard u are abt leaving for the States. Gold digger!! Baby girl, pls don't go back to his sorry ass. He doesn't love u an iota.

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  57. Nne,u don't deserve him,leave him..dt type wil neva change afta marrige..cool dwn n wait 4 ur man..imagine collectin his #500,dts poverty mentality..let he who has ears hear ooooooo!

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  58. You are an idiot for asking that question. Somebody who wouldnt mind embarassing you because of 500 naira. You dey craze ooo.

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  59. You're asking what to do??
    When next his mother calls you, tell her all you wrote here and tell her firmly that you can never date her son again and dont you ever pick his calls anymore unless you have a death wish.
    End of story

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  60. Babe, how many times do you want to be burned before you'll learn? If he can embarrass you publicly cos of 500 and leave you stranded w... Am sorry,I can't even go on,your boyfriend sounds like a douchebag.
    Tell his mum the truth if you have to,her son is a douche! Goodluck.

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  61. Madam run now, with everything that has happened you're still asking. I tire o

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  62. You don't need advice, you need a brain transplant.
    Get a grip of yourself and forget that fool and his mother.
    What the hell are you going to meet the mother for, there is absolutely no future here ao keep it moving.
    Do not allow some woman cry into your ears coz of a chance to send her son abroad. Use your head and quit the future drama coming up.Do not go to that woman, do not try it. Do not sabotage your bright future on a hopeless man and emotional blackmail. You deserve better please. Let this guy and his wahala cease to exist for you.

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  63. That guy need a dirty slap to reset his masturbating brain,,,are u still asking what to do? Run!Run!!Run!!!

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  64. Sick man!
    My dear keep running and never even stop. Not for a second,lest you turn into Lot's wife.
    See as I was just irritated reading this.

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  65. Hian wat advice do u need again?u want to foolishly go bk after all ds?ppl dnt jst learn...if u want to go bk u go bk nd expect d worse

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  66. Ow old r you? For ow long av u bin reading dis blog? For a graduate u amaze me
    Does it not occur to you dat d only reason d horny he-goat is calling you is cos of "abroad-US"
    If d mother calls you ..pick her call and speak nicely to her....if she ask to see you,tell her you and her son are no dating!
    Then block d mom and son from ur fone.....as simple as dat
    #PAM 👄#

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  67. When a guy wants your p,he can even give his ancestors your number,be wise

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  68. Forget about the Fool. Just my two cent!!

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  69. You sounded like a smart and decipline lady at the of your story you sounded foolish, what is your business with his mum you better pack them one corner that guy is a mad man,he ran after you for 500nira. you better cut his generate off.craze people everywer

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  70. This your question only goes to show you either love the guy or like the way he fucks you. Because you didn't say anything here that is good enough reason to go back to him. Most especially since he started begging after you sis told him about you trip. Babe, like Stella said RUN.

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  71. Are you a FOOL? PEOPLE CAN JUST BE VERY ANNOYING!!!!!!!!!
    HABA!!!!!!! what else do you want to hear? tell me what you want to hear so i can say it to you. "What should you do indeed". since you have no brain; yeye girl accept him back and propose marriage to him.
    "Onye iberibe"

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  72. How difficult is it to understand when a guy isn't serious?
    If he likes, he should send his great grand father to come beg you, please don't listen to him,just walk away cos such guys never change, they always have people on stand by to beg for them.
    He does not respect you and HE WILL NEVER CHANGE, please walk away from this relationship for good.
    Although I know you will still go back to him but at least, you won't say you were not warned.

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    1. Thank you for writing this.Don't listen to his pleas.If he likes,let him wake his ancestors to beg you... don't bulge.Block his number,his mother's number and every other person's number sends to beg you.That guy is bad news.HE WILL NEVER CHANGE!!!! Forget him and move on with your life.Why is he even still single at his age? Very foolish somebody.

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  73. Ahah God blessed you with multiple events that showed that he is irresposible n you also know that its cos of what your sis told him thatbgot him to start salivating. My dear, He is not the one for you. Dont let him waste your time

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  74. Forget the man
    Tell his mother that its over between both of you. After that, ignore the woman. Na by force? He will not change..

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  75. If he likes let him tell his ancestors to call you... my sister don't agree o. You are just his "servicer",besides what is wrong with girls of today sef??? Close your legs..close your fucking legs. Ahan!!!!!!!

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  76. Poster run from that stupid fool and don't look back. Block him on all your social media accounts, download trucaller app, block him, his friends and family.

