Ooops.....This hit hard but as usual,they will come in here and argue and disagree.....Mscheeew!
Stella,
Why do Nigerian ladies concentrate so much on finding a man?
Why are our ladies so less competitive intellectually?
Why is it that what most of what our ladies can offer is sex and nothing else.
Why do we have more ladies as runs-girls than ladies who trade or are in business?
Stella, this anomaly is on the rise, the young ones are taking after the old ones, we are gradually building a nation of women whose only role will be housewives.
Where is the passion, drive, discipline and dedication our mothers were known for?
Why is is that the most conversation our women have today is about boys and getting married?
My aim of writing this is not to sound misogynistic but rather to urge everyone especially the young ones to have a redirection.
We need more women from Nigeria to better themselves, we need more women to rise and compete globally,and for this to happen we need women who can invest in themselves.
I will stop here but if anyone is confuse on how to better themselves, please use Google or check the comment session.
Thank you Stella for your platform.
BV Ralph
Nah Oyanu, I am running to no canal, I only advised you to stop being independent so men can want you, u ll end up with a lazy man to cater for.
ReplyDeleteYou are a nag. Any woman who marries you will be most in lucky girl in Nigeria. You come of as someone who will complain about everything. I reject your type.
ReplyDeleteBlunt this is a man, but you are a poor excuse for a man. An incomplete, unreasonable nitwit. I wish you a pretender wife who will deal mercilessly with you.
ReplyDeleteLazy man looking for what the woman will bring to the table. Let me tell you what she brings. 1. Leaving her family to marry ur broke ass and keep your home for you. 2. Getting pregnant and having ur 4 or 5 kids( hope u read labour room drama and see what women GI through?) 3. Spending the greater part of her life,energy and resources bringing up those kids of yours(they answer ur name,don't they?) To be responsible people. And nowadays,women work or do business( and even if she dsnt,raising kids is a full time job in itself) to make ends meet in the family. Its your responsibility to provide financially for your family. Ask God to help you fulfill that responsibility to the best of your ability. FYI,I m a lawyer and make my own money,but my husband knows and takes of his responsibilities like a real man.
ReplyDeleteTrue talk ,chikito. Nigerian men are so easily intimidated by intellectually sound,successful women. They say that's what they want,they when they meet one...its either 'u are not subsmissive' too independent or too proud for them. As a woman,I ve only met a handful of men who appreciated my sound intellect and ambitious nature. They really don't know what they want and get what they deserve.
ReplyDelete@Ralph Thanks you have spoken my mind..what annoys me most is that some girls wey fix Brazilian weave ask very dumb questions and they think its so cool..they answer like they are being interviewed by Vogue magazine...I enjoy seeing women build themselves but today's measure of success is how big your bum/hips are, sex and other rubbish..Abeg preach on jare
ReplyDeleteWithout **** selling our bodies
ReplyDeleteDid u also read where the chronicler of yesterday said she was 20 years old and already through with university? Yes,20! Where were u at 20? Life is not always one dimensional,OK?
ReplyDeleteSingle olisho forming boss lady.gweggz alert
ReplyDeleteSingle olosho forming boss lady.gweggz alert
ReplyDeletePoor fool hustle and get to the top and dont forget to testify how ladies intimidated you while climbing the ladder. Lazy bone
ReplyDeleteLazy man alert. Face the curse given to you. You must suffer to till the ground before you feed your family and wow onto youb if you can't feed your family and provide the necessities.you are worst than an infidel. And yes I hav my Msc,working in the federal health sector Nd running my own business. Truth is I hate to hear rubbish from men like you. If she brings food to the table will you bring out baby from the Labour room? Or you wish to have career minded sisters,daughters who will get to the top in thier field but turn gwexz in your house... ok mayb you shdbt even marry since we all need to make money then forget procreation. Good riddance!
ReplyDeleteMonitoring spirit. Are you deziani? Pick a struggle.
ReplyDelete😂😂😂😂 you didn't even read my comment. Please tell you Aunty I said sorry about her dog. Hope 'it' doesn't have fleas?
ReplyDeleteLazy hold digging mofo's want to sit,cross leg and be served while dey only give thier spermatozoas.. gold mining infidel inform of men. Hediot
ReplyDeleteEven when I'm supporting your argument you still want to eat me raw 👀
ReplyDeleteKikikiki.
ReplyDeleteWHY just WHY is his own mother not dominating global markets? Don't even let me get started about all these fake Nigerian judges and how they take bribes to seal cases. And how they've messed up our judiciary system. Let's hope she's not one of them. Cos if she is, the Ralph's rant is null and void.
RAPH...DIDN'T.SAY.ANYTHING WRONG
ReplyDeleteLADIES IT'S.TIME TI.HUSTLE
WHEN YOUR HAND.FINDS A.WORK.TO.DO
GOD WILL.SATISFY.YOU WITH A.MAN
God bless you beeeko! Gods blessings
ReplyDeletewhat should one expect when men have turn themselves to women waiting to collect money from women forgetting the role God created them for?
ReplyDeleteSir don't even go there, guys are so scared of intelligent ladies. Even a guy claims hr can't date a girl cause she is a Bsc holder and he a HND holder
ReplyDeleteSir don't even go there, guys are so scared of intelligent ladies. Even a guy claims hr can't date a girl cause she is a Bsc holder and he a HND holder
ReplyDeleteNice comment
ReplyDeleteA million likes to dat
ReplyDeleteOga, you have time to write epistle. How far the woman wey una throway her things from her late husband's house?
ReplyDeleteGbam!!!
ReplyDeleteAnony 15:55 so you have noticed. Both of them make chauvinistic comments. It's either they have been hurt by a woman or they have never been in love. Always commenting without empathy
ReplyDeleteWho be dis anonymous wey Dey shout Oyin Oshinkalu name Sef ? Can’t you see you are being ignored by everyone? Okay let me explain to you..... you are saying bullshit that’s irrelevant here and it’s obvious you are so jealous of this person you are making a fool of yourself in an attempt to hurt a very nice lady. Biko shut up ya mouth . Mumu like you Sef wan talk. Kiki Kiki kikiki
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