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  77. These are one of the issues in relationship. No relationship was built on a platter of gold. Stella telling u to run may not run if it were her. It's usually easy to tell people to leave a relationship when we can't do same if it happens to us. Dear poster, forgive him and give him another chance. That a guy asked u for sex doesn't mean he doesn't love you. He masturbated as a weak strategy. Most ladies use dildos too, even Stella telling u to run. My dear see the good side in him and accept him because if he becomes great tomorrow u might wish to be with him. These feelings are normal let's not pretend. He embarrassed u bcos of situational anger. Let it not be your judgement criteria. Rejecting him is not the best. Since the mom is aware now, he won't mess up again. I believe you must have offended him in the past and he forgave. Don't listen to people telling you to leave him, they won't do same. Forgiveness is the key

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    1. Misery sure loves company. The only reason you are advising her to stay with this hopeless cause is because you are likely in a miserable relationship yourself. You prefer the misery to being alone. You aren't brave enough to be alone. Why should she stay and lick his ass?? She ain't even married to him. You stay because you have very low self-esteem, you don't love yourself. You don't know how awesome and incredible you are. You keep making excuses for a man's horrible behavior. His actions show he doesn't love her one bit, don't make excuses for him, please!!
      Love yourself some, Nigerian women. Stop waiting for a man to validate you just so you have a boyfriend. It's one life we have, don't choose misery.

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    2. Poster,please don't listen to this anonymous..am sure he/she is suffering from a low self-esteem..that guy is bad news, run run

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    3. I think anon 15.47 is the boyfriend. Abeg free her ooo. She no do again

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    4. You dnt hv a brain !!..idiot...forgiveness my ass...

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    5. Chisos!! Anonymous 15:47 im sorry to say but your parents failed in their duties....how did you end up with such low self esteem? Your parents never showed you what love is that is why you can confuse this sick situationship as love.

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    6. Poster Anonymous has a point I am in the same boat and honestly it's not easy but come from a place of love. You will have moments where u will fear loving again but it's the only way ...Face it.

      Love is not meant to be easy and anyone who says it is has not loved with their heart. You can't control anyone they will make mistakes but u can only guide.

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    7. Jules loves Iphie24 June 2016 at 16:26

      Your sense of judgement is thwarted. This is the peak ofdesperation. I usually do not comment but I hate when young ladies do not reason properly. No one is saying wait for a perfect man, but. Single action of embarrassing poster and leaving her for stranded speaks volumes. People who reason like you always end up with chronicles. Continu.

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    8. Anonymous, I'm very sure you are the boyfriend. Abeg swerve. You don't deserve an angel like innocent this girl.

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    9. U must be an idiot for advising her to accept the asshole back. I'm sure your even the asshole. The chronicle is annoying, you now decide to add your own to make it worse. Mtchewww
      Rubbish!!!!

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    10. He is bad news bcos he masturbated and seemed to have sex as if u all are angels? We are too quick to run away from bad people when we are bad ourselves. U think running away from bad makes u have a high self esteem. Poster if u are an angel, run away from him. Why not help him change to better person. I have personally changed lots of people. Since he likes sex too much and u feel he disrespects your body, can't u help him. U have control for life over a man u changed for good. Forget all these people telling u to run. They may be experiencing worst. Poster if u are a christian, draw him to God. Tell the mum his problem and both of u will lead him to Christ. He may be your hubby but devil used his attitude to separate u both. See beyond the physical eyes could do. May God help u

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    11. Anonymous18:20, Yes he is bad news cos he masturbated in her presence and nearly raped her. That is quite characteristic of a pervert and a rapist. If this poster were your child or sister, will you still tell her to stay and change him????? You cannot be calling God in one corner and in another corner say premarital sex or 'he seemed to have sex' is ok. No, it's not!
      You may have changed a lot of people successfully, fine, but that is YOUR story, not hers. Could be your calling, not hers. If she stays any longer with this man, she will be raped, period. The opportunist had the guts to call her ONLY cos he heard she is moving to the States. You don't need extra proof that she means shit to him.

      And no we ain't angels but we are smart enough to dissociate ourselves from any appearance and form of evil. You don't let a bad man into your house cos of the flimsy reason that we are all bad. That is a very low form of logic. And you shouldn't make poor choices simply cos people are experiencing worse. They are responsible for their OWN experiences. You are responsible for your OWN choices. Don't choose misery. Period.

      And you seem to be the likes that use religion and God as a tool to manipulate and subdue people. Hear you: 'he may be your hubby but devil used his attitude to separate you'... Wrong and wrong. God actually used his attitude to save you. Such statements put fear into girls forcing them to stay put in unhealthy relationships.

      Poster, run. If you must, Pray for him from afar. Stay away from people who only try to use you and destroy you. You shall know them by the fruits they bear.

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    12. Beauty as u call ur self, its quite a pity that your brain is ugly. The guy is a rapist because he masturbated, then women that use dildos are what? The poster claimed almost rape as if they haven't had sex. Don't condemn the guy because of what did. Some things are situational. U either is not a saint. U do the worst. Because his was made known doesn't make him the devil. Most of u women telling her to run are fools and doesn't know the power of future. Poster don't leave that guy. Just work on him. From the day I saw the comments of 90% of Bvs as bored, frustrated and lonely on the post Stella did for our mood one particular day, I then understood the mindset of people in this blog. Poster don't allow frustrated people to deceive u. Be wise

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    13. Anon 21:03..didnt you read the part he started calling her when he heard she is travelling abroad? This kind of advice, is it desperation-driven or you just want someone to be in the same misery as you?? How can you advice someone to stay in an unhealthy relationship? To fix him?? A pervert and manipulator?? Poster dont listen to the likes of this anon o..run oooooooo

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    14. It is very difficult to have an intellectual argument or analysis safely with an average Nigerian graduate because they quickly resort to insults. They call God in one comment and in the very next, they abuse you.

      However, we need a reeducation of the youth. I said his behavior is 'characteristic' of a rapist. (It's an adjective). Rape is sex without consent. Even if they have had sex before in the relationship, he has NO RIGhT to have sex without her consent. If it happens, it is Rape, period. Don't make excuses for him as there is no justification for such. Even your argument on the situational is laughable. A 'situational' thief or murderer will still be jailed. You keep changing the context of the story to suit your stance. Of course you have your rights to masturbation, but He masturbated in HER Presence. That is sexual harrassment. He didn't have enough self control to wait until she leaves his house. Do the female dildo users masturbate in the presence of an unwilling audience? Even use of vulgar and sexual terms in presence of an unwilling member of the opposite sex is harassment. It is sad that our legal system is broken and our country broken, but it is what it is.

      And what on earth is power of future? That is another term used by religious folks to make people meek and fearful. Is she less human than him? There is no future he can offer her that she cannot offer herself. Also, No height he can reach that she cannot achieve herself.

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  78. You had better NOT take him back if you know what's good for you. I dont know why some people dont like to make use of their God-given brains. Is it rocket science? What advice are you even lookin for? You better use your tongue to count your teeth. It obvious that the guy DOES NOT love you. He's only out to use you,fuck you and dump you. Please receive sense. Receive sense i beg you. O ga oh!

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  79. Poster,I hope you are not a mugu? Just forget about the guy and move on. Post the mum when she tire I'm go rest.

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  80. anonymous 15.47 u sound lik a looser with no self esteem kobo kobo, if he is great tomorrow in your stupid english, cant the girl be greater. ds poster nids no advice at all.

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  81. Dear poster, Please just run for your life. Thank God you will be travelling to the US; so it will be easier for you to forget about him. If you marry somebody like that, he will rape you some day and you will even be more ashamed to cry out because you have become his wife.
    Oh, what you just make me remember! A man masturbating because you refused him sex. "Disgusting".
    A man that could abandon you on the road; knowing fully well that you have no money on you. What if something bad had happened to you after chasing with his car, just to collect N500 from you!

    He has poverty of the spirit indeed.

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  82. 1st time am commenting on cbvn, my dear run for your life its obvious the guy is just a user

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  83. Just finished praying and feel violated by this man that I don't even know. Poster the bible says FLEE. That's exactly what you should do except your low self esteem is dragging on the floor cos I don't know anyone in their right mind who'll be asking what they should do after all you've said above. Can you imagine?

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  84. What you should do is exactly what you have done sending this is in. Now, what you should not do is accept him back. Emotions is a counterfeit currency in this trade called 'love'.

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  85. I beg un leave dis guy,most times we look at people around and because we dt want to offend them we still stick to a relationship that is killing us.if u really really love yourself and know what is good for you,run as far as your legs can take you,he doesn't love and respect you.pls use your head to think so you dt say 'o had I know' later.a word is enough for the wise.

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  86. The guy na golddigger. He Wan use you go America. Some issues don't need chronicle. Use your brain biko

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  87. I beg un leave dis guy,most times we look at people around and because we dt want to offend them we still stick to a relationship that is killing us.if u really really love yourself and know what is good for you,run as far as your legs can take you,he doesn't love and respect you.pls use your head to think so you dt say 'o had I know' later.a word is enough for the wise.

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  88. I found myself laughing at some point,
    You should have saved this for inhouse gist😂😂
    Anyways, the guy is a user lol
    And he knows already that getting diff people to call on his behalf always makes you feel special and carry your airhead back to him
    Your sis didnt know all these, how is it even her place to tell him you are relocating i dont quite get that part
    But all in all, the guy is a big NO
    tell his mother you cannot accept her son back that you have a fiancé now simple

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    1. Candid,my sister didn't know about the problem am having with the guy. She thought we are still good hence her telling him about my plans thinking that he knows already.

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  89. What kinda stupid advice are u now looking for?..someone that left u stranded on d road..next time,he'll take u to an asian country,wen u offend him he'll leave wit ur pali, ticket,money n all ur cards n turn u to a beggar

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  90. Is just a pity that you have the answer and still need answer lol.

    If you ever accept that guy again, then you are the worst FOOL on earth.

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  91. That Ballotini shoes post up there
    I'm sure its either German Juice or Rolex Chick that sent it in, their gbagauns on this blog no get rival. Punctuation = 0
    Spellings = 0

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  92. Dear Nigerian women, rather than remain in an unhealthy or toxic relationship, stay alone. Are you scared of your own company? Be brave enough to be alone. I know our society loves to mock single women and applaud the 'married' ones but don't choose misery for societal approval. Or for your friends approval. Don't marry someone who has no regards for you and your values. He will shoot you if he has a gun. He will choose 500naira over you anyday. You are worth nothing to him, nothing. just another girl he can sleep with. The good news is you are worth everything to God so don't wallow in self pity or inferiority complex cos someone doesn't love you enough. You don't need his love. Love yourself, please!

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  93. my dear, your story is not complicated, hold your two ears and run as fast as ur legs can carry you. He had to use his car to trace you to get his 500naira back from you..oloribu ni man yen! the guy does not love you, period! You know what, he only came back to you knowing fully well that you will be travelling out of the country soon, what he wants is to wife you, get you pregnant and then use your connections to travel...your family especially your mom would not want you to leave without your husband:so they would arrange for his papers as well

    since his mom has been calling you, don't go and see her... explain all what her son did to you on the phone and after that don't answer her calls anymore titi lai lai...lobatan!

    Love will come your way again.there are some people you never can go back to even after you forgive them, and one of them is this your stupid boyfriend!..tschewww I kent even deal!

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  94. You are still asking us what you should do abi? My friend run as fast as your legs can carry you. That useless thing is not qualified to even call your boyfriend.

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  95. My advise to you is simple, dont meet up with his mother and dont pick her call or his call anymore. For the guy to collect the 500 naira leaving u stranded is the peak for me. What if your sis didnt call him to say u were travelling. He is just an idiot. Sex chatting another babe when u r with him. Pls why is he begging u if I may ask? Someone that cant hold body how will he cope sex wise if u even decide to take him back. He will be having free sex? Pls ignore his sorry ass and tell his mum politely that u cant b with her son any more.

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  96. Babe are you stupid? Listen well, that man DOES NOT LOVE YOU not to talk of desiring to marry you, all he wants from you is sex.
    Am a man and i know what am saying, i remember back then when i was serving, a gal kept flaunting her big booty in her dp, this made me want to fuck the booty, i didnt even like d gal, cos she was too short for my liking and looked strong,
    Each day she changed dp, i will be telling her nice booty, and i wonder how it will feel for me to hit her from behind, she will just be blushing, in the end, i invited her and she came, when i tried initiating sex, she started saying it, cant be on her 1st visit, bla bla, i let her be, and while she was going i gave her 500 naira, someone i don't even like, and her tfare to n fro wasn't more dan 200, i did that even though i was going to delete her number the moment she lives, which i did,
    My point is, this is a gal i wanted just to fuck once and free, yet i as a corper then could give her 500, when her place is not far, and you are telling me a man almost 40 and comfortable, will be callous enough to leave you stranded, and you are considering dating him again?
    Babe don't be fooled, block his number as well as his mums own and move on with your life, if you foolishly go back to him, then you are a good example of why guys say women have fish brains

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  97. And yet you guys will attack the women bold enough to support feminism. The reason our men behave this way is because we allow it. They easily get away with it. This guy could have raped you and nothing will happen. Our men know that we swallow all insults and misery so they use it to their advantage. Most women who are against feminism are people who love the culture of dependence. They would rather depend on a man for every 100naira they need than be brave enough to be financially dependent. You are a wonderful and beautiful woman, don't let any man make you feel less than who God made you to be and who he says you are.

    Run away fast as Stella said. See it as signs from above that he is not yours. And for those who use the bible to attack feminists, you need to understand how much God loves and respects you as a woman. God's role for men is to protect and defend the women, to die in battle for women. Not to rape them and kill them and take advantage of them. David and the men went into battle to fight for and defend the women and children. Even Jesus did not condemn the prostitute, but showed her absolute love and mercy. Even when Martha told him that Mary wasn't helping out in the kitchen, he supported Mary and said she chose the better spot, which was not in the kitchen.

    So no, don't beg sloppy men for attention and validation. Dare to stay alone. Pursue a career, read good books, live a life of purpose and ask God for guidance in everything. Peace.

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  98. You are the one wearing the shoes so I guess you should know better however, I would urge you to focus on the things that matter to you and your future. If a man can leave stranded on the road not minding what could happen to you???? ...... hmmmm think about it gurl

    Follow your gut feeling. Goodluck

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  99. Forget him he has nothing to offer and don't visit the Mum. Just keep posting both of them,dem go tire.

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  100. PERSON DO U DALL DIS NONSENSE AND U STILL NEED ADVISE? U NO WELL I SWEAR..

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  101. PERSON DO U ALL DIS NONSENSE AND U STILL NEED ADVICE? U NO WELL I SWEAR....

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  102. Sweetie, I guess you already know the answer. Run!!! He has nothing to offer you. He will use you as a ticket to go to 'the abroad' nd abscond. He is selfish, horny and egocentric. You deserve better than that.

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  103. The only thing that put me off was the part where she said he is a nurse and doing very well.
    My goodness,Nigerian nurse even the senior nursing officers and matrons are still feeding from hand to mouth.how much is a nurse salary,smh

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  104. Cut off all communications with him. Forget your age. Marriage has enough issues on ita own. Imagine adding a guy who is really not into you. You will meet a better guy if you are patient. That guy is trouble. Forget him. He only wants u for cheap sex and for free ticket out. Be wise.

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  105. This is the first time I am commenting on a chronicles post and that is because from your write I think you are a very disciplined person because the actions you took are exactly what I would have done if I was in your situation BUT your last question surprised me.
    Sweetie run run run don't look back. He is a cheat and would never change, he wants you back because you are going to America. Trust me you will find somebody better. cheers xx

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    1. Thanks dear. A Lot has happened since I sent this to Stella but everything is under control now.

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  106. So because he heard that you are going to the US, he came to beg... Carry am go na as hand luggage. Mschew

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  107. Poster you have already moved on with your life please don't look back

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  108. My dear leave that okpoko, he doesn't deserve you at all and don't make the mistake of accepting him back even if he likes let him give your number to Aisha Buhari to call and beg you.
    Imagine he collected his N500, left you to be raped or even killed, what a man! Please leave him and his masturbation.

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  109. Narrate everything he did to his mum and ask if she can tell her daughter to go back to such a man!

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  110. You better run and NEVER look back,that man is wicked and has no iota of love or respect for you,you will just become his ticket to the US.Remember he is a nurse,he will make it in the US cos nurses are well paid, after he gets a good job,sorry will become your name.I beg you please flee.

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  111. Please run!!! The heart of men are desperately wicked. He left you on the road without kobo, you've forgiven him but please forget him too. He will do what you can't even imagine in the US my dear, you don't need that type of man o. US is mind your own business. This guy can kill you and flee. Please be careful

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  112. Are you stupid @poster? Seems you will still go back to him from your write up. For your information,tgat your guy is a bad news.

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  113. D signs are very clear. He DOESN'T love you. Run as fast as u can, if ur slippers pull for road as u de run so, no turn back to collect am oh... RUN, babe abeg run

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  114. Swithrt, isn't it glaring dude is a USER.. better run, forget about his mom's plenty calls biko.. You'll get a better Man.

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  115. I laughed out loud when i got to the part of the guy chasing u cos of 500naira..haba woman,you already know the answer to this chronicleo..chuu,please he just sees you as a meal ticket and entrance into the US..btw a 37 year old man behaving like that is really strange..

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  116. maybe you need a hot slap to re-set your brain, why do i have the feeling that it was you who called to tell him that you will be relocating, bcos your sister or cousin who you claim did not have an idea of what happened do not have any biz to be the one to call your supposed boyfriend to give such news. if i were you i would block him and do not agree to meet with him nor his mom,and do not disclose any information about your travel. this same story was on internet about a Nigerian lady who mistakenly got trapped with nonsense fake pastor from ghana bcos she was relocating to canada, whatever the man did to her, nobody knows but the man made sure that she came to marry him and took him to Canada. the lady's life became a living hell, the man showed him pepper that she cried out for help. Be careful, he is only crying and begging not for anything but to talk you into marrying him and take him to US.do not let the mom sweet tongue you, nigeria is hard that everyone is looking for a meal ticket

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